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Love800:
Yea you are partially right.

When in their prime, the whites body is in good condition and allure compare to black.

You want to contrast how whites take care of their bodies and dietary supplements with blacks that eat without food menu!

Talking about sexiness, curves, i prefer the whites kind. Tiny body, tiny curve. Less folding of flesh.

Search sweden and see tantalising waistlines. Not these huge pound of flesh with craters we usually admire here.

A large number of men tell them that. They see that some other men reject them. And they keep trying to favor their obesity and present it as beauty. An obese woman can only be popular in some primitive tribe that is 500 years behind civilization.

Hardly you see an african woman with toned body.
Well i guess due to our geography(continent) we are wired to love dense figures.

I appreciate.

goran3310:
A large number of men tell them that. They see that some other men reject them. And they keep trying to favor their obesity and present it as beauty. An obese woman can only be popular in some primitive tribe that is 500 years behind civilization.

goran3310:
A large number of men tell them that. They see that some other men reject them. And they keep trying to favor their obesity and present it as beauty. An obese woman can only be popular in some primitive tribe that is 500 years behind civilization.

And the irony is, these black women abroad would not want to date a black man....they prefer caucasians that detest them or see them as mere sex objects.

How would you know when you barely touch grass. come to reykjavik, all the black women here are either dating or married to white men. you hardly see any black single woman in europe except she's cuckoo cuckoo.

Love800:
Hardly you see an african woman with toned body.
Well i guess due to our geography(continent) we are wired to love dense figures.

I appreciate.

You are not programmed; it’s just what’s being offered to you and you accept it. Being overweight was considered fashionable and attractive 500 years ago in European courts, and that applied exclusively to men. Being an overweight woman wasn’t acceptable even then. Only in rural areas, where hard physical labor was common, was an overweight woman considered acceptable—and that disappeared about 100 years ago. It’s not just about appearance, but also about the person’s character. Overall, obesity provokes disgust.

Nice one.

I appreciate.

goran3310:
You are not programmed; it’s just what’s being offered to you and you accept it. Being overweight was considered fashionable and attractive 500 years ago in European courts, and that applied exclusively to men. Being an overweight woman wasn’t acceptable even then. Only in rural areas, where hard physical labor was common, was an overweight woman considered acceptable—and that disappeared about 100 years ago. It’s not just about appearance, but also about the person’s character. Overall, obesity provokes disgust.

Why focus only on “white people”? There are plenty of Asians. There are Black people. There are countless South Americans.

Kaczynski:
How would you know when you barely touch grass. come to reykjavik, all the black women here are either dating or married to white men. you hardly see any black single woman in europe except she's cuckoo cuckoo.

The reality is this: 3–4% of Black women can marry white men. That’s it. There are plenty of Black men, Asians, Brazilians…

Some of you sabi conclude sha

Who told you that white men don't like dating black women ni?

Maybe Latinas and asian women are more attractive to majority of them but that doesn't mean they don't like black women.

Black women that are married to whites are many as well.

But is like white women are sweeter.

Base on nacking experience I had. Fair girls sweet pass dark girls sha, maybe that's apply to white ladies as well.

Now let me respond.
The problem isn’t skin color. The problem is everything.
Character, temperament, behavior, habits, way of thinking. Everything.
All of that MUST change. Because the point is not for me to degrade myself, but for her to rise. I shouldn’t become a white black man, but she should become a black white woman.

Here, most people look at the issue on a childish level, very superficially—physical appearance.
Physical appearance is extremely important. Even more important is what’s “inside,” what’s in the head. No traces of black culture are desirable. For example: when you speak, you speak calmly, without making grimaces. Without nodding your head. Without waving your hands around. Without emotion.

Culture. Behavior. All of that needs to be copied and fully adopted.
If we were to compare the body to an animal’s, it should be the body of a cheetah, not the body of a hippopotamus. Obesity causes disgust. Obesity is a symbol of weak character, laziness, lack of self-respect—and if you don’t respect yourself, how will you respect someone else—it’s a symbol of weak character. All of that is contrary to the values of white society.

If I were choosing a woman for myself, I would always choose one from the countryside. Because she is a blank white sheet of paper onto which what MUST be copied can be transferred, rather than a girl from the city.

Here. This one could be a project. With a lot of effort and intensive, serious work, in 3–4 years she could be turned into a woman no one would be ashamed of.
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Devdevdev:
I have done some travelling in recent months and most especially I've interacted with black women from my extended family and from my remote work who live in different foreign countries, and we all feel the same on the issue

Why is it hard for a black woman to find partners from other races? Why is it that when a white guy wants to date outside of his race, he would rather date an Asian lady or an Indian lady or a Latina.

