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I just want to write this as a creative content and not to boast or fill any narcissistic tendency which I'm sure not to be. I'm writing this to show another relationship problem different from the one Tekashi wrote prior to this. What I'm saying is that his post influenced or inspired me to write this post.

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First woman actually came to live in the church in front of our house. I think their house was sold or something and they had to love in this Calabar church before they will secure another place. She always come to our house then to sit in front of the building to see all that is going own and I use to greet her when I go to school or come back in the afternoon and I see her there. Sometimes she ask me to call someone for her on her phone or fix some settings on it. In all of this I always do whatever she asks of me and patiently at that. So one day she bought sachet water and because of her legs that isn't very strong I helped her carry the water to the church when her daughter came out from inside the church to collect it when women thanked me profusely and suddenly asked if I will like to marry her daughter, as she will be so happy since I'm a well behaved young man. I and the girl just laughed but the woman didn't find it funny as she was putting on a serious face.

free wife don land ur house

The second girl, I wooed her myself and we were already vibing and even her elder siblings know me and didn't mind. Until I was walking her home one day when she told me some streets gossip has told her mum about us and her mum already warned her never to see her with me. I took this in good faith that I was even accusing her sister of being the one telling her mum out off jealousy. Because somehow the way the lady act when I'm with this my girlfriend is somehow. So that was how our relationship cracked and started dying naturally. But before then this my girl used to come and patronize us in our frozen food store and I'm the one who mostly stay at the store then. I sell for her at very good prices and even when the mum started coming to buy fish by herself sometimes I still sell for her very well till she became fond of me (mind you I didn't know if she knew the guy she told her daughter to stop seeing was me or not) until a day I was on a bike passing in front of their shop, I saw this woman and I greeted her by bowing, this woman answered my greetings and immediately called the attention of that my girl (even though have removed my hand from her matter, because I started feeling she's the one not interested in me and was just wanted to use her mum as excuse) to look at me. That action just confirmed to me that this woman later knew that I am her daughter man and that she approves of me. But it was already late and we were not talking anymore. Let me just add this, I stopped seeing us being in a relationship when I met this girl coming from her VS and I escorted her home. Then when we wanted to part I asked this girl for a hug not even peck and she refused saying we were already in her street, but it's very dark already. I just said okay and from that night I removed my mind. When I see her after then, I only greet or respond to her greetings, laugh small and go my way. No more gisting or calling her, I mostly do the calling then even if it's not regularly.

The third woman, the lady was my sister's friend when they arrive newly in our neighborhood and we later became good friends. Then the woman that's my friend mum, started a food canteen years later by then we are more or less family friends as we know the lady's mum and she knows ours too and also our mum now know each other but theirs wasn't deep friendship just normal neighbors. So when the woman started her canteen she was patronizing us, that's buying fish from us. She use to tell me that she likes how cool and we'll behaved that I am until one day she told me that she has told her daughter sef that she can never allow her to marry any Yoruba men as they are as they called us the Yoruba demons. She just said she told her daughter not to marry any Yoruba guy but if her daughter should bring me home to her that I'm the one she wants to marry that she would not only bless the union but she will be very happy.

I just remembered this one too and I want to add it because it was funny. This one was an Igbo girl like the third one and we wer already in talking stage, funny thing is she gained admission to school and I should have left the chat earlier but I thought she liked me, you can't blame me for thinking such because I didn't go to toast her she came to meet me in my store and we started talking then later she started to come gist with me at the store so I felt we were good and started acting like boyfriend. But anytime I pass in front of her house and she's there with her mum I don't greet her because she specifically told me she doesn't want her mum to know she's dating. Until one day that I was going to store and I met her mum on the road, I just decided to greet her because she has come to patronize me once or twice herself, when she responded with, 'Good morning my in-law' I was so surprised that I had to tell my family at home. That in our mind we were hiding relationship when the person we were hiding it from has accepted me. Funny thing is another day when I saw the girl and the mum together,(she was already in school then so we already broke whatever situationship we were in) I greeted them and the woman still answered me by calling me her in-law in front of her daughter and even left us to catch up on the time she was in school. Even after I'm sure her daughter must have told her we were not dating or has stopped dating, she still continue to call me in-law till they all relocated.

Mr man, you can summarize all these long epistles in a single paragraph na. Wallahi reading it, is boring.

Are you sure you actually have friends you talk to? Because I'm convinced only chronic loneliness can bring out this kind of "storytelling" talent. 😂

How do you even recall all these old escapades? Even my very first babe, I haven’t thought about her in ages. You be gee 🤜🏆🥇

From all your reference cases, the ladies you have been meeting or so are from family that are not financially stable which is a red flag

Also any lady that can't make decisions on her own without her mother's input, that's another big red flag as all your family matter will be relayed to her mom

Pls how old are you and what are you doing presently with your self?

Just marry 1 of them na shuoo

Remember, plenty talk nor dey full basket.

kiddo go inside, go and read your book

Guy!!!
Go and look for something productive to do with your life.

stan4b:
Guy!!!
Go and look for something productive to do with your life.

The guy is probably more productive than you!

helinues:
From all your reference cases, the ladies you have been meeting or so are from family that are not financially stable which is a red flag

Also any lady that can't make decisions on her own without her mother's input, that's another big red flag as all your family matter will be relayed to her mom

The ladies he's interested in are all teenagers so definitely they need their mother's advise

SpencerForbes:
Are you sure you actually have friends you talk to? Because I'm convinced only chronic loneliness can bring out this kind of "storytelling" talent. 😂

How do you even recall all these old escapades? Even my very first babe, I haven’t thought about her in ages. You be gee 🤜🏆🥇

No I don't have friends. And I'm writing this to probably keep here so as to use as content on other social platform I can monitor. I only just remember one, and the rest just came rolling in.

NosyParrot:
The ladies he's interested in are all teenagers so definitely they need their mother's advise

From the write up, the point of my post is that the mom of all the ladies approved me for a long term relationship with their daughter which means I must have a very good personality.

helinues:
From all your reference cases, the ladies you have been meeting or so are from family that are not financially stable which is a red flag

Also any lady that can't make decisions on her own without her mother's input, that's another big red flag as all your family matter will be relayed to her mom

All these relationship I'm talking about are ages ago. I'm only using it to create content. And from my write up, they aren't seeking their mum's input. I'm just saying that, all their mum approve of me even though they are hiding the relationship from the mum or using them as excuse to break the relationship.

A4alpha:
kiddo go inside, go and read your book

You are probably a gen z. I'm not so you don't call me kiddo it should be the other way round.

stan4b:
Guy!!!
Go and look for something productive to do with your life.

As Tharmon said, I'm probably more productive than you. I'm actually trying to put my real life stories, both the ones from 20 years ago or ones I will experience later into content, that will fetch money amidst other things I'm doing, I'm just trying to use nairaland same way others use Twitter or IG.

Starboytwo:
Just marry 1 of them na shuoo

Remember, plenty talk nor dey full basket.

All of them are married or at least given birth. These situations are from years ago, the latest one was like 7 years ago. I'm just writing my experiences when it comes to relationship.

fattprince:
You are probably a gen z. I'm not so you don't call me kiddo it should be the other way round.

Oya show your pishure

A4alpha:
Oya show your pishure

If you can show yours, why not I would show mine.

Please how old are you
Let start from there