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On paper, you would expect some rich men to go for a calm, home trained, down to earth ladies but in reality, we see them dating or even marrying runs girl

do you know why?

Some of these runs girls invest in their appearance, they look and scent good, for many rich men, a wife is also a trophy to show off to their friends, also appearance most times, gives these women access to social circle many people dream of entering

These run girls know how to rebrand them, they opens a luxury boutique, beauty salon, interior decor firm or real estate agency.
Once she becomes a serial Entrepreneur or CEO, her past is officially wiped clean in the eyes of society. Men end up marrying the rebranded version, not the past.

Another reason is that some rich men dealing with intense business, politics or high stakes careers often don't have the patience for traditional courtship or long emotional drama. Runs girls understand men's egos, they know when to be silent, how to make a man feel like a king and how to keep things completely problem free. What the man pays for initially is convenience but over time, that convenience turns into attachment.

Some rich men actually prefer a woman whose entire lifestyle depends on them. Dating a career woman with her own money and strict boundaries can feel challenging to a man who is used to total control. By taking a woman out of that transactional space, funding her life, setting up her businesses and upgrading her status, the man feels like her savior and he expects lifelong loyalty in return

The answer is simple.

Being rich does not equate to being wise and disciplined.

Also, most of those rich men are criminals just like the runs girls, and you know what birds of the same feathers do together.

Quality...
Some oloshos are very discipline, many of them are doing the business for survival..
Also many of them have seen the end of the world and some now learn from their mistakes because they never thought they'll see an opportunity to marry again...

Because they know the runz girls are for the money and will never question them and remain loyal forever! Those class of rich men cherish peace and loyalty, and don’t want to be questioned.

The men know their past, so the lady knows she has no worth in the presence of the man even though they loved up.

Unlike a decent girl with worth, she has options and has limits to what she can accept.

motymop:
Another reason is that some rich men dealing with intense business, politics or high stakes careers often don't have the patience for traditional courtship or long emotional drama. Runs girls understand men's egos, they know when to be silent, how to make a man feel like a king and how to keep things completely problem free. What the man pays for initially is convenience but over time, that convenience turns into attachment.

Another reason is...
Just because someone is rich doesn't mean he has sense

Most carrier women will drive you crazy, most see to their husbands has colleagues not husband that deserves respect.

That's what they think they deserve.

A reasonable man chooses not just a wife, but a mother for his kids. How olosho wan take teach virtuous life give my daughter 🥹. Wetin concern olosho with self-worth and not selling your body?

OP, said rich not wealthy

Kemical23:
Quality...
Some oloshos are very discipline, many of them are doing the business for survival..
Also many of them have seen the end of the world and some now learn from their mistakes because they never thought they'll see an opportunity to marry again...

This one is the spokesperson of oloshos.

HacheNoire:
Because they know the runz girls are for the money and will never question them and remain loyal forever! Those class of rich men cherish peace and loyalty, and don’t want to be questioned.

The men know their past, so the lady knows she has no worth in the presence of the man even though they loved up.

Unlike a decent girl with worth, she has options and has limits to what she can accept.

Only irresponsible men go beyond the limit of a decent girl/good woman.

motymop:
➜On paper, you would expect some rich men to go for a calm, home trained, down to earth ladies
➜ but in reality, we see them dating or even marrying runs girl. do you know why? Some of these runs girls invest in their appearance, they look and scent good, for many rich men, a wife is also a trophy to show off to their friends, also appearance most times, gives these women access to social circle many people dream of entering.

1. That on-paper notion, from the beginning, was never based in reality. Take a look at the wives of celebrities and politicians, for example. They have never all been women who were calm, home-trained, down-to-earth, etc. Nor were they women of great looks or who cared much for their physical appearance. But our culture trains the minds, or maybe I should say, thrives on brainwashing women into believing that it is only when they act calm, home-trained, and down-to-earth that they get themselves decent men to marry. 😒😒😒

2. That is a rather simplistic explanation you have there. Taking care of their looks is one thing--not all of them do so, by the way. 😒😒

BECAUSE OF FORK

RICH MEN NO DEY TAKE FORK PLAY

motymop:
we see them dating or even marrying runs girl

na you call am runs girl

it is called
TROPHY WIFE
DISPOSABLE WIFE
CONVENIENCE WIFE
PLEASURABLE COMPANY

she is just another item

Women are fortunate sometimes to eat their cake and have it back… lucky daughters of Eve

QuinQ:
Just because someone is rich doesn't mean he has sense

lol, it takes some sense, smartness, luck and positioning to become rich.


