₦airaland Forum

SixSeven:
Are you a woman? Let's start from there because the dynamics can be different based on your gender. What is his level? Your colleague at the same level, your boss or what is his direct impact on your work? Or is he from another division?


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If someone is a threat to your life, HR is not human, protect yourself first. HR has only one job to do, protect the company, so don't be naive and leave your destiny to them. That thing you call professional is how they will professionally manage your story if you die there. Before you joined the company, were they interested in your life? One day you will leave that company so think about it well. Your safety is paramount here. What makes you think if you leave the company he won't still stalk you? How much of your personal life does he know? When did he join the company? Before you? Is he a power player in the company?

Obiedun:
How much will it cost him? He needs it badly.

Lukuluku69:
Approach the HR with your complaints and also your evidences.

He never reach Police matter.

Emmy000seun:
Seems you guys have engage in a shady deal before hence you don't want to report to the police 💯....bcuz reporting such issues to the police is not necessarily puting him or you in cell, is to caution him and make him realize anything harmful should not happen to you or else he will be held responsible.. and every one b at peace...

b0rn2fuck:
I would have recommend you to a guy in a Lagos, he would give you on black magic ring, protect yourself when. Threats start coming, infact , the ring won't kill him but any small torches, him muscles will weak and he won't be able to stand up for at least 5 minutes or report to boss while report at police with your boss involved

meobizy:
No HR department in your office? Na for Nairaland una dey form lion. For real life, una no fit squeak.

elasticlala:
In ALL you do, avoid Nigerian police👮

LordVoldemort02:
I’ve done that twice now all to no avail.

yewit37486:
I doubt a woman would have Lord Voldermort as a moniker.

b0rn2fuck:
if I was in Lagos, you would even get it for free, tested self and witness it, that's the one that will weak bone, even when he sight your hand with tiny black ring, his brain will reset because he will know you are not ordinary , he would not even dare you, that's how I scared some bro away that time in Lagos when I was being bully up and down, boom, I reach herbalist house self and I stop when peace was restored,na my own money dem dey even collect then like say I owe Dem, Dem change my MuMu to hard guy, until I develop confidence go visit herbalist and the confidence alone chase them away when they realized say back up dey. 11 years now, I no dey hear small threat,,ordinary mouth say I get baba as back up alone for ogun state don make the powerful person calm down , Lagos na craze world....I no dey see small threat, I go find location sharply

otipoju:
I sure sey this thing get confraternity undertones.

OP is not afraid of the guy. He is just hesitant to deal with him based on sey he no wan loose him job.

I guess the other guy sef know one pr two about the OP and can't help but look for his trouble as the guy don dey avoid am.

Meanwhile the guy and the boss dem be brothers and he can't really do shit to him even though he knows he is stealing company money.

OP better look for a new job.

SixSeven:
I know but this is Nairaland. Nothing is impossible

SixSeven:
I know but this is Nairaland. Nothing is impossible

RollinTNDA:
Person go get bully for school still get bully for workplace??

b0rn2fuck:
if I was in Lagos, you would even get it for free, tested self and witness it, that's the one that will weak bone, even when he sight your hand with tiny black ring, his brain will reset because he will know you are not ordinary , he would not even dare you, that's how I scared some bro away that time in Lagos when I was being bully up and down, boom, I reach herbalist house self and I stop when peace was restored,na my own money dem dey even collect then like say I owe Dem, Dem change my MuMu to hard guy, until I develop confidence go visit herbalist and the confidence alone chase them away when they realized say back up dey. 11 years now, I no dey hear small threat,,ordinary mouth say I get baba as back up alone for ogun state don make the powerful person calm down , Lagos na craze world....I no dey see small threat, I go find location sharply

b0rn2fuck:
if I was in Lagos, you would even get it for free, tested self and witness it, that's the one that will weak bone, even when he sight your hand with tiny black ring, his brain will reset because he will know you are not ordinary , he would not even dare you, that's how I scared some bro away that time in Lagos when I was being bully up and down, boom, I reach herbalist house self and I stop when peace was restored,na my own money dem dey even collect then like say I owe Dem, Dem change my MuMu to hard guy, until I develop confidence go visit herbalist and the confidence alone chase them away when they realized say back up dey. 11 years now, I no dey hear small threat,,ordinary mouth say I get baba as back up alone for ogun state don make the powerful person calm down , Lagos na craze world....I no dey see small threat, I go find location sharply

LordVoldemort02:
I need some honest advice on a situation at my workplace. There’s this guy who has been constantly disturbing and harassing me. I’ve tried everything to avoid him—I’ve warned him multiple times, told him the implications of his actions, and I even have evidence of all his disturbances. I’ve even ask for a change of location.

The problem is, despite all my warnings, he recently tried to attack me. I’m really trying to keep things professional and avoid any 'police wahala' or ending up in a cell because of him.
At one point, I even thought about using a weapon just to protect myself if he lunges again, but I know how Nigerian law can be. I don't want to face a criminal case over a nuisance.

How do you guys handle a physical threat at work when you don't want to involve the police?

We4all:
Those of you patronising herbalists are the majority problems we have in this country. Why do you think bandits and criminals do what they do? Because they patronise herbalists who boost their confidence.

From giving you a special ring, they will soon ask you to provide human head so they can give you wealth. You guys are just evil...

LordVoldemort02:
I need some honest advice on a situation at my workplace. There’s this guy who has been constantly disturbing and harassing me. I’ve tried everything to avoid him—I’ve warned him multiple times, told him the implications of his actions, and I even have evidence of all his disturbances. I’ve even ask for a change of location.

The problem is, despite all my warnings, he recently tried to attack me. I’m really trying to keep things professional and avoid any 'police wahala' or ending up in a cell because of him.
At one point, I even thought about using a weapon just to protect myself if he lunges again, but I know how Nigerian law can be. I don't want to face a criminal case over a nuisance.

How do you guys handle a physical threat at work when you don't want to involve the police?

LibertyRep:
What exactly did you buy from his market?

Maybe time to involve the police if your boss wouldn't act.
Get to the Police for your safety.

LordVoldemort02:
I’ve reported him to the boss but it seems no quick action will be taken and if not, there might be problem very soon.

LordVoldemort02:
As a young guy, he’s picked up a lot of bad habits. You know how it goes—"birds of a feather." I actually had to stop hanging out with him because his circle just isn't doing anything for me.

The guy has even been thinking about stealing to make up for some stuff he lost, and I’ve been trying to talk him out of it. But lately, money has been going missing at work, and people were starting to look at me. I had to go to the boss and explain the whole situation to clear my name. I’ve been trying to keep my distance since then, but he just won't take the hint and keeps coming around.

Sagacity10:
I wonder why u decided to ommit this part in your explanation earlier.

Zocalite:
Is he related to the boss

Did he get the you the job

Go report to police, no wahala will arise, they will call both of you and even the company won't know except he says

Lekby25:
There is something else she is not telling us, she is not telling us the whole story, she is hiding something things

ayoncox:
If you drop your number we fit help you, Na guard room e go sleep for like one week, he will move from being a bully to a Gentle man

LordVoldemort02:
I’ve tried, not once or twice. Even send voice recordings and the best solution is they’ll look into it.