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This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by Goo0dHardDick(op):
She told me she never loved me and had only been pretending all along.

I met her when she was three months pregnant. She told me the man responsible for the pregnancy den!ed it and ab@nd0ned her.

She even wanted to tèrm!n@te the pregnancy, but I begged her to keep the baby and promised to stand by her.

Even though I work as a block mould worker, I made sure I checked on her every day after work. I provided food, care, and supported her throughout the pregnancy. Later, she told me her sister was strûggl!ng and asked if she could stay with us, and I agreed without hesitation.

When she was eight months pregnant, I travelled to her village in Ebonyi State with my family to inform her parents of my intention to marry her.

Her parents accepted me and gave me the bride price list. At nine months, she gave birth and I paid all the hospital bills. I even opened a POS business for her so she could have something doing and be financially stable.

The problems started when she told me someone had scammed her of ₦140,000.

Then the phone I bought for her was suddenly said to have been stolen, only for me to later discover she gave it to the man who got her pregnant. I still forgave her and bought another phone.

A few days later, I returned home only to discover she had disappeared with money from the POS business and other belongings. When I finally reached her, she told me she never loved me and had only been pretending all along”

— Man has shared his emotional story online after claiming that a woman he cared for during pregnancy later disappeared with his money and valuables shortly after giving birth.

https://www.facebook.com/100067538267625/posts/1319170720344191/?app=fbl

Cc Seun mynd44 justwise nlfpmod farano
Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by FortCavazosKnox: 3:02pm On May 25
In this game, you either LEARN or PERISH
Goo0dHardDick:
She told me she never loved me and had only been pretending all along.

I met her when she was three months pregnant. She told me the man responsible for the pregnancy den!ed it and ab@nd0ned her.

She even wanted to tèrm!n@te the pregnancy, but I begged her to keep the baby and promised to stand by her.

Even though I work as a block mould worker, I made sure I checked on her every day after work. I provided food, care, and supported her throughout the pregnancy. Later, she told me her sister was strûggl!ng and asked if she could stay with us, and I agreed without hesitation.

When she was eight months pregnant, I travelled to her village in Ebonyi State with my family to inform her parents of my intention to marry her.

Her parents accepted me and gave me the bride price list. At nine months, she gave birth and I paid all the hospital bills. I even opened a POS business for her so she could have something doing and be financially stable.

The problems started when she told me someone had scammed her of ₦140,000.

Then the phone I bought for her was suddenly said to have been stolen, only for me to later discover she gave it to the man who got her pregnant. I still forgave her and bought another phone.

A few days later, I returned home only to discover she had disappeared with money from the POS business and other belongings. When I finally reached her, she told me she never loved me and had only been pretending all along”

— Man has shared his emotional story online after claiming that a woman he cared for during pregnancy later disappeared with his money and valuables shortly after giving birth.

https://www.facebook.com/100067538267625/posts/1319170720344191/?app=fbl
Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by brain54(m):
Na you mumu oga...


Leave single ladies alone. Na you being one take advantage of the vulnerable pregnant woman before she outsmart you.


This one no be single mother case anything!
Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by rickpat(m): 3:04pm On May 25
What do people really gain from using other people?
Everyone has vulnerabilities, may we not meet people that would take advantage of such vulnerabilities...
Na wa sha
Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by Imindmybusiness: 3:14pm On May 25
They only love you when they need you. Men need to wise up.
Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by Cum4me(m): 3:37pm On May 25
Simps you will always learn the hard way. They're a lot of single ladies everywhere you choose a pregnant woman grin
Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by Goo0dHardDick(op): 3:43pm On May 25
FortCavazosKnox:
In this game, you either LEARN or PERISH
Swears.

Simps will eat dust of the earth 🌍
Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by Goo0dHardDick(op): 3:44pm On May 25
Cum4me:
Simps you will always learn the hard way. They're a lot of single ladies everywhere you choose a pregnant woman grin
Simps always prefer leftovers that's why they're Called SIMPLETONS!
Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by Goo0dHardDick(op): 3:45pm On May 25
Imindmybusiness:
They only love you when they need you. Men need to wise up.
That's why we have simps men who will come and save and rescue them single mothers and leftovers
Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by Goo0dHardDick(op): 3:47pm On May 25
rickpat:
What do people really gain from using other people?
Everyone has vulnerabilities, may we not meet people that would take advantage of such vulnerabilities...
Na wa sha
That's not vulnerability. It's called ste. pi.diit. y

I always love it when women eat a man's money and use him as she wishes.

