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This is not even a recent happening

So many good women have been kept single for life..

So many good women have lost out of good men— when they have been indoctrinated that a man is never good if he hasn’t carried Jesus and church for head too as they do

But girls always miss out on important details- that praying chruch brother that carries bible and all brother Jesus doesn’t mean he will make a good father and husband

In fact, many bad characters are hidden and disguised with religion and church activities

There are many good men who aren’t all that church and religious who will make a good husband and father.. responsible, caring ..

Many ladies have lost out - they will meet a good man, one that would care for them and very responsible then the next question would be- are you devoted Christian? Do you follow pastor Jerry eze teachings? Do you follow daddy go? And once it’s a maybe or no— they write him off and continue their yearly hallelujah challenge

Then you wonder why the average non church girls keep getting married to good men

Doing any of these daddy go, Jerry eze and hallelujah challenge stuffs is not enough in determining a good man and future father

I really sometimes feel so sorry of the ignorance of this indoctrinated ladies…
And the harsh truth, many of them will reach 40s and remain single for life

It would be too late before they realize they have set the wrong priorities…

To the Iya jesu at 25, better wake up…

To the Iya jesu at 35…how’s the search going? You thought it was going to be easy?

Iya jesu almost clocking 40… some of the guys you left out that aren’t Jesus babies, how often do you peak back at them and see them with their lovely wife and kids… are you wishing you took that gentleman when you had the chance?

Iya jesu that have divorced… your born again husband gave you the best life?
Hope Jesus is keeping you company and holy spirit is your spouse ?

Omoawoke:
✓ To the Iya jesu at 25, better wake up…
To the Iya jesu at 35…how’s the search going? You thought it was going to be easy?
Iya jesu almost clocking 40… some of the guys you left out that aren’t Jesus babies, how often do you peak back at them and see them with their lovely wife and kids… are you wishing you took that gentleman when you had the chance?
Iya jesu that have divorced… your born again husband gave you the best life?
Hope Jesus is keeping you company and holy spirit is your spouse ?

Leave these women alone and face the problems right in front of you. Islam is talking over Nigeria literally massacring its way through. Rather than get up, at least, to the defense of your freedoms and the freedoms of women and children in your community, you have instead cowardly and conveniently installed yourself as coochie- monitor? Why do you imagine yourself someone whose constant noise any woman should pay attention to? 🥱

Kobojunkie:
Leave these women alone and face the problems right in front of you. Islam is talking over Nigeria literally massacring its way through. Rather than get up to at least defense your right and the right of women and children to live free, you have conveniently installed yourself as coochie- monitor instead? Why do you imagine yourself someone whose constant noise any woman should pay attention to? 🥱

Lmao

Which one be coochie - monitor again?

I just come here once a while to express my thoughts on certain issues I see around.

This situation is a real case and it’s happening affecting many ladies.. fact!

Leave these women and face women wey no carry Jesus for head nah. Must you shook mouth into anything but important matters that affects you as a person?

Proserpina:
Leave these women and face women wey no carry Jesus for head nah. Must you shook mouth into anything but important matters that affects you as a person?

Why can't they marry the non-Jesus virtuous women? Are these guys okay?

pocohantas:
Why can't they marry the non-Jesus virtuous women? Are these guys okay?

They are the ones mostly getting married actually


Iya jesu are in church doing holiest than thou


Do you know how some of these Iya jesu have awful character but use Jesus and church stuffs as screen savers

Some of these ladies are so judgmental, self righteous and holy …

I meet a lady, pretty girl, good career and looks all good from the outside… when i got closer, it was all an illusion… to listen to music, do small hangouts and all- she would say they are worldly things.. we can’t even hug.. not to talk of small kiss …
Listening to even country music is worldly to her.. it must be gospel.. which kind of life is that?

Lmao… not a mockery but just expressing my mind that these ladies need to open up and be more flexible.. not locked up in chains of religion and indoctrination …
Those holiest than thou doesn’t qualify a good wife or she’s a good person ..
And a young gentleman enjoying non gospel music or exploring thng others than church activities isn’t a demon

Omoawoke:
They are the ones mostly getting married actually


Iya jesu are in church doing holiest than thou

Naso. Today it is non-virtuous getting married. Tomorrow it would be otherwise. Women done pass all this agenda.

pocohantas:
Naso. Today it is non-virtuous getting married. Tomorrow it would be otherwise. Women done pass all this agenda.

