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Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by Ibtxxo(op): 5:41pm On Apr 10
I gave a woman 500k to start a business for me on agreement she will be paying me weekly.
This girl ate the money within one month.
Can u imagine she finish 500k under one month.
It is hard to see girl who value money
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by educatedfool: 5:57pm On Apr 10
Ibtxxo:
I gave a woman 500k to start a business for me on agreement she will be paying me weekly.
This girl ate the money within one month.
Can u imagine she finish 500k under one month.
It is hard to see girl who value money
starts business for you huh
Na your fault
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by SporaD8: 7:04pm On Apr 10
"Money is created to be spent!" That's the mentality of Nigerian banny.
Investment, saving or frugality makes no sense to them.
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by Gotocourt: 8:04pm On Apr 10
Ibtxxo:
I gave a woman 500k to start a business for me on agreement she will be paying me weekly.
This girl ate the money within one month.
Can u imagine she finish 500k under one month.
It is hard to see girl who value money
Broda wey no get sense. Hips and breast confuse you 😅🤣😂.
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by Tenrack: 8:20pm On Apr 10
Ibtxxo:
I gave a woman 500k to start a business for me on agreement she will be paying me weekly.
This girl ate the money within one month.
Can u imagine she finish 500k under one month.
It is hard to see girl who value money
I for call you mumu but I've been there. No try am again
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by Tenrack: 8:21pm On Apr 10
SporaD8:
"Money is created to be spent!" That's the mentality of Nigerian banny.
Investment, saving or frugality makes no sense to them.
as long as no be their money.
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by Dshocker(m): 8:42pm On Apr 10
Ibtxxo:
I gave a woman 500k to start a business for me on agreement she will be paying me weekly.
This girl ate the money within one month.
Can u imagine she finish 500k under one month.
It is hard to see girl who value money
She wise pass you, aje.
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by ridwintin89(m): 12:01am On Apr 11
You are not serious.

Which business you want 500k to do.

Did you expect her to start selling pepper or vegetables in the market.

You suppose man up and make the money to be 5 millions above.

She could rent a place and start something serious and reasonable.

Stop putting people in trouble in the name of helping them.

Be serious guy.
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by ViceGovernor: 2:01am On Apr 11
Repeat after me in Jagaban"s voice " we must learn a lesson,"
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by KhalifaJay(m): 2:08am On Apr 11
If na man ask you now for 50k, you go start to tell him how tinubu is causing more harm on the country
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by Equal2DeTask(m): 7:46am On Apr 11
KhalifaJay:
If na man ask you now for 50k, you go start to tell him how tinubu is causing more harm on the country
You are saying a different thing here.....did he dash her the money....it was meant for a business.....
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by EmmyMaestro(m): 8:59am On Apr 11
How much did you give your mother
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by ARISHEM: 9:01am On Apr 11
Ibtxxo:
I gave a woman 500k to start a business for me on agreement she will be paying me weekly.
This girl ate the money within one month.
Can u imagine she finish 500k under one month.
It is hard to see girl who value money
You are very funny. You gave a woman money to start a business for you and not for herself. Who do you think you are to her.
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by Sirhush(m): 9:03am On Apr 11
Next time keep the money to your self, or invest in your self
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by Oracleee: 9:55am On Apr 11
Ibtxxo:
I gave a woman 500k to start a business for me on agreement she will be paying me weekly.
This girl ate the money within one month.
Can u imagine she finish 500k under one month.
It is hard to see girl who value money
As a man building towards a goal, one thing I’ve come to understand is this, you must be very careful what external forces you allow into your life, especially women.

Before anyone misunderstands, this is not hatred or generalization. This is about alignment.
The truth is, not every woman can handle a man in his building phase. In fact, out of 10 women, you might not even be able to allow 2 into your life at that stage not because they are bad people, but because they are not aligned with your purpose, your discipline, or your direction.
At the level where you’re trying to move from, say, 7/10 to higher levels in life, distractions are costly. Emotional instability, mental stress, and financial pressure can slow you down or completely derail your progress.

Emotional abuse exists
Mental pressure exists
Financial irresponsibility exists
And these things affects outcomes.


I’ve also experienced this personally. I was in a situation where my finances dropped from 100 to 40 because I was in a relationship. At that point, I had to make a decision, hold on to something that felt like love, or protect the future I’m trying to build.
And I chose my future.
Good intentions are not enough, Feelings are not enough.
So now, I approach relationships differently
I believe in intentional and structured relationships
I believe in clear boundaries and accountability
I believe not everyone deserves access to your resources, time, or energy
And yes, I believe in prenuptial agreements out of understanding of the value of what I’m building.

This is not about avoiding women. It’s about understanding that access to a man’s life especially one with purpose must be earned through alignment, discipline, and value.
Because the wrong person can slow you down.
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by Oracleee: 9:55am On Apr 11
Ibtxxo:
I gave a woman 500k to start a business for me on agreement she will be paying me weekly.
This girl ate the money within one month.
Can u imagine she finish 500k under one month.
It is hard to see girl who value money
As a man building towards a goal, one thing I’ve come to understand is this, you must be very careful what external forces you allow into your life, especially women.

Before anyone misunderstands, this is not hatred or generalization. This is about alignment.
The truth is, not every woman can handle a man in his building phase. In fact, out of 10 women, you might not even be able to allow 2 into your life at that stage not because they are bad people, but because they are not aligned with your purpose, your discipline, or your direction.
At the level where you’re trying to move from, say, 7/10 to higher levels in life, distractions are costly. Emotional instability, mental stress, and financial pressure can slow you down or completely derail your progress.

