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Jman06:
I noticed that there have been lots of open doors for me since my fiancee and soon-to-be wife came into my life. Things have just been happening magically. The jobs I had been expecting since clicked without stress. Now I'm transitioning from the private sector to a good job in a public institution. This something I had waited for since going to 3years.

Also, there has been influx of funds from debtors to those making donations and so on. My wedding is around the corner and I was hitherto worried about funds to cover all the things I needed to do for the event but honestly, things have just been taking shape in a way that seems magical.

I am beginning to agree with the saying that he who finds a woman findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God. Please, let the blessings continue to flow even after the marriage...Amen

Continue checking the friends your wife keeps

Jman06:
Lolzzz...I honestly believe there's a sort of divine intervention. It's not about synergy or personal efforts because I had been synergising and trying hard before now. Those favours actually came without me breaking a sweat.

Don't worry poco, I'll take very good care of my girl. I can assure you that you won't hear any negative stories about my marriage.

lmfaoooooooooooo honeymoon stage still dey shack you.

Oga it's your woman that has good luck and is bringing that luck into your life making things easy. I know fa man that lost his job while on leave on day of his wedding. In some cases getting engaged to some ladies brings all kinds of bad luck. A woman can make your life significantly better or significantly worse.

Jman06:
I noticed that there have been lots of open doors for me since my fiancee and soon-to-be wife came into my life. Things have just been happening magically. The jobs I had been expecting since clicked without stress. Now I'm transitioning from the private sector to a good job in a public institution. This something I had waited for since going to 3years.

Also, there has been influx of funds from debtors to those making donations and so on. My wedding is around the corner and I was hitherto worried about funds to cover all the things I needed to do for the event but honestly, things have just been taking shape in a way that seems magical.

I am beginning to agree with the saying that he who finds a woman findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God. Please, let the blessings continue to flow even after the marriage...Amen

Jman06:
I noticed that there have been lots of open doors for me since my fiancee and soon-to-be wife came into my life. Things have just been happening magically. The jobs I had been expecting since clicked without stress. Now I'm transitioning from the private sector to a good job in a public institution. This something I had waited for since going to 3years.

Also, there has been influx of funds from debtors to those making donations and so on. My wedding is around the corner and I was hitherto worried about funds to cover all the things I needed to do for the event but honestly, things have just been taking shape in a way that seems magical.

I am beginning to agree with the saying that he who finds a woman findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God. Please, let the blessings continue to flow even after the marriage...Amen

Welcome to life, enjoy the positivity and brace yourself to receive the negativity

Hope you will also agree with the saying below when things start going sour cos its For BETTER for WORSE

Ejiakusmith:
So why are we those online therapists saying just get one / two kids and forget about marriage saying na scam 🤷🤷🤷..... And for Internet we de see where de woman de go meet another Bobo make e service the punna well ??

Those ones don't know what they are talking about. Baby mamaism is actually more expensive than marriage.

Technically, I believe it does because married men out-earn their single counterparts in most parts of the world. Also, when both persons' thoughts and beliefs are aligned properly, they go farther rather than far. It is your belief, and I won't knock down on it. The issue is when that belief system is being forced on other people.

Sorry to say oga. Your wife did not make your life significantly better. Women have spiritual powers knowingly or unknowingly that will direct spiritual favours your way. Obviously they will materialize physically if your hardworking. Your wife's energy is working against you even when she is not giving you issues that's the reason why your not as lucky or wealthy as in former times.some spiritual forces are at play

Justdogood:
You are lucky then.
Marriage took me back financially like mad.
Before getting married I could buy cars without blinking. Now, I cant even cough out 1 million in a month peacefully.

I wish i never got married. Its too stressful.

N.B.
My wife doesn't give me problems. Its just that the responsibilities and all that comes with Marriage is too much

You can say that for yourself and it can be true or you can go to ajegunle or moroko and see marriages that brought responsibility that people can not handle . People who are lazy towards responsible planning always believe in sudden luck. But how many luck will you find in one lifetime is the question.


The thing that marriage brings you is more consciouse duties, responsibility handled with sincere discipline. Most time this are what bring good final outcome. By the way what is luck?. Real men make their own luck.

A very deceptive post. I'm sure it's a woman that cooked all these stories to deceive men to marry.

Lol...No be lie you talk.

autoez:
A very deceptive post. I'm sure it's a woman that cooked all these stories to deceive men to marry.

In this age and time,some men still believe this kind thing? Smh...some dey even quote bible to justify their reasoning. Make Una try dey face reality...most of the things you believed, learnt while growing up are all lies. Everyday,I dey happy say my eye don open.

