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Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by Zocalite: 2:51pm On Feb 27
LordVoldemort02:
He’s from the same state with the boss. I’m scared of spending more than my budget because I don’t trust police.
So the boss is giving him preferential treatment?

Na to carry the matter go radio be dat
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by SixSeven: 2:55pm On Feb 27
LordVoldemort02:
My number is down 👇I don’t want to also be a bully but I’ll pay to avoid having problem with the law. Just a warning even from someone in authority through video call will go a long way.
Remove it. Many people are on this forum
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by SixSeven: 2:58pm On Feb 27
otipoju:
I sure sey this thing get confraternity undertones.

OP is not afraid of the guy. He is just hesitant to deal with him based on sey he no wan loose him job.

I guess the other guy sef know one pr two about the OP and can't help but look for his trouble as the guy don dey avoid am.

Meanwhile the guy and the boss dem be brothers and he can't really do shit to him even though he knows he is stealing company money.

OP better look for a new job.
There's a lot the OP is not telling us. From harassing him to death threat to stealing, the story is bordering on danger of a single story. It's like the OP wants to paint himself a Saint here but has not told us what he did for someone to harass him like this. He is even ready for self defence and charms but doesn't want police wahala 🤡
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by Sunmolar(m): 3:00pm On Feb 27
There maybe something spiritual about flights sometimes. This pattern indicates you pray and handover the battle to God. As a Christian my weapon of warfare are not canal. Pray first... If further confrontations are needed you will know. Follow the path of peace. When God fight for you... It will be a memorable experience.
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by LordVoldemort02(op): 3:02pm On Feb 27
SixSeven:
Remove it. Many people are on this forum
Okay thanks.
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by b0rn2fuck(m): 3:04pm On Feb 27
We4all:
Those of you patronising herbalists are the majority problems we have in this country. Why do you think bandits and criminals do what they do? Because they patronise herbalists who boost their confidence.

From giving you a special ring, they will soon ask you to provide human head so they can give you wealth. You guys are just evil...
dey play, make one Agbero almost make me think of suicide abi and police won't do anything, anything to defend myself is welcome, I no go for ritual,but protection like Abija
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by LordVoldemort02(op): 3:04pm On Feb 27
Zocalite:
So the boss is giving him preferential treatment?

Na to carry the matter go radio be dat
The problem is how much will they charge. I don’t want something that will take long time and money.
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by professore(m): 3:05pm On Feb 27
Something that can be dangerous starts like play. If you are wise, resign and go to another city him and other workers will not know about.

Since it seems the story is more than you are letting out, this is my advise for you.
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by LordVoldemort02(op): 3:06pm On Feb 27
professore:
Something that can be dangerous starts like play. If you are wise, resign and go to another city him and other workers will not know about.

Since it seems the story is more than you are letting out, this is my advise for you.
I’ve shared everything and if you need more knowledge, I’ll gladly give out.
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by LordVoldemort02(op): 3:08pm On Feb 27
SixSeven:
There's a lot the OP is not telling us. From harassing him to death threat to stealing, the story is bordering on danger of a single story. It's like the OP wants to paint himself a Saint here but has not told us what he did for someone to harass him like this. He is even ready for self defence and charms but doesn't want police wahala 🤡
You’re talking like you don’t know police will extort you and the process will be longer. It might even become futile because they’ll need fuel, money to open case etc. I’ve never had a police case before that’s why I’m asking how much will it cost.
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by professore(m):
LordVoldemort02:
I’ve shared everything and if you need more knowledge, I’ll gladly give out.
Did you ever participate in illegal acts together with him?

Did you ever open his secret to anyone?
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by JaskanFactor: 3:10pm On Feb 27
Bullies and working for somebody else go together like flies and shit.

Even if you have to live inside a shoe box for a while, your priority should be how to create a situation where you work for yourself in a room where you can choose who is around you.

So long as water is being pumped into the flood, things are not going to be dry anytime soon, by that i mean, so long the culture being promoted is evil matristic barbarianism , it will be a long time before bullies are made to feel they dont belong in the work place.

