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Here's why I didn't have sex till 42 years

What made me stay without sex till 42



I was a church boy, redeemed, and my dad was a a pastor.


I was shy too and didn't start saying hi or hello to girls till I reached 23.

I was always busy with my dads building materials shop, and didn't have much 1 on 1 conversations with girls.


No girlfriend.

At 25 my friends were mocking me and wanted me to follow them to olosho house, but I was a pastor som.


Then after graduation life became tough and I still didn't have time for relationship, but I had my own apartment single room I pay rent.


Friends were trying to convince me to carry hook up come house since I now have my place.


But I wanted my first experience to be with someone I had a rapport with, even though not my girlfriend, even though I just met her and we started talking.


I didn't want it to be with someone openly selling her body to men.



So i held on and tried.

Now I'm 42, and have found a girl that we became friends at my place of work.


I'm still wondering how to go about it because I don't want to come off inexperienced or shy.

Should I forget everything and practice with a hookcusp girl or continue trying to see if I get a girl.

I'm almost 45.

Get an intimacy doll and train with it.

Samantha125:
Get an intimacy doll and train with it.

It's different from the real thing.

I was just about to create a thread to talk about men like you…

The over religious men who are too selective and judge women for not being virgins or for not dressing like women from 1960 and living their lives according to their own standards..
Lol

You are 45 years old man and you don’t know how a choochie looks, taste and feels…

You have failed your manhood
You have failed humanity


You may end up marrying for the wrong reasons

You could try out with some holes at home.
Tiger blade has 3 holes, with just one tiger blade, that’s a 4-sum.

A picture of you or I don't believe it

Na pon pon pon talk be this na...e no sweet for hear at all

Whaaat
Omor the semen go don turn agidi be that... If you mistake knack any girl she will take in that very minute and she go confirm am

Try and get a girl, that’s better and safer.

Forget about the hookup thing.

lovediehatelive:
It's different from the real thing.

How do u know is different from d real thing? Keep deceiving urself, church brothers n sisters with pretence is 5,&6.

On judgement day, we will c ur playback on a very very big screen.

At 42 you should be thinking of settling down building with the right Woman not olosho and hookup

lovediehatelive:
Here's why I didn't have sex till 42 years

What made me stay without sex till 42



I was a church boy, redeemed, and my dad was a a pastor.


I was shy too and didn't start saying hi or hello to girls till I reached 23.

I was always busy with my dads building materials shop, and didn't have much 1 on 1 conversations with girls.


No girlfriend.

At 25 my friends were mocking me and wanted me to follow them to olosho house, but I was a pastor som.


Then after graduation life became tough and I still didn't have time for relationship, but I had my own apartment single room I pay rent.


Friends were trying to convince me to carry hook up come house since I now have my place.


But I wanted my first experience to be with someone I had a rapport with, even though not my girlfriend, even though I just met her and we started talking.


I didn't want it to be with someone openly selling her body to men.



So i held on and tried.

Now I'm 42, and have found a girl that we became friends at my place of work.


I'm still wondering how to go about it because I don't want to come off inexperienced or shy.

Should I forget everything and practice with a hookcusp girl or continue trying to see if I get a girl.

I'm almost 45.

propose and marry her then you can nack freely. Watch wholesome sexuality YouTube channel for tips on how to nack


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cyZryTGew-Q?si=vshOItP2_DktMxqo

Still, it's better than nothing... Practice missionary with it, and don't ask me what is missionary...😑😑😑... For more information, Google is your friend.

lovediehatelive:
It's different from the real thing.

Amotolongbo:
You could try out with some holes at home.
Tiger blade has 3 holes, with just one tiger blade, that’s a 4-sum.

WAaaat!!!

You want to castraaate me?

Wealthyonos:
A picture of you or I don't believe it

If you see my face you will faint

Aleem26:
Na pon pon pon talk be this na...e no sweet for hear at all

That's why I bring am make una add sugar

kiddaz:
Whaaat
Omor the semen go don turn agidi be that... If you mistake knack any girl she will take in that very minute and she go confirm am

You don minnit?

Uche559:
How do u know is different from d real thing? Keep deceiving urself, church brothers n sisters with pretence is 5,&6.

On judgement day, we will c ur playback on a very very big screen.

On Judgment day make angel sha no play my tape o


But on a serious note real sex and self help are different.

Someone who self help can hardly approach a girl, that confidence won't be there compared to someone that has been with her physically.

Dabronze:
At 42 you should be thinking of settling down building with the right Woman not olosho and hookup

I don't want to enter marriage without za oza room confidence.

Imagine say na madam dey teach me , e make sense?


Na me suppose dey teach her.

But now I'm left with difficult option:

If I go with oloshe, I would learn well, but how about my childhood church promise that my first knack would not be with a oloshe.

At fist I said it would be on my wedding night but reality dot com don hit me.

J2ff:
propose and marry her then you can nack freely. Watch wholesome sexuality YouTube channel for tips on how to nack


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cyZryTGew-Q?si=vshOItP2_DktMxqo

Watching how to drive is not the same as mounting the bike to learn.

What if I dissatisfied her, marriage don begin get k leg o.