Emotional abuse exists
Mental pressure exists
Financial irresponsibility exists
And these things affects outcomes.


I’ve also experienced this personally. I was in a situation where my finances dropped from 100 to 40 because I was in a relationship. At that point, I had to make a decision, hold on to something that felt like love, or protect the future I’m trying to build.
And I chose my future.
Good intentions are not enough, Feelings are not enough.
So now, I approach relationships differently
I believe in intentional and structured relationships
I believe in clear boundaries and accountability
I believe not everyone deserves access to your resources, time, or energy
And yes, I believe in prenuptial agreements out of understanding of the value of what I’m building.

This is not about avoiding women. It’s about understanding that access to a man’s life especially one with purpose must be earned through alignment, discipline, and value.
Because the wrong person will slow you down.
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by marlow1962(m): 10:08am On Apr 11
Is there anything like written agreement? If no, you be ozzor.
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by ManknowThyself(m): 10:49am On Apr 11
Oracleee:
As a man building towards a goal, one thing I’ve come to understand is this, you must be very careful what external forces you allow into your life, especially women.

Before anyone misunderstands, this is not hatred or generalization. This is about alignment.
The truth is, not every woman can handle a man in his building phase. In fact, out of 10 women, you might not even be able to allow 2 into your life at that stage not because they are bad people, but because they are not aligned with your purpose, your discipline, or your direction.
At the level where you’re trying to move from, say, 7/10 to higher levels in life, distractions are costly. Emotional instability, mental stress, and financial pressure can slow you down or completely derail your progress.

Emotional abuse exists
Mental pressure exists
Financial irresponsibility exists
And these things affects outcomes.


I’ve also experienced this personally. I was in a situation where my finances dropped from 100 to 40 because I was in a relationship. At that point, I had to make a decision, hold on to something that felt like love, or protect the future I’m trying to build.
And I chose my future.
Good intentions are not enough, Feelings are not enough.
So now, I approach relationships differently
I believe in intentional and structured relationships
I believe in clear boundaries and accountability
I believe not everyone deserves access to your resources, time, or energy
And yes, I believe in prenuptial agreements out of understanding of the value of what I’m building.

This is not about avoiding women. It’s about understanding that access to a man’s life especially one with purpose must be earned through alignment, discipline, and value.
Because the wrong person can slow you down.
A man truly aligned with purpose of clarity, never give women access.

Only women resonating in his frequency get access with respect and dignity.


Your messages are clear but only those with clarity will understand and be grateful.
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by ExudeLoveToAll: 11:44am On Apr 11
I for head butt you if you be my brother, men mumu no be small.
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by Oracleee: 1:27pm On Apr 11
ManknowThyself:
A man truly aligned with purpose of clarity, never give women access.

Only women resonating in his frequency get access with respect and dignity.


Your messages are clear but only those with clarity will understand and be grateful.
Glad you saw the sense in it.
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by WatchYourSix:
Tenrack:
as long as no be their money.
Woman say she want bone straight wig for birthday present:…cost na 900k
…. Guy man credit am the money….

Now that the money is in her account ….she open her mouth say shes finding difficult to debit her self 900k to buy ordinary wig…… na now she realised say na ordinary wig
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by untoldtruth: 1:51pm On Apr 11
The calibre of the women you know says a lot about you but no be for face them they write am.
There's only one woman I know wey go I go give money to start business with my full chest because I know even if the business fails, my money go return intact because she was never broke or poor to begin with and na integrity and self respect she carry for head which is why she's able to move things at the speed she does.
Observe women first, you see all those social media, wig wearing, fast fashion Feminazis that don't have a clear source of income, stay away from them.
Na person wey know the struggle of the hustle go respect your money cause they know how hard it is.
Sorry o, a 500k lesson is an expensive one but pele, you hear.
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by Tenrack: 4:09pm On Apr 11
WatchYourSix:
Women say she want bone straight wig for birthday present:…cost na 900k
…. Guy man credit am the money….

Now that the money is in her account ….she open her mouth say shes finding difficult to debit her self 900k to buy ordinary wig…… na now she realised say na ordinary wig
Omo ehn. Those creatures ehn.
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by FreeSpirited: 4:29pm On Apr 11
Ibtxxo:
I gave a woman 500k to start a business for me on agreement she will be paying me weekly.
This girl ate the money within one month.
Can u imagine she finish 500k under one month.
It is hard to see girl who value money
You probably first formed a romantic relationship then , out of the sex and emotions you thought you could help her and at same time get some profit... Lol. I hope you learned your lesson.
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If you want to help a woman that way, don't form any romantic interest because immediately you do that, she will already feel entitled to your money and no matter how much you gave her, she will lavish it, after all, u are like a rich boyfriend in her mind, worse come to worse, she will believe she can use sex to pay you back......
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Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by goran3310(m): 6:25pm On Apr 11
I really don’t know what kind of business can be started with 500,000 naira.
Selling vegetables at a market? Selling drugs on the street? What is she supposed to do?

And why would she be starting a business for you? You say she’s starting it in your name. If you had given her 10 million to begin something more serious and realistic with a real chance of success, then fine—if it works, it works; if it fails, it fails.

Your thinking operates on very strange frequencies. You didn’t mention whether she had any kind of plan. You didn’t mention anything at all—you’re just shocked that she managed to spend the entire 500,000 naira.
Re: Why Are Women Very Reckless And Extravagant (dating) by KhalifaJay(m): 12:08am On Apr 12
Equal2DeTask:
You are saying a different thing here.....did he dash her the money....it was meant for a business.....
It's still the same nigga
Let his homies ask then you will see excuses fly up and down
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