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Ok. Let me admit this.

I've had sex mistakenly once. It was so sweet, yet it left me with painful memories that I'll never forget. Since then I promise myself never to have sex again.

Now, I'm 36. No real relationship. I'm just scared. People around me think I don't like to vibe with ladies, but they're wrong.

Once bitten. Twice shy. They say. This has been with me for so many years now. I can't tell anyone.

Here is the story.

While in my final year in a college of education (NCE 3) finals, I had this hausa girl I loved so much. I was really crushing on her. She wasn't really hausa. She is from one of these minor tribes in the north. But this girl too set. Black beauty with good curves, pointed nose and so cheeky. Her smile would even make you forget your name. I had known her since our NCE1.

We were in the same school, but different departments. I have always had this crush on her, but I found an opportunity to express myself during our finals.

There was this course we had together, and some how, I linked up with her since she needed help on the course and I understood the course (related to statistics), so we blend along and I found out that she also had a crush on me, but she couldn't speak out.

To cut the story short, on the night before the course exam day, we were rehearsing...

Better come back and finish the story make thunder no come reason your matter

4 more years and you would be a 40 year old virgin...


A few more years and you would break his record.

Keep it up. You are doing well!

Continuation...

So we had sex that night. After the sex, she called me in a very calm voice and said, "I have HIV."


With that statement she left. For 2 weeks she couldn't talk to me. I, on the other hand, was confused and perplexed. So many thoughts were going through my mind.

I started having fear, fever, and cold.

I began to research on the early symptoms of HIV which include fever, night sweats, etc. Funny enough, I was having those. My heart beat rose up. I practically dimished!

Finally...

I went to fasting and praying and told God that if He delivers me from this trouble, I will never have anything to do with sexual relationships before marriage.

Later on, she decided to talk to me.

She then said I was accusing her of having HIV.

Hmmm...


I went and did test. It was negative.

We had a misunderstanding and stopped talking to eachother.

Later on, her phone number became unreachable. Few months later, I coudn't reach her facebook profile any longer.

I then promised myself, "NEVER EVER to have sex with a woman until I'm sure of the person."

Since then, whenever I'm playing with a lady and it got to the sex part, I become too unwilling to engage.

I'm just glad you never got to make this happen.

funnyDM:
MY DECISION
I'd invite her to my house on Sunday, fvck her pussy HARD, and in the next two days, dump her sorry a.rse!

WHAT LATER HAPPENED

Dude! Go for Hiv test!

budaatum:
I'm just glad you never got to make this happen.



Dude! Go for Hiv test!

This happened over 12 years ago. I went for a HIV test then. It was negative.

funnyDM:
This happened over 12 years ago. I went for a HIV test then. It was negative.

Go do follow up test!

Your story get wọwọ since you claim the "she called me in a very calm voice and said, "I have HIV", " then said I was accusing her of having HIV".

budaatum:
Go do follow up test!

Your story get wọwọ since you claim the "she called me in a very calm voice and said, "I have HIV", " then said I was accusing her of having HIV".

Well, I'm not feeling like someone with HIV. I'm strong, healthy, and ok. I'm not on any meds.

Why do you think the story get wowo? That was her statements, which made me to sever ties with her...

Welcome to Nairaland, where someone will wake up and decide to waste your time for no reason.

funnyDM:
Ok. Let me admit this.

I've had sex mistakenly once. It was so sweet, yet it left me with painful memories that I'll never forget. Since then I promise myself never to have sex again.

Now, I'm 36. No real relationship. I'm just scared. People around me think I don't like to vibe with ladies, but they're wrong.

Once bitten. Twice shy. They say. This has been with me for so many years now. I can't tell anyone.

Here is the story.

While in my final year in a college of education (NCE 3) finals, I had this hausa girl I loved so much. I was really crushing on her. She wasn't really hausa. She is from one of these minor tribes in the north. But this girl too set. Black beauty with good curves, pointed nose and so cheeky. Her smile would even make you forget your name. I had known her since our NCE1.

We were in the same school, but different departments. I have always had this crush on her, but I found an opportunity to express myself during our finals.

There was this course we had together, and some how, I linked up with her since she needed help on the course and I understood the course (related to statistics), so we blend along and I found out that she also had a crush on me, but she couldn't speak out.