We black women are equally as beautiful too. We even have better bodies than these other women yet these men would rather date women with flat buttocks and small breasts

Some of my friends are very intelligent and very educated. They speak well and are well mannered. I really struggle to see why they don't can't asked out by foreign men

The problem is that you don’t understand that beauty means different things to different cultures and that should be the first thing you should understand. You just made a statement here that is factually incorrect that those Asian women have small butt and small breast, well those other cultures don’t see any beauty in any of these. Secondly , black women are too loud and noisy, only black men can manage them

Samantha125:
Some still do get married to them... But I think they mostly go for Asians due to similarities in physical features.

Or they probably just don't find black or African women attractive, I mean why get a black or African woman with fake Asian or native American hair when you can get yourself a real deal?

I still don’t understand why African women wear fake hairs till today when they have a beautiful hair

I guess it's because it's high maintenance and time consuming, not everyone knows how to work with it... I had to learn to do my own hair myself because most hairstylists would only subject it to too much tension and breakage, I was even starting to develop traction alopecia.

And natural African hair salons can also be quite scarce.

Bogusmoney:
I still don’t understand why African women wear fake hairs till today when they have a beautiful hair

If by black women you mean black American women, then hell yes, that is true. But if by black, you mean Africans, Caribbeans, etc., that is not true.

EmperorIsaac:
And the irony is, these black women abroad would not want to date a black man....they prefer caucasians that detest them or see them as mere sex objects.

This is not true.

The black women who usually prefer white men are mostly freshers, especially those who associate white men with a higher socio-economic upgrade.

But usually, after they have experienced white men and all their issues, they revert to black men. most black women aren't into white men. The stats speak for themselves.

pansophist:
This is not true.

The black women who usually prefer white men are mostly freshers, especially those who associate white men with a higher socio-economic upgrade.

But usually, after they have experienced white men and all their issues, they revert to black men. most black women aren't into white men. The stats speak for themselves.

It’s not about any problems, but about adaptation—more precisely, a lack of willingness to change and adapt. You can be attractive and desirable to me, but I don’t want your culture or your cultural-social pattern.

Devdevdev:
I have done some travelling in recent months and most especially I've interacted with black women from my extended family and from my remote work who live in different foreign countries, and we all feel the same on the issue

Some of my friends are very intelligent and very educated. They speak well and are well mannered. I really struggle to see why they don't can't asked out by foreign men

Maybe these Black women should learn to understand that human beings are tribal and would prefer people who look like them. Why is this hard to grasp? Lovey-dovey ideologies have made many believe the world is kumbayayayaya. It is a lie.

Why is it hard for a black woman to find partners from other races? Why is it that when a white guy wants to date outside of his race, he would rather date an Asian lady or an Indian lady or a Latina.

His choice and I think slavery/colonialism also contributed. Some don't want Black blood in their lineages.

We black women are equally as beautiful too. We even have better bodies than these other women yet these men would rather date women with flat buttocks and small breasts

No, you don't have better bodies simply because they prefer those with smaller breasts and flatter yansh. Their women have those features, so if they must go outside, those women should have them as well as personal traits. A Japanese/East Asian man who has been used to flat yansh all in his life isn't going to suddenly start liking big yansh or big breasts. Those features could either intimidate or disgust him.

Another thing is economics. In the US, you have more Asian women with White men than Black women with White men. The class feature has it that both went to the same schools, work in the same companies and live in the same neighbourhoods. Naturally, they would pair up. For Asians as a whole group (West, South, Southeast and East), they are not fond of Black people. So, why should their men marry Black women?

p.s. East African women have it better with White men. Or maybe because East African women aren't so high on the big yansh, big breasts rank.

Black people should learn to understand that humans prefer their type, and if they go outside, they look at the economics. Is the Nigerian passport stronger than that of Canada? Does the child have better educational options in Nigeria? How many biracial children birthed by Nigerian men live, study and work in Nigeria as adults compared to their mothers' countries?

Hungrychicken:
Not going to lie, I prefer that white woman figure type, portable ass and boobs, to what we have around here, big ass and big boobs.

Also, Africa has lost its respect, we’re now looked at as a poor and inferior race of human.
While, our women as always shaking their ass on the internet and being ratchet without any interlects or interesting personality only good for sexual pleasures and nothing more. Same with the men, BBC, thats all and not very good for raising kids with great future prospects.

White women do worse. They dominate OnlyFans and Co.

