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Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by pocohantas(f): 1:56pm On May 27
Kpboy1:
Hi Poco, nice take as always...I've frequently observed people don't practice what they preach and preach what they don't practice. Reality is based on interest and what works. Most young girls and their age mates under thirty hardly give each other "their best" or and believe in their choices, maturity or readiness etc...people banter it but it's not commonplace and those that did weren't posting they would on social media...the girls can simply accept their mates in any form of commitment that works. Funny I've seen ladies in thirties that have settlement standards...it's nobody business what they did "supposedly younger" except the man that's interested probably. Happy holidays
I know couples who started out young and grew together. I know a few. A teenager would not automatically be ready because an almost 40yo man decided to impregnate and marry her. We have also seen many of that in reality and how they ended. I have no business with OP's standards, it is his choice to marry a teenager who he plans to train in school. But passing it off as a worthy love story for the girl child is what I won't agree with. It rarely ends well for those girls.
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by SixSeven: 2:00pm On May 27
Jman06:
Feminists can write anything and post online just to make themselves feel good. These things are what we see practically around us, so you don't need some cooked up lies to know the truth.
It's a symptom of penis envy imo but let them keep at it. I have written on this topic before, let me donate to the thread 👇

thesicilian:
When a man makes money, he plans a family. When a woman makes money, she plans to distance herself from men. Meanwhile she most likely got that money from men
This statement Mercy said,

I’m ready to have a child outside marriage, this year I wanted to have a baby, something happened and I had to choose between that and the baby. At this point, I think if I get pregnant now, I’m just going to have my baby. I have worked so hard, and I think I can take care of myself and three kids. I’m a goal-oriented person that always sets things ahead for myself.
I have heard women say this. At the point in life where reality sets in, they don't care. They have the career, they have the money but they miss that child. Life is indeed a strange journey. I asked one of them the other day why she couldn't get pregnant for a guy, she said, she cannot afford to have a baby for a man that would only donate sperm for her so she will rather do IVF and choose from there instead of giving herself 'freely' to the man. In her mind, she bought it. That's women for you wink The cheaper option is not worth it because of that pride so they don't mind spending money on the child that will never know who his real father is. Their thinking, only few understand it. Once you understand it, just play along with them cheesy IVF is also not cheap but you don't discuss logic with women when they are on their emotional roller-coaster. They hate the truth because it embarrasses them so they divert your attention with unrelated issues. Women are naturally more selfish than men but that's a topic for another day.
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by SixSeven: 2:01pm On May 27
Repost 👇

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Kobo, you are right. Let me show you how useless men and their sperm are. First read this case where a 30-year-old male dies at the hospital, and his wife asks the doctors to retrieve his sperm so that she can conceive his child.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=P5XkbMPIEcA

"According to current literature, PMSR should be performed within 36 hours of death (13). However, our case demonstrates that viable sperm can still be retrieved up to 106 hours postmortem, contradicting this recommendation."

Sperm from a dead man can still be useful 4 days after his death. These men are so useless, all they bring to the table is spamming women grin grin grin

You are the one unhappy with the old man giving birth. But it's okay for an old woman to give birth, isn't it? Your double standards eh, Michelin never produce the grade yet.

Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by cococandy(f): 2:36pm On May 27
embarassed Did he actually?
pocohantas:
Since you got a teenager pregnant, you have lost your peace of mind. Explaining everyday and trying to recruit more. Indeed the guilty runneth when no one pursueth. All of this because some young girls said they will rather marry men in their age brackets.

But you don't need to stress it because in a 3rd world country like Nigeria, there would always be families who give out their teenage girls to men 2x her age for her university education to be guaranteed.

Sha send her to the university like you promised now she is pregnant for you. She has kept her side of the deal, please keep yours.
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by pocohantas(f): 2:37pm On May 27
cococandy:
embarassed Did he actually?
Yes, he did. That is why he has been restless and claiming I am jealous.
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by cococandy(f): 2:44pm On May 27
pocohantas:
Yes, he did. That is why he has been restless and claiming I am jealous.
Na shame dey catch am so?

Deep down these guys know what is bad. That’s why they work overtime to convince everyone otherwise
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by pocohantas(f): 2:51pm On May 27
cococandy:
Na shame dey catch am so?

