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Every major decision a man has ever made has sex somewhere in the background.

The car he bought. The gym he joined. The business he started. The suit he ordered. The neighborhood he moved to. Somewhere in the calculation, even unconsciously, was the question of how it positions him in the eyes of women.

Wars have been fought over it. Empires have collapsed because of it. Politicians have destroyed careers for it. Pastors have abandoned pulpits for it. Men have handed over family fortunes for a season of it.

And women are not exempt. The makeup. The body. The carefully curated Instagram. The strategic positioning near successful men. The soft voice that appears from nowhere when the right man enters the room.

Everything is downstream of this one biological current.

Religion tried to dam it. Culture tried to redirect it. Law tried to regulate it.

It is still winning.

Understand what actually drives human behaviour and suddenly the world makes complete sense.

How about going celibate, becoming a catholic priest or a religious monk

Does going celibate, becoming a Catholic priest, or a monk stop men from having a morning wood?

TylerForbes:
How about going celibate, becoming a catholic priest or a religious monk

Samantha125:
Does going celibate, becoming a Catholic priest, or a monk stop men from having a morning wood?

Not all morning woods are outcome of sexual thoughts. Sometimes you can get a boner from just sitting. Even subconsciously. Getting a boner just means there's active blood flow to your pelvic region.

Getting a boner is just male biological defunct settings for all male to show maturity and after sometime, many male might not experience it like they did in their puberty stage. So it isn't all about sex.

You're right, there's an active blood flow that requires you to blow some steam every once in a while.

TylerForbes:
Not all morning woods are outcome of sexual thoughts. Sometimes you can get a boner from just sitting. Even subconsciously. Getting a boner just means there's active blood flow to your pelvic region.

Getting a boner is just male biological defunct settings for all male to show maturity and after sometime, many male might not experience it like they did in their puberty stage. So it isn't all about sex.

Babatunjo:
Every major decision a man has ever made has sex somewhere in the background.

The car he bought. The gym he joined. The business he started. The suit he ordered. The neighborhood he moved to. Somewhere in the calculation, even unconsciously, was the question of how it positions him in the eyes of women.

Wars have been fought over it. Empires have collapsed because of it. Politicians have destroyed careers for it. Pastors have abandoned pulpits for it. Men have handed over family fortunes for a season of it.

And women are not exempt. The makeup. The body. The carefully curated Instagram. The strategic positioning near successful men. The soft voice that appears from nowhere when the right man enters the room.

Everything is downstream of this one biological current.

Religion tried to dam it. Culture tried to redirect it. Law tried to regulate it.

It is still winning.

Understand what actually drives human behaviour and suddenly the world makes complete sense.

Speak for yourself sir! I mean can’t I just make a decision because I want my life to get better? E get where ur eyes go open reach you go begin fear fornication as you go through the ranks of personal growth. Jsyk the sperm you actually release weakens your bone marrow and your lower body, and too much sex fit make u craze if u no de careful 😂😂. Embrace personal growth, its rewards are u quantifiable.

TylerForbes:
Not all ;Dmorning woods are outcome of sexual thoughts. Sometimes you can get a boner from just sitting. Even subconsciously. Getting a boner just means there's active blood flow to your pelvic region.

Getting a boner is just male biological defunct settings for all male to show maturity and after sometime, many male might not experience it like they did in their puberty stage. So it isn't all about sex.

She’s talking about morning wood bro, as in preek rising in the morning to wake you up. You’re far from it

FitCorper:
She’s talking about morning wood bro, as in preek rising in the morning to wake you up. You’re far from it

Okay. Having morning woods means you wanted to dikmatize that innocent preacher evangelizing in your dream, am I right

Samantha125:
You're right, there's an active blood flow that requires you to blow some steam every once in a while.

Your belief

contrary to popular belief, morning wood is not a cue to have sex. It's just a reminder that you're a man. Instead of focusing on sex, you rechannel the energy into creativity.

It's a form of energy that if properly channeled could take a man to higher places. Take sometime to read *richest man in babylon* and do some research on sexual transmutation, you'll love it

You're right, it's just a reminder that you're a healthy man with manly needs... You can never cheat nature even if you try.

There have been cases of monks severing their dicks in order to avoid sexual temptations.

TylerForbes:
Your belief

contrary to popular belief, morning wood is not a cue to have sex. It's just a reminder that you're a man. Instead of focusing on sex, you rechannel the energy into creativity.

It's a form of energy that if properly channeled could take a man to higher places. Take sometime to read *richest man in babylon* and do some research on sexual transmutation, you'll love it

Even social media gains like Facebook and Instagram and Twitter use sex suggested content to attract people and make them stay

Sex is powerful, it is the act that conceive life. I often wonder how powerful it is to birth a child through the process, and it is said that the child carries glory to the earth.

I was telling a friend the other day that the desire for it is natural. It’s the beginning of our existence and it drives our existence.
As a man it takes discipline to be focused, because even if you desire not to fornicate, factors around you may not give you the choice to stay true to that decision (for long).
I have seen many cases, so I definitely have an ample experience of this situation.

If I may ask, if you choose not to engage in promiscuity, it is to what end?

Possibly it’s because you can’t afford the lifestyle or probably you are pious.

If you can’t afford it, well you may convince yourself that you are living right as a man. Nah, you are only living within your income. A real man wants an harem of women, that’s our true nature, but we try to tame the act.

If you are pious, well your religion is only a belief which is based on relativism. What your religion criticizes, may not be absolutely bad in another religion.

After all said and done, it is advisable to tame sexual desires, don’t be like Solomon or for the women Cleopatra . As too much of everything is a disaster.

Even children know what they want before they have the urge to have sex or position themselves in the female eyes. Our decisions are governed by our needs and the top of the hierarchy of needs according to Maslow is the need for self actualization.

The need for sex, intimacy, family comes a distant third. Sex often doesn’t come to mind when you are failing in life.

Sex sex sex you guys don't get tired of talking about sex every seconds?

eazzzy1:
Even children know what they want before they have the urge to have sex or position themselves in the female eyes. Our decisions are governed by our needs and the top of the hierarchy of needs according to Maslow is the need for self actualization.

The need for sex, intimacy, family comes a distant third. Sex often doesn’t come to mind when you are failing in life.

That is the point. Maslow's hierarchy is sequential, not selective. You do not skip floors. Physiological needs, which include sex, sit at the base. You cannot self-actualise without sex and the stages below it.