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Ladies choose who to sleep with, but it is men who choose who to marry. Wisdom!

Still doesn't give leverage

After you choose to marry her, she will still decide when and how to give the cooochie

essentialone:
Ladies choose who to sleep with, but it is men who choose who to marry. Wisdom!

And after the wedding, the lady chooses when to sleep with you.
This year, I haven't had sex.. I'm married, I live with my husband.
I can stay for the rest of my life without having sex.
Can he? Definitely not!

spiceadole:
And after the wedding, the lady chooses when to sleep with you.
This year, I haven't had sex.. I'm married, I live with my husband.
I can stay for the rest of my life without having sex.
Can he? Definitely not!

Let that man go, he doesn't deserve the suffering he's in all in the name of marriage.
You don't want to give it to him, when he's feed up and goes out, you begin to cry.

spiceadole:
And after the wedding, the lady chooses when to sleep with you.
This year, I haven't had sex.. I'm married, I live with my husband.
I can stay for the rest of my life without having sex.
Can he? Definitely not!

So long as you have no issues if he sleeps with your maid, your neighbour, his workplace colleague, etc. etc, then you are good to go.

Starz825:
Still doesn't give leverage

After you choose to marry her, she will still decide when and how to give the cooochie

Nah you don't get it boy.... A man makes the choice on whole he will marry based off of how she meets his needs. It's not about picking a bride. It's a simple saying but it's deeper than your eyes can see

Before a man makes that final choice, he knows exactly what he needs and wants from the union and they both will be on same page definitely

spiceadole:
And after the wedding, the lady chooses when to sleep with you.
This year, I haven't had sex.. I'm married, I live with my husband.
I can stay for the rest of my life without having sex.
Can he? Definitely not!

You don't understand the quote. Your husband most likely chose you knowing you weren't good for him from the onset but was banking on "she would change with time" it's not the same as two people walking and working in agreement with one goal in life.

marlow1962:
Let that man go, he doesn't deserve the suffering he's in all in the name of marriage.
You don't want to give it to him, when he's feed up and goes out, you begin to cry.

I would say he probably deserves the suffering cos no way he didn't see the signs from the onset but some guys would still go ahead for whatever reasons only to suffer the consequences later

essentialone:
So long as you have no issues if he sleeps with your maid, your neighbour, his workplace colleague, etc. etc, then you are good to go.

Na him Sabi.
I have gotten the most important thing I ever wanted from marriage.

We don't live in Nigeria, between.
Here, sex is not easy to get like in Nigeria because people are not hungry like back home where a man can sleep with a girl because he bought her food.

kiddaz:
I would say he probably deserves the suffering cos no way he didn't see the signs from the onset but some guys would still go ahead for whatever reasons only to suffer the consequences later

When I bumped into this thread and stumbled on her comment and how proud she was displaying she married a weak man. I shook my head in disappointment.



Women naturally are highly sexual beings. A woman in her pure state that loves a man, will Fvck the shit out of him. Only his presence makes her wet.

But here you can see this married woman as she said she is, weaponizing sex to a so called husband. Lol. I don’t pity the man. Shes lucky she married a pushover.

NO WIFE OF MINE WILL TRY SUCH WITH ME.

Imagine your wife coming out to say such trash and boldly for that matter.

Puke

kiddaz:
I would say he probably deserves the suffering cos no way he didn't see the signs from the onset but some guys would still go ahead for whatever reasons only to suffer the consequences later

That one still join. Some men are really terrible at spotting future catastrophe.

marlow1962:
Let that man go, he doesn't deserve the suffering he's in all in the name of marriage.
You don't want to give it to him, when he's feed up and goes out, you begin to cry.

I'm not holding him, Oga.
He chose to marry me.
If he is suffering, he should be the one to let me go.
A woman cannot keep a man who doesn't want to be stay.

As long as he is going out to get it and not in my house, that's fine.
Good luck to him.

Keepamsafe:
When I bumped into this thread and stumbled on her comment and how proud she was displaying she married a weak man. I shook my head in disappointment.



Women naturally are highly sexual beings. A woman in her pure state that loves a man, will Fvck the shit out of him. Only his presence makes her wet.

But here you can see this married woman as she said she is, weaponizing sex to a so called husband. Lol. I don’t pity the man. Shes lucky she married a pushover.

NO WIFE OF MINE WILL TRY SUCH WITH ME.

Imagine your wife coming out to say such trash and boldly for that matter.

Puke

Weak man= Peace of Mind.
I'm really lucky, you are right.
It's not easy to be married to a Nigerian man for years and be happy.
Keep shaking your head while I'm enjoying my weak husband whose weakness gives me peace.
We have 3 children.. I have fulfilled my obligation.
Sex is not food

spiceadole:
Weak man= Peace of Mind.
I'm really lucky, you are right.
It's not easy to be married to a Nigerian man for years and be happy.
Keep shaking your head while I'm enjoying my weak husband whose weakness gives me peace.
We have 3 children.. I have fulfilled my obligation.
Sex is not food

A blind husband is a good husband. Enjoy your beta

Keepamsafe:
A blind husband is a good husband. Enjoy your beta

Thank you!

spiceadole:
Na him Sabi.
I have gotten the most important thing I ever wanted from marriage.

We don't live in Nigeria, between.
Here, sex is not easy to get like in Nigeria because people are not hungry like back home where a man can sleep with a girl because he bought her food.

Just see a typical Nigerian woman mentality.

Since you have gotten the most important thing you ever wanted from marriage, why still remain in the marriage?