We have said this several times here that when you love a woman, she'll hate you, but use a woman and she'll love you.

Single mothers will forever choose and prefer their baby daddies who used them then the weak Simp men
Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by Goo0dHardDick(op): 3:50pm On May 25
brain54:
Na you mumu oga...


Leave single ladies alone. Na you being one take advantage of the vulnerable pregnant woman before she outsmart you.


This one no be single mother case anything!
Today's quote.

Love a woman and she'll hate you for it. Use a woman and she'll love you and keep fighting over you because using a woman is sigh of power and authority, and confidence. This is why women prefer bar guys (their baby daddies who used them) over the Simpsons (who came to rescue them)
Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by LeeSmart: 7:24pm On May 25
Hmmm you get mind to go pay bribe price for woman wey dey 3month pregnant for another man? Omor your village people mean you walahi.

The part wey pain me the most be say your people even follow you go ebonyi to ask for the ungrateful person hand in marriage.
Hmmm so you don't have an elder in your family to advise you?.
Thank God say she run leave you
Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by Kobicove(m): 8:32pm On May 25
Goo0dHardDick:
She told me she never loved me and had only been pretending all along.

I met her when she was three months pregnant. She told me the man responsible for the pregnancy den!ed it and ab@nd0ned her.

She even wanted to tèrm!n@te the pregnancy, but I begged her to keep the baby and promised to stand by her.

Even though I work as a block mould worker, I made sure I checked on her every day after work. I provided food, care, and supported her throughout the pregnancy. Later, she told me her sister was strûggl!ng and asked if she could stay with us, and I agreed without hesitation.

When she was eight months pregnant, I travelled to her village in Ebonyi State with my family to inform her parents of my intention to marry her.

Her parents accepted me and gave me the bride price list. At nine months, she gave birth and I paid all the hospital bills. I even opened a POS business for her so she could have something doing and be financially stable.

The problems started when she told me someone had scammed her of ₦140,000.

Then the phone I bought for her was suddenly said to have been stolen, only for me to later discover she gave it to the man who got her pregnant. I still forgave her and bought another phone.

A few days later, I returned home only to discover she had disappeared with money from the POS business and other belongings. When I finally reached her, she told me she never loved me and had only been pretending all along”

— Man has shared his emotional story online after claiming that a woman he cared for during pregnancy later disappeared with his money and valuables shortly after giving birth.

https://www.facebook.com/100067538267625/posts/1319170720344191/?app=fbl

Cc Seun mynd44 justwise nlfpmod farano
You people should stop creating these silly threads to vilify single mothers.

It is starting to look like co-ordinated harassment!

They did not all become single mothers through the same circumstances
Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by nlfpmod(mod): 9:08pm On May 25
Kobicove:
You people should stop creating these silly threads to vilify single mothers.

It is starting to look like co-ordinated harassment!

They did not all become single mothers through the same circumstances
It's quite annoying. Every time single mother this, single mother that. Who Impregnated them? Did they Impregnate themselves?

Let single mothers breathe.
Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by Goo0dHardDick(op): 9:25pm On May 25
Kobicove:
You people should stop creating these silly threads to vilify single mothers.

It is starting to look like co-ordinated harassment!

They did not all become single mothers through the same circumstances
I'm sure you know exactly what we mean by single mothers.

They'll always prefer their baby daddies over you any day anytime twice on Monday night.
Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by Figger(m): 9:27pm On May 25
I've stopped falling Inlove, what I do now is friends with benefits. Give me I give you, when am tired of u I leave. I will tell you from the beginning that it's friends with benefits that I want so u won't later say I've used and dumped u.
Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by Kobicove(m): 9:28pm On May 25
Goo0dHardDick:
I'm sure you know exactly what we mean by single mothers.

