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Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Angela777(f): 11:41pm On Dec 24, 2018
Why? And they go after women over 50-60 years old. All this lots of love online to foreign much older women. Did you ever see real love in a couple where he is a Nigerian in his 20s or early 30s and she is an American or European white woman over 50-60 years old. Did you ever see this kind of marriage really working with love and respect for years and years?

Why the same guys do not marry a Nigerian old woman as they say age is just a number?
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by MariaLavina(f): 11:50pm On Dec 24, 2018
So you think they are doing this out of love?


White women in that age bracket are the least desirable women overseas, this make them vulnerable and an easy target for cunning Nigerian men seeking stay permit over there. My dear, it's all for the papers. grin

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Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:10am On Dec 25, 2018
As if love was remotely in these Young dudes minds, lol.... A green card is their sole aim!
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Angela777(f): 12:12am On Dec 25, 2018
MariaLavina:
So you think they are doing this out of love?
White women in that age bracket are the least desirable women overseas, this make them vulnerable and an easy target for cunning Nigerian men seeking stay permit over there. My dear, it's all for the papers. grin
I don't know the reason. In America there are many young American men who date or marry much older women and they don't need papers and in America older people are dating and are very active, so it's not like any older American woman can't have a man or a husband unless she is very y sick, not all can keep a good health or just doesn't want to be married. I don't know how are ladies in other countries.

So it's not true women are desperate to get a young Nigerian. It's the other way around, so many young Nigerian men follow much older white American women trying to convince them they really love them. Even sending money, fly tickets, gifts, flowers. Possible for papers only?
But my question is did you see real marriage and lasting marriage based on love and respect between this kind?
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 12:16am On Dec 25, 2018
Angela777:
Why? And they go after women over 50-60 years old. All this lots of love online to foreign much older women. Did you ever see real love in a couple where he is a Nigerian in his 20s or early 30s and she is an American or European white woman over 50-60 years old. Did you ever see this kind of marriage really working with love and respect for years and years?

Why the same guys do not marry a Nigerian old woman as they say age is just a number?
don't stress yourself, dear, it's all trade by the batter. that said, do you have any white old cargo to spare?I'm in need of one lipsrsealed

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Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Angela777(f): 12:24am On Dec 25, 2018
SilentWisper:
don't stress yourself, dear, it's all trade by the batter. that said, do you have any white old cargo to spare?I'm in need of one lipsrsealed
Lol! My answer to this is always if you like or love much older women and want to marry one, marry in your own country, I am sure there are many old women in Nigeria. So get your own black old cargo. cheesy

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Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Nobody: 12:30am On Dec 25, 2018
Angela777:

Lol! My answer to this is always if you like or love much older women and want to marry one, marry in your own country, I am sure there are many old women in Nigeria. So get your own black old cargo. cheesy
Merry Christmas

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Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Angela777(f): 12:33am On Dec 25, 2018
SilentWisper:
Merry Christmas
Merry Christmas to you too.
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by EbukaHades10(m): 12:42am On Dec 25, 2018
Bcus they are "clients"

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Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by MrBrownJay1(m): 12:45am On Dec 25, 2018
Angela777:

I don't know the reason. In America there are many young American men who date or marry much older women and they don't need papers and in America older people are dating and are very active, so it's not like any older American woman can't have a man or a husband unless she is very y sick, not all can keep a good health or just doesn't want to be married. I don't know how are ladies in other countries.

So it's not true women are desperate to get a young Nigerian. It's the other way around, so many young Nigerian men follow much older white American women trying to convince them they really love them. Even sending money, fly tickets, gifts, flowers. Possible for papers only?
But my question is did you see real marriage and lasting marriage based on love and respect between this kind?

The american guys who goes after these cougars/milf do so because these women look GOOD and take care of themselves (with plastic surgery etc)....while these african brothers usually go for the UGLIEST/NASTIEST women out there

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Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Angela777(f): 1:02am On Dec 25, 2018
If they go to marry for papers and money, they are just dirty male ashawo. lipsrsealed

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Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by BlackAdam55(m): 1:06am On Dec 25, 2018
Angela777:

Lol! My answer to this is always if you like or love much older women and want to marry one, marry in your own country, I am sure there are many old women in Nigeria. So get your own black old cargo. cheesy
lol you are naive
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Angela777(f): 1:07am On Dec 25, 2018
BlackAdam55:
lol you are naive
Yes I am. Is it bad for a woman?
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by BlackAdam55(m): 1:09am On Dec 25, 2018
Angela777:
If they go to marry for papers and money, they are just dirty male ashawo. lipsrsealed
you think they marry this white old women for love undecided

