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Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by yaroinside(op): 10:13pm On Sep 16
Money is one of the biggest sources of tension in relationships.

When finances are stable, couples may find it easier to plan their lives, support each other and deal with everyday responsibilities. But when money becomes tight, even a relationship that once appeared strong can begin to struggle.

For some couples, financial pressure exposes problems that were already present. For others, the pressure itself creates new disagreements.

When bills become a source of conflict

Rent, food, transport, school fees, family responsibilities and unexpected expenses can quickly put pressure on a couple.

Arguments may begin over who should pay certain bills or whether one partner is contributing enough.

In Nigeria, where many households are dealing with rising living costs, financial pressure can become particularly difficult for young couples and unmarried partners trying to build a future together.
https://yaroinsider.ng/why-relationships-end-money-problems/

Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by Dtruthspeaker: 10:01am On Sep 17
You are referring to women.

It is women who come and go as money comes and goes
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by Thewrath: 10:52am On Sep 17
Dtruthspeaker:
You are referring to women.

It is women who come and go as money comes and goes
You have said it all,the thread can now be closed so we can move on to the agenda of the day.

Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by fasho01(m):
Because it was based on money as its only pillar from the start
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by jaxxy(m): 10:57am On Sep 17
When money is the foundation of ur relationship why wont it end when u have money problems? undecided

Tell me why not undecided

Money was the centre or reason for the relationship directly or indirectly.
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by dododawa1: 10:57am On Sep 17
What God didn't join together








Can never last.
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by bigdammyj: 10:59am On Sep 17
Because, money was the foundation and the Architect of the marriage.
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by SmartMaster001: 11:03am On Sep 17
It is not always a bed of roses. You have got to prepare your mind for challenges ahead. So money problem will always come but can be managed when both parties chose to face it together.
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by Dtruthspeaker: 11:05am On Sep 17
Thewrath:
You have said it all,the thread can now be closed so we can move on to the agenda of the day.
Yes ooo.

In other news, there was a ....
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by tuoyoojo(m): 11:05am On Sep 17
According to Chris rock

Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally most times

Men are loved based on what they can or would be able to provide

Know this and know peace
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by Cheatmessiah: 11:06am On Sep 17
In week 50 2014 Australia pool.
I won close to 50m.
I got married that year.
Sent my wife to UK in 2015 to study nursing.
She graduated and married oyibo man.
I vow never to remarry again...
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by Dtruthspeaker: 11:07am On Sep 17
SmartMaster001:
It is not always a bed of roses. You have got to prepare your mind for challenges ahead. So money problem will always come but can be managed when both parties chose to face it together.
Not when women attached to you because of your account balance
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by WriterX(m): 11:09am On Sep 17
Men know what they want but don't know what to give.

Women know what to give but don't know what they want.

This is man's greatest paradox of choices
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by Hhh4444: 11:13am On Sep 17
A man without money is invisible to the society. Know this and know peace.
tuoyoojo:
According to Chris rock

Only women, children and dogs are loved unconditionally most times

Men are loved based on what they can or would be able to provide

Know this and know peace
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by Dtruthspeaker: 11:22am On Sep 17
dododawa1:
What God didn't join together

Can never last.
You no see Eve?

Even the one wey God join, by the time women whine am say she be mu² she go misbehave waka.

Women make sure that no girl would be a good wife. It is a huge system to ensure that every girl and woman is not different from them and any girl/woman who is not bending, is hated, ostracized, attacked, set up to be raped and murdered. Unless she changes to be like them, then they would leave her alone and become friends with her and then they would be wakaring together wearing the same clothes and behaving the same way.

And now she would be sleeping with people's fathers and husbands and friends and women/girls too
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by Entanglement: 11:23am On Sep 17
Dtruthspeaker:
You are referring to women.

It is women who come and go as money comes and goes
case close!
Everything has been said and this was not reviewed to you by originally flesh and blood
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by SmartMaster001: 11:26am On Sep 17
Look for the one who will not be attached to your acct balance but your overall persona otherwise you will cry oo
Dtruthspeaker:
Not when women attached to you because of your account balance
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by williamssamuel1(m): 11:30am On Sep 17
yaroinside:
https://yaroinsider.ng/why-relationships-end-money-problems/
Nairalanders Good morning,
One of the core reasons is many relationship is build on pretence, many guys don't want to be real with their future partners, some women want to be love, some value honesty, care, attention and simple life. Most guys will go out of their way just to impress their woman. When the money stop coming the woman automatically lose interest. Then different attitude, disrespect, anger, come in.
Most guys are just dating themselves, many women don't love their boyfriend/husbands some are there because of the money.
Be honest with yourself and your partner you don't have to prove a point. A woman that will love you will never ever stress you.

