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13 million should become 25M in a matter of months.
30M in a 1½ year.
Double it first

Use am marry 3 wife's since brain departed from u...

I’m still confused as to why people have to spend so much money trying to get married, especially when they are not rich

saintopus:
Is the land in the city or village. If city, build the house get a baby mama and continue your business. I've been in marriage for over 14 years and I know what am saying.

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My brother, I hope he listens oooo. I have been married for 15 years and 6 months now, if you tell these young guys that marriage should come last, they will say “shebi you don marry”

Well, it's foolish to splash your entire savings on wedding

However the other rhetorical question is can ₦13m complete a moderate house?

Hell No!

What I'll advice is that if u don't have a solid business yet. Take ₦5m to start a business u know very well.... They as the business grow, you inject more money into the business. Profit from such business is what you'll use to build d house.

XtraFortunes:
Don't do either. Build a business that will give you cash flow to now build a house. If you sink money on either of those two otilor

Let him get married. All those people that complain about wife wey dey drain their money are people who chose useless street girls in the first place, despite all the warning signs.

If he even choses a wise woman as a wife, and they are there, he would even get some extra financial help.

Make he no marry late, go begin dey struggle to send pikin to school when he is supposed to be retired.

saintopus:
Is the land in the city or village. If city, build the house get a baby mama and continue your business. I've been in marriage for over 14 years and I know what am saying.

Get InTouch with him private, get a baby mama with his sister and follow other advise...

If he doesn't allow his sister to be a baby mama, then you know what to do...

saintopus:
Is the land in the city or village. If city, build the house get a baby mama and continue your business. I've been in marriage for over 14 years and I know what am saying.

u obviously don't know the meaning of baby mama.

For your mind u think she will let u have the kids?

Baby mama can carry your child to another man or travel out with your child, she can even brainwash him or her to hate u badly.

U obviously don't know anything about baby mama, the fact u are seeing hell in yours doesn't mean others will see hell in theirs

Sir Marry,

Continue with ur business, marry and start your building project.

Marriage is sweet, you aint getting younger, think of how old, your children will be in your 70 years.

Start a business for ur wife or marry a working class. Start a building and continue with your business

Pablokay12:
Use am play sporty mumu asking foolish questions

.. mk e use am carry sweet to to

Since you already have a land, build a house, afterwards, marry. Nothing compares to a legal union in marriage. [color=#006600][/color]

Exactly what I wanted to tell him

Don't get me wrong o marriage is good but Omo get ur life on track first. If dare marry with this money for ur eye like this 13m go be like 13 naira in days
Marriage is brutal bro.

It's drawing water from a well and pouring it in another deeper well

This country no dey favour marriage at all except u get wife wey don establish and na helper too

saintopus:
Is the land in the city or village. If city, build the house get a baby mama and continue your business. I've been in marriage for over 14 years and I know what am saying.

BATified2023:
u obviously don't know the meaning of baby mama.

For your mind u think she will let u have the kids?

Baby mama can carry your child to another man or travel out with your child, she can even brainwash him or her to hate u badly.

U obviously don't know anything about baby mama, the fact u are seeing hell in yours doesn't mean others will see hell in theirs

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I have a wife with kids, I also have vicious a baby Mama who fought me tooth and nail, but I stood my ground. The child she had for me then will graduate at the university next year. So tell me what you know about baby Mamas.

Tenrack:
thank you sir. I kuku like my solitude. My mind rest. Na to find one girl wey like me let am know my stance give am belle. I don't like stress. I like to travel light. Even the pikin sef I still dey get two mind.

guy I will advise u to build a house no matter how small it is, elaborate wedding na bullshit ooo cos people go just eat your food n move on.

Build a small house, get a reasonable girl( there are many good girls out there, forget all those bullshit u see online).....then plan your life well

I will advise u never to try that baby mama route ooo, u will regret ever having it

My guy that tries it, the lady don remarry now n she has carried my friends child to the new husband's house, as if that isn't enough when my friend call the baby mama will say the man has gone out with the child..... imagine


Guy don't try baby mama route ooo, those men in it won't tell them what they see ooo

1. invest it ( That is if you know what to invest on and or have interest in investment)

2. Build a House ( It is very good if a man has his own apartment early in life)

3. Help your family who are in serious need.

4.......