Cause right now, if you cant bully other people to get your way at work, you will leave there empty handed in old age without enough money for pensioon cause they will steal your youth and leave you nothing for old age.

Thats why in an evil world , you want to try your hardest best to be your own employer. The start maybe slow, but once you gain momentum working for other people will feel like cheating yourself.

Whilst a culture of evil is being promoted doing anything at all in public or with the public comes at a premium of dealing with possessed people. Youre are saying he being mean to you, but you dont know if you are even dealing with human being or demon.

Get out of there, and dont you dare have children unless you can sponsor them to have self employed career .
Until the creator turns this mad house into a lawfull place, normal life is null and void, unless you sell your soul.

The said in the last days will be like the days of Noah, its time to be keeping your head down and keeping distance from society whilst evil is the popular culture .

Many occult scholars say the beast 666 anti Christ is not a person , its the culture of the cooperate CEO wana be modern man who is always correcting people grammar and spelling mistakes like these things are natural to spirit of a human being.

Get out of there, the situation will into improve, do like in the movies, and take drastic steps like major cut in costs to relocate somewhere cheap for fresh start working for yourself. I repeat the demon bullies in your work place will steal your youth and leave you nothing for old age.
Your old age will start around 40 where health starts to play a bigger role in how much work you can do without pain and discomfort.
Tick tok tick tok...........................................
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by LordVoldemort02(op): 3:10pm On Feb 27
SixSeven:
There's a lot the OP is not telling us. From harassing him to death threat to stealing, the story is bordering on danger of a single story. It's like the OP wants to paint himself a Saint here but has not told us what he did for someone to harass him like this. He is even ready for self defence and charms but doesn't want police wahala 🤡
Seems you’re also a bully or don’t know bullies can act even when you avoid them. I’ve told him to steer clear of and if it was WhatsApp I’d have sent you the voice notes and recordings but he keeps approaching.
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by LordVoldemort02(op): 3:14pm On Feb 27
professore:
K

Did you ever participate in illegal acts together with him?

Did you ever open his secret to anyone?
Yes he started stealing money in the organization because he thought he’s properties are going missing and I warned him to not try it but he went on and they were trying to frame me up so I had to tell my boss the truth but before then, he had dirty lifestyle and I didn’t want to associate with me because “birds of a feather flocks together” so I told him to avoid me but he doesn’t want to listen. If I hadn’t exposed him, they’ll be thinking I stole the money they’re looking for.
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by professore(m): 3:22pm On Feb 27
LordVoldemort02:
Yes he started stealing money in the organization because he thought he’s properties are going missing and I warned him to not try it but he went on and they were trying to frame me up so I had to tell my boss the truth but before then, he had dirty lifestyle and I didn’t want to associate with me because “birds of a feather flocks together” so I told him to avoid me but he doesn’t want to listen. If I hadn’t exposed him, they’ll be thinking I stole the money they’re looking for.
Resign from that place of work. If only resignation ends the problem, resign and take no further action. If he continues because he is a bad boy and has bad friends, get the police involved. But I'm telling you, don't take this with kids glove, it is a serious matter already. Take action, and the action you should take is what I have already told you.
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by Mrluv(m): 3:23pm On Feb 27
b0rn2fuck:
if I was in Lagos, you would even get it for free, tested self and witness it, that's the one that will weak bone, even when he sight your hand with tiny black ring, his brain will reset because he will know you are not ordinary , he would not even dare you, that's how I scared some bro away that time in Lagos when I was being bully up and down, boom, I reach herbalist house self and I stop when peace was restored,na my own money dem dey even collect then like say I owe Dem, Dem change my MuMu to hard guy, until I develop confidence go visit herbalist and the confidence alone chase them away when they realized say back up dey. 11 years now, I no dey hear small threat,,ordinary mouth say I get baba as back up alone for ogun state don make the powerful person calm down , Lagos na craze world....I no dey see small threat, I go find location sharply
omo boss i dey interested ooo i dey lagos
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by SixSeven: 3:29pm On Feb 27
LordVoldemort02:
Seems you’re also a bully or don’t know bullies can act even when you avoid them. I’ve told him to steer clear of and if it was WhatsApp I’d have sent you the voice notes and recordings but he keeps approaching.
Okay, answer this question, the first one 👇

professore:
K

Did you ever participate in illegal acts together with him?

