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Why do some women return to their ex after a breakup? Sometimes, after trying another relationship, a woman may rediscover qualities she valued in her former partner that she doesn't find in the new relationship. In this video, we discuss some of the reasons people return to their ex after a breakup.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vqL--1bDTuM

Imalwayshorny:
E sure for me say your ex still dey Bleep you

Don't you think there is a reason for that?

They have already shared some memories and emotions that is hard to find elsewhere especially those who dated for more than 4years and after breakup he or she didn't find someone better than the ex because the expectation was to date someone better than the ex and that's why body count is very important because if you don't match the ex, he or she will collect from him or her secretly or openly...

Anybody telling you body count don't matter is deceiving you because the more people she date the more feeling and memories she experience from different men and it will be difficult to find all those qualities in one man...
Example:
Character.
Penis,
Spending,
Caring,
Ability of sex,
Tolerance and many more...

1. You may get money but didn't get the type of penis she wants which one of her ex possess..
2. You may get big penis but not financially capable like one of her ex who did everything for her before and many more example...
3. Major reason possiblity of a single mother still f$cking the father of her child is 85 percent sure...

Okafor's Law.
Simple.

That first love attraction is something else. Just a simple, "I miss you text or call from their ex" gbam feelings will gradually return. That's why you must ensure your woman block any form of communication with them.

Women rotate like orbit. Anywhere the rotation favor them they put head. They keep complaining until they are out of that relationship but when they get to another, they will find out that, John is better than James. Then they will run back. Who can ever satisfy a woman.

"Don’t get me wrong, both sexes are guilty of manipulation; Battered women go back to their abusive boyfriends/ husbands and pussy-whipped men compromise themselves and their ambitions to better serve their girlfriends insecurities." - Book 1, RM

"Even if you could go back to where you were, any relationship you might have with an ex will be colored by all of the issues that led up to the breakup. In other words, you know what the end result of those issues has been." - Rational Male

On getting your ex back: "You will never escape her impression that you were so optionless you had to beg her to rekindle her intimacy with you." - Rational Male

How did that woman managed to count from 1 to 3 And Skipped 4 to get to 5
I don't understand...
Who uploaded that video??

Okafors law says what again 😂😂😂😂

Lovelink1991:
Why do some women return to their ex after a breakup? Sometimes, after trying another relationship, a woman may rediscover qualities she valued in her former partner that she doesn't find in the new relationship. In this video, we discuss some of the reasons people return to their ex after a breakup.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vqL--1bDTuM

Simple. They discover the grass isn't greener on the other side. In other words, "the devil you know, is better than the angel you don't know".

Greenbirth:
Women rotate like orbit. Anywhere the rotation favor them they put head. They keep complaining until they are out of that relationship but when they get to another, they will find out that, John is better than James. Then they will run back. Who can ever satisfy a woman.

Women are insatiable, I find it difficult to understand what they really want.

They thought/felt they have seen a better guy then realize the devil you know is better than the angel you dont know. The new guy is even also someone's EX.

I no like relationship talk. I'm out

Women always go to where they feel they are missing out.
Ex may have money and current is not too wealthy, woman when they feel greedy will go to ex.
The biggest mistake men make is when they expect women to be rational like men.

Women without direction go back to their exes, foolish men take them back

Toh.

Don't ask Nairaland females for contact details (email, phone)

Even verminnel ex still dey knack her

Who I'm to tell her to stop

If she comes back to you, chop her and shatter her heart later.

If she truly loved you, she wouldn’t break up with you to go sample another man.

Several reasons...

I dated a couple of ladies in the past. We didn't have any issues. One of them.was the only child of the family and her parents had her in their old age. They wanted her to get married on time when I was in my final year as an undergrad student. She got married and still wanted to reconnect. We're just friends today but with no strings attached. According to her, her only life regret was that she didn't wait for me. She had a delay for over 10 years after I had concluded on having kids.

The other lady didn't take me seriously. I went and got married to another lady and she started blamimg me, that I didn't open up for any serious relationship...that kain excuses wey some ladies always come up with, in order to come clean and exonerate themselves. She later said her regret was that she didn't stick to me. She still wanted to enjoy life while i was ready . She didn't have another bf but she just felt it was too early for her to settle down.

I broke up with the 3rd lady cos she wasn't trustworthy I met her, after the 1st one.She had another guy but hiding it. She later reconnected after she got married. No strings attached, we're just fiends and I still help them the best way I can.

Stephen0mozzy:
Okafor's Law.
Simple.

