₦airaland Forum

Starz825:
He dey hospital cos of say woman turn am down...

When next you see him....tell him ...he needs to brace up....cos wtf

May I never lose my sleep over women matter again in my life

szczescie:
I no wan marry now I go wait till 40 when I done cross 100,000,000 naira networth then I go marry 1 Filipina, 1 Indian, 1 Nigerian and 1 European making it 4 wives na me go enjoy pass all of Una wey rush marry in poverty where even the 1 woman you marry no get respect or regard for you due to your poverty and by that time na the latest me go marry all this girl go done Become old cargo in 10 years time

fyneboi79:
This article clearly don't include south African boys who are married off to southy sisis.....we talking about "umu nwoke"..... real men

spiceadole:
So who are the women getting married to every weekend?

Fiscus105:
You guys cannot feed your mouth, let alone family, and instead to accept reality, you would be jumping from one social media to another, shouting women are surplus, women are wicked, marriage not favour man, blablablah.
What an irreplaceable way to defend oneself!

A responsible man comes to this world not only to be successful in, career wise but maritally. If you are now running from stress the family pressure might bring, where is responsiblity in you?

Bahamas95:
The people who get married every weekend are aliens.

spiceadole:
Online: Nigerian men don't want to marry. Nigerian men are not getting married. Nigerian men have nothing to benefit from getting married. Nigerian men don't need wives.

Offline: Nigerian man are getting married .. Weddings and marriage ceremonies every week(end).Go to the marriage registry,Crowds of couples(men and women),Nigerian men are proposing marriage to women and they feel bad when they are rejected.

I have at least 4 male relatives including my younger brother who are seriously and desperately looking for women to marry...They even ask me to connect them to my friends/colleagues.


But let's believe Men are not getting married here because this is social media.

PerfectStranger:
Apparently, those are the kind of men y'all females want. A man who cries due to rejection from a lady. It's even a shame for you to have such a man as a friend. #spit

Samantha125:
That time there are always weddings or engagement parties every weekend in my community back home... And as I speak now, I have like 10 wedding invitations from now till September.

Diamond098454:
That's the type of men i like being closed to.they have respect for women and they are responsible men , well trained.

Stephen0mozzy:
The realities of the time requires that marriage be a partnership.

The model of marriage y'all still insist on for men is one where Women were more or less just home makers - give birth to children, manage the house, assist in the farm work, birth many children that will also assist in the farm work as they age.

Today, women are much more ambitious and career driven, which is a beautiful thing and men are not requiring them to just sit at home, birth children or assist in farm work (nobody wants a burden - men and women alike) - so it also should be reasonable that women assist in a new way - don't bash men who take time to settle down with someone who can AUGMENT their efforts when there are so many women who just want to be TAKEN CARE OF JUST FOR BEING A WOMAN.

szczescie:
Wouldn’t it be a good thing to have less touts, less corrupt politicians, less hungry people, less extremely poor and desperate people.
Having a big population isn’t a good thing especially when you cannot and do not take care of them

Raymondfayowole:
What are you expecting to see in a marriage registry before? A birthday celebration?

The post is about the frequency amd the reason for the drop.

szczescie:
I no wan marry now I go wait till 40 when I done cross 100,000,000 naira networth then I go marry 1 Filipina, 1 Indian, 1 Nigerian and 1 European making it 4 wives na me go enjoy pass all of Una wey rush marry in poverty where even the 1 woman you marry no get respect or regard for you due to your poverty and by that time na the latest me go marry all this girl go done Become old cargo in 10 years time

BarrElChapo:
No long stories.

kiddaz:
Again most of you fail to understand that getting married isn't the issue. Staying married is. Look around. People hardly stay married these days

Soukiss:
Me that just paid my bride price last week

DJperdurabo:
Easily manipulated you mean...?

Either ways, Women have been found to be attracted to "confident" men, not "effeminate" men as described in the post you replied to (and before you argue that it's possible to be confident and effeminate, Is be quick to remind you that's an Oxymoron...never happens!)

I am positive you'd cheat on this "well-trained" effeminate chap the moment a confident man steps into the picture. Trust me you would, despite your best intentions and you'd just hate yourself for cheating on your "well-trained" and "responsible" man, but...

You Just Couldn't Help It.

appliedscience:
Note there is a wide difference between wedding and marriage... What % of dos wedding invite survives the first 5yrs togeda as couples?

Diamond098454:
But people are getting married every weekend. A closed friend is in the hospital because a lady he wanted to marry turn him down and you are here writing ✍️long notes

Keep deceiving yourselves in this forum

Emdi1914:
More like "a lady friend is in the hospital because a lady she wanted to marry turned her down"
That close friend of yours is she male and not Man

Honestey:
Make I scatter the table?:
As a result of the above and many more reasons that many men cannot bring themselves to say in the public, I can tell you that 90% or more married men actually want out of that social bondage