5.......

100. Go and marry with that money if other options are not ok with you.

ImpeccableDust:
Good morning, everyone. I have been waiting for your advice on what to do and the next step to take.

I've already saved 13M, and I'm getting older. I'm turning 31 and have been considering getting married or building a house with my money.


Would you advise me to start a family with my money or to build a house and see where 13 million naira goes? I already have some land.


Please, I need some good advice.

What do you all think?

Even if you wan marry, na 13M you go use marry? Make sure your income is sustainable first before you think of getting married otherwise the woman you spend that 13M to marry will be the first to call you poor when there is nothing left.

Reloadedisraelp:
Use am marry 3 wife's since brain departed from u...

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Dem
No dey hear. I hope he doesn’t use his own experience as bad example to others

simpleseyi:
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I have a wife with kids, I also have vicious a baby Mama who fought me tooth and nail, but I stood my ground. The child she had for me then will graduate at the university next year. So tell me what you know about baby Mamas.

do whatever suites u

It's your life

Did you haveland?did you have stable source of income?

I am just baffled why slot of comments are saying no reason marriage but get baby mama, this and that...

It really shows what the society is getting messed up with. If you don't want to marry yet good for you!

Does he need to spend all his 13m to wedding. Will he do all the wedding expenses alone? Can he not be married and still have like up to 7m left if they are not doing Dangote wedding style. Can 13m build him a house he really wants even if he has a land at the moment?

Anyways it all depend on the Op. As I can see he's not really into marriage or even dey reason child matter. At the end of the day, do what makes you happy and live with the gain(s) or pain(s) thereafter...

I am not sure ₦13m can build a house. 🤔

Marriage, well the sooner you have a family, the better but that is a liability.

Japa

ImpeccableDust:
Good morning, everyone. I have been waiting for your advice on what to do and the next step to take.

I've already saved 13M, and I'm getting older. I'm turning 31 and have been considering getting married or building a house with my money.


Would you advise me to start a family with my money or to build a house and see where 13 million naira goes? I already have some land.


Please, I need some good advice.

What do you all think?

At 31 ,you can't be said to be established in your career .

A more useful advise will be given to you if you can tell what job are you doing .if you don't have a steady income ,13m will be gone within a year .if however you have an income ,you can go ahead and get married .if you are into yahoo and even have a billion naira savings I won't advise you to get married .

It is best you establish yourself in your career and have some steady income before building a house so you dont end up having to eat the blocks by reason of no income to feed .

If you can invest in a sure business that will yield you daily or weekly steady income such as taxi ,or groceries or bakery ,then you can go ahead and marry .

Oga

start up a business first before building a house , cos the business will build that house for your conveniently with u staying hungry oooooooo except u already have a stabilized business running

ImpeccableDust:
Good morning, everyone. I have been waiting for your advice on what to do and the next step to take.

I've already saved 13M, and I'm getting older. I'm turning 31 and have been considering getting married or building a house with my money.


Would you advise me to start a family with my money or to build a house and see where 13 million naira goes? I already have some land.


Please, I need some good advice.

What do you all think?

saintopus:
Is the land in the city or village. If city, build the house get a baby mama and continue your business. I've been in marriage for over 14 years and I know what am saying.

Bad man 🤣🤣🤣.... Those wey never go bk go know how far

Haha sounds pretty funny, but the right angle is being independent enough to content with your plans. however ....,a Nice location of your land defines if you will handle building 🏢 and then still have your ground of independency

Don't ever try to marry anybody. I'm telling you from experience. You'll regret it. But you can a baby mama.

Please build a house if you can. Real estate pays more. The land itself is GOLD.

saintopus:
Is the land in the city or village. If city, build the house get a baby mama and continue your business. I've been in marriage for over 14 years and I know what am saying.

Why baby mama when you can advice him to get married later, as you are also married. As there are issues that comes with marriage there are also issues that comes with the Baby mama route.

As in its good he gets to be more fluid financially, then get married, I think that is a better way of putting it.

Cleties:
Haha sounds pretty funny, but the right angle is being independent enough to content with your plans. however ....,a Nice location of your land defines if you will handle building 🏢 and then still have your ground of independency

to go further with your life

but OP what do you do to get that amount saved?
the highest i have ever gathered is 2m and i am older than you