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Love doesn’t suddenly disappear—it often shifts from excitement to routine.
The initial thrill fades, and what’s left can feel predictable or dull.
This “boredom” is usually a lack of novelty, effort, or emotional connection.
If ignored, it can lead to distance, resentment, or seeking excitement elsewhere.
But with intention and growth, it can evolve into deeper, more stable love.

Everything will fail period.

Love doesn't get boring all of a sudden

You were neglecting some evident signs


Hence the "boring" stage

Cheating starts
One person gets caught and the relationship is ended and another one is started and gets boring too and cheating also starts and one person gets caught and the cycle continues till you sleep with an entire state.

Such a Uzless generation

Spits

Hmmm....... okayyyyyy. okayyyyyy

Who pushed this to front page? People are busy surging and we shouldn’t really forget love matters.

If something tire you, move on. Life is too short to try and germinate a new seed out of a dead tree.

First to comment after almost 8yrs

oaktown101:
Everything will fail period.

Lol…love isn’t something that can be studied or that’s predictable..,,just be yourself

Everything get boring at some stage, I got even bored of getting drunk, I get bored of ashawo lifestyle, I get bored of smoking then I quite, even the video games I love then ,I played it once in a while, things get bored ,not only love

dhiqson:
Love doesn't get boring all of a sudden

You were neglecting some evident signs


Hence the "boring" stage

Signs like? Answer from both perspectives

In marriage:When intimacy stops....never underestimate 1-2 minute sex every morning......it help in bonding...

That rain for window dey make sleep catch me but I remember say no food for lazy man

b0rn2fuck:
Everything get boring at some stage, I got even bored of getting drunk, I get bored of ashawo lifestyle, I get bored of smoking then I quite, even the video games I love then ,I played it once in a while, things get bored ,not only love

Ogbeni, please go and buy Brighter Grammar asap

First to comment after about 6 people don comment be4 you abi

oaktown101:
First to comment after almost 8yrs

Love gets boring because modern women are lazy and low effort, if and when the man gets tired of performing for them, the connection dies.

The word "Love" comes from a place of sacrifice and work. You have to work it out...

Romantic love is a fallacy

This is the part where most live counsellors don't talk about . This is where love is tested and shaken to the max.

Currently I'm at this point and I pray we pass this point cos the way I'm seeing it we are not gonna make it .

jeff1993:
This is the part where most live counsellors don't talk about . This is where love is tested and shaken to the max.

Currently I'm at this point and I pray we pass this point cos the way I'm seeing it we are not gonna make it .

after how many months together?

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ReacherSaidNoth:
Love gets boring because modern women are lazy and low effort, if and when the man gets tired of performing for them, the connection dies.

My belle o!



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Just like every other thing,I think with time love shifts from being all that rosy to fighting through some challenges which can bring about doubt,lost of interest and needs fixing...what do you think about this?

dhiqson:
Love doesn't get boring all of a sudden

You were neglecting some evident signs


Hence the "boring" stage

Fine face, big yansh, big gbola, six packs and money is not love but lust. Just love yourself and you won't ask these questions

jeff1993:
This is the part where most live counsellors don't talk about . This is where love is tested and shaken to the max.

Currently I'm at this point and I pray we pass this point cos the way I'm seeing it we are not gonna make it .

Is this relationship or marriage?

Talk about it with your partner, show commitment and remember how you both started. If the other party is not willing to cooperate to make things work out for good... Life is too short to be a sadist.

Channel the energy into investing in yourself for the main time and do things that make you and you happy!
You are a conqueror.

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Haha,as much as you're right about most people confusing lust for love, but don't you think even true love sometimes needs refuelling?
Most times our emotion shifts due to many reasons and needs a sense of comfort, communication to be kept in check...what do you think about this?

Saidfx:
Fine face, big yansh, big gbola, six packs and money is not love but lust. Just love yourself and you won't ask these questions

If u're bore .... Try another type of soup after a while u'll regain teste for eugis again ..

Note : this is common in women than men

You quit!


I don't like wasting my time.

Love get expiring date. Once it gets to that point.. Everything gets boring. Na only your kids go come dey keep you going.. that's if you both are still together.

It's getting worse and will be worse with this generation,when cheating has become the order of the day.

Love certainly dwians with time due to unsupportive effort from one partner.

Again, unwillingness to relearn from the women especially after marriage kills love from the man and he begins to regret his move and starts looking outside.

Hence, the drop in care and romance

Love is a feeling, boredom is a state of mind whether we choose to admit it or not we ALL get to that point of feeling "bored" cos the world rotates

Its very normal to feel bored, cos even day most give way to the night thats life, there are times even davido is bored of chioma n vice versa ..thats state of mind in play not " LOVE"

Boredom stems from unhappiness, situations, something bothering you ... SO whats best to do is understand you are just going through the night and day we cum,
If you feel bored with your partners talk about it together, try new things together, talk about fantasy & explore more ...humans are fascinated with surprises, you must try

As your world rotates DAY will come

Fika01:
But with intention and growth, it can evolve into deeper, more stable love.

Life will continue and the world will still rotate. Simple.

donmik:
Love certainly dwians with time due to unsupportive effort from one partner.

which one be this again? please don't say it is TYPO