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Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by themanderon: 9:37am On Feb 14
Many destinies will be destroyed today, babies conceived, lives derailed all because this generation has chosen foolishness over wisdom.
The Marine kingdom will trap a whole lot of souls today once again.
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by FatimaAbubakar(f): 9:41am On Feb 14
GanagiBitrus:
This Valentine's Day has caused more harm than good.
The world would be better off without a Valentine's Day.
Is valentine the reason why the common man in your country can't afford the basic things of life?
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by GanagiBitrus: 9:44am On Feb 14
FatimaAbubakar:
Is valentine the reason why the common man in your country can't afford the basic things of life?
No Sir/Ma.
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by clydecarson(m): 9:52am On Feb 14
Pharaoh4rin:
My girl woke up around 4am and began to move her hands around my body. I was quiet for awhile. Shortly she kissed me, brought out a package from under a pillow and gave me a gift. I stood up, opened it, look it over, appreciated her with a kiss her. She asked if that was all, i asked her to lie on me. With her red sexy short night gown, she laid on me. She expected further actions but i told her that I'm on sex holiday. She said that i didnt discussed it with her. I apologised and she accepted. We both slept off with her laying on me. She has gone to work.

That's my confession.
She has gone to work kehuhdey play

You no give her wetin she want,she's going to collect it from.............
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by geoworldedu:
themanderon:
The devil has you in his eternal vice grip if this is your view on this matter.
The devil is a work of fiction and only deluded people are possessed by or obsessed with it. Keep swimming in your delusions grin
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by geoworldedu: 9:55am On Feb 14
themanderon:
Many destinies will be destroyed today, babies conceived, lives derailed all because this generation has chosen foolishness over wisdom.
The Marine kingdom will trap a whole lot of souls today once again.
Archaic belief.
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by callmetade: 10:03am On Feb 14
Happy valentine

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by HRHQueenPhil(f): 10:18am On Feb 14
Good topic
It is not easy but if U follow the rule of flee from all temptation, U will succeed

I am officially inviting you to church tomorrow
Winners chapel sango OTA. I can pick you at oshodi or Ikeja . Just call 08169827645 to confirm. Why should you come?
- because GOD has your word of solution there, because your time of secret tears is over - because your healing and pain will be settled there - because your time of blessing has come - because it is your time to leave that satanic habit
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by Mirasteel: 10:22am On Feb 14
Dogalmighty17:
E get any destruction of destiny wey marine girls go do wey go pass wetin Tinubu and APC don do?
You guys won't listen until you become a victim.
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by dododawa1: 10:35am On Feb 14
[quote author=karmaolu1 post=138464083]*REPORT ON THE TALK ON THE DANGERS OF VALENTINE'S DAY*

Dear Parents,

Assalamu Alaikum,

We would like to share with you the report of the talk organised for our students on the dangers of Valentine's Day, held yesterday, 13th February, 2026, at Fathullah Academy.

The general talk was delivered by the principal while the Islamic perspective was conducted by MrTahir, aimed to educate our teenagers on the potential risks and misconceptions associated with Valentine's Day, and to remind them of the importance of upholding Islamic values and traditions.

The key points discussed during the talk were:

- The origin and true meaning of Valentine's Day
- The Islamic perspective on love, relationships, and modesty
- The risks of cultural assimilation and loss of Islamic identity
- The importance of respecting Islamic values and traditions

The students were encouraged to focus on building strong, healthy relationships with family and friends, based on mutual respect and trust, and to be proud of their Islamic identity and values.

The talk was interactive, and the students participated enthusiastically, sharing their thoughts and questions.

We believe that this talk has helped our students to understand the importance of staying true to their faith and values, and we hope that they will continue to make informed choices in their lives.

We appreciate your continued support and cooperation in nurturing our students to be confident, knowledgeable, and practicing Muslims.

Jazakumullahukhayran.

