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Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks - Romance (2) - Nairaland

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Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by pansophist(m): 5:21pm On Jul 27
Any adult that genuinely does not know the answer to this question is out of touch with reality.
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by Daniel058(m): 5:21pm On Jul 27
Streamz:
Enjoyment go wound you grin
na so I see am , I no get choice na grin
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by osuofia2(m): 5:21pm On Jul 27
Good answer from her fellow lady
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by Kalulu44: 5:22pm On Jul 27
Goo0dHardDick:
To be honest I love this question the lady asked.

Dear women, the answer to the question above is this. women rejected boys in the same age as them back then and called them "small small boys". Now those "small small boys" have grown and become men. The same girls who rejected those boys back then are all crying that why would guys (they rejected back then) go for younger girls.

The reason is because you rejected those guys back then because they had nothing, you considered them broke, poor, and immature! You went for older guys who you considered mature, rich, and could give you the lifestyle you wanted. Years has gone by, none of those men married you and somehow you expect the guys you rejected back then to come for you? Despite your numerous body counts?

How does that make sense to you?
Gbaski! You're always too much for liking.
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by Pythagon(m): 5:22pm On Jul 27
Abagworo:
Men like women from 18 to their own age and above. And this includes men in their 70s. I guess it is same with other genders
to some guys age doesn't matter. What matter is love
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by Successsearch90(m): 5:22pm On Jul 27
Uwc sir
Daniel058:
Thank you very much sir grin
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by Fiscus105(m): 5:23pm On Jul 27
Why ladies girls in their 17-22 usually go for guys of 28-32 instead of their age mates?
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by meobizy(f): 5:24pm On Jul 27
Why do women always ask the same dumb questions while claiming to be unique from each other?
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by Kalulu44: 5:24pm On Jul 27
NwaNimo1:
The body count is lower.....a woman in her 30's should target men in theirs 50's when the body count is normally kinda level
Hahahaha
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by ExudeLoveToAll: 5:27pm On Jul 27
NotOgaSeun:
I hate the way you people generalize things.
In most cases it's true, ask that same girl 10 years back if she will date her agemate qhi is struggling she will say no and the usual words be 'I need a man that can take care of me' that level of responsibility comes with age. Exceptios doesn't make the rule.
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by Eba50: 5:27pm On Jul 27
the younger the better , the older the condemned
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by Hermoniy(f): 5:28pm On Jul 27
Because they want be your groomer.
Pedophile!!.

A lot of older guys who date younger girls try to dissuade them from dating those their own age by the fact older guys "have their shit together", but by this logic, younger girls would not either.


I've noticed something where older dudes will be just fine screwing an 18 year old girl while simultaneously calling an 18 year old guy a "kid".
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by kokomaster3d: 5:28pm On Jul 27
For men the younger a girl is the better
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by iykololo(m): 5:28pm On Jul 27
Goo0dHardDick:
To be honest I love this question the lady asked.

Dear women, the answer to the question above is this. women rejected boys in the same age as them back then and called them "small small boys". Now those "small small boys" have grown and become men. The same girls who rejected those boys back then are all crying that why would guys (they rejected back then) go for younger girls.

The reason is because you rejected those guys back then because they had nothing, you considered them broke, poor, and immature! You went for older guys who you considered mature, rich, and could give you the lifestyle you wanted. Years has gone by, none of those men married you and somehow you expect the guys you rejected back then to come for you? Despite your numerous body counts?

How does that make sense to you?
"Lady asks"
More like "a 30s lady asks"
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by Rmace(m): 5:30pm On Jul 27
Wickedfacts:
The girl said it doesn't sit right with her. grin
Lmao.. she is delusional
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by Goo0dHardDick(op):
educatedfool:
Because women in their 30s start asking uncomfortable questions like, 'What's your retirement plan?' Meanwhile, an 18-year-old is still impressed that you own a car smiley
Women in their 30s are red flag. They've seen it all already. Their body counts is more than the population of China and India combined together. They are emotionally damaged already. They've experienced heartbreaks more than West life. Avoid them completely if you can. They can be enjoyed in the other way but certainly don't be their retirement plan
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by Kalulu44: 5:30pm On Jul 27
See eh! Let's even leave men being broke at that 19, 20 or so and mileage or body count of women of 30 and above.
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The truth is 90% of the time if a 20yr old boy and a girl stands together now. You will call the girl either the boy's elder sister or aunty.
Girls are naturally bigger and matured than their male counterparts of same age.
Like for example I had my first child at 25 by a girl of 18.
Honestly eh! At that 18, she was way bigger and matured in stature than me.
Only what I beats her in is in intelligence, knowledge and ideas.
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by nonny1212: 5:30pm On Jul 27
Men in their 30s are in their Prime
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by Samuels90: 5:33pm On Jul 27
edogu:
Fresh from the oven mentality. Unfortunately, if you're not careful you fit meet one wey be kesaiah packaged as virgin.
😂 that one na special Ogbanje Package. Normally the young girls go stress you, but if you put her to check e go work out. Pa Ned na money e de use calm dem😂
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by Jakumo(m): 5:35pm On Jul 27
Pythagon:
My theory is
They couldn't get a 19years old when they(men) were younger because they were broke.

