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cutieBR:
Congratulations to you and yours!!

Thank you very much

You are lucky then.
Marriage took me back financially like mad.
Before getting married I could buy cars without blinking. Now, I cant even cough out 1 million in a month peacefully.

I wish i never got married. Its too stressful.

N.B.
My wife doesn't give me problems. Its just that the responsibilities and all that comes with Marriage is too much

Jman06:
I noticed that there have been lots of open doors for me since my fiancee and soon-to-be wife came into my life. Things have just been happening magically. The jobs I had been expecting since clicked without stress. Now I'm transitioning from the private sector to a good job in a public institution. This something I had waited for since going to 3years.

Also, there has been influx of funds from debtors to those making donations and so on. My wedding is around the corner and I was hitherto worried about funds to cover all the things I needed to do for the event but honestly, things have just been taking shape in a way that seems magical.

I am beginning to agree with the saying that he who finds a woman findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God. Please, let the blessings continue to flow even after the marriage...Amen

U never marry u done conclude
Maybe the girl na the trending ",I be water girl" chalatants

It depends on who you marry though.

Some women carry wahala, while others carry blessings.

Hmn. Some women ruin their husbands or become the rival of their husbands. Some women kill their husbands. Just be prayerful as a Man. Cheers.

Una don come again

Well, I have carefully read aome few comments here.
But like what I heard, some girls brings good good luck, while some brings bad luck.

I recently heard most yahoo boys goes to babalawo to check their girlfriends luck or star

Lalami3232:
Let me correct you bro, marriage no dey bring luck atall. It's just that when you marry, you tend to be more careful with spending and you want another source of income because you've automatically inherited a liability. Which luck na marriage de give? The luck wey she no fit give her ex boyfriends abi na another one. Some of una wey call unaselves men dey make me laugh.
You meet a non-virgin wey numerous men don sleep with, you tell her say "babe I wan privatize your kpekus make E be mine alone. I no want make people dey chop am again as usual (that's the definition of marrying a non-virgin)", that na wetin marriage dey all about nowadays for Nigeria. So how she take bring you luck as a man? If sh get luck, why she no use the luck on her siblings? Bro she no bring you luck, you only doubled your hustle. Anyways, that's not really my concern sha. Have you done DNA test Oga?

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA

Keep quiet. It's not everything you must counter. His relayed experience is a reality in some men's lives.

Jman06:
I noticed that there have been lots of open doors for me since my fiancee and soon-to-be wife came into my life. Things have just been happening magically. The jobs I had been expecting since clicked without stress. Now I'm transitioning from the private sector to a good job in a public institution. This something I had waited for since going to 3years.

Also, there has been influx of funds from debtors to those making donations and so on. My wedding is around the corner and I was hitherto worried about funds to cover all the things I needed to do for the event but honestly, things have just been taking shape in a way that seems magical.

I am beginning to agree with the saying that he who finds a woman findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God. Please, let the blessings continue to flow even after the marriage...Amen

Wait until children starts coming in, then you will know if it came with blessings or not

This is a perfect example of what we call "fallacy of hasty generalization" in philosophy. It's way too early to start making such a conclusion. Besides, no one gave you the right to speak for millions of other men seeing hell in their marriages. I bet you will still come back and delete this post, in say three years coming or even two sef. So Oga just take a chill pill and rest abeg.

Foolish mentality

"I am beginning to agree with the saying that he who finds a [/s]woman[s] [/b]wife[b] findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God."

There is a huge difference between finding a woman and finding a wife, especially in marriage.

OK thanks for the info

So why are we those online therapists saying just get one / two kids and forget about marriage saying na scam 🤷🤷🤷..... And for Internet we de see where de woman de go meet another Bobo make e service the punna well ??

😅😅😅 leave them with them rubbish

Lalami3232:
Let me correct you bro, marriage no dey bring luck atall. It's just that when you marry, you tend to be more careful with spending and you want another source of income because you've automatically inherited a liability. Which luck na marriage de give? The luck wey she no fit give her ex boyfriends abi na another one. Some of una wey call unaselves men dey make me laugh.
You meet a non-virgin wey numerous men don sleep with, you tell her say "babe I wan privatize your kpekus make E be mine alone. I no want make people dey chop am again as usual (that's the definition of marrying a non-virgin)", that na wetin marriage dey all about nowadays for Nigeria. So how she take bring you luck as a man? If sh get luck, why she no use the luck on her siblings? Bro she no bring you luck, you only doubled your hustle. Anyways, that's not really my concern sha. Have you done DNA test Oga?

