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NOETHNICITY:
The delusion that happens in the mind of women is grossly underestimated

Rubyjade:
Following this thread 👉 [https://www.nairaland.com/8663791/some-bitter-truths-must-realize]

Here’s what you should know, ladies: to

There are some hard truths every woman needs to understand early, not to become bitter, but to become wiser and more intentional with life and relationships.

1. Not every man who shows interest wants commitment. Some want access, not responsibility.

2. Beauty can open doors, but it cannot keep them open. Value, character, and mindset do.

3. The same world that praises independence will still judge your choices—learn to think for yourself.

4. Don’t build your entire future around a man who hasn’t proven consistency. Promises are easy; patterns are truth.

5. Attention is not love. Many will admire you without intending to invest in you.

6. Financial independence is not optional. It is protection, not pride.

7. Your standards will determine your outcomes. Low standards attract chaos; clear standards attract alignment.

8. Time is real. The longer you ignore red flags, the more expensive the lesson becomes.

9. Not every friendship is genuine. Some people stay close to compete, not to support.

10. Never depend on someone who controls your survival. Support is good, but dependence can become a trap.

Life rewards awareness, not assumptions.

Choose wisely
- Build yourself
- Stay observant
- And don’t trade long-term peace for short-term comfort

Happy New Month

pocohantas:
I love as NL ladies be moving these days.

franchasng:
11. The beauty of a woman is a husband.

12. A woman can choose who to have sex with, who to date but she cannot choose who to marry and when to marry, only a man can choose who to marry and when to marry!

13. No matter how beautiful you are as a woman, at some point, your husband will stop being sexually moved by your beauty, it is the friendship, the bond, the battles won together, the kids, and your good character that will keep him attracted to you.


14. A man that loves you can still cheat on you with another woman, this is one aspect of men that even men cannot explain, so don't destroy your relationship or marriage just because your husband cheated on you

Rapmoney:
See Poco sef involve for the matter. Kai!

meobizy:
I hate this forum.

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Kaczynski:
and it's always women seeking for validation from the gender that sreeps with anything even a goat.

franchasng:
11. The beauty of a woman is a husband.

12. A woman can choose who to have sex with, who to date but she cannot choose who to marry and when to marry, only a man can choose who to marry and when to marry!

13. No matter how beautiful you are as a woman, at some point, your husband will stop being sexually moved by your beauty, it is the friendship, the bond, the battles won together, the kids, and your good character that will keep him attracted and committed to you.


14. A man that loves you can still cheat on you with another woman, this is one aspect of men that even men cannot explain, so don't destroy your relationship or marriage just because your husband cheated on you


15. Keeping your virginity till marriage is very important, marrying as a virgin is awesome but remember that marrying as a virgin is not a guarantee that you will marry a good husband that will treat you well, your virginity can never cover your bad character, it is only your character that can keep your marriage not you marrying as a virgin.

In summary, getting married as a virgin is not a guarantee that you will have a blissful marriage, being physically beautiful or attractive is not also a guarantee that you will have a blissful marriage. Marriage requires more than virginity and physical beauty to succeed at the long run.

franchasng:
The man will choose another woman until he gets a wife.


A woman cannot decide when and who to marry, very rare or even impossible, but a man can decide when and who to marry and it would happen.

ojuu4u:
I wish the guy who wrote about men should read this and feel ashamed for himself, why this one encourages women development towards positive impact in society . The other one, encouraging toxicity towards fellow human beings and by extension igniting crises in the society.
Anyway, the type of parents brought up person determine he who will become and what he will be saying.

meobizy:
I hate this forum.

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pocohantas:
I love as NL ladies be moving these days.

Mattswaggz:
Let the moves be done in reality and yield positive returns in reality..... online cho cho cho is as good as worthless.

pocohantas:
If the women in your family are not making moves, call a family meeting to address it.

Mattswaggz:
Like I said....keep making moves on social media....you'll finish and go out there and face reality okay. .

pocohantas:
Just like you are facing it. I wouldn't understand why another person's reality bothers you so much. Go learn a skill or something.

Mattswaggz:
That's because I only see all these energy/work online....I need to see the difference in the lives of the nijerian women in the society.....or do you love living in self deceit?. .

pocohantas:
A family problem once again.
Call a meeting. 🙏

Mattswaggz:
Lol....let's start from how many of your gender are in the top 100 richest women in the world....just 10 and all of them needed support from a man or inherited their wealth from a man. .

Here on Nigeria they're driven by materials things....if you're well loaded you can easily get 90+ of every 100 of them you come across....the few that are making strides aren't significant enough and no where near closing the gap towards masculine dominance in critical aspects of human development.....but like I said earlier u can keep on living in self delusion...the naija bannies I know are changing for the worse and not for the good...but hey, anything to make you sleep better at night though. .

pocohantas:
I didn't read this. You can compress it to 2-3 sentences and give me a mention.

Mattswaggz:
Lol....pains.😆.

Ikennaford:
What if she says no when you chose her, sorry bro no offense

Harddiskng:
I no understand, cuz a man shows interest you become his responsibility. I thought relationship are not two adults, not an adult and an orphan. Na wa