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Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by kevwemike: 9:00am On Feb 18
is a lie, is in ur blood b4 now.
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by shadrach77: 9:00am On Feb 18
Lesbisnism dey inside your body before. Don't blame your husband
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by BILLSMAN: 9:02am On Feb 18
Don't conclude or judge people over what you don't know. This is not about if you've shaved your armpit or not. You were not there with them so don't be the judge.

What I know is that some men are just naturally not satisfied with one woman.
Dzzzz:
Why will a man leave you for the nanny !?..You maybe the problem but want to manipulate things here.
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by Ohibenemma(m): 9:03am On Feb 18
It is well... jumping from one problem to create another problem, and ending up in problems beyond you.
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by mkpologwu(m): 9:03am On Feb 18
autoez:
I’ll keep saying it, no matter who gets offended: we men are often the real problem.
We give women too much attention, and that’s how a married man ends up sleeping with another man’s wife.

The day you stop making women your top priority as a man is the day you free yourself from many unnecessary problems in life.

Focus. Discipline. Purpose.

Peace.
I go like hang out with you, sane mind.

You really sabi use your God's given screwdriver.
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by GenFunction: 9:06am On Feb 18
Foolish woman.
Now u have lost HOME AND AWAY ov 2.5
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by EmmyMaestro(m): 9:09am On Feb 18
When I complained that I wasn't used to that lifestyle, they introduced me to a younger man to satisfy me sexually
What is the name of the group i can help them

grin grin grin grin
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by Switruth: 9:10am On Feb 18
zed7:
Another day, another tale from bored social media users.
yes oh. Zedikus nwa nne.
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by mkpologwu(m): 9:12am On Feb 18
naijapikin2:
Start by calling him and telling him you need to see him physically. When the both of you start talking just take off your clothes and you will be permanently cured.of this madness. 1 good round of sexo-therapy will do the work.

After that....

GO AND SIN NO MORE

You're welcome 😎
Lol... pride no dey let them apologise. That gender wey no get screwdriver but sabi screw things up and sabi drive men insane.
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by Lovit(m): 9:16am On Feb 18
You never know the value until you lose it

Most women learn this, too late
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by 99thEnemy(m): 9:19am On Feb 18
Being a lesbian is not something you 'become'.

it is an identity you already have.

At most, someone might identify as bisexual before realizing they are exclusively attracted to the same sex.
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by naijapikin2(m): 9:21am On Feb 18
mkpologwu:
Lol... pride no dey let them apologise. That gender wey no get screwdriver but sabi screw things up and sabi drive men insane.
She must have realized her mistake... let's hope she has thrown away the screwdriver...balls in her court
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by Bahamas95(m): 9:25am On Feb 18
Cheating on your wife is disrespect already and doing it with someone close to her is even worse.

All these things dey cause see finish, the nanny would just be stylishly disrespecting the woman because she don see oga gbolæ.
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by mkpologwu(m): 9:26am On Feb 18
advanceDNA:
Yes naaaa… she lack vagina ….
Una no go ever tackle the sexually indisciplined person, naa the victim of infidelity una dey always blame…
Rest biko!!! Some vaginas are used as weapon. I don't think you'd want your one and only lovely car stopping you on the road every time. Na to change the car or keep using public transport.

Wey my screwdriver sef....
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by ogascomax:
manuelkel:
Honestly, this polygamy stuff is crazy, it's right to be polygamous but cheating on your wife with your Nanny that's some sort messed up act.
You can cheat anyone else but not the nanny, the same as women cheating with their husband's errand boys.... it's rubbish.
Cheating is cheating whether with a house help or not. Some house help are truly beautiful and attractive. I have seen. I will advise that the last resort a woman should have considered before leaving her home is to have some space not a divorce. Women tend to through hash and tougher faces than men. After divorce for a younger woman. You start seeing young men and all sort of men coming to you. You begin suffering the same thing you suffered as a single girl. Heartbreaks and guys still cheating on you. The most strangest thing is having same experience that made you to divorce, you will see same thing in a new relationship and decide to be patient. Patience that you should have had when married.
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by Teymanhenry(f): 9:27am On Feb 18
Responsible men carry heavy financial and emotional loads because society equates provision with love. But the real issue isn’t men vs women , it’s expectations. When responsibility isn’t shared and appreciation is missing, resentment is inevitable.