They'll always prefer their baby daddies over you any day anytime twice on Monday night.
Whether they prefer their baby daddy to me is not the issue, not all of the became single mothers by choice.

You people should stop over flogging the topic
Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by SixSeven: 9:32pm On May 25
Kobicove:
You people should stop creating these silly threads to vilify single mothers.

It is starting to look like co-ordinated harassment!

They did not all become single mothers through the same circumstances
Most of the OP's topics show a single problem. The man boy in the mirror.

Does this sound like a man to you? 👇
Why I Prefer Being The Side Guy Than Being The Main Boyfriend - Romance - Nairaland

Goo0dHardDick:
Main boyfriend is another name for "mugu".

I prefer being the side guy in a girl's life or relationship (another name for side guy can be term as "bestie"wink. My job is to just do my thing and leave. The main boyfriends carries all the loads on his head, bills, payments, her feeding etc, while the side guy just keeps satisfying her konji on a steady. This is my story with several girls I have met. They all have boyfriends but yet kept coming to my house on a steady. Mind you they'll be at my place and bill their boyfriends for either anything and the guys won't hesitate to make transfer.

I feel main boyfriends are suffering. It is far better to be the side guy than to be the main boyfriend.
Out of the comments from their mind, you shall know them. He's probably someone whose child is roaming about while he's dodging his responsibilities. Almost all his topics are about women, maybe Nairaland is a trauma center but he will find healing soon.
Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by AcadaWriter0: 9:53pm On May 25
Absolutely! It's all about the subtle power plays. It's a simple equation – a little persuasion, a little affection, and a lot of benefits for the woman. It's all about the vibe, really. And don't forget the little gestures of affection, of course. It's a win-win, really.
Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by henrybomb(m): 10:33pm On May 25
Kobicove:
You people should stop creating these silly threads to vilify single mothers.

It is starting to look like co-ordinated harassment!

They did not all become single mothers through the same circumstances
Very silly and nauseating at the same time
Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by alshalz(m): 11:00pm On May 25
You mean she gave the phone you bought with your hard earned money to her baddie baby dad, you forgave her bought another one for her. nhmmmmm!!! Your own simpsis is acute /chronic type.
Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by henrybomb(m): 11:47pm On May 25
Goo0dHardDick:
She told me she never loved me and had only been pretending all along.

I met her when she was three months pregnant. She told me the man responsible for the pregnancy den!ed it and ab@nd0ned her.

She even wanted to tèrm!n@te the pregnancy, but I begged her to keep the baby and promised to stand by her.

Even though I work as a block mould worker, I made sure I checked on her every day after work. I provided food, care, and supported her throughout the pregnancy. Later, she told me her sister was strûggl!ng and asked if she could stay with us, and I agreed without hesitation.

When she was eight months pregnant, I travelled to her village in Ebonyi State with my family to inform her parents of my intention to marry her.

Her parents accepted me and gave me the bride price list. At nine months, she gave birth and I paid all the hospital bills. I even opened a POS business for her so she could have something doing and be financially stable.

The problems started when she told me someone had scammed her of ₦140,000.

Then the phone I bought for her was suddenly said to have been stolen, only for me to later discover she gave it to the man who got her pregnant. I still forgave her and bought another phone.

A few days later, I returned home only to discover she had disappeared with money from the POS business and other belongings. When I finally reached her, she told me she never loved me and had only been pretending all along”

— Man has shared his emotional story online after claiming that a woman he cared for during pregnancy later disappeared with his money and valuables shortly after giving birth.

https://www.facebook.com/100067538267625/posts/1319170720344191/?app=fbl

Cc Seun mynd44 justwise nlfpmod farano
Make Una stop this nonsense of single mother thread
Don’t we have single fathers too?
Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by DjRickyNG: 6:41am On May 26
Sometimes I wonder if some of the guys around us have functioning brains

Re: This Is Why You Must Never Marry Or Date A Single Mother by onomej4u1: 7:52am On May 26
Some ladies become single mother by abandonment or avoiding toxic relationship or because of displacement through insecurities in some communities etc. So not all single mothers are bad.
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