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Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by dailybuzzng(op): 3:55pm On Sep 25

Abuja Lady @iamsimplynneka Rejects “Women Can Do It Better” Narrative, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gvglabSISbo

ABUJA — A Nigerian lady based in Abuja, identified by her Instagram handle @iamsimplynneka, has sparked a heated online debate after she publicly rejected the popular saying that “what a man can do, a woman can do better.”

In a viral Instagram post, the Abuja-based influencer said she does not belong to that school of thought. According to her, men should continue doing what they are capable of doing, and should even help carry part of what women do.

“For those women saying: what a man can do, a woman can do it better... I’m not a part of that philosophy at all,” she said.

“In fact, what a man can do, a man should continue doing it. If the man can even take a part of what the woman can do, he should carry. I’m not a part of that philosophy.”

The post has divided opinions online. Some users praised her for advocating partnership rather than competition between men and women. Others, however, criticised her, arguing that her comments reinforce traditional gender roles and undermine women’s capabilities.

As of the time of filing this report, @iamsimplynneka had not responded to the mixed reactions trailing her post.

https://www.abujapress.com/2026/09/im-not-part-of-that-philosophy-abuja.html?m

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Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by Sermwell(m): 5:09pm On Sep 25

She don see shege for Yekini hamd grin

Is Amoda ogunlere Yekini still hiding in France? grin

If he had gone for UNGA, Trump would have grabbed him by the balls by now, Maduro style!! grin

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Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by bigpicture001: 5:09pm On Sep 25

I no fit shout lady...this one don reset her brain

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Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by zmanto(m): 5:10pm On Sep 25

Everything is now treading

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Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by saintkel(m): 5:10pm On Sep 25

Me my own na simple....as a man, make money, with ur money, no one can give u rules except for u parent which is understandable...all dis wannabe sef

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Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by Shantyken(m): 5:10pm On Sep 25

E go shock u, no worries.... Nonsense

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Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by femi4: 5:11pm On Sep 25

dailybuzzng:
Abuja Lady @iamsimplynneka Rejects “Women Can Do It Better” Narrative, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gvglabSISbo

https://www.abujapress.com/2026/09/im-not-part-of-that-philosophy-abuja.html?m

chasing clout..the regulars

Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by MrSword: 5:11pm On Sep 25*

Every girl na social media influencer.

What are they influencing sef?🤣

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Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by Sleezwizz(m): 5:13pm On Sep 25

dailybuzzng:
Abuja Lady @iamsimplynneka Rejects “Women Can Do It Better” Narrative, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gvglabSISbo

https://www.abujapress.com/2026/09/im-not-part-of-that-philosophy-abuja.html?m

Na her type dey depend on man for everything. Nonsense

Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by RollinTNDA: 5:15pm On Sep 25*

When our high Gpee tank Got very dirty and needed cleaning.
All the girls in that quarter refuse to pay for a guy to climb the high Gpee tank and clean it.

One Ekuke said they can't pay a guy 10k
Just to climb and clean tank

I come ask her if she fit climb am
Tank wey be like 3 storey building
None of them get mind to do am

Something wey boys go happily climb go do free sef. That day I realize say without ken women useless like mad grin

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Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by Skydivine: 5:17pm On Sep 25

Let everyone answer their papa name.

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Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by Bosman17: 5:18pm On Sep 25

Sermwell:
She don see shege for Yekini hamd

Is Amoda ogunlere Yekini still hiding in France? If he had gone for UNGA, Trump would have grabbed him by the balls by now, Maduro style!!

I hope he is alive and well… I just have this bad feeling I can’t shake off… the last time he was seen publicly was a week ago… since then, no one has seen him! God abeg keep our president safe🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by Dogalmighty17: 5:19pm On Sep 25

The typical liability that is a Nigerian woman has spoken.

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Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by Paragon311(m): 5:19pm On Sep 25

Nigeria economy will humble you and reset your brain to factory setting.

Thanks to APC for giving people reasons to reason reasonably..

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Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by Sermwell(m): 5:22pm On Sep 25

Bosman17:
I hope he is alive and well… I just have this bad feeling I can’t shake off… the last time he was seen publicly was a week ago… since then, no one has seen him! God abeg keep our president safe🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

God abeg ke?? Who wan kpai make e kpai jare!! grin

Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by Nahunger(m): 5:26pm On Sep 25

So men are good for carrying your load, de play...

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Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by T0BY(m): 5:26pm On Sep 25

This one wan trend by for force. I hope you go fit still give this advice to your male son?

Internet never forgets.. one day your pikin go see the advise too..

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Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by Qualityoffer: 5:34pm On Sep 25

Quality phone cameras and fitters have really been trying for people, especially women. If you see this same woman physically, especially at her home unannounced, you'll be surprised.

As for her stated accepted philosophy and her rejected philosophy, I don't give a damn.

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Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by SonOfWords(m): 5:34pm On Sep 25

At least for once I applaud Tinubu😊. His government is resetting the brains of Nigerian feminists.

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Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by Akerele44(m): 5:37pm On Sep 25

Sermwell:
She don see shege for Yekini hamd

Is Amoda ogunlere Yekini still hiding in France? If he had gone for UNGA, Trump would have grabbed him by the balls by now, Maduro style!!

Chai mental health problem from Peter obi to u is challenging…how does this topic relate to what u typed…same way they would ask Peter obi question he will be saying something else 💔

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Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by bigdammyj: 5:50pm On Sep 25

Noted.

“For those women saying: what a man can do, a woman can do it better... I’m not a part of that philosophy at all,” she said.

“In fact, what a man can do, a man should continue doing it. If the man can even take a part of what the woman can do, he should carry. I’m not a part of that philosophy.”

Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by Ekaka14: 5:55pm On Sep 25

Yet you don go for sleepover for your boyfriend house they wear him shirt like parachute...nonsense!🙄

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Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by kiddaz: 6:00pm On Sep 25

Fine lady. To kiss her lips and neck just dey hungry me 🥺🥲

Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by OSPRO: 6:08pm On Sep 25

to carry load no dey tire you?

kiddaz:
Fine lady. To kiss her lips and neck just dey hungry me 🥺🥲

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Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by Babaken: 6:13pm On Sep 25

Sermwell:
She don see shege for Yekini hamd

Is Amoda ogunlere Yekini still hiding in France? If he had gone for UNGA, Trump would have grabbed him by the balls by now, Maduro style!!

my brother the thing no tire you .

You dress up go visit somebody for house the wen you go visit leave you go meeting no be see finish be that.

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Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by kiddaz: 6:16pm On Sep 25

OSPRO:
to carry load no dey tire you?

I ready turn Hulk and Thanos together for her matter undecided

Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by Gotocourt: 6:25pm On Sep 25

Me as Man, am looking for who will adopt me.

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Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by jubrilELsudan: 6:30pm On Sep 25

ABEG ANYBODY FIT HELEP ME WITH HER NÒMBÁ CAUSE I FOR LIKE CARRY HER KÙKÚNÁSÉ

Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by callmeDDD: 6:39pm On Sep 25

zmanto:
Everything is now treading

Everything is now a trend.

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Re: Abuja Lady Rejects “Women Can Do It Better”, Says Men Should Carry Women’s Load by Checkwell: 6:41pm On Sep 25

A lot of nonsense you get to see on social media. How is this news? So, someone can decide to sit in her house and be stupid, only to be advertised by sites like this one?

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