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA

Painful exit
Brotherhood lost one

Mumu so why do Bible says , he who finds a wife fineth a good thing 🤷

Idiarabawilson:
😅😅😅 leave them with them rubbish

Well maybe you are just imagining

DeltaBachelor:
Of course ! If done properly

as how na? No be all women head correct.

Henkdata:
Good luck bro

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Isn't the saying, "He who finds a wife..."? I thought it was "he who finds a wife," not "he who finds a woman." 🤔

Your storyline reminds me of a pretty girl who lived on my street in Ile-Ife back then. I was told that she was quite "loose," but she had one unusual reputation: any guy who slept with her somehow became lucky in life: they either won the lottery or ended up traveling abroad! 😁

It's not the marriage per se. It's the lady you are getting marrying to. Some women bring good luck to any man in their lives.

There are also others that bring bad luck to any man in their lives. You will not understand. Your woman has good aura.

Just treat her right as far as she is submissive. If she is angry with you, things will go wrong o. So, always be a good husband and make her happy. Let me stop here.

@Jman06

Jman06:
I noticed that there have been lots of open doors for me since my fiancee and soon-to-be wife came into my life. Things have just been happening magically. The jobs I had been expecting since clicked without stress. Now I'm transitioning from the private sector to a good job in a public institution. This something I had waited for since going to 3years.

Also, there has been influx of funds from debtors to those making donations and so on. My wedding is around the corner and I was hitherto worried about funds to cover all the things I needed to do for the event but honestly, things have just been taking shape in a way that seems magical.

I am beginning to agree with the saying that he who finds a woman findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God. Please, let the blessings continue to flow even after the marriage...Amen

Don't let anybody brainwash you. Hold on to what you believe. What you believe work for you in life. Those that believe that if they marry it will drag them back because of increased financial responsibility always experience it because it is what they believe and that is the energy they emit and same energy is drawn to them to maintain energy balance. So keep believing that your new wife or your fiance is bringing you good luck and it will continue to be so for you, dont change that believe because of what people are saying here or anywhere else.


I love encouraging people with my personal life experience whenever I have the chance to do so. I am a happily married man, in few years from now I will be a decade in marriage, and I can boldly say that God has been awesome to me ever since I married my wife. Yes I didn't marry her as a broke man but I got instant confirmation from prior to our wedding day and immediately after our wedding, as in same day that my wife was about bringing plenty fortunes my way.


Before our wedding day, while we were lodged in the hotel doing last few days planning cos the wedding took place in a far away city from where I was residing then. A few days to my wedding, while in my hotel room, I got a surprisen email of a positive news of a small contract I applied months back and already canceled in my heart thinking I won't get it cos I just submitted quote for it carelessly without hoping to get a positive reply. Hold and behold I got a yes mail 3 days to my wedding.


Few hours after our wedding, we were now together in one hotel room, relaxing and laughing at the event. It wasn't that stressful for us cos I made it simple; no gifting, no MC trying to do things to raise funds, just strictly to witness our joining together, get entertained and boom finish. Right there in the room, I received a call asking me if I could make an instant supply for something worth millions. It was like magic I must say. In less than 48hrs, I concluded the whole supply and made a profit of millions. I even started suspecting my wife whether she was a witch cos I confided in a very close married friend out of fear and curiosity lolz. He encouraged me not to worry that it happens to some people when they get married and not common to every couple, that I should thank God for it that this my wife go bring me fortunes oh, that it seems our stars match, I laughed, we laughed.


In order not to make my comment too long, my brother like I said that I didn't marry my wife as a broke single man, I was doing fine to an extent Sha, but immediately after I married her, my life took a fast turnaround like magic, everything started changing so fast for better. Me that was happy that I was doing well started witnessing a new type of financial success that I never witnessed while single. It became more as soon as she gave birth to our first child, that one come be like say he went to where they kept money fortunes and used his legs to smash the locked door chains and boom, things turned around for me. My small one man business I was managing after quitting working for others started transforming to a small company like play lol. I then realized some of my wishes while single; I wished to be a boss and an employer of graduates before I marry. I wished to carry my son to my office to show him my office as a company owner. These were some of my wishes while single, so it was like marriage and having a child brought those wishes to reality for me. When I was single, I also wished to buy my wife a car and give her a driver when she gives birth, so as I saw how God was blessing me after I married my wife and immediately she gave birth, I quickly hired a driver for her that drove her to work and back shortly after she gave birth. I fulfilled that my wish and anytime I reflect on thesr things, tears of joy fill my eyes. Dear Lord, I am still grateful to you, thank you Jehovah for your mercy and blessing upon my wife. Let me stop here.



