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Leave her with me, I go help you keep her well, no worries, no fear. Travel in peace!

Zoomx:
I'm kinda confused. I just turned 26.

There's this 18 year old daughter of our family friend. She's decent and studying nursing.

I'm thinking of doing introduction for her before traveling so as to keep her from whoring about ( yeah,I know I said she's decent but people do change) and make her wait for me .

Also, if I decide to let her be for now, I don't want a situation whereby when I come back she would be really interested in getting married to me because I live abroad.

P.S she doesn't know I have plans to travel yet.

Bros,

You are just 26, go and see the world... Leave her alone to also experience the world.

Shouldn't you be thinking of making it in life first(as you plan to travel) than thinking taking one small pikin that may still LovePeddler around even after the introduction or whatever. Tomorrow you'll run down to NL to start complain how the wife you left in naija has turned to 'East-west' road for naija men.
Baba.....he who has an ear....

Wealthyonos:
Laugh wan finish me for here. It's like keeping unripe banana inside a nylon for sometime with the hope that it will not ripen before you return. The Introduction Ceremony alone is a license for her to become promiscuous because she already knows that marriage is sure for her.

Not even 18 years old girl, wen hormone is still running at highest possible rate.

How I wish I can narrate one guy that married a lady back home in Nigeria, the more abroad guy trying to monitor, the more the lady, outsmarting him, fu-cking anyhow, right inside duplex, husband suffered to build for her and son.

Break up with the woman

She is 18. At 18, many young men and women are not thinking of marriage. Even in the few circumstances, e no easy to do studies and to bring up children

Also, you cannot offer her a stable home right now. I know of two copules, same or similar situation as you are. Both were ready to move the young women into the house after the marriage, and none of them was planning to go abroad, and both of the men had businesses in nigeria.

You want to go abroad. As many people will tell you, it takes time before you can earn the type of salary where you might be able to sustain a family over there (unless you are a doctor or nurse.).

Let the woman go. She no go wait for you unless she has the kind patience wey pass normal human being.

NO!!! TRAVEL FIRST. YOU NEVER CAN TELL WHAT THE FUTURE HOLDS FOR YOU BOTH. BUT MAINTAIN RELATIONSHIP/COMMUNICATION WITH HER.

26 IS STILL VERY YOUNG, YOU HAVE THE WORLD AT YOUR TAKING. GO YEE AND CONQUER THE WORLD.

Bros leave woman and battle for your life...you are still young,now is time to focus on your life. No go complicate things by entangling yourself with woman wahala.

Zoomx:
I'm kinda confused. I just turned 26.

There's this 18 year old daughter of our family friend. She's decent and studying nursing.

I'm thinking of doing introduction for her before traveling so as to keep her from whoring about ( yeah,I know I said she's decent but people do change) and make her wait for me .

Also, if I decide to let her be for now, I don't want a situation whereby when I come back she would be really interested in getting married to me because I live abroad.

P.S she doesn't know I have plans to travel yet.

If you take her youth from her now, she'll take it back in marriage.

Do whatever you want with this information.

Zoomx:
I'm kinda confused. I just turned 26.

There's this 18 year old daughter of our family friend. She's decent and studying nursing.

I'm thinking of doing introduction for her before traveling so as to keep her from whoring about ( yeah,I know I said she's decent but people do change) and make her wait for me .

Also, if I decide to let her be for now, I don't want a situation whereby when I come back she would be really interested in getting married to me because I live abroad.

P.S she doesn't know I have plans to travel yet.

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She is your best option for now.

When you travel abroad and see “things” in life, your love for her may change especially as her body structure changes as she grows old. She looks like Omotola now but you may come back to meet Eniola Badmus.

Move on! Everyone is expendable.

Don't do it if you won't be with her.

Zoomx:
I'm kinda confused. I just turned 26.

There's this 18 year old daughter of our family friend. She's decent and studying nursing.

I'm thinking of doing introduction for her before traveling so as to keep her from whoring about ( yeah,I know I said she's decent but people do change) and make her wait for me .

Also, if I decide to let her be for now, I don't want a situation whereby when I come back she would be really interested in getting married to me because I live abroad.

P.S she doesn't know I have plans to travel yet.

Oga nothing can keep a woman that wants to start hoe-around from whoring! If you like buy rope to tie am down, she will crawl to her goal

As for me i always advise against taking any banny abroad. There are many single ladies in that location, get one for marriage there. L

NO.

Leave her alone. You don't have your bearings yet, when you are stable, look for a wife.

Instead of planning for your future with less baggage at 26 na 18 years girl be your utmost desire.
Forget that marriage, pursue your vision abroad, tell her your plans for her, if it works out in future fine and good, if it fails you move on, there are plenty fishes in the ocean

Zoomx:
I'm kinda confused. I just turned 26.

There's this 18 year old daughter of our family friend. She's decent and studying nursing.

I'm thinking of doing introduction for her before traveling so as to keep her from whoring about ( yeah,I know I said she's decent but people do change) and make her wait for me .

Also, if I decide to let her be for now, I don't want a situation whereby when I come back she would be really interested in getting married to me because I live abroad.

P.S she doesn't know I have plans to travel yet.