Now they are more established and want to achieve their dreams.

How many young women will marry a broke young man?
You have defined my mindset to a tee. I missed out on so many gorgeous women in their early twenties when I was their age, not because I was broke, but because I was socially awkward and had no idea how to approach women that I found attractive. The mistakes I made in my younger years that repulsed women could fill a book.

Eventually I read books on the female mind, and on how to attract women, thus gradually I discovered that a man need not be super wealthy, muscular, intellectually gifted, or famous to date and enjoy sex with the kind of beautiful women that most men find so intimidating that they wind up admiring them from a distance while paralyzed with fear when it comes to actually walking up and striking up a conversation.

For young men growing up as I did without an understanding father figure or older brother who is willing to teach the secrets of attracting women, life can become desperately lonely. Because of the fact that my younger years were spent dreaming of beautiful women, yet unable to approach them successfully, I now ONLY date women aged 20 to 23, who are fit, blessed with bikini model looks, and have NEVER been pregnant.

Making up for lost time is the story of my life.
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by noskcid(m): 5:36pm On Jul 27
educatedfool:
Because women in their 30s start asking uncomfortable questions like, 'What's your retirement plan?' Meanwhile, an 18-year-old is still impressed that you own a car smiley
😂 but they are not easy to tame sha
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by shortgun(m): 5:36pm On Jul 27
Nobody wants to deal with the toxicity and bitterness that women in their 30s are carrying around. You definitely don't want to end up as the person she takes revenge on for all the hurt caused by the numerous men who came before you.
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by mrkings84(m): 5:36pm On Jul 27
That's cos when you were 18, you dated men who were in their 30s, so now that you are in your 30s, you should date men in their 50s
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by Kalulu44: 5:37pm On Jul 27
Like another example, I'm almost 46 with 3 grown up kids of 21-17.
Their mother has long gone since 2010.
(Not dead o, lost her to japa things)
Friends and families have been telling me remarry or find a companion of between 35-40+. Are they being serious.
If I can't get a girl of between 25-30. They should all keep their opinions to their selves.
Marry or find a companion that will look like my aunty or mother beside me.
All these are just examples while men of 30+ goes for girls of 19-20+.
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by Kalulu44: 5:38pm On Jul 27
noskcid:
😂 but they are not easy to tame sha
Yeah you're right about that also
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by bikefab(m): 5:42pm On Jul 27
Hard fact is that almost all the younger girls still have their body parts standing firm unlike most older ones with sagged milk industry and backside
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by Solofresh2: 5:43pm On Jul 27
Because younger women are more attractive, less complicated, and they didn't reject those men when they were broke.
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by Sirleo05: 5:45pm On Jul 27
I ask you. who den you suppose we marry , the old cargo out there or what exactly?
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by jaksmillioniar: 5:45pm On Jul 27
Keep asking stupid question
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by EmekaBlue(m): 5:48pm On Jul 27
Seriously the ones their age of 30s looks like their Aunty or Elder sister to be honest. Nigeria ladies loose shape and all with age
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by Legitiscool: 5:54pm On Jul 27
Tonnyray:
Men in their 30's kwa?
Even we in our 40's join. lol grin
even men in their 60's like Ned codedly dream it
Re: Why Are Men In Their 30s Interested In Girls Who Are Only 18 Or 19? - Lady Asks by darediamond(m): 5:56pm On Jul 27
grin cheesy grin
Neddyogu:
Like life revolves around her grin
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