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There are some bitter truths that you must realize as a man, and the earlier you acknowledge them, the better it is for you.

1. The only man who wants you to be more successful than him is your father.

2. The only women who love you unconditionally are your mother and grandmother.

3. Whenever you see a random girl on the road or elsewhere, and she gives you greenlight, it is out of need and not attraction.

4. Never make either short-term or long-term plans with any woman that you are not married to. She probably has her plans that you do not know of.

5. The same society that tells you to stay away from romantic affairs when you are broke, will still tell you to abstain from cheating when you achieve financial success.

6. You cannot help the poor if you are one of them. Your circle can quickly sell out where you are heading to.

7. Your decisions are very important. They create the future. You already know where poor ones will lead you to.

8. When you start becoming successful in that struggling environment you grew up in, leave immediately for your own safety. A hungry man has no dignity.

9. When you meet a girl's father for the first time, the first thing he wants to know is what you do for a living. Dey play.

10. Don't accept help from people who want to carry you on their back, but your legs are still on the ground.

* You ain't totally correct, there are some fathers who don't want their children to surpass their achievement.

* Some mothers also don't love their children. We saw a thread here where a mother wanted to stab her daughter. If you meet a good woman she can love you more than the love your mother/grandmother has for you.

Because the person is your blood doesn't make them perfect or saints.

You cannot help the poor if you are one of them. Your circle can quickly sell out where you are heading to.

This made me laugh when I remember the story of Judas is carrot

9. When you meet a girl's father for the first time, the first thing he wants to know is what you do for a living. Dey play.


When you start your answer with "Actually" then her father loses interest

This is reality at its peak 😅

hmmmm.

Agriculture is life

No lies bro. Even your wife can have plans of her own without your knowledge.

Bahamas95:
* You ain't totally correct, there are some fathers who don't want their children to surpass their achievement.

* Some mothers also don't love their children. We saw a thread here where a mother wanted to stab her daughter. If you meet a good woman she can love you more than the love your mother/grandmother has for you.

Because the person is your blood doesn't make them perfect or saints.

God bless you for this post.

Mscheew...

All these cringe posts

You want to be a man?Then read the thread below from page 1 to 150

The End.

https://www.nairaland.com/6048178/reality-every-guy-need-know

What exactly do you mean with no. 10?

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Bahamas95:
* You ain't totally correct, there are some fathers who don't want their children to surpass their achievement.

* Some mothers also don't love their children. We saw a thread here where a mother wanted to stab her daughter. If you meet a good woman she can love you more than the love your mother/grandmother has for you.

Because the person is your blood doesn't make them perfect or saints.

For those fathers who do not want their children to surpass them, if you check very well, there is always a background story. Its either the children are not his, or they are moving in the wrong direction.
This also applies to the point you made about some mothers not loving their sons.Again, if you check very well, there is a back story.

@ OP, you forgot to add that sisters also love and can do anything for their brothers. Besides, blood they say, is thicker than water.

Rapmoney:
There are some bitter truths that you must realize as a man, and the earlier you acknowledge them, the better it is for you.

1. The only man who wants you to be more successful than him is your father.

2. The only women who love you unconditionally are your mother and grandmother.

3. Whenever you see a random girl on the road or elsewhere, and she gives you greenlight, it is out of need and not attraction.

4. Never make either short-term or long-term plans with any woman that you are not married to. She probably has her plans that you do not know of.

5. The same society that tells you to stay away from romantic affairs when you are broke, will still tell you to abstain from cheating when you achieve financial success.

6. You cannot help the poor if you are one of them. Your circle can quickly sell out where you are heading to.

7. Your decisions are very important. They create the future. You already know where poor ones will lead you to.

8. When you start becoming successful in that struggling environment you grew up in, leave immediately for your own safety. A hungry man has no dignity.

9. When you meet a girl's father for the first time, the first thing he wants to know is what you do for a living. Dey play.

10. Don't accept help from people who want to carry you on their back, but your legs are still on the ground.

Number 1 is not true. Your father is not the only man who wants you to be more successful than him. Your Grandfathers do want you to be greater than them too.

If you have great and loving maternal and paternal Grandfathers, you will forever be grateful to them. They are so super-protective!

You cannot afford to lose as a man. Keep moving, keep winning. Your crying does nothing no matter how women tell you to be more emotional and bla bla bla

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Even if your tears full a cup, no one will drink it so keep working donkey. That's the hard truth. Hardworking man

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There's really nothing bitter about these truths

samuelson06:
What exactly do you mean with no. 10?

there's a heavy price to pay for such success.... Not everything comes cheap...u get?

That number 8 thou ... :hmmmm

Bahamas95:
* You ain't totally correct, there are some fathers who don't want their children to surpass their achievement.

* Some mothers also don't love their children. We saw a thread here where a mother wanted to stab her daughter. If you meet a good woman she can love you more than the love your mother/grandmother has for you.

Because the person is your blood doesn't make them perfect or saints.

Oga, to every rule, there is an exception.Such father's and mothers are not in the majority.

FreeStuffsNG:
Number 1 is not true. Your Grandfathers do too.

If you have great and loving maternal and paternal Grandfathers, you will forever be grateful to them. They are so super-protective!

oga number 1 is very correct.... U cannot born a child and want child not to be successful....even witchcraft don't do that.

The bitter truth about a man is
1. U were loved when u were born, u will be loved when u die. In btw, u have to manage
2. Some people alive will die this year but they don't know
3. Life as a man takes ur smile away

That number 10 is very important, my late Dad use to tell me if what importance of your help of carrying me on your back when my legs are still scrubbing the floor

Reloadedisraelp:
oga number 1 is very correct.... U cannot born a child and want child not to be successful....even witchcraft don't do that.

Smh.

It is obvious that you did not comprehend my post. I will edit to bring it down to your ordinary level of comprehension.

koladata:
9. When you meet a girl's father for the first time, the first thing he wants to know is what you do for a living. Dey play.


When you start your answer with "Actually" then her father loses interest

And when you begin with "I am a business man". He will not only see you as a red flag but first see you as so unserious

you get it ! the way people see business owner especially when you didn't arrive with 2025 lexus .

ARISHEM:
And when you begin with you are a business man. He will not only see you as a red flag but first see you as so unserious

To be a man isn't a day's job

Nevertheless,I will be a man,even in my tenth world to come👍

Nothing beats the prize

Not true all the time. I guess most of the time it's true. Some father's sure don't want their children to be successful. That's a fact.

Headline and comments screams redpill is a thing... Bitches be like oh well our matter again even though we wear bonnet.

Exactly what i wanted to say, some parent will abandon u to fed for yourselve at a very young age, suffer go won kee u unless u find u way by ursef

Bahamas95:
* You ain't totally correct, there are some fathers who don't want their children to surpass their achievement.

* Some mothers also don't love their children. We saw a thread here where a mother wanted to stab her daughter. If you meet a good woman she can love you more than the love your mother/grandmother has for you.

Because the person is your blood doesn't make them perfect or saints.

Even the father who used his son for ritual money, still wants such child to be successful than him.

Father who used money that he supposed to use to train his son to school to drink alcohol, play bet or even use it to train his concubine' children also wants such child to be successful than him.

Mother who donated his son in their meeting in marine kingdom, also loved the son that his wife.

Let me settle and read this well.

Very true.
Number 9 is so annoying.
And they'll tell you that marriage is a partnership.
We should start asking the girls what they do for a living as well.