Deep down these guys know what is bad. That’s why they work overtime to convince everyone otherwise
He has even increased it to 18-22. The first time we argued over this, it was from 16yrs he said. I countered him and he said I am jealous. Started his usual rhetorics of me sleeping with married men rather than getting married.

He sure knows...
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by GloriousGbola: 2:58pm On May 27
Semid4lyfe pls unblock my posts
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by cococandy(f): 3:13pm On May 27
pocohantas:
He has even increased it to 18-22. The first time we argued over this, it was from 16yrs he said. I countered him and he said I am jealous. Started his usual rhetorics of me sleeping with married men rather than getting married.

He sure knows...
Yikes on bikes. This forum is littered with closet PDFs.
Some of them the only thing stopping them is the age of legality.

Make it 14 and you’ll see them down there in the playgrounds fishing for children to bed at their mature old ages.

Sickening
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by GloriousGbola: 3:45pm On May 27
cococandy:
Yikes on bikes. This forum is littered with closet PDFs.
Some of them the only thing stopping them is the age of legality.

Make it 14 and you’ll see them down there in the playgrounds fishing for children to bed at their mature old ages.

Sickening
This is Nigeria and nothing is stopping them
They are already doing this

OP is no different from security guards in shopping malls who disturb children.

They have all created and celebrated an environment where there is scarcity of women for average and poor men so now they are aggressively normalising sex with children.
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by cococandy(f): 3:50pm On May 27
Bingo!

And somehow it’s still women’s fault
GloriousGbola:
They have all created and celebrated an environment where there is scarcity of women for average and poor men so now they are aggressively normalising sex with children.
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by folake4u: 3:59pm On May 27
Proserpina:
Person them suppose tie for pole wipe am chord day and night for 7 days dey on Nl dey give advise. Nigeria dey anyhow sha!

I reject Predator and Prey love story for every young lady out there. This is so absurd!

Anyways I wish his wife Happy Children's Day.
@ the bolded. You're rude, Pina. 😂😂😂
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by pocohantas(f): 4:10pm On May 27
cococandy:
Yikes on bikes. This forum is littered with closet PDFs.
Some of them the only thing stopping them is the age of legality.
Make it 14 and you’ll see them down there in the playgrounds fishing for children to bed at their mature old ages.

Sickening
That is the problem I have with his type. They mask it carefully as concern for the girl child. How can someone be so triggered because I advised teenage girls to go to school first? So the 4-6yrs they will spend in school, is what would disqualify them from marriage?
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by Proserpina: 4:12pm On May 27
folake4u:
@ the bolded. You're rude, Pina. 😂😂😂
My bad grin grin
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by folake4u: 4:23pm On May 27
Proserpina:
My bad grin grin
You get bad mouth. 😂😂
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by LIVINGICONREBOR: 5:35pm On May 27
See how all dese gals are convulsing and foaming in their mouth ontop wetin person post. Is it your teenager? That means say if I drop my own "personal" experience right here, I would be swallowed whole.🤔
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by pocohantas(f): 8:09pm On May 27
LIVINGICONREBOR:
See how all dese gals are convulsing and foaming in their mouth ontop wetin person post. Is it your teenager? That means say if I drop my own "personal" experience right here, I would be swallowed whole.🤔
We won't be surprised. That is why whenever they catch one of you abroad and you try to claim it was a setup, I know the probability he did it is 99%.
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by emabe: 8:29pm On May 27
Jman06:
I have observed with dismay how the older generation ladies who are already past their primes go about spreading falsehoods about men's fertility and virility claiming that men have biological clock and blaming infertility in marriage on men.

These fallacious claims are borne out of the desire to deceive the younger girls and make them reject marriage proposals from older men. These older women do this in a bid to have a the older guys settle for them when they can't get much younger girls to marry. It is a strategy which they're using to ensure that the eligible older men are left with no choice than to settle in marriage with the older generation of women!

The fact is that men age like wine which becomes stronger and better with time. In this country, it takes a lot of time for a guy to become financially ready to start a family due to the economic situation of the country. This is why most marriageable men are those already in their late 30s to early or even mid 40s.

These older women spread the lies that men have biological clock and would not be able to father a child at older ages. Evidence around us have proven such claims to be false because even in our immediate families, many of us were born while dads were in their 50s and early 60s. So, what biological clock are they now talking about?