Na one advantage of wayward lifestyle be this.

Person for don learn all the corner finish

Samantha125:
Still, it's better than nothing... Practice missionary with it, and don't ask me what is missionary...😑😑😑... For more information, Google is your friend.

The missionaries came to preach and brought Christianity to Africa. I think it is out of the scope.


I don't want to be preaching and having evil thoughts .

All the answers on Google someone wrote them, so you too can contribute to Google

The thing about women for 2026 now, even the ones wey you think say they sweet go still test you. The girl for your workplace, just make sure she no dey date colleague for same office. You no want drama.

Just talk to her like normal man, carry am go somewhere quiet one evening. No need to practice with anybody. If the connection there, e go flow naturally. But if you fit imagine say you go freeze when time come... well, nobody dey judge.

42 years? Men you are old ,trust me you will have challenges attracting the kind of women you desire they will term you too old.

This is impossible

lovediehatelive:
You don minnit?

Lol I know say you no serious sha but if na real, she nor go know. Just enter YouTube and you still fit find loose for area take train small

Absolutely! It’s all about the subtle cues. a little boost to keep things flowing, right? It’s all about the perfect moment, really. a little bit of playful persuasion.

lovediehatelive:
It's different from the real thing.

How do you know when you've not tried any of them, Mr. Linus?

Even at 42, you never still wise up. The issue is that you attach importance to less important issues, you should have either been married or be planning to get married by now. You don't need to be taught sex, you will always find your way with the right person. You should stay off those your friends that keep giving you advise to patronize prostitutes, they are not helping you at all.

You spent your whole life making decisions for yourself. Why are you now asking us what to do? When things go sour from our decision, you will still come here to blame us. My friend, carry your cross. It has worked for you now for… 42 years.

Should I forget everything and practice with a hookcusp girl or continue trying to see if I get a girl.

My brother, don't throw away something you have faithfully preserved for over four decades because of pressure from people. At almost 45, it would be a tragic mistake to exchange your convictions for a few moments of pleasure just to feel accepted.

The Bible says, "You are of God, little children, and have overcome them: because greater is He that is in you, than he that is in the world." — 4:4. You don't have to bow to peer pressure or worldly expectations.

Also remember, "Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him." — 2:15.

Your purity is not a burden; it is a testimony. Don't let ungodly counsel destroy what God has helped you keep. If marriage is your desire, pray, trust God, and pursue an honourable relationship. There is no need to "practice" with a prostitute or hookup partner. Sex is not an achievement to prove yourself; it is a gift God designed for marriage.

I got married as a virgin, and my wife was also a virgin. We learned together, and our marriage has been fulfilling. Experience is not what makes a marriage successful—love, commitment, patience, and God's grace do.

"Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding; in all your ways acknowledge Him, and He shall direct your paths." — 3:5–6.

Stay faithful. Hold on to your convictions. God's way always brings lasting peace, and in His time, you will never regret waiting.

lovediehatelive:
Here's why I didn't have sex till 42 years

What made me stay without sex till 42



I was a church boy, redeemed, and my dad was a a pastor.


I was shy too and didn't start saying hi or hello to girls till I reached 23.

I was always busy with my dads building materials shop, and didn't have much 1 on 1 conversations with girls.


No girlfriend.

At 25 my friends were mocking me and wanted me to follow them to olosho house, but I was a pastor som.


Then after graduation life became tough and I still didn't have time for relationship, but I had my own apartment single room I pay rent.


Friends were trying to convince me to carry hook up come house since I now have my place.


But I wanted my first experience to be with someone I had a rapport with, even though not my girlfriend, even though I just met her and we started talking.


I didn't want it to be with someone openly selling her body to men.



So i held on and tried.

Now I'm 42, and have found a girl that we became friends at my place of work.


I'm still wondering how to go about it because I don't want to come off inexperienced or shy.

Should I forget everything and practice with a hookcusp girl or continue trying to see if I get a girl.

I'm almost 45.

look for a virgin to marry . Forget every other alternative

lovediehatelive:
Here's why I didn't have sex till 42 years

What made me stay without sex till 42



I was a church boy, redeemed, and my dad was a a pastor.


I was shy too and didn't start saying hi or hello to girls till I reached 23.

I was always busy with my dads building materials shop, and didn't have much 1 on 1 conversations with girls.


No girlfriend.

At 25 my friends were mocking me and wanted me to follow them to olosho house, but I was a pastor som.


Then after graduation life became tough and I still didn't have time for relationship, but I had my own apartment single room I pay rent.


Friends were trying to convince me to carry hook up come house since I now have my place.


But I wanted my first experience to be with someone I had a rapport with, even though not my girlfriend, even though I just met her and we started talking.


I didn't want it to be with someone openly selling her body to men.



So i held on and tried.

Now I'm 42, and have found a girl that we became friends at my place of work.


I'm still wondering how to go about it because I don't want to come off inexperienced or shy.

Should I forget everything and practice with a hookcusp girl or continue trying to see if I get a girl.

I'm almost 45.

Relax yourself bros there is nothing there just relax there is always a first time in everything but don't ever carry hooks is terrible as a virgin guy. Be yourself just relax