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I noticed that there have been lots of open doors for me since my fiancee and soon-to-be wife came into my life. Things have just been happening magically. The jobs I had been expecting since clicked without stress. Now I'm transitioning from the private sector to a good job in a public institution. This something I had waited for since going to 3years.

Also, there has been influx of funds from debtors to those making donations and so on. My wedding is around the corner and I was hitherto worried about funds to cover all the things I needed to do for the event but honestly, things have just been taking shape in a way that seems magical.

I am beginning to agree with the saying that he who finds a woman findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God. Please, let the blessings continue to flow even after the marriage...Amen

Jman06:
I noticed that there have been lots of open doors for me since my fiancee and soon-to-be wife came into my life. Things have just been happening magically. The jobs I had been expecting since clicked without stress. Now I'm transitioning from the private sector to a good job in a public institution. This something I had waited for since going to 3years.

Also, there has been influx of funds from debtors to those making donations and so on. My wedding is around the corner and I was hitherto worried about funds to cover all the things I needed to do for the event but honestly, things have just been taking shape in a way that seems magical.

I am beginning to agree with the saying that he who finds a woman findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God. Please, let the blessings continue to flow even after the marriage...Amen

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Most people own different ooo. No use ur own judge anoda man

Of course ! If done properly

Jman06:
I noticed that there have been lots of open doors for me since my fiancee and soon-to-be wife came into my life. Things have just been happening magically. The jobs I had been expecting since clicked without stress. Now I'm transitioning from the private sector to a good job in a public institution. This something I had waited for since going to 3years.

Also, there has been influx of funds from debtors to those making donations and so on. My wedding is around the corner and I was hitherto worried about funds to cover all the things I needed to do for the event but honestly, things have just been taking shape in a way that seems magical.

I am beginning to agree with the saying that he who finds a woman findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God. Please, let the blessings continue to flow even after the marriage...Amen

Congratulations to you and yours!!

Let me correct you bro, marriage no dey bring luck atall. It's just that when you marry, you tend to be more careful with spending and you want another source of income because you've automatically inherited a liability. Which luck na marriage de give? The luck wey she no fit give her ex boyfriends abi na another one. Some of una wey call unaselves men dey make me laugh.
You meet a non-virgin wey numerous men don sleep with, you tell her say "babe I wan privatize your kpekus make E be mine alone. I no want make people dey chop am again as usual (that's the definition of marrying a non-virgin)", that na wetin marriage dey all about nowadays for Nigeria. So how she take bring you luck as a man? If sh get luck, why she no use the luck on her siblings? Bro she no bring you luck, you only doubled your hustle. Anyways, that's not really my concern sha. Have you done DNA test Oga?

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA

With the right and divine woman

Your spouse have the greater influence in your life,

They can mar you or make


Shalom

I know of having children that will bring you favours and opportunities not wife.
With or without marriage, doors would have still been open for you.
Was it not doors that opened for you before you decided to pay her Bride price and wedding costs?
No let that woman brainwash you abeg, with or without her presence you have been making it and will always make it if you apply diligence to your hustle.

I’m happy for you and God bless your Home

Her star is compatible with yours.. it's not always so in all cases.

Dey whine yourself. Marriage with a Nigerian woman brings blessings? In which planet?

Please sit with your father or an older experienced man and listen to his advice, listen to not just the things he say but those he won't say, most especially, the wisdom in his silence and questions he avoids.

I rarely know any happily married man, married to a Nigerian woman. Keyword: "Happily".

Wish you success on your upcoming marriage.
May the forces of nature bring you luck and the gods of fertility bless you with twins.

Namaste.

