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Re: Why Are Ladies From Kogi This Stubborn With Less Wifey Character by ifinger(op): 12:22am On May 30
Isholad11:
I can relate, my brother run o
Thank you bro
Re: Why Are Ladies From Kogi This Stubborn With Less Wifey Character by Adasun(m): 6:52am On May 30
is this oyiza of a girl based in Jos?
Kingluqman:
I have dated one that is wife material, homely and calm oo. She's opposite of all what you stated up there and she's also Ebira "Oyiza".


I think you should move on oo.. that's a RED flag for you already
Re: Why Are Ladies From Kogi This Stubborn With Less Wifey Character by Kingluqman(m): 8:51am On May 30
Adasun:
is this oyiza of a girl based in Jos?
Oga, nor be your Oyiza I dey date oo.. carry your Jos Oyiza dey go front oo grin

This your insecure Na another level 😂



My Oyiza, Na Ilorin we bn dey school together before she con go back to Okene oo grin
Re: Why Are Ladies From Kogi This Stubborn With Less Wifey Character by Adasun(m): 9:26am On May 30
Kingluqman:
Oga, nor be your Oyiza I dey date oo.. carry your Jos Oyiza dey go front oo grin

This your insecure Na another level 😂



My Oyiza, Na Ilorin we bn dey school together before she con go back to Okene oo grin
hahahahah guy man say insecurity cool cool cool

I no dey date any oyiza, I tend to know one who is also a nice girl...
Re: Why Are Ladies From Kogi This Stubborn With Less Wifey Character by juggernaut35(m): 11:06am On May 30
Honestly Make him stay wella
BigYash:
Guys will just be seeing red flags every,they will still stay there. Stay there o.
Re: Why Are Ladies From Kogi This Stubborn With Less Wifey Character by Truvelisback(m): 3:50pm On May 30
I haven't any Kogi lady that is stubborn but for the ones I have met, I think you might be right about their stubbornness but they are wifey materials.
Re: Why Are Ladies From Kogi This Stubborn With Less Wifey Character by alphabbey1(m): 6:06pm On May 30
Fredrick010:
Point of corrections You can't just go ahead and generalised all the Kogi ladies like that, that's disrespectful
No offense
No offense to your comment but I grew up with a neighbor whose wife is kogi, the wife's children were always fighting in the neighborhood, female children for that matter. They are Igbira tribe.

Currently, there's another female neighbor (born in Kogi) whose husband (also born in kogi) stays in Dubai and wife stays in another country. It was the husband that used his money to send her to that country o. The husband sends me voice note every week concerning his wife, na every week dem dey fight. And if you check reason for the fight, the wife is just super unreasonable. Mind you, I listen to complaints from both parties. At times, I wonder how an human with fear of God can reason like this.

In summary, there's really nothing disrespectful in that generalization from the person you quoted and I personally will only have a change in opinion until the day I meet a kogi girl with no anger issue.
Re: Why Are Ladies From Kogi This Stubborn With Less Wifey Character by ifinger(op): 12:42pm On May 31
alphabbey1:
No offense to your comment but I grew up with a neighbor whose wife is kogi, the wife's children were always fighting in the neighborhood, female children for that matter. They are Igbira tribe.

Currently, there's another female neighbor (born in Kogi) whose husband (also born in kogi) stays in Dubai and wife stays in another country. It was the husband that used his money to send her to that country o. The husband sends me voice note every week concerning his wife, na every week dem dey fight. And if you check reason for the fight, the wife is just super unreasonable. Mind you, I listen to complaints from both parties. At times, I wonder how an human with fear of God can reason like this.

In summary, there's really nothing disrespectful in that generalization from the person you quoted and I personally will only have a change in opinion until the day I meet a kogi girl with no anger issue.
Well noted my brother u corroborated my assertions
Re: Why Are Ladies From Kogi This Stubborn With Less Wifey Character by SamuraiXXX: 8:18pm On May 31
Truvelisback:
I haven't any Kogi lady that is stubborn but for the ones I have met, I think you might be right about their stubbornness but they are wifey materials.
How can you say a stubborn girl is a wife material?
Re: Why Are Ladies From Kogi This Stubborn With Less Wifey Character by vislabraye(m): 2:51pm On Jun 05
ifinger:
So I dated this lady from Kogi I think she was igbira or so! As at them she was 28yrs of age.
She told me the reason she agreed to date me was because I was much older than her that she doesn't like dating her age mate or guys in her age bracket

One thing I noticed was that this lady she was very bossy, I mean if u miss her call she will be be like why did u miss my call or u chat with her mistakenly delete a test before she views it she will be like why are u always deleting text?

