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Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by stainzville(op): 11:00am On Jun 09
Recently, a close friend of mine dropped a bombshell during a hangout. He stated that he has ruled out marriage entirely. His reasons really off me with laugh .
His girlfriend’s constant nagging and deep-seated suspicion have completely drained his desire for commitment. "Bro, if dating her is this exhausting, imagine being legally bound to this drama for life," he said. grin
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by BrickandLace(f): 11:34am On Jun 09
Well thank God.

I have a loving fiancé.

He can't live without me .

I know he also loves his life....

Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by muyico(m): 11:52am On Jun 09
*Breaking News... Court throws out couples divorce application as husband impregnated the wife while the case was still in court...😂*😂😂😂
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by LordIsaac(m): 12:57pm On Jun 09
muyico:
*Breaking News... Court throws out couples divorce application as husband impregnated the wife while the case was still in court...😂*😂😂😂
I would do the same if I were the judge!
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by SamuraiXXX: 1:02pm On Jun 09
Marriage is now a very expensive venture
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by oz4real83(m): 1:24pm On Jun 09
That is the plan of the devil and the cause of all societal problems today. The family unit is the foundation of a good society, the more the devil goes after the family unit, the worse the society becomes💔. Imagine a man castigating marriages but has baby mamas, what kind of society will that behaviour create in the future? A disjointed society💔
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by oz4real83(m): 1:25pm On Jun 09
SamuraiXXX:
Marriage is now a very expensive venture
it is not an expensive venture if you and your partner sew your coat according to your cloth and are willing to support each other.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by PerfectStranger(m): 4:00pm On Jun 09
Funny how every woman believe they'll later end up with a rich partner.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by Diamond098454(f): 4:33pm On Jun 09
Are they really saying no to marriage? Many of them are busy buying expensive gifts here and there for girls. I don't understand why they are saying no to marriage according to you still can't do without girls .
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by Sirhush(m): 4:39pm On Jun 09
If no be to fulfill God plans, marriage no too favour we man kiss
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by chidifrank(m): 5:08pm On Jun 09
Diamond098454:
Are they really saying no to marriage? Many of them are busy buying expensive gifts here and there for girls. I don't understand why they are saying no to marriage according to you still can't do without girls .
Are you married?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by BUTTERMILKSUGAR(m): 6:47pm On Jun 09
PerfectStranger:
Funny how every woman believe they'll later end up with a rich partner.
In a country called the poverty Capital of the world 🤣🤣
Our lord is great
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by Diamond098454(f): 7:05pm On Jun 09
Why do you ask?
chidifrank:
Are you married?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by gutss(m): 8:21pm On Jun 09
She Left Her Husband Claiming “I Don’t Need A Man” – Here Is What Happened Next

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a386eqQgYd8
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by tanigororo: 8:41pm On Jun 09
And there are weekly owambe, hall are fully booked, wedding planners keep getting jobs, dey play.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by fyneboi79(m): 11:02pm On Jun 09
BrickandLace:
Well thank God.

I have a loving fiancé.

He can't live without me .

I know he also loves his life....
Thank goodness he is still a "fiancè" ..marriage is a complete waste of time.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by fyneboi79(m): 11:04pm On Jun 09
Diamond098454:
Are they really saying no to marriage? Many of them are busy buying expensive gifts here and there for girls. I don't understand why they are saying no to marriage according to you still can't do without girls .
Expensive gifts to keep their legs open for steady dumping of akamu grin
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by galantjoe(m): 5:20am On Jun 10
Most gals are naggers
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by galantjoe(m): 5:21am On Jun 10
Most gals are naggers

They re selfie titled beings
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by chidifrank(m): 6:30am On Jun 10
Diamond098454:
Why do you ask?
You should answer a question before giving your own question . Anyways, if you don't feel cool answering it here, I can ask you elsewhere. Whats your email?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by Neverlosemoney: 7:39am On Jun 10
oz4real83:
That is the plan of the devil and the cause of all societal problems today. The family unit is the foundation of a good society, the more the devil goes after the family unit, the worse the society becomes💔. Imagine a man castigating marriages but has baby mamas, what kind of society will that behaviour create in the future? A disjointed society💔
And the birth of Nephilim's.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by APOPTOSIS: 10:27am On Jun 10
BrickandLace:
Well thank God.
I have a loving fiancé.
He can't live without me .