Sorry non- virtuous women not same as non Jesus virtuous women

The best women to ever have are the liberal ones that are virtuous

In fact, that’s the dream of ever man.. to meet a girl who can balance life, live life, explore the complete sphere of life and yet be virtuous — not an extreme religious woman who knows nothing other than two circles of life. - church - work.. Tufiaka

Yes of a truth the so call non Jesus virtuous women are the ones getting married giving birth to another man children in their husband house.if you like don't do DNA test of your children na your future palava.If you know the kind of skeleton in these married women cupboard you will be shock.Na who know na hin know.Dey play

Omoawoke:
Sorry non- virtuous women not same as non Jesus virtuous women

The best women to ever have are the liberal ones that are virtuous

In fact, that’s the dream of ever man.. to meet a girl who can balance life, live life, explore the complete sphere of life and yet be virtuous — not an extreme religious woman who knows nothing other than two circles of life. - church - work.. Tufiaka

Marry the one you like and tell us more about her. We have heard enough of the ones men do not dream of.

pocohantas:
Marry the one you like and tell us more about her. We have heard enough of the ones men do not dream of.

Are you Iya jesu??

Omoawoke:
Are you Iya jesu??

I am irreligious. I am not virtuous either.

I am just genuinely concerned why there are many lovely single women out there. Yet Nigerian men remain fixated on the ones they don't like. You guys prefer subdue to surrender. It beats me...

Omoawoke:
They are the ones mostly getting married actually


Iya jesu are in church doing holiest than thou


Do you know how some of these Iya jesu have awful character but use Jesus and church stuffs as screen savers

Some of these ladies are so judgmental, self righteous and holy …

I meet a lady, pretty girl, good career and looks all good from the outside… when i got closer, it was all an illusion… to listen to music, do small hangouts and all- she would say they are worldly things.. we can’t even hug.. not to talk of small kiss …
Listening to even country music is worldly to her.. it must be gospel.. which kind of life is that?

Lmao… not a mockery but just expressing my mind that these ladies need to open up and be more flexible.. not locked up in chains of religion and indoctrination …
Those holiest than thou doesn’t qualify a good wife or she’s a good person ..
And a young gentleman enjoying non gospel music or exploring thng others than church activities isn’t a demon

Just say you want ladies to be prostituting their bodies with for your pleasure.

pocohantas:
Why can't they marry the non-Jesus virtuous women? Are these guys okay?

I just weak.
They will still be the same to say good girls aren't in Church I just tire for Nl guys o.

mytrugistslog:
Just say you want ladies to be prostituting their bodies with for your pleasure.

No, that’s not what I’m saying

I’m sorry if that’s what your brain picked up from this post..

A woman can balance life, and living and exploring life is different from prostitution..
There are many ladies with good careers and earning well and enjoy traveling, going on trips , enjoying life and listening to good music and dressing well..
Not one Iya Jesu whey carry religion and church for head- yet na dem wicked pass

pocohantas:
I am irreligious. I am not virtuous either.

The red is interesting. Do you mind expanding on the blue?

Samking987:
Yes of a truth the so call non Jesus virtuous women are the ones getting married giving birth to another man children in their husband house.if you like don't do DNA test of your children na your future palava.If you know the kind of skeleton in these married women cupboard you will be shock.Na who know na hin know.Dey play

You will be well deceived to think church girls make the best wives … lol

Life will teach you a lesson, women will ensure that you learn some lessons the hard way

The problem is when you choose a partner because he or she goes to church frequently, without checking deeply their personal characters and their morality.

If you want to know anybody, start by doubting and suspecting them. Continue, until you find nothing to doubt or suspect about them anymore.

Fear those church ladies, some have already damaged theirselves, then use church to cover up. Most ladies are like, after living a way world lives, they will now use church to cover up as if they are saints, I don't like taking them serious

Absolutely! It’s a simple matter of appealing to the eye and the mind. It's all about the subtle cues. And don't forget the power of a good smile – that's a definite plus, right?

pocohantas:
I am irreligious. I am not virtuous either.

