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Women already have the next guy even before breakup

Toolegit123:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders. Of late,my fiancee and I broke up and I've been considering about going into a new relationship. I must really say all the time I was with my ex,I was so commitment to her to the extent that I didn't even have time for any other woman. She knew that and Peru that must be one of my weaknesses she saw.

But the truth is that it's been over a month we ended the relationship and I really long to go into another's relationship as an escape route for me to stop thinking about my ex.

So,my questions to you my fellow Nairalanders,how long should a man wait before going into another relationship after a break up? Is it right to find love as soon as possible considering the fact that the it was my ex who ended the relationship for reasons only known to her?

20yrs

Learn to enjoy your own company and being alone
When you are sure you can do this
Then you can go in search of a new relationship

Mine was a week sha... Once the relationship ends, I movvvveeeee. No hard feelings

Upgrade grade side chick to main babe, then get another side chick for backup.

As long as your healing process takes,.. take your time.

callmetade:
As long as your healing process takes,.. take your time.

I don't have the experience so I'm just saying

b0rn2fuck:
Women already have the next guy even before breakup

sharp

Put all your efforts and loneliness into making more money. Make good money and your ex will come back to beg you to take her back but then, it would have been late because level has changed.....for now, forget relationship and add value to yourself. Get to school and upgrade with masters or Bsc.....give more attention to your work, make more deal, get into business group that brings progressive deals. Forget about girls or ladies for now, make more money and more money and change your outlook, start dressing wealthy, change your car to a better one. Just change your look and probably your environment but your mind should be centered in making legitimate money.....I tell you, by the time you are up there, you wouldn't need to hustle over a nice girl.....

Toolegit123:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders. Of late,my fiancee and I broke up and I've been considering about going into a new relationship. I must really say all the time I was with my ex,I was so commitment to her to the extent that I didn't even have time for any other woman. She knew that and Peru that must be one of my weaknesses she saw.

But the truth is that it's been over a month we ended the relationship and I really long to go into another's relationship as an escape route for me to stop thinking about my ex.

So,my questions to you my fellow Nairalanders,how long should a man wait before going into another relationship after a break up? Is it right to find love as soon as possible considering the fact that the it was my ex who ended the relationship for reasons only known to her?

Efuaye:
Until you heal from the emotional wounds of the breakup.
Never go into another relationship just to prove a point to your ex.

Or else you will end up hurting the innocent partner! That is when rebound comes to play.

As soon as possible. Maka why?

Next day is fine

Toolegit123:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders. Of late,my fiancee and I broke up and I've been considering about going into a new relationship. I must really say all the time I was with my ex,I was so commitment to her to the extent that I didn't even have time for any other woman. She knew that and Peru that must be one of my weaknesses she saw.

But the truth is that it's been over a month we ended the relationship and I really long to go into another's relationship as an escape route for me to stop thinking about my ex.

So,my questions to you my fellow Nairalanders,how long should a man wait before going into another relationship after a break up? Is it right to find love as soon as possible considering the fact that the it was my ex who ended the relationship for reasons only known to her?

try an
you dont need a relationship, you only need it when you want to marry,
you only need sex and you can get it without being in realtionship, \
try and focus on your life and build your life

2 years
Complete healing

Toolegit123:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders. Of late,my fiancee and I broke up and I've been considering about going into a new relationship. I must really say all the time I was with my ex,I was so commitment to her to the extent that I didn't even have time for any other woman. She knew that and Peru that must be one of my weaknesses she saw.

But the truth is that it's been over a month we ended the relationship and I really long to go into another's relationship as an escape route for me to stop thinking about my ex.

So,my questions to you my fellow Nairalanders,how long should a man wait before going into another relationship after a break up? Is it right to find love as soon as possible considering the fact that the it was my ex who ended the relationship for reasons only known to her?

Depends, it took 2 years to let go😥. I dey mount everything now 🤷🏿

As soon as you're heal ..