I know he also loves his life....
Unfortunately, that ur statement has an underlying Toxicity.
If someone can't live without you, then he's finished officially.
That never something u should brag about
I need to trace that caged man.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by SerikiFulani(m): 10:59am On Jun 10
Marriages don't benefit men anymore...Only a few marriages are working now...Forget what you see online and offline...So many marriages ain't even working anymore...So many couples don't even talk at home,some don't find their partners interesting or appealing anymore, some women are leeches with no contribution to the house..That's by the way.

Every single woman in this country wanna get married to a rich man in a poverty capital like Nigeria with a demonic man as President not to talk of Inflation and high cost of living...And you expect men to still have Interests in marriages? The few men who still have interests in marriages is cos of Pressure,Background and Self esteem...Marriage ain't shit anymore

Look around you and see wealthy and handsome men who are single with no hopes of getting married...I don't even wanna mention Celebrities,just normal niggas with funds...We live in a damaged generation with so many valueless and entitled women who ain't worth wifing.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by kiddaz: 11:36am On Jun 10
BrickandLace:
Well thank God.

I have a loving fiancé.

He can't live without me .

I know he also loves his life....
Good for you but that picture no follow sha. A man can't be happy when he's restricted. No one can be undecided
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by kiddaz: 11:42am On Jun 10
tanigororo:
And there are weekly owambe, hall are fully booked, wedding planners keep getting jobs, dey play.
The topic is a lot bigger than your wedding ceremonies and owambè. undecided
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by kiddaz: 11:50am On Jun 10
oz4real83:
That is the plan of the devil and the cause of all societal problems today. The family unit is the foundation of a good society, the more the devil goes after the family unit, the worse the society becomes💔. Imagine a man castigating marriages but has baby mamas, what kind of society will that behaviour create in the future? A disjointed society💔
You're right and he is winning. It all began with the phycologically weaker gender. He first sold Feminism which birthed equally> masculine women who don't need a man for anything, and what are men supposed to do? Marry a woman who will take you six feet under before your time?

So we chose to instead find peace and solitude in a small, uncomfortable space—like the corner of a flat roof exposed to the elements, which is far better than living in a large, luxurious house filled with constant conflict and arguing.

Proverbs 21:9
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by Diamond098454(f): 3:23pm On Jun 10
Like seriously?
chidifrank:
You should answer a question before giving your own question . Anyways, if you don't feel cool answering it here, I can ask you elsewhere. Whats your email?
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by tanigororo: 7:46pm On Jun 10
kiddaz:
The topic is a lot bigger than your wedding ceremonies and owambè. undecided
Dey Play
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by Mcslize: 4:34am On Jun 11
PerfectStranger:
Funny how every woman believe they'll later end up with a rich partner.
That's the delusional mindset many of them have. They can't separate imagination from reality. Evidence of too much Nollywood and India films.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by Fiscus105(m): 6:47am On Jun 11
stainzville:
Recently, a close friend of mine dropped a bombshell during a hangout. He stated that he has ruled out marriage entirely. His reasons really off me with laugh .
His girlfriend’s constant nagging and deep-seated suspicion have completely drained his desire for commitment. "Bro, if dating her is this exhausting, imagine being legally bound to this drama for life," he said. grin
What did you expect from frustrated teenagers who doesn't know is right hand from left,who cannot feed his own mouth let alone family.

Teenagers and young adults always thinking how their fresh and energetic, that's how they would be through out their life time.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by Fiscus105(m): 6:49am On Jun 11
SerikiFulani:
Marriages don't benefit men anymore...Only a few marriages are working now...Forget what you see online and offline...So many marriages ain't even working anymore...So many couples don't even talk at home,some don't find their partners interesting or appealing anymore, some women are leeches with no contribution to the house..That's by the way.

Every single woman in this country wanna get married to a rich man in a poverty capital like Nigeria with a demonic man as President not to talk of Inflation and high cost of living...And you expect men to still have Interests in marriages? The few men who still have interests in marriages is cos of Pressure,Background and Self esteem...Marriage ain't shit anymore

Look around you and see wealthy and handsome men who are single with no hopes of getting married...I don't even wanna mention Celebrities,just normal niggas with funds...We live in a damaged generation with so many valueless and entitled women who ain't worth wifing.
Let start from your own family, how many married and how many already separated?

How will marriage favour men, when men of today, refused to leave up to responsibilities, they only want freedom to fraud, drug, kidnapped and sleep with uncountable woman.

For me and my family, marriage favour us and will continue favour us.

I will advise you to wake up from self deceit and leave a responsible life, next 10 years, your eye would have been clear...........time wait for nobody.
Re: Why Are Nigerian Men Quietly Saying ‘no’ To Marriage? by SmartMaster001: 9:58am On Jun 11
Marriage is still a honourable institution to raise a family if you marry right.
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