Okafor was a real genius!

The youth should redirect their energy to something more productive.

Okafor law has been and will continue to be.

When the holy books says only eat the apple When you're married. It get WHY !

Lemme tell you,when she’s with you she’ll probably feel you are not good enough and she deserves better.After all said and done she’ll eventually realize there was no one like you (if you were genuine)

Okafor's Law is a popular relationship theory stating that once a man has been intimate with a woman, he can successfully rekindle that physical intimacy with her at any time in the future.

I'm now paying 5,000 dollars in BTC for anyone who can state Okafor's law .

PREEEK GET SHAPE AND SIZES, AND IT DEY TOUCH THEIR BRAIN WELL WELL.

Eriokanmi:
Several reasons...

I dated a couple of ladies in the past. We didn't have any issues. One of them.was the only child of the family and her parents had her in their old age. They wanted her to get married on time when I was in my final year as an undergrad student. She got married and still wanted to reconnect. We're just friends today but with no strings attached. According to her, her only life regret was that she didn't wait for me. She had a delay for over 10 years after I had concluded on having kids.

The other lady didn't take me seriously. I went and got married to another lady and she started blamimg me, that I didn't open up for any serious relationship...that kain excuses wey some ladies always come up with, in order to come clean and exonerate themselves. She later said her regret was that she didn't stick to me. She still wanted to enjoy life while i was ready . She didn't have another bf but she just felt it was too early for her to settle down.

I broke up with the 3rd lady cos she wasn't trustworthy i ket after the 1st one.She had another guy but hiding it. She later reconnected after she got married. No strings attached, we're just fiends and I still help them the best way I can.

You are a good man.

The moment a girlfriend marry, I am respecting that marriage even if she doesn't.

U leave me, u ain't coming back

New understanding about life brings new agreement on things

But one thing remain

Who comes back to who and who don't really care anymore about who comes back

War still dey

This woman self no get sense.so she no know say once we guys don break up and u, the babe Come later come back after a relationship, na dustbin u be to us. Good only for 3some with your close friend

"The devil you know is better than the angel you don't know"

Nai make dem say women get fish brain.




As for me once I break up with a woman that's final, I don't accept her back for any reason.

Lovelink1991:
Why do some women return to their ex after a breakup? Sometimes, after trying another relationship, a woman may rediscover qualities she valued in her former partner that she doesn't find in the new relationship. In this video, we discuss some of the reasons people return to their ex after a breakup.




https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vqL--1bDTuM

Some of the reasons people return are as follows:
They realise they still have feelings.
A breakup can end the relationship without immediately ending the emotional attachment. Some people date others and eventually realise, “I'm still thinking about this person.” Lingering feelings are one of the most documented reasons people reunite.

The new relationship exposes what they valued in the old one.
Sometimes you don't fully appreciate someone's patience, communication, loyalty, companionship or emotional support until you experience a relationship without those qualities. Online commenters frequently describe this as discovering that the new relationship didn't solve what they thought it would.

Familiarity is powerful.
Your ex already knows your personality, history, habits and vulnerabilities. Starting over with someone new requires building that connection from scratch. After the excitement of something new wears off, familiarity can become attractive.

They become nostalgic.
With time, people sometimes remember the beautiful parts of a relationship more strongly than the painful parts. That can create a version of the ex in their mind that feels even more attractive than the person they remember during the breakup.

They regret the decision.
Some breakups happen during anger, frustration or emotional pressure. Once the emotions settle, someone may reconsider whether ending the relationship was actually what they wanted.

Loneliness becomes real.
After the relationship ends, the person may suddenly experience the silence: nobody checking in, nobody to talk to, nobody who understands their little habits. Sometimes what they miss isn't simply romance—it's companionship.

They realise the problem wasn't necessarily the person—it was the circumstances.
Two people can love each other but break up because of timing, communication problems, family pressure, finances, distance or immaturity. With time, both people may change or gain perspective.
Sometimes they simply miss being wanted.
This is the less romantic side. Some people return because they want validation, attention or the emotional comfort their ex provided—not necessarily because they're ready to rebuild the relationship. Online discussions repeatedly point out this distinction.

And here's the important part:
Going back doesn't automatically mean the relationship should continue.
Some people genuinely rebuild something healthier because both partners have changed and addressed the original problems. Others reunite and discover that the same problems are still there. Research on "on-again, off-again" relationships has found that these relationships can have lower satisfaction and functioning than relationships that haven't gone through breakups.