Please do you mean breaking up with a girlfriend!? Or your wife divorced you?
If it is the former I don't know what you are waiting for. Are you expecting her back? OK you can wait for her since you are a fool. If not the moment she left you start looking for her replacement because she had replaced you long time ago before the so called break up
If the later you really need time to be healed (not less than 6months) because what you experienced was not a break up but "break down"

Toolegit123:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders. Of late,my fiancee and I broke up and I've been considering about going into a new relationship. I must really say all the time I was with my ex,I was so commitment to her to the extent that I didn't even have time for any other woman. She knew that and Peru that must be one of my weaknesses she saw.

But the truth is that it's been over a month we ended the relationship and I really long to go into another's relationship as an escape route for me to stop thinking about my ex.

So,my questions to you my fellow Nairalanders,how long should a man wait before going into another relationship after a break up? Is it right to find love as soon as possible considering the fact that the it was my ex who ended the relationship for reasons only known to her?

If you need another beautiful babe tomorrow, knack her. There is no time to waste time.

If Zenith Bank ATM no pay you, you go dey wait there? na to move to Gtbank ATM wey dey pay immediately na.

ipobarecriminals:
NO TIME TO WASTE TIME. MOVE ON TO NEXT LEVEL.

na so

Samantha125:
It should take four years.

Yeye dey smell. After I caught her cheating. I go upgrade someone from my friendzone sharp.

Naa ladies they act like this, Oga be a man. Who you won impress?

meobizy:
After a break up? You’re already a used good. Na to focus on living a lonely life till death. No difference between you and person wey carry disease.

Why u wicked like this?

Instanta

Toolegit123:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders. Of late,my fiancee and I broke up and I've been considering about going into a new relationship. I must really say all the time I was with my ex,I was so commitment to her to the extent that I didn't even have time for any other woman. She knew that and Peru that must be one of my weaknesses she saw.

But the truth is that it's been over a month we ended the relationship and I really long to go into another's relationship as an escape route for me to stop thinking about my ex.

So,my questions to you my fellow Nairalanders,how long should a man wait before going into another relationship after a break up? Is it right to find love as soon as possible considering the fact that the it was my ex who ended the relationship for reasons only known to her?

NA YOUR BODY N POCKET GO TELL YOU

In your lil mind,u 🤔 we all reside there with u jumping from Keke to okada/ trekking up/down..u are TOO SMALL

ogolemati:
na so

D question really should be hw can u heal fast? Cos u should heal to a gud point b4 another relationship.. at d same time, u don't want that to take 10 yrs!

Toolegit123:
Good day my fellow Nairalanders. Of late,my fiancee and I broke up and I've been considering about going into a new relationship. I must really say all the time I was with my ex,I was so commitment to her to the extent that I didn't even have time for any other woman. She knew that and Peru that must be one of my weaknesses she saw.

But the truth is that it's been over a month we ended the relationship and I really long to go into another's relationship as an escape route for me to stop thinking about my ex.

So,my questions to you my fellow Nairalanders,how long should a man wait before going into another relationship after a break up? Is it right to find love as soon as possible considering the fact that the it was my ex who ended the relationship for reasons only known to her?

Take a long break to repent from the sexual entanglement you got yourself into in the first place, then decide you won't sell yourself cheap again, either as a lady or man. The next phase is to ask yourself whether you are really ready for marriage or not. All those relationships you ate talking about, what are they really meant to do in your life? Shebi na to break that your heart wey you no too cherish. Stop deceiving yourself

Stop fornicating about and getting your heart broken by those who "wan chop go". No be only man dey chop dey go, women sef dey chop dey wipe mouth clean.

....roughly a century

ipobarecriminals:
In your lil mind,u 🤔 we all reside there with u jumping from Keke to okada/ trekking up/down..u are TOO SMALL

the devil once lived in heaven.which bus stop are you incharge at lagos

The way I get over babes or Ex is to get another to fill that vaccum that way you will hardly think of her ...

Girls specialises in this op...it works for me not necessarily dating another but just fuvvvcking.

No face for rotten mango

You break up , u move

What would holding on achieve

What you should ask your self is what have I learnt from the late relationship

Once you know it, refuse to repeat it and move on

If u don't move on you would be tempted to go back to your ex.