Did you ever open his secret to anyone?
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by gracias124: 3:30pm On Feb 27
LordVoldemort02:
I’ve reported him to the boss but it seems no quick action will be taken and if not, there might be problem very soon.
report him to the police dont fight him. In the police say u want them to take you and him to the court, the police will try to calm you down dont accept so easily
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by olabrad: 3:38pm On Feb 27
Dzzzz:
Meet him again and if he does nothing about it,just don’t do anything unless you want to lose your job..
He should do nothing and bear the attacks from the bully, right?
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by meobizy(m): 3:40pm On Feb 27
Dey play.

LordVoldemort02:
Abeg if you fit show me where I Dey form nairaland, I go happy very well. I even have few posts on nairaland
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by LordVoldemort02(op): 3:45pm On Feb 27
SixSeven:
Okay, answer this question, the first one 👇
I’ve done that twice. Check the thread.
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by LordVoldemort02(op): 3:46pm On Feb 27
gracias124:
report him to the police dont fight him. In the police say u want them to take you and him to the court, the police will try to calm you down dont accept so easily
They’ll just want to extort money. That’s why I’m avoiding police because I believe they’ll only stretch it to benefit themselves.
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by We4all: 4:00pm On Feb 27
b0rn2fuck:
dey play, make one Agbero almost make me think of suicide abi and police won't do anything, anything to defend myself is welcome, I no go for ritual,but protection like Abija
Protection, until they start asking you for human parts. I repeat, those patronising herbalists are not different from bandits and other criminals.
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by fabolouz1(m): 4:08pm On Feb 27
Why is he attacking you? Are you a threat to his position or are you struggling anything with him? If you have reported to the Human resources Manager and there seems to be little changes, report to the next hierarchic ladder and if there seems to be no solution , enter an entry at the police station.
Avoid all means to be confrontational with him, not because you are a coward but just avoiding a scenario where it would truncate your career.
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by Wadoboy(m): 4:13pm On Feb 27
LordVoldemort02:
I’ve tried, not once or twice. Even send voice recordings and the best solution is they’ll look into it.
cheesy cheesy Company said they will look into it, yet u are on Nairaland.

So you don't still know what to do yethuh
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by KillahPriest: 4:13pm On Feb 27
LordVoldemort02:
I need some honest advice on a situation at my workplace. There’s this guy who has been constantly disturbing and harassing me. I’ve tried everything to avoid him—I’ve warned him multiple times, told him the implications of his actions, and I even have evidence of all his disturbances. I’ve even ask for a change of location.

The problem is, despite all my warnings, he recently tried to attack me. I’m really trying to keep things professional and avoid any 'police wahala' or ending up in a cell because of him.
At one point, I even thought about using a weapon just to protect myself if he lunges again, but I know how Nigerian law can be. I don't want to face a criminal case over a nuisance.

How do you guys handle a physical threat at work when you don't want to involve the police?
you're lying
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by LordVoldemort02(op): 4:21pm On Feb 27
KillahPriest:
you're lying
What’s the truth then??
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by LordVoldemort02(op): 4:21pm On Feb 27
Wadoboy:
cheesy cheesy Company said they will look into it, yet u are on Nairaland.

So you don't still know what to do yethuh
Should I wait for them or take action?
Re: Workplace Bully Won't Stop – How Do I Handle This Without Police Wahala? by LordVoldemort02(op): 4:22pm On Feb 27
fabolouz1:
Why is he attacking you? Are you a threat to his position or are you struggling anything with him? If you have reported to the Human resources Manager and there seems to be little changes, report to the next hierarchic ladder and if there seems to be no solution , enter an entry at the police station.
Avoid all means to be confrontational with him, not because you are a coward but just avoiding a scenario where it would truncate your career.
I’ve answered the questions in the comment section.
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