They also claim that at such ages, men lose their virility and become impotent. This claim is also arguably false because, except in the cases where the man suffers from chronic illnesses that affect their sexual effectiveness, healthy men still retain their sexual potency even up to the age of 70 in some cases..if at my age, I still have those embarrassing moments of genital attention in the public, then I can tell you that such claims are unfounded.

We know that most cases of infertility in marriage occur from the side of the woman! But these old women like to twist facts and put the blames squarely on the men. For this reason, men who are being accused of being responsible for infertility in their marriages should not sit back and swallow all the humiliations and insults. Let them try their potency and fertility outside with much younger girls! I'm very sure that the result will always be positive.

As a man, when you have suffered all your life and eventually make money to be considered marriageable by the greedy female gender, save yourself all the troubles of having to struggle with bearing children by marrying from the pool of much younger girls. If you know that you desire to start having children immediately after marriage, then do yourself a favour by marrying a girl in the age range of 18 to 22. An uncle of mine got married at 42 to a 38years old lady, he's now 62 without a child. His wife is now 58 and obviously reached menopause. Now, imagine if this man had married a girl in the age range of 18 to 22, he would have had all the children he wanted before even crossing the age of 50 so that he could have used his working years to take care of them and help them stand. Now he's retired and without a child! His case makes me sad whenever I remember him because he's a good man by all standards.

Now to the young girls, learn to set your priorities right. As you go through the various social media platforms, don't be deceived by what you read or hear there from those older women discouraging you from marrying older men. In Nigeria today, those older guys are the most eligible for marriage by all standards. They are more financially and mentally stable to handle marriage! Besides, provision for the family goes seamlessly when you are dealing with the far older men! If you know that you want to marry on time and have your children easily, then your best bet is marrying a more stable older man.

It is very good when girls marry early because aside reducing the problem of infertility in marriage,it helps reduce the chances of complications and high risk pregnancies. The problem of genetic diseases and congenital anomalies is also greatly minimised when a woman starts bearing children early! So, don't be deceived by those selfish older women who want you to remain unmarried just like them. A word is enough for the wise!
Blah blah blah!
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by GloriousGbola: 3:04am On May 28
Relationship goals amirite?




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Kx3b4Kk6RI?si=s1alLZ5gibDgmzeD


How much convincing did Egbon have to do for small girl to acquiesce to his loose skin, old balls and five year plan for her education?

Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by Dshocker(m): 2:06am On May 29
Jman06:
I have observed with dismay how the older generation ladies who are already past their primes go about spreading falsehoods about men's fertility and virility claiming that men have biological clock and blaming infertility in marriage on men.

These fallacious claims are borne out of the desire to deceive the younger girls and make them reject marriage proposals from older men. These older women do this in a bid to have a the older guys settle for them when they can't get much younger girls to marry. It is a strategy which they're using to ensure that the eligible older men are left with no choice than to settle in marriage with the older generation of women!

The fact is that men age like wine which becomes stronger and better with time. In this country, it takes a lot of time for a guy to become financially ready to start a family due to the economic situation of the country. This is why most marriageable men are those already in their late 30s to early or even mid 40s.

These older women spread the lies that men have biological clock and would not be able to father a child at older ages. Evidence around us have proven such claims to be false because even in our immediate families, many of us were born while dads were in their 50s and early 60s. So, what biological clock are they now talking about?

They also claim that at such ages, men lose their virility and become impotent. This claim is also arguably false because, except in the cases where the man suffers from chronic illnesses that affect their sexual effectiveness, healthy men still retain their sexual potency even up to the age of 70 in some cases..if at my age, I still have those embarrassing moments of genital attention in the public, then I can tell you that such claims are unfounded.

We know that most cases of infertility in marriage occur from the side of the woman! But these old women like to twist facts and put the blames squarely on the men. For this reason, men who are being accused of being responsible for infertility in their marriages should not sit back and swallow all the humiliations and insults. Let them try their potency and fertility outside with much younger girls! I'm very sure that the result will always be positive.

