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BRATISLAVA:
Mostly because Nigerian men love the narrative. It's an ego boost that they are desired that much.

But the post was made by your gender, why then are you making it about men and their ego?

LilMissFavvy:
You are correct. I also feel majority of the Naija guys are $erving pri$on terms all over the world. Statistics shows that there are more men than women in Nigeria, then how come these naija women keep coming online to cry for marriage? I cannot understand why.

Believe such statistics at your own risk! Evidence around us shows that more families birth more female children than males! People just come up with fake statistics to make themselves feel better for whatever reason.

Match making without contacts, how possible

When a dad speaks,a good son listens and learns. Marrying a young girl is sumptuous but better to marry a 40 yr old decent lady with few to nilch body count than marrying a 24 yr old who's had 7 Sugar daddies and 37 boyfrienda since she turned 16. E get why

Like I said, you'd understand when you grow up.
Done with this talk,son. Dad's got lots to deal 6,now run along...

BodyCount:
You're just deceiving yourself kid.
How can you prove that a 40 years old non-virgin woman is better than an under 25 non-virgin lady?
Why do you people just like fooling yourselves?
How can you know that a stranger you don't know well nor live with it, know her history and background, how many men she has dated and slept with is decent?
Your type will judge from what people saying and/or what she told you, right?
I know you probably fall into the category of 30+ to 40+ woman, more likely a single mother, and I'm not surprised at all. This is your typical mentality.
No sane man alive with value and purpose will leave a young girl in her prime for an old woman who's off the market, with lots of mileage and bodycount.
Do you know all the health challenge potential a 40+ woman has? That age is not even very safe for pregnancy...
You people also think men are stupid, right?

saintopus:
What does men Benefit from the so called marriage. This trend will continue until at a point women will be openly asking men for marriage.

Am married and I know what am saying

All my friends and close associates that got married in the last 10 years are regretting it deeply...I have a lot to say but I'll be brief...Some of them married educated, beautiful and decent women but the struggle is real.

I pity two set of single men in this generation -

* Those who'll marry brothel hoes.

* Those who'll marry those women without value....Shaking ass on tiktok, doing hookups and are proud and rude.

In this era,you don't even need a woman in your life except if you meet one who has value and who love you for who you are.

If you're Hot,book a hoe....The hoe you're booking is someone's wife,fiancee,girlfriend etc

If you need a child,go the surrogacy way.

No baby mama bullshit.

This generation of women are not worth dating not to talk of marrying.....Some of them are decent but they're very few....Like 10%.

Paramount01:
I am married and I also ask the same question.

They will say the child bears my name ,I even told my wife today ,make they child they beat her father's surname if it will reduced my expenses

Lol.... this reminds me of my argument with a babe here. She said that one of the reasons why men should carry the burden of providing for their wives is that she changed her surname to his. I then asked her if she'll be willing to carry that responsibility if I change to her own surname and she started the game of shaming me for not being a "real man". I just laughed

CJStarz:
When a dad speaks,a good son listens and learns. Marrying a young girl is sumptuous but better to marry a 40 yr old decent lady with few to nilch body count than marrying a 24 yr old who's had 7 Sugar daddies and 37 boyfrienda since she turned 16. E get why

Like I said, you'd understand when you grow up.
Done with this talk,son. Dad's got lots to deal 6,now run along...

Keep quiet with your nonsense and delusion.
If the 40+ years old woman is not a virgin?
Do you know her sexual history ?
Her BODYCOUNT?
How many sugar daddies she's had in the past
How many abortions etc

Dey der make cap dey wear you.... Yẹyẹ

Fekumzi123:
It's obvious the thing dey hungry you. You even call it comfort of a wife... Body go tell you.

Lol.

Don't pretend there's nothing good about marriage. The good outweighs the bad—it'swhy your are still there. You just want to project your negative ideas for other men to carry them out for you, especially the ones you dare not do.

Jman06:
But the post was made by your gender, why then are you making it about men and their ego?

Made by a content creator, and pushed all over the place by men who thrive on the narrative.

Humanity442:
Hmm. Sir, I'm 26, male, and looking to settle down soon. Please what advice(s) do you have for me to look out for to be sure I choose the right partner 🙏

... you have to date the lady first at least up to 9 months or to a year ..inorder to know her true characters and behaviors .. whether she truly loves you ,kind , respectful and caring.and submissive to you...and whether she is industrious and not a liabilty to you but an asset to you,..whether both of you are compatible and both of you truly love each other ..then she is your right partner

saintopus:
What does men Benefit from the so called marriage. This trend will continue until at a point women will be openly asking men for marriage.

Am married and I know what am saying

You mean to say what "do men" not does"

Sorry about your marriage. Looks like you didn't seek God's leading before marrying. Well, God is the best match maker. Just trust God when getting married, howbeit if you have missed it, you need to pray to God for mercy and divine intervention, there is nothing God can't change. God bless you .