It depends on who you end up with. Some people would come into your life and turn it upside down, intentionally or otherwise. Some just come with this blessing and aura, once you sleep with them e go be like sey nah juju you run, while some will make you see paper on the ground and call it money.

Just pray make you no carry another man bones.

franchasng:
Don't let anybody brainwash you. Hold on to what you believe. What you believe work for you in life. Those that believe that if they marry it will drag them back because of increased financial responsibility always experience it because it is what they believe and that is the energy they emit and same energy is drawn to them to maintain energy balance. So keep believing that your new wife or your fiance is bringing you good luck and it will continue to be so for you, dont change that believe because of what people are saying here or anywhere else.


I love encouraging people with my personal life experience whenever I have the chance to do so. I am a happily married man, in few years from now I will be a decade in marriage, and I can boldly say that God has been awesome to me ever since I married my wife. Yes I didn't marry her as a broke man but I got instant confirmation from prior to our wedding day and immediately after our wedding, as in same day that my wife was about bringing plenty fortunes my way.


Before our wedding day, while we were lodged in the hotel doing last few days planning cos the wedding took place in a far away city from where I was residing then. A few days to my wedding, while in my hotel room, I got a surprisen email of a positive news of a small contract I applied months back and already canceled in my heart thinking I won't get it cos I just submitted quote for it carelessly without hoping to get a positive reply. Hold and behold I got a yes mail 3 days to my wedding.


Few hours after our wedding, we were now together in one hotel room, relaxing and laughing at the event. It wasn't that stressful for us cos I made it simple; no gifting, no MC trying to do things to raise funds, just strictly to witness our joining together, get entertained and boom finish. Right there in the room, I received a call asking me if I could make an instant supply for something worth millions. It was like magic I must say. In less than 48hrs, I concluded the whole supply and made a profit of millions. I even started suspecting my wife whether she was a witch cos I confided in a very close married friend out of fear and curiosity lolz. He encouraged me not to worry that it happens to some people when they get married and not common to every couple, that I should thank God for it that this my wife go bring me fortunes oh, that it seems our stars match, I laughed, we laughed.


In order not to make my comment too long, my brother like I said that I didn't marry my wife as a broke single man, I was doing fine to an extent Sha, but immediately after I married her, my life took a fast turnaround like magic, everything started changing so fast for better. Me that was happy that I was doing well started witnessing a new type of financial success that I never witnessed while single. It became more as soon as she gave birth to our first child, that one come be like say he went to where they kept money fortunes and used his legs to smash the locked door chains and boom, things turned around for me. My small one man business I was managing after quitting working for others started transforming to a small company like play lol. I then realized some of my wishes while single; I wished to be a boss and an employer of graduates before I marry. I wished to carry my son to my office to show him my office as a company owner. These were some of my wishes while single, so it was like marriage and having a child brought those wishes to reality for me. When I was single, I also wished to buy my wife a car and give her a driver when she gives birth, so as I saw how God was blessing me after I married my wife and immediately she gave birth, I quickly hired a driver for her that drove her to work and back shortly after she gave birth. I fulfilled that my wish and anytime I reflect on thesr things, tears of joy fill my eyes. Dear Lord, I am still grateful to you, thank you Jehovah for your mercy and blessing upon my wife. Let me stop here.



My point is, marriage and child bearing bring good luck or good fortunes to some people and families while its otherwise for some people. Same thing happened to my father when he married my now late mother. My father and even my mother told us the story. My mother brought light to my father's life. Same applies to my elder sister. So it happens, hold on to that believe that your fiance has brought you good luck and glorify God for it, dont harbor any negative thought towards her or your marriage, just believe that you will become bigger after your wedding and it will be so for you. Those that confess that to marry is hard and that to find a good wife or husband is hard will always find it hard. We attract what we believe, think, wish and confess with our mouth most of the times.


This is why people go into serious prayers before choosing someone to marry, me I did not pray oh, maybe I was lucky or God just decided to show me mercy but I won't lie, I never prayed for revelation of who to marry but many people do it and its good if one can identify good man of God to intercede for him or her in prayers before accepting to marry anyone. in the olden days, Igbos consulted soothsayers and traditional priests, but I will only advice people to seek God's direction via a true man of God or Prophet.

Wishing you and your fiance Godspeed and more wins as you guys prepare to start that wonderful journey of life as couple

Thank you very much for the wishes and detailed response. I have taken note of what you said. God bless you, sir.

Two are better than one; however, one can partner with the supreme being to beat two. These are ONLY spiritual concepts. If you choose a wrong partner, it destroy you. Also, if you stop being cooperative, you kill that leverage and it loads on your shoulder a heavy burden.