As a man, when you have suffered all your life and eventually make money to be considered marriageable by the greedy female gender, save yourself all the troubles of having to struggle with bearing children by marrying from the pool of much younger girls. If you know that you desire to start having children immediately after marriage, then do yourself a favour by marrying a girl in the age range of 18 to 22. An uncle of mine got married at 42 to a 38years old lady, he's now 62 without a child. His wife is now 58 and obviously reached menopause. Now, imagine if this man had married a girl in the age range of 18 to 22, he would have had all the children he wanted before even crossing the age of 50 so that he could have used his working years to take care of them and help them stand. Now he's retired and without a child! His case makes me sad whenever I remember him because he's a good man by all standards.

Now to the young girls, learn to set your priorities right. As you go through the various social media platforms, don't be deceived by what you read or hear there from those older women discouraging you from marrying older men. In Nigeria today, those older guys are the most eligible for marriage by all standards. They are more financially and mentally stable to handle marriage! Besides, provision for the family goes seamlessly when you are dealing with the far older men! If you know that you want to marry on time and have your children easily, then your best bet is marrying a more stable older man.

It is very good when girls marry early because aside reducing the problem of infertility in marriage,it helps reduce the chances of complications and high risk pregnancies. The problem of genetic diseases and congenital anomalies is also greatly minimised when a woman starts bearing children early! So, don't be deceived by those selfish older women who want you to remain unmarried just like them. A word is enough for the wise!
If you steal a girl's prime, by marrying her young, she will take it back in the marriage.
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by doggedfighter(f):
Proserpina:
Person them suppose tie for pole wipe am chord day and night for 7 days dey on Nl dey give advise. Nigeria dey anyhow sha!

I reject Predator and Prey love story for every young lady out there. This is so absurd!

Anyways I wish his wife Happy Children's Day.
Hahaha 🤣
You are funny.

Person madam ? Happy Children's day ?

Your mouth no good 😊
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by doggedfighter(f): 9:58am On May 29
Jman06:
Before she agreed to do it with me, I had already gone for the first wine-carrying ceremony in her family and even at that, it took alot of convincing before she agreed. But you can believe whatever you want sha.
Did you hear yourself ?

Who knows how your face must've have looked when you were convincing and re- convincing a small girl to sleep with you before wedlock
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by GloriousGbola: 10:00am On May 29
doggedfighter:
Did you hear yourself ?

Who knows how your face must've have looked when you were convincing and re- convincing a small girl to sleep with you before wedlock
Footage of jman spitting game to small pikin

Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by Jman06(op): 10:24am On May 29
doggedfighter:
Did you hear yourself ?

Who knows how your face must've have looked when you were convincing and re- convincing a small girl to sleep with you before wedlock
Why e dey pain you?
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by GloriousGbola: 10:33am On May 29
Jman06:
Why e dey pain you?
Don't mind the bad belle evening newspapers

I am sure you are an even more beautiful couple than this

Age ain't nothing but a number

Gimme that geriatric pediatric combo!!!

Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by folake4u: 10:34am On May 29
GloriousGbola:
Don't mind the bad belle evening newspapers

I am sure you are an even more beautiful couple than this

Age ain't nothing but a number

Gimme that geriatric pediatric combo!!!
Disgusting photos. 🤮
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by GloriousGbola: 10:38am On May 29
folake4u:
Disgusting photos. 🤮
hater

look at those men aged like fine wine. are they not the prize again?

make i rub aboniki balm before we do - my hip gets one kain
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by doggedfighter(f): 10:39am On May 29
Jman06:
Why e dey pain you?
You old papa healthcare worker begging a small girl for sex is a definition of pain. grin
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by folake4u: 12:04pm On May 29
GloriousGbola:
hater

look at those men aged like fine wine. are they not the prize again?

make i rub aboniki balm before we do - my hip gets one kain
Fine wine? More like spoilt pap.
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by Proserpina: 6:11pm On May 29
doggedfighter:
Hahaha 🤣
You are funny.

Person madam ? Happy Children's day ?

Your mouth no good 😊
Ahhh
Is it that bad? grin grin

Folake talk am too o grin

But true true the girl frontal lobe never develop nah grin grin
Re: A Warning To Young Southern Girls! by doggedfighter(f): 6:15pm On May 29
Proserpina:
Ahhh
Is it that bad? grin grin

Folake talk am too o grin

But true true the girl frontal lobe never develop nah grin grin
No mind agbaya preying on a teenager.

Na gullible parents I blame.
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