We need to marry and make children, it's the plan of God, you can't stop what God started in eternity, attempting so is aiding and working for the devil and God is a jealous God.

Hmm. Sir, I'm 26, male, and looking to settle down soon. Please what advice(s) do you have for me to look out for to be sure I choose the right partner 🙏

Don't listen to that guy saying youust date the later for 9 months or 1yr. I'd didn't date my wife, I didn't propose to her, I just married her because the Holy Spirit told me to Marry her, it's only God that knows the end from the beginning and not some random men. Don't date any girl, separate your life from fornication, seek God and commit your life partner before God, specifically ask God to show you your wife and confirm from your pastor if your Pastor hears from God but we are not to be led by our pastor in all spiritual things because we have the Holy Spirit. God bless you.

LilMissFavvy:
You know of China? That is not correct, because China has a greater population of men than women, you wouldn't see Chinese women begging for marriage online.

This is the truth. So why do we have a significant number of Nigerian women doing the same? Chinese ladies are even accused of being very picky these days in their choice of would-be husbands.

I really wonder if this online narrative of desire for marriage by our women is actually a reality off cameras.

CorperKola:
You've never heard of the leftover women of china
Google it

Yes, the concept exists, but Chinese women are not in dire need of marriage. Many are opting to remain single. It is the gov't who cajoles them to get married and have children. Left to Chinese women, many will remain single. Their cousins in South Korea already practice such.

From some of the responses, I can decipher that the economic conditions of the country have made many of our men despise marriage. To be honest, though, marriage is an expensive decision for a man. It means commitment, and with this commitment comes responsibilities. Responsibilities you never encountered or had a lot to do with as a bachelor.

The economy has to really get better, so men become eager and happy to marry.

They will wake up to reality when is too late, every woman wants to marry a rich man when there population is less than 2%

Gerrard59:
Yes, the concept exists, but Chinese women are not in dire need of marriage. Many are opting to remain single. It is the gov't who cajoles them to get married and have children. Left to Chinese women, many will remain single. Their cousins in South Korea already practice such.

Thats exactly my argumenet against feminism
It can only lead to end of society and humanity
She even said it without any bother or care in the world
*in a tiny squeaky voice* Many are opting to remain single. It is the gov't who cajoles them to get married and have children. Left to Chinese women, many will remain single. Their cousins in South Korea already practice such.
That south korea and japan are already in trouble, they'll soon smell themselves !!!

Im any case you wrong, they even have open markets for women looking for men
Chinese women very much care about children and getting married
Of course the govt supports these with propaganda as any sensible and responsible govt should just like the japenese govt is now trying to do too

saintopus:
What does men Benefit from the so called marriage. This trend will continue until at a point women will be openly asking men for marriage.

Am married and I know what am saying

I am not sure you are married to ask such a question.

U asking ur dad to keep quiet? I forgive you son. U don't read with comprehension. Now let me break it down.
Yes,there are women in their 40s who have had 1000+ body count,ok? But that does not mean that ALL WOMEN in their 40s have multiple body counts. There are still virgins at 40! There are good ladies who lived decent lives as young girls without sleeping around or having multiple body counts yet they weren't LUCKY in love or rather not lucky enough to have found a life partner.Stuff happen! Those were the type I was referring to, that it's better to marry them than to marry a disease - infested bore-hole - like 24 year old with a thousand body counts. Hope you got my argument now?
I understand ur annoyance with the 40 year olds but like I said,it stemmed from the fact that you're still too young to understand.

That said, it's your choice,son..... it's your choice.
Daddy's off to the office!
U be good!!!

BodyCount:
Keep quiet with your nonsense and delusion.
If the 40+ years old woman is not a virgin?
Do you know her sexual history ?
Her BODYCOUNT?
How many sugar daddies she's had in the past
How many abortions etc

Dey der make cap dey wear you.... Yẹyẹ

Jman06:
Lol.... this reminds me of my argument with a babe here. She said that one of the reasons why men should carry the burden of providing for their wives is that she changed her surname to his. I then asked her if she'll be willing to carry that responsibility if I change to her own surname and she started the game of shaming me for not being a "real man". I just laughed

U caught the thief.

Ladies are purely schemers.

One lady wey we dey chat online tell me say she no fit share me her pics with her in sexy bikini. I say no problem.

But then she wan bill me. So ur sexy bikini is not possible for distance rlnshp but my money is abi?

I cut the darn call!

BRATISLAVA:
If you do not practice what you preach, why do you want to deny other men the comforts of a wife? If it were so horrific being married, you would've damned the consequences and left your marriage. But you haven't.

Then it must be good, a good achievement for a man to be married. Let everyone enjoy that good part of it, too.

This person is obviously a woman. I can see you from a mile away. Una sabi deceive una self, even in another man’s reality.

My

Glimpsetv:
A video currently circulating online shows a woman appealing to Nigerian men to consider marriage with several women she says are looking for life partners.
In the clip, the woman—who identifies herself as a matchmaker—explains that she has many women searching for husbands and is asking interested men to reach out.