Best regards,
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by Kalulu44: 10:38am On Feb 14
GanagiBitrus:
This Valentine's Day has caused more harm than good.
The world would be better off without a Valentine's Day.
How can one day out 365 days cause more harm than good
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by Cheapfoodstuff: 10:40am On Feb 14
karmaolu1:
What did the Holy Quran say about valentine❓❓
quran isn’t holy. Nothing holy about it. It’s a book of enslllaved dreamers. That being said, even in Saudi Arabia right now, there are valentine parties ongoing
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by Cheapfoodstuff: 10:40am On Feb 14
oluwaseunamos33:
Valentine is not for sex but to show love
what kind of love?
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by GanagiBitrus: 10:45am On Feb 14
Kalulu44:
How can one day out 365 days cause more harm than good
Don't tell me you are so naive not to know that one day's action can change you destiny forever.
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by oluwaseunamos33(m): 10:45am On Feb 14
share gift to pple in need
Cheapfoodstuff:
what kind of love?
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by AllBlack: 10:48am On Feb 14
PurityOrNothing:
Valentines Day or not, flee immorality
your talk no dey pass preek and toto matter
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by AllBlack: 10:51am On Feb 14
themanderon:
Many destinies will be destroyed today, babies conceived, lives derailed all because this generation has chosen foolishness over wisdom.
The Marine kingdom will trap a whole lot of souls today once again.
No be only marine kingdom. Na Desert kingdom.

How old are you? even in the next ten years you will still be talking TALES BY MOONLIGHT
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by MaxInDHouse(m): 10:51am On Feb 14
The origin is pagan and immorality!😟

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by Kalulu44: 11:01am On Feb 14
GanagiBitrus:
Don't tell me you are so naive not to know that one day's action can change you destiny forever.
Yes, that's if you commit crime like stealing, robbing, killing, kidnapping and all. I can't rmbr when s*x became a crime if it's not rape
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by MaxInDHouse(m): 11:21am On Feb 14
Kalulu44:
Yes, that's if you commit crime like stealing, robbing, killing, kidnapping and all. I can't rmbr when s*x became a crime if it's not rape.
In the spiritual realm SEX without commitment is a crime against those involved in it but that'll make no practical sense to someone who does not believe in the spiritual so let's come to the physical.
When a man gets involved in sexual intimacy with a woman his blood is mixed with that of the person with whom he had sex that's the reason why many gets infected it's called sexually Transmited Disease (STD) in most cases this is really difficult to cure because the infection can't be easily removed since it has to do with blood in the body.
So if a man and a woman stick to each other throughout their lives they will last longer than those having sex with multiple partners because the more partners the more vulnerable one becomes to viruses and infections. Another problem is when people with multiple partners gets sick their cases are complicated due to different kinds of blood mixing up with the person's body system.

That is why the Bible strictly warned believers to be extra careful regarding anything that has to do with blood:

For the holy spirit and we ourselves have favored adding no further burden to you except these necessary things: to keep abstaining from things sacrificed to idols, from blood, from what is strangled, and from sexual immorality. If you carefully keep yourselves from these things, you will prosper. Good health to you!” Act 15:28-29

Note the highlighted in red and underlined it's not just about religion as most people always concludes but HEALTH!🤔
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by GanagiBitrus: 11:27am On Feb 14
Kalulu44:
Yes, that's if you commit crime like stealing, robbing, killing, kidnapping and all. I can't rmbr when s*x became a crime if it's not rape
Are you for real?
It's not only crime that can alter your destiny.
Your legitimate day to day life decisions & choices can greatly alter your destiny, including indulging in Sex.
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by Kalulu44: 11:38am On Feb 14
GanagiBitrus:
Are you for real?
It's not only crime that can alter your destiny.
Your legitimate day to day life decisions & choices can greatly alter your destiny, including indulging in Sex.
Abeg comot here if you want to bring in Bible bulshit and balderdash.
Why is the indulging in sex with just anyone not affecting the lives and destiny of Davido, Wizkid, Dangote, Elon Musk and co. Abi na only poor people the s*x dey affect their destinies
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by IbileIfe: 11:45am On Feb 14
PurityOrNothing:
*Purity or Nothing Global Movement*
DAILY PURITY DIGEST

Date: *14th February 2026*

Topic: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day

Scripture:
"But at the beginning of creation God 'made them male and female.' 'For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh.'" - Mark 10:6-8

*THE PURE WORD*

Truthfully, romantic relationship with the opposite gender has placed many young folks into terrible issues that has left terrible indelible scars on a lot of them; while some have been unfortunately sent directly or indirectly to their early graves by these sweet-turned-sour affairs.