If we had African Nations doing exceptionally well, less corruption, violence and social vices and contributing more towards the human race, in every sector. I bet you, everybody would want to associate with us. We'd be the hot cake that everyone wants a piece of.

This is the main reason, and even the reason African American women would be preferable to Black African women, because of that American connection.

Love800:
OP you said African women has great bodies than white women. Jokes!

Is it those fats and flesh sagging down your waist that you called great!, Lol.

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Some of my friends and I prefer Black women. Others don't after encountering women with flat stomachs. But I don't fancy women with flat yansh and ridiculously tiny breasts.

Interestingly, the Black women I have seen with White men are slim to the core. Like, very slim and fit!

So Codedruns.com now places ads on Nairaland?

Thank God for growth!

Devdevdev:
I have done some travelling in recent months and most especially I've interacted with black women from my extended family and from my remote work who live in different foreign countries, and we all feel the same on the issue

Why is it hard for a black woman to find partners from other races? Why is it that when a white guy wants to date outside of his race, he would rather date an Asian lady or an Indian lady or a Latina.

We black women are equally as beautiful too. We even have better bodies than these other women yet these men would rather date women with flat buttocks and small breasts

Some of my friends are very intelligent and very educated. They speak well and are well mannered. I really struggle to see why they don't can't asked out by foreign men

So you think big ass and boobs make a black woman more beautiful?

Dshocker:
So you think big ass and boobs make a black woman more beautiful?

That guy lack experience on women.

Big ass and boobs are only attractive for eye when covered with clothes. If most women with big nyash remove their clothes, you loose interest.

Portable ass or slim girls are sweeter on bed and their shape is more attractive when nacked.

Samantha125:
I guess it's because it's high maintenance and time consuming, not everyone knows how to work with it... I had to learn to do my own hair myself because most hairstylists would only subject it to too much tension and breakage, I was even starting to develop traction alopecia.

And natural African hair salons can also be quite scarce.

While your reasons may be understandable, I also do think that the time spent to maintain the fake hairs can also be spent maintaining the natural hair. It is not like you won’t maintain the fake hair. That’s my point

Am making a conclusion on toned waist, and not the kind of flat you are imagining.

Well stretch lines, whistling-spine-curves, chiseled abdomen.

I appreciate.

Gerrard59:
Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Some of my friends and I prefer Black women. Others don't after encountering women with flat stomachs. But I don't fancy women with flat yansh and ridiculously tiny breasts.

Interestingly, the Black women I have seen with White men are slim to the core. Like, very slim and fit!

The time spent on maintaining wigs is not as time consuming as the time spent on maintaining African hair, it's a whole process that can take hours... Unlike wigs that you can easily detangle with only a comb and get on with your day, with African hair, you have to detangle it in small sections with water, comb, and a detangler... And you have to be very careful when dealing with it to avoid breakage because it's very fragile.

When you go to bed, you have to style it a certain way to prevent it from getting tangled all over again by the following day... As if that's not enough, if you exposed it to too much heat, it'll be heat damaged, leaving you with no other option but to either shave it off or trim the damaged hair out... Braiding yourself is also tiring as the arms get exhausted, you have to make sure that your parts are smooth and straight... My husband usually helps me with parting my hair, it's his department since he also prefers his woman either natural or with braids...

Not every woman has the energy to do all these things and it's very much unfortunate that many of our African hairstylists are not knowledgeable in working with African hair while the few natural hair salons that are around are not only scarce, but super expensive... One stylist once sent me away reason being that my hair was too long and silky for her to work with, my hair was at its natural state and the stylist is an African woman... Personally, I don't like wigs, I've never owned one before, but I understand why some women would prefer wigs over natural hair.

Bogusmoney:
While your reasons may be understandable, I also do think that the time spent to maintain the fake hairs can also be spent maintaining the natural hair. It is not like you won’t maintain the fake hair. That’s my point

People are still talking about African hairstyles, wigs (!!!??), big butts and boobs, fat legs.
Everything has already been said.

WOW!!! 🫤

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Devdevdev:
I'm specifically referring to serious relationships that usually lead to marriage, as opposed to flings or hookups that lead to pregnancy

Obara EMA!
This is strategic mpiasa🙉🙉🙉

May be it’s because of that perception they have always had about black race and Africans— poor, dirty, not civilized, nothing brought to table, stack cultural differences etc.

VanuatuWycombe:
May be it’s because of that perception they have always had about black race and Africans— poor, dirty, not civilized, nothing brought to table, stack cultural differences etc.

Is it true?