According to her, the women are mostly in their 30s to 50s. She specifically mentions ages such as 33, 38, 45, 48, and 50.
She says she has already successfully matched several couples but adds that many more women are still hoping to find partners.

The matchmaker also appealed to widowers and responsible single fathers to consider reaching out if they are interested in marriage.

She further stated that even a married man who is looking for a second wife can contact her, adding that the women she represents are serious and ready to settle down.

In her appeal, she repeatedly urges Nigerian men who are ready for marriage to reach out and help these women find husbands.

The video has since sparked conversations online about modern matchmaking and the challenges some individuals face when searching for life partners.

Watch the full video and share your thoughts on the growing trend of modern matchmaking.



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mQjGefTO2Ow?si=zK5LEYCOUiIX8B7c

Men don't benefit any single things from marriage.......

CJStarz:
U asking ur dad to keep quiet? I forgive you son. U don't read with comprehension. Now let me break it down.
Yes,there are women in their 40s who have had 1000+ body count,ok? But that does not mean that ALL WOMEN in their 40s have multiple body counts. There are still virgins at 40! There are good ladies who lived decent lives as young girls without sleeping around or having multiple body counts yet they weren't LUCKY in love or rather not lucky enough to have found a life partner.Stuff happen! Those were the type I was referring to, that it's better to marry them than to marry a disease - infested bore-hole - like 24 year old with a thousand body counts. Hope you got my argument now?
I understand ur annoyance with the 40 year olds but like I said,it stemmed from the fact that you're still too young to understand.

That said, it's your choice,son..... it's your choice.
Daddy's off to the office!
U be good!!!

Many of you just lack wisdom and common sense.
I honestly admire the courage it takes you to write so boldly with so little wisdom and comprehension.
That you even assumed that you're older than someone you don't know on a faceless forum is very funny. You've only demonstrated that having a brain and using it are two very different things.
Back to the issue, again in general context when it comes to choosing a partner as a grown man with value, purpose and common sense, A younger woman in her prime and best sexual market place is always better, as long as when we talk about sexuality both are non- virgin.
Generally, A younger woman is more fertile and have more tendencies to her less sexual experience and BODYCOUNT.
Mind you, I'm generalising here, and not minding some few exceptions - which is what you're emphasising on. Those exceptions are very rare and subjective.
I know there are women in their 40s that are still virgins, and there are also girl less than 25 with up to 1000 bodycounts.
The only thing that can show a small prove that a woman has not lived a wayward life in the past is if she's a virgin. That's all

Not interested. Will find me a good non black lady instead

legendarystar:
Why should I be the one to buy the already tasted vintage shawarma because is remnants is housed in a show glass 😌😌

Fair enough but your minted shawarma may also be a mirage with loads of high school laboratory & university live-in experience despite the tender age. Packaging is never limited

All the fuss over nothing!
Every Mallam to his kettle,kiddo.

BodyCount:
Many of you just lack wisdom and common sense.
I honestly admire the courage it takes you to write so boldly with so little wisdom and comprehension.
That you even assumed that you're older than someone you don't know on a faceless forum is very funny. You've only demonstrated that having a brain and using it are two very different things.
Back to the issue, again in general context when it comes to choosing a partner as a grown man with value, purpose and common sense, A younger woman in her prime and best sexual market place is always better, as long as when we talk about sexuality both are non- virgin.
Generally, A younger woman is more fertile and have more tendencies to her less sexual experience and BODYCOUNT.
Mind you, I'm generalising here, and not minding some few exceptions - which is what you're emphasising on. Those exceptions are very rare and subjective.
I know there are women in their 40s that are still virgins, and there are also girl less than 25 with up to 1000 bodycounts.
The only thing that can show a small prove that a woman has not lived a wayward life in the past is if she's a virgin. That's all

The relationship market now favors only the U-30 women. Any day past that age is disaster for a woman who hasn’t found a suitable man. It’s supply vs demand scenario all over again. It’s unfair but it’s the reality!

TEYA:
I see a future where more men will ask the question you are asking and the answer they will always get is "nothing". In the very near future, fewer men will be interested in marriage and it is the shallow mindedness of women that will take us there.

It's already begun

Amalekki:
Fair enough but your minted shawarma may also be a mirage with loads of high school laboratory & university live-in experience despite the tender age. Packaging is never limited

No matter what you say, fresh palm wine will
Always be sweet that tasted, manhandled left over palm wine!!

I am looking for a wife... Gimme her contact

CorperKola:
Thats exactly my argumenet against feminism
It can only lead to end of society and humanity
She even said it without any bother or care in the world
*in a tiny squeaky voice* Many are opting to remain single. It is the gov't who cajoles them to get married and have children. Left to Chinese women, many will remain single. Their cousins in South Korea already practice such.
Tnda as any sensible and responsible govt should just like the japenese govt is now trying to do too

Na man I be o.

But yes, East Asian societies are in for a huge demographic awakening this century.