helovesme:

This is no fairy tale

I am presently dating a young nigerian man that cares so much about me and has spoilt me silly with all sorts

He has a very very very good job with an international oil drilling organisation. In less than a year, he has done the following things for me:

**Summer vacation to Spain and France for just the both of us. Everything was on his tab
**A brand new 3G 16gig iphone
**A brand new Dell dual core laptop
**Vacation to the UK. All on his tab
**Lunch and dinner dates at various expensive restaurants
**Expensive Clothes, shoes
**Bought me a lovely silver neklace with an expensive wristwatch
**Gives me ''salary'' in dollars every month
**He tends buying me a car in the next couple of months
**Sex between us has been fantastic. He is actually the first man to ever go down on me

I can go on and on. . . . .
And yet he tells me that he has not even started with me

Honestly, i do not know what i have done to deserve such a caring, faithful, loving and romantic man like him

How can i thank him and show him just how much i appreciate all that he has done

Please, ideas will be appreciated

tpia:

@ poster:

is all this leading somewhere like marriage or does the guy simply have money to burn?

If thats all it is, then rest assured he'll do as much for the next girl. And the next one. And the next one.

It can happen with women too, when they're rich enough.

y me:

as i said earlier on always pray for him and make sure you know what you are doing

camelot:


am beginning to doubt if ur story is genuine

if they are true indeed u are nothing but a slot but if not then u are a punkassole

sistawoman:

Here is what you do:

Be loyal
Cook his fav. meals
Wear his fav. smells
Wear his Fav. clothes
Keep yourself up, same shape and style that attracted him
Never ever give him reason to think you are straying
And never ever let him walk all over you.
Lead from behind

sistawoman:

Here is what you do:

Be loyal
Cook his fav. meals
Wear his fav. smells
Wear his Fav. clothes
Keep yourself up, same shape and style that attracted him
Never ever give him reason to think you are straying
And never ever let him walk all over you.
Lead from behind

sistawoman:

Here is what you do:

Be loyal
Cook his fav. meals
Wear his fav. smells
Wear his Fav. clothes
Keep yourself up, same shape and style that attracted him
Never ever give him reason to think you are straying
And never ever let him walk all over you.
Lead from behind

sistawoman:

Here is what you do:

Be loyal
Cook his fav. meals
Wear his fav. smells
Wear his Fav. clothes
Keep yourself up, same shape and style that attracted him
Never ever give him reason to think you are straying
And never ever let him walk all over you.
Lead from behind

Geetoylaz:


geez gurl u're not lady like @ all, more than half the gurls that r on here to talk abt thier man, are mostly complainer. someone came here to praise her man the least u could do is ignore the post. dont raise unnecessary insult on someone whos done u no wrong. wonder why nigerians r like this , every thread u go to, half the posters are get very insultive.

@poster, hun u know what they say. the kinda person u r, determines the kinda person u'll get. i'd say 'good for u' however sometimes u need u refuse some offers from him now n then, that will remind him that hes the most important thing to u. not his goodies. plus, its better to be a giver than a reciever, i know hes got it all but thing is, u need to randomly buy stuffs for him too. even if its groundnut guys appreciate things given to them just as much as we do. n pls pls pls, easy on the vacation things, sometimes u need to turn things down. u wanna thank him? remain faithful, also, help save his money.

DaPhoenix:

You can start by giving me his number

co signs.

Treetop20:

spot on

ikamefa:




@topic you go girl!!

go on with your BAD self!

tope2000:

i concur
u lucky biatch

DaPhoenix:

@poster, ummm I'm still waiting for his number.

helovesme:

Sorry Girl  

His heart is with me and his eyes are on me.

damola1:

the only way you can appreciate him, and for him to continually appreciate you, IS TO ADD VALUE TO HIS LIFE.

Be strong emotionally, and also equip yourself to be strong financially, that way, he's got himself a real woman,

Do not be over dependent. else, you are going to lose him soon. And with these things you have, appreciate and emulate him with it,

my 2 kobo

MrCrackles:

POSTER
Uhmmm, i smell fraud and deception all over your post!

MrCrackles:

POSTER
Uhmmm, i smell fraud and deception all over your post!

Geetoylaz:

hmmm n i smell jealousy, hatred n stupidyty all over urs

IykeD:

I don't believe you.Even if he is the MD of the so called oil drilling company, will it be so easy to "throw around" money this way to someone who isn't his wife yet.Now the place that makes it even hard to believe, he pays you salary in dollars every month, what happened to the Naira? If he truly does all these as you claim, check him well, he might just be an "international ole", "big yahoo yahoo", and when he's caught, i pity you, you will be going down with him.Well ofcourse, they said you should pray for him, why not, pray that he continues to be your own mugu!