The funny thing was that this lady smokes and clubs like tomorrow no dey but looks very innocent unless she opens up to you!

At some point in the relationship was already getting fed up so I confided in one of my friends who told me that ladies from that region I mean are not homely and are very fetish! That even guys from their region normally does not like marrying their ladies

The character was very bad to the extent that I just started considering ending the relationship cos I never want to be involved with a controlling freak
There is one I am dating like that. She is from that side. SHe has beautiful shape and she can do the do very well. But I have not see any bossy behaviour in her. Rather, she is submissive and helps me do my laundry and cleans the house without me asking.
Re: Why Are Ladies From Kogi This Stubborn With Less Wifey Character by AsAbovesoBelow: 11:42pm On Jun 06
Hungrychicken:
I can't say you are lying, because one Ebira woman I came across always talked so high of herself and how where she comes from they don’t mess with her. Whatever that meant, but it was years later I understood why.
I can even relate bro....even with the half story
Re: Why Are Ladies From Kogi This Stubborn With Less Wifey Character by YoungLionken(m): 8:40am On Jun 07
vislabraye:
There is one I am dating like that. She is from that side. SHe has beautiful shape and she can do the do very well. But I have not see any bossy behaviour in her. Rather, she is submissive and helps me do my laundry and cleans the house without me asking.
Put her for house first..

The problem is that, knowingly or unknowingly, we somehow prefer to learn from experience (a personal experience that sometimes mess with our original selves, turning us into something else) than from the wisdom/experience of others...
Re: Why Are Ladies From Kogi This Stubborn With Less Wifey Character by stuffs2002: 8:56pm On Jun 07
ifinger:
So I dated this lady from Kogi I think she was igbira or so! As at them she was 28yrs of age.
She told me the reason she agreed to date me was because I was much older than her that she doesn't like dating her age mate or guys in her age bracket

One thing I noticed was that this lady she was very bossy, I mean if u miss her call she will be be like why did u miss my call or u chat with her mistakenly delete a test before she views it she will be like why are u always deleting text?

The funny thing was that this lady smokes and clubs like tomorrow no dey but looks very innocent unless she opens up to you!

At some point in the relationship was already getting fed up so I confided in one of my friends who told me that ladies from that region I mean are not homely and are very fetish! That even guys from their region normally does not like marrying their ladies

The character was very bad to the extent that I just started considering ending the relationship cos I never want to be involved with a controlling freak
You dated just one lady from Kogi and you decided to use your single experience to destroy the image of all Kogi girls online.


Please tell us your own state so that we can use your yardsticks to analyse your own state too
because I am 100% sure not every lady from your state is a saint. All we need to damage the image of ladies from your state is just one bad character lady and we will use her as the yardstick for all girls in your state
Re: Why Are Ladies From Kogi This Stubborn With Less Wifey Character by stuffs2002: 9:04pm On Jun 07
alphabbey1:
No offense to your comment but I grew up with a neighbor whose wife is kogi, the wife's children were always fighting in the neighborhood, female children for that matter. They are Igbira tribe.

Currently, there's another female neighbor (born in Kogi) whose husband (also born in kogi) stays in Dubai and wife stays in another country. It was the husband that used his money to send her to that country o. The husband sends me voice note every week concerning his wife, na every week dem dey fight. And if you check reason for the fight, the wife is just super unreasonable. Mind you, I listen to complaints from both parties. At times, I wonder how an human with fear of God can reason like this.

In summary, there's really nothing disrespectful in that generalization from the person you quoted and I personally will only have a change in opinion until the day I meet a kogi girl with no anger issue.
You find it very easy to condemn ladies from other states but you are even ashamed of mentioning your own state

Please tell us your own state too.
Re: Why Are Ladies From Kogi This Stubborn With Less Wifey Character by meobizy(m): 2:23pm On Jun 09
Good thing I’m loyal only to myself.
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