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Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by BlackAdam55(m): 1:11am On Dec 25, 2018
Angela777:

Yes I am. Is it bad for a woman?
Nope
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Angela777(f): 1:15am On Dec 25, 2018
BlackAdam55:
you think they marry this white old women for love undecided
I did, still have my doubts but I don't go back. I am just very surprised how so many young Nigerians play these games of love. Probably many just sit and click, click copy and paste sending the same message "you are the only one woman I love!" to hundreds of old women waiting if one of them falls.
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by JjBankys(m): 1:21am On Dec 25, 2018
Angela777:

I did, still have my doubts but I don't go back. I am just very surprised how so many young Nigerians play these games of love. Probably many just sit and click, click copy and paste sending the same message "you are the only one woman I love!" to hundreds of old women waiting if one of them falls.
lol sometimes this old ladies chase after this guys

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Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Angela777(f): 1:41am On Dec 25, 2018
JjBankys:
lol sometimes this old ladies chase after this guys
Yes but not to marry them. Many old ladies, specially UK, Germany go to Africa on vacation for sex.
For American woman to decide to marry a foreigner it's a very hard decision and not easy one (we have many laws and financial issues to consider), so Nigerian guy needs really convince her he loves her too much. Some Nigerian guys, the woman answered him saying not possible but anyway several times a day she receives messages how much do they love her and and they want to marry her and it goes for several months non stop.

Yet, I recognize, Nigerian men are very nice men and many are handsome, very attractive, it's possible the women chase them but not online, after meeting in person yes.
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by BlackAdam55(m): 9:57am On Dec 25, 2018
Angela777:

Idid, still have my doubts but I don't go back. I am just very surprised how so many young Nigerians play these games of love. Probably many just sit and click, click copy and paste sending the same message "you are the only one woman I love!" to hundreds of old women waiting if one of them falls.
oh you are so innocent. grin grin before i answer your question i need to understand something first.


1). are you a Nigerian


2). Black American

3) white

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Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by okwabayi(m): 1:57pm On Dec 25, 2018
EbukaHades10:
Bcus they are "clients"
Every time I see this picture I end up laughing.
Abeg, where is the thing from?
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by okwabayi(m): 2:02pm On Dec 25, 2018
Angela777:

I did, still have my doubts but I don't go back. I am just very surprised how so many young Nigerians play these games of love. Probably many just sit and click, click copy and paste sending the same message "you are the only one woman I love!" to hundreds of old women waiting if one of them falls.
I tried this once while looking for a quick lay with a white woman. At the end of the day na me tire.
I got rejected by many, even the lowest of low.
Those boys who catch white women really put in work. I remember I sent messages for almost a week straight and received zero replies.

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Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by MrBrownJay1(m): 2:21pm On Dec 25, 2018
Angela777:

Yes but not to marry them. Many old ladies, specially UK, Germany go to Africa on vacation for sex.
For American woman to decide to marry a foreigner it's a very hard decision and not easy one (we have many laws and financial issues to consider), so Nigerian guy needs really convince her he loves her too much. Some Nigerian guys, the woman answered him saying not possible but anyway several times a day she receives messages how much do they love her and and they want to marry her and it goes for several months non stop.

Yet, I recognize, Nigerian men are very nice men and many are handsome, very attractive, it's possible the women chase them but not online, after meeting in person yes.

These old women (who marry these desperate african dudes) come from EVERYWHERE. Many Europeans go to Jamaica/Gambia/Senegal/Morocco for sex vacations where they will meet plenty of these male ashewos on the beach..... Many then Fall in love and bring home to marry these male ashewos who are just seeking for their next meal ticket.

Many african women do exactly the same thing by Marrying old men for green cards... Its called POVERTY!

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Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Originalsly: 3:08pm On Dec 25, 2018
I don't have a problem with young Nigerian men going after older ehmmm....elderly American women....but why White women only?....and almost all the time.... the women are White trash.... alcoholics.... drug addicts or from their beat up bodies..no doubt.... lonely worn out prostitutes unable to attract any local attention let alone love connection. Sleeping with their grandmas age mates......something not right in the head.

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Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by MissRaine69(f): 3:10pm On Dec 25, 2018
It’s plain and simple because they are an easy target. Poverty and desperation makes many overlook the 60+ year old vagina. The final goal is a red book or a green card. It’s not a Nigerian issue, it is widespread. These women come to Africa to seek young black men, walk on a beach in Gambia it’s rife with this sort of thing, same in Ghana, Senegal, Kenya and Southern Africa.
We see more Nigerians simply because Nigeria has more people than any African country but it’s not only Nigerians who do this let’s get that clear.