Focus on where you are going and leave girls. When traveling to a new country as a single guy, it's advisable not to give anyone marriage promise back home

Amotolongbo:
You don’t seem to have any meaningful purpose for the girl. No place for love, you just want to tether her with the introduction.
Bro, from what you just wrote up there, it shows that you are not yet mature to be a husband.
Which part of the abroad are you going? Kyrgyzstan is also abroad o

Moreover, “Doing introduction for her”? Are you her father?

You bad gannnnn!! 😅😅😅😅😅
Kyrgyzstan no be abroad before...
My guy dey there oo. Him dey ball normal!
Their money still make sense pass naira oo.

Lol

Dem use naija t-o-t-o swear for naija men ni?

My brother,you are single & free.Travel,taste the t-o-t-o for that side first before making any emotional decision

Harddiskng:
Oga nothing can keep a woman that want sit hoe-around from whoring!

As for me i always advise against taking any banny abroad. There are many single ladies in that location, get one for marriage there. L

Gbam!

Zoomx:
I'm kinda confused. I just turned 26.

There's this 18 year old daughter of our family friend. She's decent and studying nursing.

I'm thinking of doing introduction for her before traveling so as to keep her from whoring about ( yeah,I know I said she's decent but people do change) and make her wait for me .

Also, if I decide to let her be for now, I don't want a situation whereby when I come back she would be really interested in getting married to me because I live abroad.

P.S she doesn't know I have plans to travel yet.

Which mod brought this nonsenseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee pervert post to the front page?

18 years old, toto no let u see front abi

you go later cry

I was in your situation in 2013. Trust me time will provide you with the answers to this question

If it were to be in the olden days, I understand that a 26 year old man is very ready to get married. But you see these genz guys ehn,....make I no talk.

Bro, just travel and find a purpose for yourself. Marriage will come with the right person for you. Trust me

You blocked me and removed my comment because i told you the hard truth.

Zoomx:
I'm kinda confused. I just turned 26.

There's this 18 year old daughter of our family friend. She's decent and studying nursing.

I'm thinking of doing introduction for her before traveling so as to keep her from whoring about ( yeah,I know I said she's decent but people do change) and make her wait for me .

Also, if I decide to let her be for now, I don't want a situation whereby when I come back she would be really interested in getting married to me because I live abroad.

P.S she doesn't know I have plans to travel yet.

...an 18 year old girl that has not chop life you want to tie down with introduction and marriage and travel abroad... that will not prevent her from not having a love relationship with another guy and be cheating on you..body no be firewood..will you monitor her what she is doing in your absence..she is too young for you to tie her down for introduction and marriage...do not trust her...she will still cheat on you.. since she will want to satisfy her sexual urge and you are not there to do that..so she will get another guy to do it.. body no be firewood... there is lot of temptation everywhere ..you can still get a decent girl out there in abroad in the country you want to travel to..to marry ..

You aren't the first person to travel abroad that she knows, so whys your own special

When you get abroad won't you do whoring too

You people are better off as friends

26 and confused ... nothing new. Are you two in a relationship? ... or you're interested in her romantically but she doesn't know ? She's 18 ...studying nursing ...meeting other guys ... her peers ... different characters...different status ... different vibes .... exposed to a wide variety of guys ....what makes you believe that presently..... she sees you as the one? ...that she's not considering how to let you go ...keep you as a friend ...a family friend? It seems that you really believe telling her you're going abroad is a game changer... maybe the game has changed and you don't even know. Love is a two way street ... you're into her .... is she into you? Assume nothing....find out.

Ojagun:
Lol

Dem use naija t-o-t-o swear for naija men ni?

My brother,you are single & free.Travel,taste the t-o-t-o for that side first before making any emotional decision

..🤣🤣🤣🤣..you are very funny 🤣🤣🤣🤣

Sirleo05:
Leave her with me, I go help you keep her well, no worries, no fear. Travel in peace!

Leave her with you? ... that is 9 months course loading for her 🙄

ayoncox:
You are going after a lady whose frontal lobes aren't yet matured, you will pay badly for it when it eventually get matured based on your approach

If you say mature as in mentality and brain wise, I agreed. But don't talk about that frontal lobes for an 18yr old. Where they're so many 15, 16yrs with mad frontal lobes

Zoomx:
I'm kinda confused. I just turned 26.

There's this 18 year old daughter of our family friend. She's decent and studying nursing.

I'm thinking of doing introduction for her before traveling so as to keep her from whoring about ( yeah,I know I said she's decent but people do change) and make her wait for me .

Also, if I decide to let her be for now, I don't want a situation whereby when I come back she would be really interested in getting married to me because I live abroad.

P.S she doesn't know I have plans to travel yet.

My son (i called you one because you are close to the age of my oldest daughter) ignore the advice of people who are advising you not to marry her. As long as you have the means of sustaining her, don’t hesitate settling down with her.

Zoomx:
I'm kinda confused. I just turned 26.

There's this 18 year old daughter of our family friend. She's decent and studying nursing.

I'm thinking of doing introduction for her before traveling so as to keep her from whoring about ( yeah,I know I said she's decent but people do change) and make her wait for me .

Also, if I decide to let her be for now, I don't want a situation whereby when I come back she would be really interested in getting married to me because I live abroad.

P.S she doesn't know I have plans to travel yet.

Don't

At 18...she is still trying to explore n understand herself. It will be difficult to monitor a 18yr old girl still in school from abroad. You can't cage her with introduction