Note: let no man deceive you that women don't love, a women love is organic, she is ready to move mountains for her man. Don't date because of pleasure. Guys learn to be yourself.
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by Hhh4444: 11:41am On Sep 17
Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you. Omo,na why I Dey laugh men when Dey look for good woman. It’s a wild goose chase looking for a good woman because all women are the same.
Dtruthspeaker:
You no see Eve?

Even the one wey God join, by the time women whine am say she be mu² she go misbehave waka.

Women make sure that no girl would be a good wife. It is a huge system to ensure that every girl and woman is not different from them and any girl/woman who is not bending, is hated, ostracized, attacked, set up to be raped and murdered. Unless she changes to be like them, then they would leave her alone and become friends with her and then they would be wakaring together wearing the same clothes and behaving the same way.

And now she would be sleeping with people's fathers and husbands and friends and women/girls too
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by stan4b(m): 11:54am On Sep 17
All these yahoo boys comes to mind.
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by Makaveli217(m): 12:02pm On Sep 17
williamssamuel1:
Nairalanders Good morning,
One of the core reasons is many relationship is build on pretence, many guys don't want to be real with their future partners, some women want to be love, some value honesty, care, attention and simple life. Most guys will go out of their way just to impress their woman. When the money stop coming the woman automatically lose interest. Then different attitude, disrespect, anger, come in.
Most guys are just dating themselves, many women don't love their boyfriend/husbands some are there because of the money.
Be honest with yourself and your partner you don't have to prove a point. A woman that will love you will never ever stress you.

Note: let no man deceive you that women don't love, a women love is organic, she is ready to move mountains for her man. Don't date because of pleasure. Guys learn to be yourself.
I second you on this, always choose who choose you, but some guys don't listen, they'll be chasing and spending on a girl that doesn't like them just to please and impress.
They think money can please or keep a woman 😂 a woman that decides to stay with you choose you, not because of your money.

You can be spend 1m on a girl per month, and she'll still cheat on you 😁 with someone that hasn't given her a dime.

One man came to the bar wailing about his wife, he bought madam a car worth 20m+ opened a good blooming business for her, they all live comfortably, guess what? madam started sleeping with small boys they can employ as workers in their home 😂 oga nearly ran mad.
Most guys think all that matters in a relationship or marriage is money 😭 you'll see grown up man with millions shading tears because of his wife.
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by GuestInfinity: 12:02pm On Sep 17
Dtruthspeaker:
You are referring to women.

It is women who come and go as money comes and goes
Those kinds of women are like that for men who wooed them with money.
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by AcadaWriter0: 12:05pm On Sep 17
Let's just keep the conversation flowing, shall we?
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by eepeepook(f): 12:13pm On Sep 17
Your role as a man is to share your resources. In this modern day, a man’s resources are his time (aka attention) and money. Her job as a woman is to look pretty, surrender the box and perform housekeeping duties. If you don’t have money, you are worthless. Time can be gotten from any male on earth.
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by Tendd: 12:16pm On Sep 17
Most men,if not all men put money and resources for upkeep of their relationship and family.Women tend to leave when they are financially stable or the man has little to offer.
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by Emeskhalifa(m): 12:20pm On Sep 17
jaxxy:
When money is the foundation of ur relationship why wont it end when u have money problems? undecided

Tell me why not undecided

Money was the centre or reason for the relationship directly or indirectly.
Has there ever been a point in relationship or marriage where money is not needed?

Na stone una dey use go buy food items for una marriage??
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by jaxxy(m): 12:34pm On Sep 17
Emeskhalifa:
Has there ever been a point in relationship or marriage where money is not needed?

Na stone una dey use go buy food items for una marriage??
Using money doesnt make it the foundation. Meaning even when u both dont have money the relationship doesnt have major issues and nobody is looking at the other person less atrractive or somehow.

I know this isnt common especially now where money is being glorified above love or real values but thats how we make money the foundation of our lives.

Money should not be the foundation of ur life.

The bible didnt say man should not live by bread. It said man should not live by bread alone. Meaning there are more important things besides bread that compliment ur eating bread.
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by Cum4me(m): 12:43pm On Sep 17
Cheatmessiah:
In week 50 2014 Australia pool.
I won close to 50m.
I got married that year.
Sent my wife to UK in 2015 to study nursing.
She graduated and married oyibo man.
I vow never to remarry again...
oga go seat down one place. You dey find clients there. Na who dey addicted to gambling go fall for your trap
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by Emeka71(m): 12:59pm On Sep 17
Dtruthspeaker:
You are referring to women.

It is women who come and go as money comes and goes
Women would make a man seek plenty of money.
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by ABI28: 1:23pm On Sep 17
What do you expect for someone that came in with the motive that money would be provided.
Withdrawal - Debits= Bankruptcy
Re: Why Some Relationships End When Money Problems Begin by Greenodds: 1:33pm On Sep 17
Dtruthspeaker:
You are referring to women.

It is women who come and go as money comes and goes
This is accurate, talking from personal and 3rd party experience.
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