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QuinQ:
I will never, never, NEVER approach a man!
E get why



Bad o, good o, they all boil down to same thing: SEX!

So what do you want a man to be doing with you on a r/ship bracket

What makes ur lover boyfriend more than just a regular friend

Remove sex from r/ship what bonds us, what keeps d spark on ...

You realize one day when you are married nd sex is lacking in it ... Na yu e go pain pass

TheStoriesOfMan:
No no.

The man must give the signal, the intent to make an offer known. It's left for the lady to react or cue in to the initial signals. If a confident guys can differentiate the body language, he'll know if the lady is interested or not.

Any inverse of this will lead to bruised ego.

Though some men don't mind being approached by a woman. It's their fantasy.

What is “no no” here? Again who made this strict rule? Even without approaching a lady you can tell if she likes you or not…so if she doesn’t like you what’s the point of approaching her? Again if the lady likes you it will be easier for you to approach and pursue as a man and also in case of when she likes you she can also walk up and start a conversation and then you as a man can take it up from there….not to straight up ask you out like I said…and what bruised ego are you talking about that men don’t go through every day?

Kimo21:
What is “no no” here? Again who made this strict rule? Even without approaching a lady you can tell if she likes you or not…so if she doesn’t like you what’s the point of approaching her? Again if the lady likes you it will be easier for you to approach and pursue as a man and also in case of when she likes you she can also walk up and start a conversation ….not to straight up ask you out like I said…and what bruised ego are you talking about that men don’t go through every day?

We are saying the same thing. Two sides of a coin.

Well, argue with nature all you want, that's your COT.

Have a nice day.

Women do approach but they are not direct as men, they do so either by showing interest in the man or wanting to know them.

Women have been approaching men, since, is just that they are subtle. Lol its not a new thing. While men show it and are direct.

LoL, have you not experience it, when some women show interest in you, they want to talk with you and are happy to talk with you, they blush, they showed interest .

It's just that Modern women think they should skip that part and be so direct so woke.

SeriouslySense:
Women do approach but they are not direct as men, they do so either by showing interest in the man or wanting to know them.

Women have been approaching men, since, is just that they are subtle. Lol its not a new thing. While men show it and are direct.

LoL, have you not experience it, when some women show interest in you, they want to talk with you and are happy to talk with you, they blush, they showed interest .

It's just that Modern women think they should skip that part and be so direct so woke.

Yes I have . Ladies have actually approached me…and given subtle signals…but what’s crazy is that some will be acting non chalant for no reason even when they like and test you to see how long you’ll pursue them which I won’t do. My own is if you like someone, make it easy for the person…if you don’t like them reject them with courtesy

Some women are not just approachable.

Make una come ask me out o , I dey available, Email me if you dey shy o ..I dey available

reddingtonblack:
So what do you want a man to be doing with you on a r/ship bracket

What makes ur lover boyfriend more than just a regular friend

Remove sex from r/ship what bonds us, what keeps d spark on ...

You realize one day when you are married nd sex is lacking in it ... Na yu e go pain pass

Kimo21:
Na you Dey attract yeye guys then

Let's just not pretend there is some deep philosophical thing about it

MEGAWATCH:
What you said is the complete truth but you see this generation has a way of hating the truth.

They like things upside down and they are also fast to complain.

Very confused and perversed generation.


😎

Which generation were women the ones asking men out??

bentenny:
Some women are not just approachable.

It is not that they are not approachable. It is that they don't want you!
If their type shows up come see approachable pro max!

tunnyl:
Majority of cases whereby the lady approached the guy doesn’t usually end well.

Why?

Women get bored easily!

That's not really the case

When women approach first, guys tend to value the woman less...

tunnyl:
Majority of cases whereby the lady approached the guy doesn’t usually end well.

Why?

Women get bored easily!

Na men no dey get bored easily abi.

QuinQ:
I will never, never, NEVER approach a man!
E get why



Bad o, good o, they all boil down to same thing: SEX!

Don't cross road with this your mentality, even the man you want as an husband still wants sex, you just have to play your card well by using your common sense, the problem with majority of your gender is that they don't use their senses when needed, you allowed yourself to be used by a guy that hasn't paid anything on your head later you start showing attitude to the man that wants serious relationship. Meanwhile you gave everything to the one that never shows any seriousness for free, when you see the serious one, you tag him as been needing, only God will settle you guys matter

After the age of 25. If a woman have not found a man . It will hard for her to find a man. All the men are taken. Women are 60% of the population.