If you are single, do not let anyone push you into it. Those pushing you into it, how is their existence going? If you are broke, dont marry.

Jman06:
I noticed that there have been lots of open doors for me since my fiancee and soon-to-be wife came into my life. Things have just been happening magically. The jobs I had been expecting since clicked without stress. Now I'm transitioning from the private sector to a good job in a public institution. This something I had waited for since going to 3years.

Also, there has been influx of funds from debtors to those making donations and so on. My wedding is around the corner and I was hitherto worried about funds to cover all the things I needed to do for the event but honestly, things have just been taking shape in a way that seems magical.

I am beginning to agree with the saying that he who finds a woman findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God. Please, let the blessings continue to flow even after the marriage...Amen

Firstly, the quote is not about a woman but about a wife, which implies that the woman is good enough to be a wife material..

Secondly, success in life should not be measured in money alone, just as life itself is not about bread but rather about doing the will of God.

The will of God is to impact your environment positively for it to be for law and order that creates peace, security and stability for WIDESPREAD prosperity as well as government services and utilities for all.

I am tired of this yeye African perhaps Nigeria mentality of marriage or child bring Goodluck..
Total bullshit lol

Jman06:
I noticed that there have been lots of open doors for me since my fiancee and soon-to-be wife came into my life. Things have just been happening magically. The jobs I had been expecting since clicked without stress. Now I'm transitioning from the private sector to a good job in a public institution. This something I had waited for since going to 3years.

Also, there has been influx of funds from debtors to those making donations and so on. My wedding is around the corner and I was hitherto worried about funds to cover all the things I needed to do for the event but honestly, things have just been taking shape in a way that seems magical.

I am beginning to agree with the saying that he who finds a woman findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God. Please, let the blessings continue to flow even after the marriage...Amen

Say no more , only wise men understands this. From the meeting of your wife as girl frienď, you will start noticing serious positive vibes. The day you took the bold step to make her a wife, the doors of blessings and favour will open. As long as she is genuinely into you.

He who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtain favour from the Lord.

A morally sound with a genuine Interest wife.

Those who experienced diff, na only them know wetin them marry🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 One can't eat their cake and have it


Lastly, Congratulations on this new phase. And never you cheat or make her have a rethink, otherwise the glory of God will take the Ben Johnson from your side.

Lalami3232:
Let me correct you bro, marriage no dey bring luck atall. It's just that when you marry, you tend to be more careful with spending and you want another source of income because you've automatically inherited a liability. Which luck na marriage de give? The luck wey she no fit give her ex boyfriends abi na another one. Some of una wey call unaselves men dey make me laugh.
You meet a non-virgin wey numerous men don sleep with, you tell her say "babe I wan privatize your kpekus make E be mine alone. I no want make people dey chop am again as usual (that's the definition of marrying a non-virgin)", that na wetin marriage dey all about nowadays for Nigeria. So how she take bring you luck as a man? If sh get luck, why she no use the luck on her siblings? Bro she no bring you luck, you only doubled your hustle. Anyways, that's not really my concern sha. Have you done DNA test Oga?

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA

Content creator as usual..😆

Lalami3232:
Let me correct you bro, marriage no dey bring luck atall. It's just that when you marry, you tend to be more careful with spending and you want another source of income because you've automatically inherited a liability. Which luck na marriage de give? The luck wey she no fit give her ex boyfriends abi na another one. Some of una wey call unaselves men dey make me laugh.
You meet a non-virgin wey numerous men don sleep with, you tell her say "babe I wan privatize your kpekus make E be mine alone. I no want make people dey chop am again as usual (that's the definition of marrying a non-virgin)", that na wetin marriage dey all about nowadays for Nigeria. So how she take bring you luck as a man? If sh get luck, why she no use the luck on her siblings? Bro she no bring you luck, you only doubled your hustle. Anyways, that's not really my concern sha. Have you done DNA test Oga?

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA

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You go old tire

Lalami3232:
Let me correct you bro, marriage no dey bring luck atall. It's just that when you marry, you tend to be more careful with spending and you want another source of income because you've automatically inherited a liability. Which luck na marriage de give? The luck wey she no fit give her ex boyfriends abi na another one. Some of una wey call unaselves men dey make me laugh.
You meet a non-virgin wey numerous men don sleep with, you tell her say "babe I wan privatize your kpekus make E be mine alone. I no want make people dey chop am again as usual (that's the definition of marrying a non-virgin)", that na wetin marriage dey all about nowadays for Nigeria. So how she take bring you luck as a man? If sh get luck, why she no use the luck on her siblings? Bro she no bring you luck, you only doubled your hustle. Anyways, that's not really my concern sha. Have you done DNA test Oga?