Yahoo boy that just hit a one time jackpot is not rich, being rich requires consistency and sustenance, and these requires one to have some sense

Many rich people marry who they want to marry because they don't owe you no explanation. Get thy mouth shut

lamentor78:
Most carrier women will drive you crazy, most see to their husbands has colleagues not husband that deserves respect.

This is part of the reasons op.


The girls you call runs girls are usually good mannered, respectful, caring, great listeners and good in making a man feel special unlike your so called calm, career ladies who feel so arrogant, prideful and disrespectful to men. Every man wants to be respected. If I am to marry a second wife, I will go for a semi educated or uneducated super beautiful humble girl

jubrilELsudan:
BECAUSE OF FORK

RICH MEN NO DEY TAKE FORK PLAY

Not entirely true. They marry them coz they know their past, and are certain the women can't question them because their livelihood depends on the such men. See if you get better money eh, you go know say fork na the cheapest thing to get my boss. Na poor man they hustle for am like say e life depend on am o

Good sex is underrated. A skillful bed midfielder fit take any man.

immortalcrown:
The answer is simple.

Being rich does not equate to being wise and disciplined.

I swear, majority of people will refer to riches are drug dealers or ritualist, the real wealthy man like Dangote, Adeleke, Adenuga and Abdulsamad will not settle for less talkless of runs girl

From your description you are not a Rich guy and only basing you submission on conjecture

Real rich men have a circle, and the mingle and marry within that same circle

You are referring to those who struggled out of poverty and while trying to belong, they get trapped by the rebranded runs girls

QuinQ:
Just because someone is rich doesn't mean he has sense

You may not be correct my brother

Most runs girls understand men better, they treat men better

what most men want is respect, loyalty and good sex, runs girls do it better

Run girls knows how to initiate sex and take care of the man emotionally and all that, but that church girl can't do that

Church girls won't initiate sex, even when you touch them, 98% of the time they give you attitudes, they are not romantic, they are not social and are not used to social circles where these men operates

If you find a runs girl ready to drop her past, marry her instead of that church girl that's inexperienced

A person's current identity cannot always be reduced to their previous occupation.
Someone can leave sex work, build a legitimate career, become an entrepreneur and genuinely change their life. Research on women transitioning out of sex work shows that employment, coaching, social support and financial stability can play important roles in that transition.
So perhaps the better question isn't:
“Why do rich men marry runs girls?”
It is:
“Why do some people become attracted to a person whose present identity is completely different from the identity they had when they first met them?”
Because sometimes the person you meet today isn't the same person society remembers from five or ten years ago.
And sometimes, the “rebrand” isn't just cosmetic.
It is an entirely different life.

motymop:
On paper, you would expect some rich men to go for a calm, home trained, down to earth ladies but in reality, we see them dating or even marrying runs girl

do you know why?

Some of these runs girls invest in their appearance, they look and scent good, for many rich men, a wife is also a trophy to show off to their friends, also appearance most times, gives these women access to social circle many people dream of entering

These run girls know how to rebrand them, they opens a luxury boutique, beauty salon, interior decor firm or real estate agency.
Once she becomes a serial Entrepreneur or CEO, her past is officially wiped clean in the eyes of society. Men end up marrying the rebranded version, not the past.

Another reason is that some rich men dealing with intense business, politics or high stakes careers often don't have the patience for traditional courtship or long emotional drama. Runs girls understand men's egos, they know when to be silent, how to make a man feel like a king and how to keep things completely problem free. What the man pays for initially is convenience but over time, that convenience turns into attachment.