To cut the story short, on the night before the course exam day, we were rehearsing...

everything Nigerians say against Tinubu will come upon you if you don't finish this story

Bittersweetnig:
everything Nigerians say against Tinubu will come upon you if you don't finish this story

This is proof that
Humans or nigerian are pleasure over sanity.

meobizy:
Welcome to Nairaland, where someone will wake up and decide to waste your time for no reason.

How did reading the story become a waste of time?

Your decision is good. God has forgiven you..but you are old.enough to marry. Pray, look.for a reasonable girl and marry her. Age is no longer on your side

funnyDM:
Finally...

I went to fasting and praying and told God that if He delivers me from this trouble, I will never have anything to do with sexual relationships before marriage.

Later on, she decided to talk to me.

She then said I was accusing her of having HIV.

Hmmm...


I went and did test. It was negative.

We had a misunderstanding and stopped talking to eachother.

Later on, her phone number became unreachable. Few months later, I coudn't reach her facebook profile any longer.

I then promised myself, "NEVER EVER to have sex with a woman until I'm sure of the person."

Since then, whenever I'm playing with a lady and it got to the sex part, I become too unwilling to engage.

You had sex with a lady you aren’t married to without condoms, am I right?

Lies!

Hiv won't stop you from having more sex

Another episode on THINGS THAT NEVER HAPPENED.

funnyDM:
...

After the sex, she called me in a very calm voice and said, "I have HIV."

With that statement she left.

She was face to face with you telling you she had HIV right after sex...

Abeg tell me another thing

bukiah:
Your decision is good. God has forgiven you..but you are old.enough to marry. Pray, look.for a reasonable girl and marry her. Age is no longer on your side

What do you mean age is no longer on his side?
He is a man, not a woman.
He is just 36.
At 70,he can still marry a 20 year old lady and impregnate her.
Man is always the prize.
Men don't age

Oga there's no minor tribe in Nigeria. No tribe is better than another

AllBlack:
She was face to face with you telling you she had HIV right after sex...

Abeg tell me another thing

Yeah... She did. Some ladies could be bold though.

I still wonder what gave her the audacity to utter such words.

spiceadole:
What do you mean age is no longer on his side?
He is a man, not a woman.
He is just 36.
At 70,he can still marry a 20 year old lady and impregnate her.
Man is always the prize.
Men don't age

No sister. I got to settle down soon.

stan4b:
Another episode on THINGS THAT NEVER HAPPENED.

If you want, I can tell you her name, tribe, and state 🤷🤷🤷

koladata:
Oga there's no minor tribe in Nigeria. No tribe is better than another

Minority is not a condescending statement; Minion is.

Dey mumu unaself
Men can marry at 70. Then wait till 70 before you marry and see how useless your life will become.
So who will help you take care of those children you give birth to in old age?.

spiceadole:
What do you mean age is no longer on his side?
He is a man, not a woman.
He is just 36.
At 70,he can still marry a 20 year old lady and impregnate her.
Man is always the prize.
Men don't age

bukiah:
Dey mumu unaself
Men can marry at 70. Then wait till 70 before you marry and see how useless your life will become.
So who will help you take care of those children you give birth to in old age?.

Na Una dey brag say men don't grow old.
Only women age.
A 70 years old man is younger than a 30 year old woman.
A man can marry even in his grave at 100 years and still have children.
He will marry 7 wives under 25 years to take care of the children..
It's always a win for men

funnyDM:
No sister. I got to settle down soon.

And I hope by that, you don't mean marriage cos marriage is not for men o.
We have agreed on social media esp this site that men have nothing to benefit from getting married

spiceadole:
Na Una dey brag say men don't grow old.
Only women age.
A 70 years old man is younger than a 30 year old woman.
A man can marry even in his grave at 100 years and still have children.
He will marry 7 wives under 25 years to take care of the children..
It's always a win for men

I get your sarcasm now. Men are the prize

placeofallure:
I get your sarcasm now. Men are the prize

Men are the real prize.
Abi isn't that what they tell us?

spiceadole:
Men are the real prize.
Abi isn't that what they tell us?

Na so my sister.