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA

Correct guy.
Mugus many sha

Onye kwa

Some brings bad luck. It all depends on the person you marry.

Guys...should we tell him..??

Jman06:
I noticed that there have been lots of open doors for me since my fiancee and soon-to-be wife came into my life. Things have just been happening magically. The jobs I had been expecting since clicked without stress. Now I'm transitioning from the private sector to a good job in a public institution. This something I had waited for since going to 3years.

Also, there has been influx of funds from debtors to those making donations and so on. My wedding is around the corner and I was hitherto worried about funds to cover all the things I needed to do for the event but honestly, things have just been taking shape in a way that seems magical.

I am beginning to agree with the saying that he who finds a woman findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God. Please, let the blessings continue to flow even after the marriage...Amen

In 2017, I submitted my CV to a firm in lagos when they were recruiting.
I didn't get an invite from them.
The vacancy was filled.
I kept hoping that I'd somehow get to work for the firm because it's A rated in my professional industry.
Every single professional in my field, especially in lagos, dreams of working there.
After 3 whole years passed, I pushed that dream behind me and moved on.
Then in 2022, I got a call telling me to check my mailbox.
It was on a Friday.
From the information i gathered earlier, the firm usually conducts at least three physical interviews, the last being a physical meeting with the executive director who, as I learned when I joined them, has disqualified applicants for just not liking their face.
In the email, it said I would attend a virtual interview for the first two phases, Saturday and Sunday then come to their physical location on Monday to meet with the director.
I did.
They asked me what I wanted as salary and I told them. The amount was double of my current salary at the time.
But for some reason, I declined attending the meeting with the director.
I sent them a mail that I was no longer available for the salary i requested earlier.
The HR promised that they'd raise it.
Eventually, the meeting with the director happened virtually because they needed to conclude the process that Tuesday so I can have upto 30 days to resign form my current place.
And I got the job!
My growth in the company was phenomenal.
From a 100% increment in salary within two years, to leading one of the key departments just after a year of joining them.
And from there...
I am where I am today.
But i wasn't married.
Didn't marry or date before those things happened.
And not still married or dating.
For every good thing that comes with relationships, there are also bad things somewhere happening to some other people.
Marriage, dating or the absence of them do not in any way influence the outcome of life events.
Married and single poeple can encounter phenomenal progress that look like magic, and also tragic crashes that look like the "devil" has just opened their chapter in his book of doom.

It has to do with two energy coming together and agreeing...agree on prosperity and advancement...energies work together to create good results. Yes it does, if the two agree.

Vertraulichkeit:
Keep quiet. It's not everything you must counter. His relayed experience is a reality in some men's lives.

No mind am. Trying to sound woke.
Dem go dey drag women as if no be woman born them.
Accusing women of infidelity, up and down as if they are not their father's son(s).

It can be a curse if you marry wrong, or a blessing if otherwise

Lalami3232:
Let me correct you bro, marriage no dey bring luck atall. It's just that when you marry, you tend to be more careful with spending and you want another source of income because you've automatically inherited a liability. Which luck na marriage de give? The luck wey she no fit give her ex boyfriends abi na another one. Some of una wey call unaselves men dey make me laugh.
You meet a non-virgin wey numerous men don sleep with, you tell her say "babe I wan privatize your kpekus make E be mine alone. I no want make people dey chop am again as usual (that's the definition of marrying a non-virgin)", that na wetin marriage dey all about nowadays for Nigeria. So how she take bring you luck as a man? If sh get luck, why she no use the luck on her siblings? Bro she no bring you luck, you only doubled your hustle. Anyways, that's not really my concern sha. Have you done DNA test Oga?

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA

The op needs serious slapping for his brain reset

Can you imagine someone celebrating Lagos Ibadan expressway ToTo

Toto wey different Dickson dey wire come bring blessings to him

But guys wey dey hammer the toto before still dey struggle

God bless your union in addy

This one na mami water package, no make her vex oh

Jman06:
I noticed that there have been lots of open doors for me since my fiancee and soon-to-be wife came into my life. Things have just been happening magically. The jobs I had been expecting since clicked without stress. Now I'm transitioning from the private sector to a good job in a public institution. This something I had waited for since going to 3years.

Also, there has been influx of funds from debtors to those making donations and so on. My wedding is around the corner and I was hitherto worried about funds to cover all the things I needed to do for the event but honestly, things have just been taking shape in a way that seems magical.

I am beginning to agree with the saying that he who finds a woman findeth a good thing and obtaineth favour from God. Please, let the blessings continue to flow even after the marriage...Amen

it's not true Sir

Should we tell him?