So once a lady does not live in Nigeria with her husband, suddenly it is time to punish him because "there, sex is not easy to get like in Nigeria, because people are not hungry like back home, where a man can sleep with a girl, because he bought her food?"

Life is all about choice!!!!!!!!

Men resonating in beta frequency are dead while alive in their marriage. You can imagine the unhappy life they live without respect and dignity .

They are usually the women in their home, I don’t blame the women cos the men usually give their masculinity to their wife out of pleasing.

Never trade your masculinity for anything cos your wife and kids will always resent and hate you for it.

Every woman deserves a man that kindle the feminine in her as wife.

Life is sweet and beautiful with the right woman as a man.

U

spiceadole:
And after the wedding, the lady chooses when to sleep with you.
This year, I haven't had sex.. I'm married, I live with my husband.
I can stay for the rest of my life without having sex.
Can he? Definitely not!

And he tell u he can not get it outside?

spiceadole:
And after the wedding, the lady chooses when to sleep with you.
This year, I haven't had sex.. I'm married, I live with my husband.
I can stay for the rest of my life without having sex.
Can he? Definitely not!

You just came to rage-bait right?
You can't actually be serious, right?

Twenty8:
You just came to rage-bait right?
You can't actually be serious, right?

Even if she is serious, that's her headache. So long as her husband is comfortable with it. It's fine.

Keepamsafe:
When I bumped into this thread and stumbled on her comment and how proud she was displaying she married a weak man. I shook my head in disappointment.



Women naturally are highly sexual beings. A woman in her pure state that loves a man, will Fvck the shit out of him. Only his presence makes her wet.

But here you can see this married woman as she said she is, weaponizing sex to a so called husband. Lol. I don’t pity the man. Shes lucky she married a pushover.

NO WIFE OF MINE WILL TRY SUCH WITH ME.

Imagine your wife coming out to say such trash and boldly for that matter.

Puke

Exactly. It was her who picked him and not the other way round. She only expertly manipulated him into thinking and believing he was choosing a wife, whereas a wife was choosing him based on his weak attributes

spiceadole:
And after the wedding, the lady chooses when to sleep with you.
This year, I haven't had sex.. I'm married, I live with my husband.
I can stay for the rest of my life without having sex.
Can he? Definitely not!

Your husband is a weak man. You can't try that with all men.

Or maybe he is even running his package with younger attractive ladies outside and you thought you're starving him sex

If not, he can still send you out and marry younger pretty lady. Which man will go for you if your man send you out? When there are alot of single young ladies everywhere.

Una no dey like use una head. Later you start crying and cursing all men as bad people while you bleeped yourself up.

spiceadole:
And after the wedding, the lady chooses when to sleep with you.
This year, I haven't had sex.. I'm married, I live with my husband.
I can stay for the rest of my life without having sex.
Can he? Definitely not!

many single, young chicks are outside, ready to give him for free, and are already doing that, hence he's not interested in your xoochie wey head don pass

Leilanjleeane:
many single, young chicks are outside, ready to give him for free

Lol.
Who cares?
Only him will deal with his infections

Bendeco02:
Your husband is a weak man. You can't try that with all men.

Or maybe he is even running his package with younger attractive ladies outside and you thought you're starving him sex

If not, he can still send you out and marry younger pretty lady. Which man will go for you if your man send you out? When there are alot of single young ladies everywhere.

Una no dey like use una head. Later you start crying and cursing all men as bad people while you bleeped yourself up.

Send me out of where? My house? Lol.

I don't stop him from sleeping aroud as long as he doesn't do it under my roof.

Them use sex curse men?
Everytime sex.

Even if their wives give them sex everyday,they will still go outside.
Better for me if he is running his package outside because I don't like when he disturbs me for sex.
Sex is not food.

spiceadole:
Send me out of where? My house? Lol.

I don't stop him from sleeping aroud as long as he doesn't do it under my roof.

Them use sex curse men?
Everytime sex.

Even if their wives give them sex everyday,they will still go outside.
Better for me if he is running his package outside because I don't like when he disturbs me for sex.
Sex is not food.

To most men, sex is more preferable to food.

Ask yourself, if a man goes out to eat. How much is the highest he can spend on one time food?

And if a man goes out to get sex. How much is the highest he can spend on one time sex?

That is your answer.

spiceadole:
Send me out of where? My house? Lol.

I don't stop him from sleeping aroud as long as he doesn't do it under my roof.

Them use sex curse men?
Everytime sex.

Even if their wives give them sex everyday,they will still go outside.
Better for me if he is running his package outside because I don't like when he disturbs me for sex.
Sex is not food.

Funny

You switched the topic to sex and I replied you on that aspect.

You just confirmed why the man is taking the rubbish from you because you're more financially stable than him.

Remove the money and know if he will still keep you as his wife with your attitude.

Bendeco02:
Funny

You switched the topic to sex and I replied you on that aspect.

You just confirmed why the man is taking the rubbish from you because you're more financially stable than him.

Remove the money and know if he will still keep you as his wife with your attitude.

I saw that from her very first comment and I smiled.

Bendeco02:
Funny

You switched the topic to sex and I replied you on that aspect.

You just confirmed why the man is taking the rubbish from you because you're more financially stable than him.

Remove the money and know if he will still keep you as his wife with your attitude.

Money stops nonsense!
In the contract of marriage, there MUST be a victim.
I refuse to be the victim.

spiceadole:
Money stops nonsense!
In the contract of marriage, there MUST be a victim.
I refuse to be the victim.

lol. Hand go still touch you. I love your confidence though.