I am just genuinely concerned why there are many lovely single women out there. Yet Nigerian men remain fixated on the ones they don't like. You guys prefer subdue to surrender. It beats me...

Human beings are wired to solve challenges, that's why that dopamine hit is there waiting at the end of every successful endeavour...no one values anything they get without having invested effort

Omoawoke:
They are the ones mostly getting married actually


Iya jesu are in church doing holiest than thou


Do you know how some of these Iya jesu have awful character but use Jesus and church stuffs as screen savers

Some of these ladies are so judgmental, self righteous and holy …

I meet a lady, pretty girl, good career and looks all good from the outside… when i got closer, it was all an illusion… to listen to music, do small hangouts and all- she would say they are worldly things.. we can’t even hug.. not to talk of small kiss …
Listening to even country music is worldly to her.. it must be gospel.. which kind of life is that?

Lmao… not a mockery but just expressing my mind that these ladies need to open up and be more flexible.. not locked up in chains of religion and indoctrination …
Those holiest than thou doesn’t qualify a good wife or she’s a good person ..
And a young gentleman enjoying non gospel music or exploring thng others than church activities isn’t a demon

Join (or pretend to join ) the Grail Message movement...actually I don't know what they call themselves officially but they're the place where you'll get the highest concentration of the type of women you seek

IbnB:
Join (or pretend to join ) the Grail Message movement...actually I don't know what they call themselves officially but they're the place where you'll get the highest concentration of the type of women you seek

Hahaha

How can I join them? Are they on Instagram ?

Omoawoke:
Hahaha

How can I join them? Are they on Instagram ?

No you have to be there physically

They probably have an Instagram account but you can't achieve bonafide membership via social media

I avoid religious girls like plague

IbnB:
Human beings are wired to solve challenges, that's why that dopamine hit is there waiting at the end of every successful endeavour...no one values anything they get without having invested effort

Same guys advise others to marry women who loves them more. Or tell us how they have stopped chasing women who are hard to get. But according to you, Nigerian men love solving challenges. It would actually make sense if they spend more time speaking of the kinda women they like. Marry these women and treat them right.

Alas, the OP himself said on another thread 2-3wks ago that what he does is fck and move. Interesting he thinks he is in a good position to give relationship and premarital advice.

Doing any of these daddy go, Jerry eze and hallelujah challenge stuffs is not enough in determining a good man and future father

Some men will so this just to impress s woman when he is not really the type and she will be happy.

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Omoawoke:
You will be well deceived to think church girls make the best wives … lol

Life will teach you a lesson, women will ensure that you learn some lessons the hard way

Yes of a truth you will be deceive by a church girl,if you too you are deceiving your self in the presence of God.
NEW LIVING TRANSLATION (2 Timothy 3:5)
They will act religious, but they will reject the power that could make them godly. Stay away from people like that!(These are the so called virtuous women in the world that run to church to deceive gullible men into marriage.
To this life can't teach me a lesson.IIIIIII CAN'T BE DECEIVE

pocohantas:
Same guys advise others to marry women who loves them more. Or tell us how they have stopped chasing women who are hard to get. But according to you, Nigerian men love solving challenges. It would actually make sense if they spend more time speaking of the kinda women they like. Marry these women and treat them right.

Alas, the OP himself said on another thread 2-3wks ago that what he does is fck and move. Interesting he thinks he is in a good position to give relationship and premarital advice.

There’s a big misunderstanding of my position and views…
Maybe it’s because I don’t fake things, I dish out the harsh facts that most people pretend on…
Do you think I’m an issue and the devil himself ? Lmao…

I think freely and liberal… and far from being damaged or would want to cause harm to people… if I like a girl, she’s down to fvk… we are adults, of course let’s get to it… and the interesting thing is I’m even the victim here lol… do you know how many free sex I’ve turned down and still turning down?
I’ve had times when the ladies are the ones who even book their flight down to my place just to fvk… no joke..
Yet i try to be fair, many things I say here are real life cases happening and which I’m a witness…

But people come online to behave like the most saints, like the most moral, or the ladies that come here and act like they don’t need men when I interact with same independent ladies offline crying on my shoulders how lonely they are…

My last thread about women empowerment contributing to lonely independent women, I got lots of insults and bashing for it- but I proved everything with data and facts and all evidences posted… but people would get emotional and begin to attack me..
Lmao