The main reason young people will keep having unpleasant experiences from boyfriend and girlfriend romantic relationships is because what they are doing was never in the original Will and Plan of God - the Wise Creator of everything, in the first place.

The Will of God is that when a man (not a boy) has attained a certain stature where marriage can be embraced, (after such a man has discovered his identity and purpose on earth), He (God) should be approached to provide a woman (not a girl) who will become his wife. After God has provided the woman, prior to marriage, the couple embark on what we call courtship, where they learn to know more about themselves (in an attempt to make necessary adjustments before they tie the knot), and must not defile the marriage bed during the courting period (that is, must not indulge in premarital sex).

Anything contrary to this perfect Will of God always bring heartaches, headaches and 'soul-aches'.

So, what should happen when your boyfriend/girlfriend is disturbing you for sex? Number one, realise the relationship is built on a wrong foundation and retrace your steps immediately by dissolving such relationship and breaking every connection and ties (physical, emotional, spiritual, etc).

Then, go back to the root by making peace with God and finding your identity in Him. You must make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior before anything else. If you have not discovered your true identity and purpose (which can only be known through Faith in Jesus Christ), you shouldn't complicate your life with a romantic relationship

So, if you are yet to make Jesus Christ your Lord and Savior, or you are backsliden already, simply ask Him for forgiveness of sins, and say "Lord, have mercy on me".

This will get your eyes opened, and you will realize that you are destined to be a Royal Priesthood: a king and a priest meant to rule the earth through power gotten via an eternal relationship with God

That is, you are meant to have dominion over everything - dominion and control over your sexual urges, over fornication, over poverty, over sin, etc. You won't do what true Royals won't do - you won't defile yourself with illegal and illicit actions, for reputation sake. Since it is illegal and illicit as a child of God to have sex before marriage, you should flee anyone trying to lure you into such.

Remember, many guys and ladies out there luring others into sexual immorality, are not ordinary humans. They are terrible witches and wizards, evil people from the marine kingdom, possessed with demonic spirits and have diabolical powers. They are beautiful and handsome in appearance, and they have an innocent outlook - so they could easily lure preys into the trap of everlasting anguish and despair. Your boyfriend or girlfriend is likely one of them! Run! Save your life and destiny!

Run into the waiting arms of Christ!

*Confession:*
I acknowledge that sex is a sacred act, designed by God for divine purposes. By His grace, I will honor and uphold its sanctity. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
Bed undefiled refers to married couple to be faithful in marriage.
Don't quote the Holy Bible out of context.

Abstaining from sex does not make anyone holier than those having sex outside marriage.
What is most important is Love as written in 1st Corinthians 13.

Almighty God is against premarital sex, because of the complications of unwanted pregnancy and having children without the safety net of marriage which is the bedrock of the family.

Don't marry anyone without fertility test and potency test to prevent unproductive marriage.

During courtship, find out if your partner is certified fertile and potent.
Make sure the woman can conceive and she is not frigid, because frigidity is most common with circumcised women and can make her not to enjoy sex.
Find out if the man has regular erection and is not a 1 minute man.
No woman wants a man who cannot satisfy her in bed.