Child support and family duties exist to protect children, but they can feel one-sided when communication breaks down. Many homes mistake presence for love and provision for obligation.

Strong families aren’t built on silent sacrifice by one person. They thrive on shared effort, mutual respect, and accountability.
Partnership not endurance is the goal.

Right now the law have made so many women to turn scammers. Imagine, every Billionaire woman today got her wealth from Divorce fees and a few via inheritance.

Men don suffer
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by LockDown69(m): 9:29am On Feb 18
This one na big werey! grin
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by cucumbar: 9:31am On Feb 18
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by dominique(mod): 9:35am On Feb 18
Una no dey tire with all these fairytales to gaslight women to staying with cheating men?
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by fredoooooo: 9:39am On Feb 18
Dont let people decide your fate..
Its in you already you only look for an excuse
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by DeltaBachelor(m): 9:41am On Feb 18
Chai. This one no be juju so ?
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by keemsleek(m): 9:42am On Feb 18
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Dzzzz:
Why will a man leave you for the nanny !?..You maybe the problem but want to manipulate things here.
Check well, cooking f9
House monitoring f9
Children grooming f9
Time for hubby f9
Online presence A1
Friends gathering A1


Househelp
Cooking A1
House monitoring A1
Children grooming A1
Time for hubby A1
Dressing B2

When u don't look once a while for Children and hubby, u don't take care of the house and you hardly have time for your hubby gbam the vampire strike at night. Exactly what's playing among must women in my area. A kids will never eats his lunch in school he will either not touch it or give it out when the question him, he said the food is not sweet and the househelp who cook is not yet back from traveling. Your hubby cheated on you and from thier to a lesbian to a sugar mummy while the househelp might have been upgraded to a full house madam. So whose loose. Women...
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by humberjade: 9:51am On Feb 18
Dzzzz:
Why will a man leave you for the nanny !?..You maybe the problem but want to manipulate things here.
Obviously, nah obodo oyinbo nanny. Fit dey classier and richer than her sef.
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by autoez: 9:54am On Feb 18
mkpologwu:
I go like hang out with you, sane mind.

You really sabi use your God's given screwdriver.
Thanks bro.
A sane mind plus the right tools saves a lot of damage.
Not everyone likes hearing it, but truth still works.
Respect Bro 🤝
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by Natbrowny: 10:02am On Feb 18
What will you now become if you catch your lesbian partner getting smashed by another man.
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by advanceDNA:
mkpologwu:
Rest biko!!! Some vaginas are used as weapon. I don't think you'd want your one and only lovely car stopping you on the road every time. Na to change the car or keep using public transport.

Wey my screwdriver sef....
U dey claim say shes to blame when u start to dey cheat
But u nor blame urself when she start to weaponize her vagina….

Lol….. its always the fault of the other person
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by Emeka71(m): 10:12am On Feb 18
Gotocourt:
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Only you?
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by osuofia2(m): 10:23am On Feb 18
Lesbianism can be pardoned but you see gay men, not forgivable, no near me
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by africanusvu(m): 10:37am On Feb 18
You were already a lesbian before you caught ur husband with the nanny, you have no feelings for ur husband that's what pushed him to ur Nanny,u are a failed wife
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by Nefort:
Dzzzz:
Why will a man leave you for the nanny !?..You maybe the problem but want to manipulate things here.
LagosOrigin:
Pretty face alone can't keep a man

Maybe the nanny have what you lacked
Why are you making a stupid excuse for cheating? If the husband was not satisfied with the marriage he should have divorced her rather than cheating. You guys will always blame women for everything and will never admit your own failures as men.
Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by Chegesnd: 10:42am On Feb 18
You were actually a Lesbian upstairs before marriage!
However, God will accept your reason when you meet him on the last day.

Re: I Became A Lesbian After I Caught My Husband Sleeping With My Nanny by Edusouls(m): 10:50am On Feb 18
All divorced women forming a community, see once a woman cuts off from a man she falls to the devil most times, a man is a mini God given authority to rule over earth and lead a woman to the right part, She joined the Coven of ruthless witches and if one dies in such state express way to hell fire with slaps and beatings
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