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If you desire to marry a lady or want to go into a relationship with a lady for the purpose of marriage: how long can you spend chasing her for to say YES or NO?

Maximum of two months, if you don't see green light, just leave her

nnamdi640:
Maximum of two months, if you don't see green light, just leave her

I don't understand, which kind advice be this
As what, government contract?

YoungBTCxchange:
I don't understand, which kind advice be this
As what, government contract?

You can stay as long as you want, that is my own take on the matter

30 days maximum. No exceptions

One day. The day you ask her out, she doesn't need to say yes at first but check for signs of green light if not available move on

That same day.

nnamdi640:
Maximum of two months, if you don't see green light, just leave her

Two months? It is long o.

Chasing?

Solofresh2:
30 days maximum. No exceptions

that is if you like her, not bad the one month...
Because the ones you don't love much should be two to five days...

I can't spend months chasing one lady, when I can chase multiple that are suitable for marriage at once and let the best woman win.

To me also, I see no point chasing her for marriage ( this is not a bf and gf affair's, but life union), if you've already told her your marriage intention and she See's that your mean about it and yet she's not giving the I will marry you vibe, brother no need to chase.

A lady that knows your marriage intention and really wants to marry you, won't make you chase her wen both of you knows what's up.

I find it weird or are you chasing random women for marriage? Marriage supposed be with person wer you know say she know your intention during dating.

A year, if you check with most successful marriages, the ladies didn't like their husbands when they first met them and gave them a difficult time before they started developing an interest in them.

Depends on wetin she thief...

Why I go chase you when no be my charger you thief

Samantha125:
A year, if you check with most successful marriages, the ladies didn't like their husbands when they first met them and gave them a difficult time before they started developing an interest in them.

A year my ahhhhhssssss, I’m done!

That's why nowadays the number of divorce rates is ridiculously high, you guys are no longer patient in wooing ladies and end up settling for the ones you're not compatible with just because they were readily available.

Hungrychicken:
A year my ahhhhhssssss, I’m done!

Ladies are not supposed to be chasèd for a relationship especially towards marriage.

It is from relationship or dating that it progresses to marriage so why chase to even have a relationship?

Any lady you ask out or tell about your feelings for her and says she is not interested then it should end there but most men don't tell ladies about their feelings instead they ask the lady to permit them to have the feelings without even realising that that's what they are saying in essences by their approach.

When i was in the market i usually tell the ladies straight up about my feelings not seeking permission to have a feeling or to date so you either tell me yes or no. Some intelligent ladies would say let's give it a trial instead of outright no and those who gave me a trial are still my friends today even though we broke the relationship and moved on.

Chasing a woman is for simp

Chase as per say she be fowl wey I wan use for pepper soup?

I ask her out once and she refuses, I move on to the next immediately

Being a lawyer, I can't afford to set myself up for sexual harassment or stalking allegations.

I should be the one defending suspects and criminals, not among the suspects/criminals in need of a lawyer.

3 years if I think she’s worth it 🥱

I ask you out, you say no. Bye forever.

Samantha125:
A year, if you check with most successful marriages, the ladies didn't like their husbands when they first met them and gave them a difficult time before they started developing an interest in them.

Do you have hairy balllzz? Let the men comment, take a seat.

ebubeson:
If you desire to marry a lady or want to go into a relationship with a lady for the purpose of marriage: how long can you spend chasing her for to say YES or NO?

chase as in what, if you no show energy say you like me ,I won't even make a move

Now.....
Man still dey chase woman fir this our modern era......?
Na woman dey toast Man oooooo
Man no get that kind time again
If dem no dey toast you daily as man
Wahalaaa don surplus be that.

Depends on the size of the bum, that said, there are some you chase for up to 10 years




Yes ooo, since we don't have much doing again here

1 day. once you say no i don waka

Wooed wifey for one year and 6 months before she said Yes. Then dated her as a virgin for 11 years before marriage.

It all comes down to what the heart wants.

ebubeson:
If you desire to marry a lady or want to go into a relationship with a lady for the purpose of marriage: how long can you spend chasing her for to say YES or NO?

Why chase? Is she doing you a favour? Share your future goals with her, if she thinks that she can align or she suggests a way to blend yours with hers and it is good, then you're good to go. This doesn't take more than two weeks. Just a sit out and discuss. That's all. A woman knows what she wants and a man too. So stop stressing your mental health on fruitless journey.

Marriage is a life time project and not a boyfriend and girlfriend matter.

If she doesn't understand your future plans or have not intention to see a good future with you, then you back off.

So you people still chase women?

Me I don't chase anyone..

No time to waste chasing shadows.

If you no answer well, one minute too much.


Wey you go still stress ,bill and stretch me later.

Do men still chase women? My apologies then I'm not current

For a tiimid shy like me i hope 10yrs is doesnt sound tew long to chase

Me md folake4u have being on talking chasing for 5yrs now still looking for the courage to ask her out for a preview date god help me