If you don't find out and you later face the problems in marriage, Don't Blame God.
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by Kalulu44: 11:46am On Feb 14
MaxInDHouse:
In the spiritual realm SEX without commitment is a crime against those involved in it but that'll make no practical sense to someone who does not believe in the spiritual so let's come to the physical.
When a man gets involved in sexual intimacy with a woman his blood is mixed with that of the person with whom he had sex that's the reason why many gets infected it's called sexually Transmited Disease (STD) in most cases this is really difficult to cure because the infection can't be easily removed since it has to do with blood in the body.
So if a man and a woman stick to each other throughout their lives they will last longer than those having sex with multiple partners because the more partners the more vulnerable one becomes to viruses and infections. Another problem is when people with multiple partners gets sick their cases are complicated due to different kinds of blood mixing up with the person's body system.

That is why the Bible strictly warned believers to be extra careful regarding anything that has to do with blood:

For the holy spirit and we ourselves have favored adding no further burden to you except these necessary things: to keep abstaining from things sacrificed to idols, from blood, from what is strangled, and from sexual immorality. If you carefully keep yourselves from these things, you will prosper. Good health to you!” Act 15:28-29

Note the highlighted in red and underlined it's not just about religion as most people always concludes but HEALTH!🤔
Both your spiritual and physical analysis makes no sense. They're many people out there who have live to the fullest of their lives who s*x with different partners didn't affect their destinies and long life. Make una leave all these cock and bull stories.
Elon Musk, Dangote, Obj, IBB, Davido, Wizkid and millions out there are example of people who have slept with multiple partners and yet still successful and aging gracefully.
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by IbileIfe: 11:57am On Feb 14
MaxInDHouse:
The origin is pagan and immorality!😟
No.
The origin is not pagan, Roman Catholic.

The courageous Christian behind Valentine's Day

The Christian Martyr Behind Valentine’s Day.

On Valentine’s Day, many celebrate with chocolates, cards and gifts showing their affection to loved ones. Yet do we know the true story behind the martyr Valentinus, or Valentine, after whom this day is named?

We can gather facts to piece together his story. The Roman emperor Claudius II was having difficulty recruiting men into the military. Soldiers were required to fight for at least 25 years, and many young men were unwilling to leave their loved ones. Therefore, Claudius banned all marriages and engagements.

In response, men and women wanting to marry simply went underground with assistance from the sympathetic priest Valentinus, who secretly married soldiers to their betrothed. It is believed that, after Valentinus was eventually caught, he tried to convert Emperor Claudius to Christianity.

Valentinus was executed on February 14 around the year 269. More than 200 years later, Pope Gelasius declared February 14 as a day to honor Valentinus’ courageous life.

Want to inspire your children with Valentinus’ story of courageous faith? With any gift, you can receive the full-color storybook Valentine: God’s Courageous Evangelist today!

Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by femi4: 12:19pm On Feb 14
You are not suppose to have a bf abinito

A boyfriend is a friend in romance
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by ufotunang: 12:26pm On Feb 14
ATEAMS:
normal ....normally it's anticipated .
.take her to fast food, cinema, bar beach and swin together, val dinner 🙄
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by ufotunang: 12:27pm On Feb 14
oluwaseunamos33:
share gift to pple in need
..platonic love
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by ufotunang: 12:30pm On Feb 14
geoworldedu:
What's bad in having sex any dayy anytime? They should just use condom and move on. Sex is over hyped by hypocrites in this part of the world.
..the bible says thy shall not commit adultery
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by GanagiBitrus: 12:39pm On Feb 14
Kalulu44:
Abeg comot here if you want to bring in Bible bulshit and balderdash.
Why is the indulging in sex with just anyone not affecting the lives and destiny of Davido, Wizkid, Dangote, Elon Musk and co. Abi na only poor people the s*x dey affect their destinies
Did I mention Bible?
It's just common knowledge that consequences of indiscriminate sex can alter the course for your life.
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by Kalulu44: 12:46pm On Feb 14
GanagiBitrus:
Did I mention Bible?
It's just common knowledge that consequences of indiscriminate sex can alter the course for your life.
Common knowledge, but not common knowledge to those that I listed there
Re: If Your Boyfriend/girlfriend Is Asking For Sex On Valentine's Day by pigmania: 12:47pm On Feb 14
callmetade:
We don do am this morning sef tongue
I sight you ma jiggy
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