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Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by TimiRume: 5:25pm On Dec 25, 2018
MissRaine69:
It’s plain and simple because they are an easy target. Poverty and desperation makes many overlook the 60+ year old vagina. The final goal is a red book or a green card. It’s not a Nigerian issue, it is widespread. These women come to Africa to seek young black men, walk on a beach in Gambia it’s rife with this sort of thing, same in Ghana, Senegal, Kenya and Southern Africa.
We see more Nigerians simply because Nigeria has more people than any African country but it’s not only Nigerians who do this let’s get that clear.
Madam there is also a complex issh to it, else why flaunt these type of women on social media, if the only thing you want is green card and money.

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Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by MissRaine69(f): 5:36pm On Dec 25, 2018
TimiRume:
Madam there is also a complex issh to it, else why flaunt these type of women on social media, if the only thing you want is green card and money.
Nothing complex about this
The women needs validation
Have you seen how uncomfortable the men tend to be be?

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Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by TimiRume: 5:39pm On Dec 25, 2018
MissRaine69:

Nothing complex about this
The women needs validation
Have you seen how uncomfortable the men tend to be be?
No they look cool with it most of the time. If you can convince these women to rip them off, you can always convince them to stay off social media. These guys suffer a complex problem too, no matter how you want to look at it.
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Angela777(f): 5:47pm On Dec 25, 2018
BlackAdam55:
oh you are so innocent. grin grin before i answer your question i need to understand something first.


1). are you a Nigerian


2). Black American

3) white


white American in my 60s
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Angela777(f): 6:06pm On Dec 25, 2018
I think it's not a poverty as many who are chasing the green card and scamming have money, poor men work making small and don't have time or money to be online all the time talking about love. I think it is not right, these young men are selling themselves for green card or whatever, it's a male version of ashawo and it's a shame unless the man is really attracted to a woman which is very rare at a such long distance and online only. I can understand poor women selling their body to feed the family and because no jobs for them. It's more disgusting an ashawo man who is young, strong and can work but is lazy laying down in bed with his phone clicking and then going to bed with an old woman saying I love you and I marry you. And it is much more disgusting when his traditional wife or wives, mother(s) of his children are accepting this man selling his body and going to old women, knowing he is an ashawo and accepting him (leftover after an old woman), just waiting to bite her piece of money or green card, this is really a very low level dirty people with no respect or love to anybody.

Though, I understand, some men during all this sometimes can't help it and fall in love, same the old lady, it's rare but it happens. All can happen in this world.
MERRY CHRISTMAS TO YOU ALL!

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Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Angela777(f): 6:14pm On Dec 25, 2018
okwabayi:

I tried this once while looking for a quick lay with a white woman. At the end of the day na me tire.
I got rejected by many, even the lowest of low.
Those boys who catch white women really put in work. I remember I sent messages for almost a week straight and received zero replies.
Lol! many are racists and many don't even want to chat about love long distance, even in American dating site usually we just talk to people who are in our location and we can date in person. Apart of any, a relationship with a foreigner cost money, traveling is expensive and immigration fees are expensive. So really most women prefer never answer to a foreign long distance guy, some are polite answering and if they start to chat, there comes the copy&paste and manipulation.
Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by Angela777(f): 6:24pm On Dec 25, 2018
Originalsly:
I don't have a problem with young Nigerian men going after older ehmmm....elderly American women....but why White women only?....and almost all the time.... the women are White trash.... alcoholics.... drug addicts or from their beat up bodies..no doubt.... lonely worn out prostitutes unable to attract any local attention let alone love connection. Sleeping with their grandmas age mates......something not right in the head.
Not all. Some are very nice, pretty and educated professional ladies who spent all their life working lots, taking good care of the family and suddenly a widow and alone, no needed by anybody. I guess the good, decent woman is an easy target for this scam.

White trash are very street smart and don't fall for marrying a foreigner and spending on his immigration, they marry but when a man pays her for to bring him to America and continue paying, so she can drink and use drugs and spend his savings or send him to work for her.

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Re: Why Young Nigerian Men Try To Convince And Marry An Old White Woman? by MissRaine69(f): 6:32pm On Dec 25, 2018
TimiRume:
No they look cool with it most of the time. If you can convince these women to rip them off, you can always convince them to stay off social media. These guys suffer a complex problem too, no matter how you want to look at it.
Your are naive to what manipulation is and how some men make use of it in targeting vulnerable women. They do that in Nigeria too . Are young women not defrauded by men they thought they were in a relationship with? It’s not convincing it’s deceit and fraud as there is only one person benefiting from all this it’s not the lady. You are trying to defend something that’s despicable.

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