I Love My GirlFriend So Damn Much, Cos She's A Good Girl, But I Think She is Tired Of Me

dear nairalanders, I'm a young handsome man, am 24 years of age and a student of Niger Delta University BY. In my 2nd semester 100 level I fell in love with this very very good charactered 200 level girl. We had fun together, and I even deflowered her myself.(Now in 200, she 300) She also loved me back but currently we both seem to be having quarrels about me feeling too insecure which I seriously doubt that I'm, and most importantly, she always loved to stay in the house with just bikinis when I first met her, which as an African man I could tolerate when its just the two of us.This days, she does it even in front of every other person(guy). And she now uses statements like "I blame myself for letting you into my life" "its me who agreed to date you" Please this issue is ruining my relationship. I need your advice please.

Why do kids fall in love?

Sijo01: Why do kids fall in love?

Because they don't get charged. Is free.

Sijo01: Why do kids fall in love?

Wicked

rokiatu:

Because they don't get charged. Is free.

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'Wickeder'

Sijo01: Why do kids fall in love?

To keep them selves busy I guess.

amassoma muda nigga
give dat ur babe digit make i cut share
i dey efeke

Coefficient:

Wicked

wickedest.

I knew she was giving up ....SEX. You would not love her without that. Typical Nigerian relationship lol A good girl .... lol yeah right. Most likely a good hoe.

Now call it "kids". people like you should have your heads examined. @besto, you want your share, nikur we both HIV negetive , when we start talking positive nigas, I'm sure to hit you up. @Rokiatu stop being a looser, even if you really were, can't take it away from you tho, this just aint the right place to endorse your fellow #teamlosers. Well Its funny how we can't find people who claim to be mature advicing those who they feel are kids. Its alright. Wasn't expecting this anyway. Thanks yall.

You showed her the world,now what she sees siting u can't see it standing.sheets happens bro,just pick ur remains and move on cos she is gone. Waste no time to move on and most importantly focus on studies.goodluck

@OP, talk to her to findout if there are issues.

@ kid/op

Question : Y re u in school

Answer : 2 acquire knowledge

If u don't want 2 go 2 skool, ¥ not drop of skool out & stop wasting ur parents money,

Go & learn trade

@ kid/op

Question : Y re u in school

Answer : 2 acquire knowledge

If u don't want 2 go 2 skool, ¥ not drop out of skool & stop wasting ur parents money,

Go & learn trade

Lol.............................U're in 200L abi...Eya u dey waste your papa money....

k

@sosoluv , you should change your name to @makesense, cause u made all the point here. #realtalk. @all thanks a lot.

X12AWERF

@ MM d guy nids advice nt ur trash talk.u b saint?or u b gay?@ dat level didnt u av a grl u luvd?u nor holy pass my broda

function seriousConversation()
{
Male you;
Female girl;

#ASSERT several_conversations_have_happened_about_the_subject

you.speak("O girl, you've said some things that have made me think, and frankly I would prefer to put aside all bullshit and sort it out now so we are both clear on each other's stance..." );
you.speak("Do you want to continue being with me or would you prefer we break it off? there is no point in any of this if at the end of the day, our union is not something YOU want." );

if(her.answer()=="yes" )
{
soHowCanWeFixThis();
}
else if(her.answer()=="no" )
{
System.exit(-1);
}
}
//Comments
/*If someone is ready to leave you and the reason cannot be put coherently & honestlyinto words, it doesn't matter if you transform into a prince in shining armor. They've already made up their mind.
Only sink energy into fixing pre-marital relationship if the other person is willing to work on it. */

Tin_kin: @ MM d guy nids advice nt ur trash talk.u b saint?or u b gay?@ dat level didnt u av a grl u luvd?u nor holy pass my broda

@ his age I have girl friends & not girl friend.

But d problem here is dat he is still a kid dat does even know his priority.

M M M:

@ his age I have girl friends & not girl friend.

But d problem here is dat he is still a kid dat does even know his priority.

A girl really isn't ready for anything serious until age 25+ from experience.

^
Tell him

houstonia: I Love My GirlFriend So Damn Much, Cos She's A Good Girl, But I Think She is Tired Of Me

dear nairalanders, I'm a young handsome man,

post your picture and let us decide that.

Like she's the only girl in the world. Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeew!

Dude the reason why they are calling u a KID is not to insult you but to help you.....cos if u were mature enough u ought to understand how best to handle a woman........the thing that should make ur relationship stronger is now killing it........well IF U WANT MY ADVICE....BE MAN ENOUGH TO tell the LADY THAT "relationship is over, time for books and that is she finds a man who lOVES TO SEE HIS BABE POSING IN BIKINIS IN FRON OF OTHER GUY, then u will gladly be of help in joining them in HOLY-MAD-TRIMONY" but as for u " U APPRECIATE HER OOOO but u are through with nonsence"

IF U CAN DO DAT...Then U CAN RETURN TO nairaland with a testimony in the religion section...BUT I HOPE D PERSON WHO CALLED U A KID isint referring to the "child of a goat sha...cos my hand no dey..."

houstonia: I Love My GirlFriend So Damn Much, Cos She's A Good Girl, But I Think She is Tired Of Me

dear nairalanders, I'm a young handsome man, am 24 years of age and a student of Niger Delta University BY. In my 2nd semester 100 level I fell in love with this very very good charactered 200 level girl. We had fun together, and I even deflowered her myself.(Now in 200, she 300) She also loved me back but currently we both seem to be having quarrels about me feeling too insecure which I seriously doubt that I'm, and most importantly, she always loved to stay in the house with just bikinis when I first met her, which as an African man I could tolerate when its just the two of us.This days, she does it even in front of every other person(guy). And she now uses statements like "I blame myself for letting you into my life" "its me who agreed to date you" Please this issue is ruining my relationship. I need your advice please.

O boy u just have let go of that girl because she is now matured than you do. Boy it's time u grow up!

190: LOL shes gone

simple as ABC. OP u berra move ur asss morafuka

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Wickeder

wickedest

andyanders: She is beginning to find out that you are not a real man and her type cos of your state of mind. By even saying you dislike her dress code when guys are around you goes to show that you are not matured yet since you claim to be a real African man. It's better you look for your type.The ones that wear wrapper and Gele, buba and plait local hair style since you are coming from Ogbomosho

You would enjoy your girl(wife) fluttering about in bikini at home when you have guests?
Personal dignity and wisdom would keep a woman from doing that without anyone having to even raise it as an issue.
But as we see, this is the difference between women and girls.

I think u need a relationship with God. Since this one is not working, just try God and u will be happy forever and i am sure he can never be tired of u like ur gf.