Some rich men actually prefer a woman whose entire lifestyle depends on them. Dating a career woman with her own money and strict boundaries can feel challenging to a man who is used to total control. By taking a woman out of that transactional space, funding her life, setting up her businesses and upgrading her status, the man feels like her savior and he expects lifelong loyalty in return

Kemical23:
Quality...
Some oloshos are very discipline, many of them are doing the business for survival..
Also many of them have seen the end of the world and some now learn from their mistakes because they never thought they'll see an opportunity to marry again...

I laugh. Olosho and discipline?? Habit is a powerful Shadow . Any lady who’s been in the business for at least 4 years would have had her mentality changed.

Forget the stories of going to the end of the world and back.

Those rich men that marry them according to the OP what’s the percentage?? What later became of them?
What happened to them when they he money finished??
Women generally are hard species to put under your roof let alone an OS.

motymop:
On paper, you would expect some rich men to go for a calm, home trained, down to earth ladies but in reality, we see them dating or even marrying runs girl

do you know why?

Some of these runs girls invest in their appearance, they look and scent good, for many rich men, a wife is also a trophy to show off to their friends, also appearance most times, gives these women access to social circle many people dream of entering

These run girls know how to rebrand them, they opens a luxury boutique, beauty salon, interior decor firm or real estate agency.
Once she becomes a serial Entrepreneur or CEO, her past is officially wiped clean in the eyes of society. Men end up marrying the rebranded version, not the past.

Another reason is that some rich men dealing with intense business, politics or high stakes careers often don't have the patience for traditional courtship or long emotional drama. Runs girls understand men's egos, they know when to be silent, how to make a man feel like a king and how to keep things completely problem free. What the man pays for initially is convenience but over time, that convenience turns into attachment.

Some rich men actually prefer a woman whose entire lifestyle depends on them. Dating a career woman with her own money and strict boundaries can feel challenging to a man who is used to total control. By taking a woman out of that transactional space, funding her life, setting up her businesses and upgrading her status, the man feels like her savior and he expects lifelong loyalty in return

Not true
Rich people marry themselves
Only criminals and some politicians with no powerful political background marry runs girls , which rich politicians kids you have seen marry a runs girls or someone from poor backgrounds?
It only happens in nollywood movies.

greatiyk4u:
From your description you are not a Rich guy and only basing you submission on conjecture

Real rich men have a circle, and the mingle and marry within that same circle

You are referring to those who struggled out of poverty and while trying to belong, they get trapped by the rebranded runs girls

You are wrong. Even the Elon Musk's of this world still end up mingling with the so called runs girls who have either become fashion models, airline cabin crews, actress, event planners, media personalities, etc.


The girls the op classified as runs girls are the most visible girls to men; you go to any rich bar or lounge anywhere in the world, you will find mostly the runs girls, you hardly see the good girls cos they are locked up in their rooms chatting online, watching films and learning latest methods to snub men or turn men down while the runs girls are out there networking, mingling and living life.


I love East Africa and their women, will most likely retire in an east African country lol

Nollywood movie. Most rich men keep them as sidechicks not wife

Why do some rich girls marry broke men?

I just want to know since sex is on the same level with money in man and woman relationship here.

abayomi27:
Good sex is underrated. A skillful bed midfielder fit take any man.

The man wey no get PE and Jedi Jedi … but truly it can. Coupled with knowing how to treat pamper and respect a man. He can give you his life and ask yu to go and stand in front of a moving train

ednut1:
Nollywood movie. Most rich men keep them as sidechicks not wife

Sometimes they marry them too. The Kim Kardashians, the Tokes, etc are typical runs girls

franchasng:
You are wrong. Even the Elon Musk's of this world still end up mingling with the so called runs girls who have either become fashion models, airline cabin crews, actress, event planners, media personalities, etc.


The girls the op classified as runs girls are the most visible girls to men; you go to any rich bar or lounge anywhere in the world, you will find mostly the runs girls, you hardly see the good girls cos they are locked up in their rooms chatting online or watching films while the runs girls are out there networking, mingling and living life.


I love East Africa and their women, will most likely retire in an east African country lol

Lolz
In this case even the runs girl get classes and grades, from your description....
You must not be a runs girl to network and socialize especially around high class events and businesses