My point is, marriage and child bearing bring good luck or good fortunes to some people and families while its otherwise for some people. Same thing happened to my father when he married my now late mother. My father and even my mother told us the story. My mother brought light to my father's life. Same applies to my elder sister. So it happens, hold on to that believe that your fiance has brought you good luck and glorify God for it, dont harbor any negative thought towards her or your marriage, just believe that you will become bigger after your wedding and it will be so for you. Those that confess that to marry is hard and that to find a good wife or husband is hard will always find it hard. We attract what we believe, think, wish and confess with our mouth most of the times.


This is why people go into serious prayers before choosing someone to marry, me I did not pray oh, maybe I was lucky or God just decided to show me mercy but I won't lie, I never prayed for revelation of who to marry but many people do it and its good if one can identify good man of God to intercede for him or her in prayers before accepting to marry anyone. in the olden days, Igbos consulted soothsayers and traditional priests, but I will only advice people to seek God's direction via a true man of God or Prophet.

Wishing you and your fiance Godspeed and more wins as you guys prepare to start that wonderful journey of life as couple

Think of yourself and your future wife as two waves meeting in phase, creating constructive interference.

Together, your combined amplitude is greater than either of you could produce alone.

Some relationships create the opposite. Their waves cancel each other out through destructive interference, leaving both people diminished rather than amplified.

Jman06:
I noticed that there have been lots of open doors for me since my fiancee and soon-to-be wife came into my life. Things have just been happening magically. The jobs I had been expecting since clicked without stress. Now I'm transitioning from the private sector to a good job in a public institution. This something I had waited for since going to 3years.

Also, there has been influx of funds from debtors to those making donations and so on. My wedding is around the corner and I was hitherto worried about funds to cover all the things I needed to do for the event but honestly, things have just been taking shape in a way that seems magical.

I am beginning to agree with the saying that he who finds a woman findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God. Please, let the blessings continue to flow even after the marriage...Amen

You are not yet married. So the actual thing that is happening to you is that she carries positive energy that is activating some good things in your life, this is also possible because your energies both align. She could be with someone else yet nothing of such will happen. Life is far more spiritual than physical.
Now that you have noticed the positive energy, you have a lot to do, that is you need not do things that will make her unhappy, such as telling lies to get her into marrying you. Some positive energy can be locked or disconnected innocently when the carrier is unhappy or ones there is emotional disconnection between the carrier and the beneficiary

I laugh in Senegalese,I wish you Good luck and more prosperity.

Jman06:
I noticed that there have been lots of open doors for me since my fiancee and soon-to-be wife came into my life. Things have just been happening magically. The jobs I had been expecting since clicked without stress. Now I'm transitioning from the private sector to a good job in a public institution. This something I had waited for since going to 3years.

Also, there has been influx of funds from debtors to those making donations and so on. My wedding is around the corner and I was hitherto worried about funds to cover all the things I needed to do for the event but honestly, things have just been taking shape in a way that seems magical.

I am beginning to agree with the saying that he who finds a woman findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God. Please, let the blessings continue to flow even after the marriage...Amen

Love is in the air! Congrats bro.

alizma:
You are not yet married. So the actual thing that is happening to you is that she carries positive energy that is activating some good things in your life, this is also possible because your energies both align. She could be with someone else yet nothing of such will happen. Life is far more spiritual than physical.
Now that you have noticed the positive energy, you have a lot to do, that is you need not do things that will make her unhappy, such as telling lies to get her into marrying you. Some positive energy can be locked or disconnected innocently when the carrier is unhappy or ones there is emotional disconnection between the carrier and the beneficiary

Gbam!!

Ye who finds a wife , finds a good thing and obtain favor from the lord .. na favor from the lord you dey recieve so . Hold your wife tight ook .. ehn ehn.. but I think una both need premarital counseling , self discovery wey go make una last together well well

Lalami3232:
Let me correct you bro, marriage no dey bring luck atall. It's just that when you marry, you tend to be more careful with spending and you want another source of income because you've automatically inherited a liability. Which luck na marriage de give? The luck wey she no fit give her ex boyfriends abi na another one. Some of una wey call unaselves men dey make me laugh.
You meet a non-virgin wey numerous men don sleep with, you tell her say "babe I wan privatize your kpekus make E be mine alone. I no want make people dey chop am again as usual (that's the definition of marrying a non-virgin)", that na wetin marriage dey all about nowadays for Nigeria. So how she take bring you luck as a man? If sh get luck, why she no use the luck on her siblings? Bro she no bring you luck, you only doubled your hustle. Anyways, that's not really my concern sha. Have you done DNA test Oga?

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA

Did you read OP's post? DNA on what? Thats his fiance, they have no kids yet neither was it mentioned that shes pregnant. So, DNA cant be done on anything yet.