I dey fold arms look you.

Kimo21:
Comot for my thread this guy

math2001:
After the age of 25. If a woman have not found a man . It will hard for her to find a man. All the men are taken. Women are 60% of the population.

On this one you’re wrong…men are slightly higher in population than women in the earth currently

Kimo21:
On this one you’re wrong…men are slightly higher in population than women in the earth currently

women are more

TheStoriesOfMan:
First, it is not a natural behavior for women to seek men.

Mean are wired by evolution to conquer, to seek out, to create, to build,to make the first move. Except you were bought or owned as in empire's past.

It is only normal for a man to meet a woman. An inverse role is not only abnormal, but also boring and distasteful.

If a woman approaches me for relationship, I'll turn it down immediately. I'll even begin to suspect if you are a syndicate to a ritual cult looking for youths for their annual sacrifice.

You wan bruise my ego? I won't allow that.

Na why I be man.

It's natural for women to approach men. Both gender approach each other differently. Our societies are built differently so I won't argue with your beliefs.
Hope you've heard of women flirting with men?? That's how they approach men. Not as straight forward as men do

tunnyl:
Majority of cases whereby the lady approached the guy doesn’t usually end well.

Why?

Women get bored easily!

It does

That your assumption is not true..this is african mentality

Tendd:
…Women too have been complaining over the years that men should leave them alone and not bother them when they are out.

This!!!! That’s my why. 📌

Them Dey feel like alpha and omega.
Bible don talk am, when time reach 7 women go drag one man. 😂😂😂😂

If my wife hadn't approached me and stick to the relationship, I would have married Nneka. But now, both of us are enjoying it
But where is Nneka now? RIP

Considering the way our cultural expectations of both genders, any lady who makes the first move to woo a man is putting herself in a position of disadvantage in the relationship or marriage.

Kimo21:
On this one you’re wrong…men are slightly higher in population than women in the earth currently

This is not true! Feminist groups post that lie that men are higher than women to make themselves feel good.

Women far outnumber men in the world! Go to the hospitals and maternity homes, more females than male babies are born on daily basis. The situation is even worse here in Nigeria. Most couples today give birth to all-female children nowadays such that many are spending fortunes just to have a male child.

Jman06:
This is not true! Feminist groups post that lie that men are higher than women to make themselves feel good.

Women far outnumber men in the world! Go to the hospitals and maternity homes, more females than male babies are born on daily basis. The situation is even worse here in Nigeria. Most couples today give birth to all-female children nowadays such that many are spending fortunes just to have a male child.

Oga on a normal day I would argue against that but I did the research for myself and saw the data

Kimo21:
Oga on a normal day I would argue against that but I did the research for myself and saw the data

You didn't do any research yourself, you only saw the fake research being paraded online by feminist groups and their apologists intended to make single women feel better!

Hezmatosky210:
If my wife hadn't approached me and stick to the relationship, I would have married Nneka. But now, both of us are enjoying it
But where is Nneka now? RIP

If you are serious, this is f..king scary.

Ginomel:
If you are serious, this is f..king scary.

Na so o my guy. In my life before I marry i never prayed for wife or envisage how my wife and kids will look like. Just in a tinkle of eye, children don full my house And each day I give glory to God. Even though it's not easy but we're pushing it

Jman06:
You didn't do any research yourself, you only saw the fake research being paradigm online by feminist groups and their apologists intended to make single women feel better!

You telling me I didn’t do any research myself is arrogant like you know me. Clear my mention if you don’t believe.

QuinQ:
It is not that they are not approachable. It is that they don't want you!
If their type shows up come see approachable pro max!

Stop wailing.
I referred to 'some' not 'all'.
Read to understand before reacting.😎

TheStoriesOfMan:
No no.

The man must give the signal, the intent to make an offer known. It's left for the lady to react or cue in to the initial signals. If a confident guys can differentiate the body language, he'll know if the lady is interested or not.

Any inverse of this will lead to bruised ego.

Though some men don't mind being approached by a woman. It's their fantasy.

Una don start.
If woman like you she go give you signal. Toasting her becomes easier then. because not all men have that time to be chasing one banny up and down for months

meobizy:
I got approached not long ago. What is the big deal?

Comprehension was taught in your formative age but unfortunately you don't how to comprehend. He is talking to the group of women who say men don't approach them no more, are yiu amongst them?