"Women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes is possible, in a way he thinks she should be capable of." - Rational Male

"Our girlfriends, our wives, daughters and even our mothers are all incapable of this idealized love." - Rational Male

"Women fundamentally lack the capacity to fully realize, much less appreciate the sacrifices a man makes to facilitate her reality. Even the most enlightened, appreciative woman you know still operates in a feminine-centric reality." - Rational Male

Absolute nonsense

People who are now divorced must have thought or said the same thing at one point in their married life when the going was so good before everything went sour

My point is: there is absolutely no basis for your belief

But then again, you are free to continue to practice your self delusion

Continue deceiving yourself. Marry when you know you are financially, mentally and physically stable. Don't expect any goodluck or magic from anywhere, what works for mr A might not work for mr B

I don't know what to believe honestly, blessings come in anyways or position you are, regardless of marriage or no marriage, having children or having none, it's just your luck.
If you insinuate on marriage bringing blessings it mean all the married people are doing well which isn't true, it's just luck bro.

Do not cheat on your partner. If you do, the doors of hell will be opened to you.

Stay faithful.

God hates unfaithful men.

She is a wet leaf woman.
When you meet a dry leaf woman, you will be ruined for life.

This is quite insightful.. The main thing is to find a good wife so as to obtain favour from God as Bible talk am.

Congrats to you. However, I will advise you to stop belittling your effort in regards to your success. You must have put in some works before you get the new job, praise your God and your efforts. You must have borrowed some people money for you to be getting payment from your debtors. It’s all you and your God. Not because of some marriage. Start appreciating yourself and your efforts and don’t tie your blessings to your woman.

Kids too. Each kid comes with blessings.

I can testify to this

Lol, Bros just marry and e de sweet am. As some people say, marriage is up and down, guess you are currently in the ups.

Maybe, maybe not.
What I know is that I married my wife with all my savings then.
I have never lacked from then on till date.

Jman06:
I am beginning to agree with the saying that he who finds a woman findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God. Please, let the blessings continue to flow even after the marriage...Amen

I don't believe marriage brings goodluck just like that, but I believe it is more of synergy. Maybe better ideas and moves. You are more intentional about protecting your family's future and finances, which is lovely to read.

As long as you keep to our agreement over your fiancee, we are good. But if I hear any complaints from her end, I will drag you alongside NL draculas.

Congratulations and I tap into that blessing.

He that findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from the Lord.

I however think it works best when both agree and are intentional about the progress of the union.

What kind of useless thread is this.

So all those things started happening to you because of her? Was she herself rich already before you met her abi the luck no dey work for her?

Guyman, relax!

Just relax

E work for Mr.A no mean say e go work for Mr.B .

as you said its luck hope when it runs out and you start seeing the other side of marriage you will be ready too?.

Lalami3232:
Let me correct you bro, marriage no dey bring luck atall. It's just that when you marry, you tend to be more careful with spending and you want another source of income because you've automatically inherited a liability. Which luck na marriage de give? The luck wey she no fit give her ex boyfriends abi na another one. Some of una wey call unaselves men dey make me laugh.
You meet a non-virgin wey numerous men don sleep with, you tell her say "babe I wan privatize your kpekus make E be mine alone. I no want make people dey chop am again as usual (that's the definition of marrying a non-virgin)", that na wetin marriage dey all about nowadays for Nigeria. So how she take bring you luck as a man? If sh get luck, why she no use the luck on her siblings? Bro she no bring you luck, you only doubled your hustle. Anyways, that's not really my concern sha. Have you done DNA test Oga?

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA

How do you know if his wife is a non-virgin?

Besides he that findeth a wife findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from the Lord. Proverbs 18:22

Some non-virgins are actually more faithful than virgins.

pocohantas:
I don't believe marriage brings goodluck just like that, but I believe it is more of synergy. Maybe better ideas and moves. You are more intentional about protecting your family's future and finances, which is lovely to read.

As long as you keep to our agreement over your fiancee, we are good. But if I hear any complaints from her end, I will drag you alongside NL draculas.

Lolzzz...I honestly believe there's a sort of divine intervention. It's not about synergy or personal efforts because I had been synergising and trying hard before now. Those favours actually came without me breaking a sweat.

Don't worry poco, I'll take very good care of my girl. I can assure you that you won't hear any negative stories about my marriage.