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“Jesus has done this. The wait was all worth it” - 37-year-old South African virgin celebrates as she weds

A 37-year-old South African virgin, Zukiswa Joyi, has gotten married.

Zukiswa, known for openly sharing her journey of sexual purity over the years, tied the knot n Saturday, October 3, 2026.

Her Lobola ceremony was held in March 28.

Taking to Facebook after the church wedding, expressed gratitude to God for His strength when’s she felt weary, adding that it was worth the long wait.

“Hitched for life. Jesus has done this. Answered Prayer. He truly Honors those who honor him. The wait was all worth it,” she wrote.

“I felt weary, but he strengthened me. Got married a virgin at the age of 37, it’s only possible because of the Spirit of God, but it’s possible.

“Virginity is possible, purity is possible We don’t have to accept the Lie of the enemy. The same grace that restores one when they fall is the same grace that can redeem one from falling Lord we are grateful.

Exousiang01:
LoL.
So na virginity you wan keep hood marriage?

If you like keep virginity for 40 years your marriage no go still last if you are not a wife.

Yes I said wife you have to be a wife before you get married.

"He who finds a "WIFE" finds a good thing"

A woman can be a virgin and still not be anything lose to a wife.

Not discovering virginity.
But character is way more important than virginity.....

Exousiang01:
LoL.
So na virginity you wan keep hood marriage?

If you like keep virginity for 40 years your marriage no go still last if you are not a wife.

Yes I said wife you have to be a wife before you get married.

"He who finds a "WIFE" finds a good thing"

A woman can be a virgin and still not be anything lose to a wife.

Not discovering virginity.
But character is way more important than virginity.....

PulaPower:
That place be so hella tight !

Exousiang01:
LoL.

But character is way more important than virginity.....

Exousiang01:
LoL.
So na virginity you wan keep hood marriage?

If you like keep virginity for 40 years your marriage no go still last if you are not a wife.

Yes I said wife you have to be a wife before you get married.

"He who finds a "WIFE" finds a good thing"

A woman can be a virgin and still not be anything lose to a wife.

Not discovering virginity.
But character is way more important than virginity.....

Lalami3232:
It's so disgusting and irritating to see men and women making fun of this beautiful and faithful lady. Una dey talk like say some nonvirgins no dey stay 35yrs+ without husbands. Weather una like am or not, we men go cherish and respect a virgin more than a nonvirgin. Now make I ask you one simple question, a virgin lady who's your spec and a nonvirgin who's still also your spec, who will you go for? Na from the answer to this question na we go know the number of insane people wey dey this forum. No matter what they say about virginity, we all know say a virgin get higher market value than a nonvirgin. Now make I list some advantages of virginity for you:
1. You get 99% assurance say the first child na your own. Your money for DNA is safe
2. You no get any competitor e.g, you no go hear say my ex or Chukwudi and Tobi sabi knack pass my husband
3. They're so pure and clean
4. Their womb get higher chances of conceiving than most nonvirgins wey don take more postinor 2 than paracetamol
5. No fear of ex getting into her pants once again
6. Dem no dey take manpower for virgin. But you know how many manpower you don take for your nonvirgin abi?
7. Their nude get 0.1 chances of leaking unlike nonvirgins
8. Super tight and warm 😋.
9. You no go ever think of penis enlargement with a virgin. But with a nonvirgin, bros you go fit think am ooooo
10. It shows she's disciplined and respects her body unlike nonvirgins.
The list is endless but make I end am here for today. Once again I ask you this question, would you want a wife who would tell your children that "dear kids, pls close your legs until wedding night like I did" or you want the one wey go say "close your legs ooooo, no talk say I no warn you".

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA test

jmoore:
For many years, I have noticed similar comments whenever someone says he/she is a virgin.

There's something haters always say 'virginity doesn't guarantee successful marriage'. I kept wondering why are these haters always saying same stuff. No one taught them these statements in school. Then I realized that there's a demonic force behind it that always make these haters to utter similar words whenever virginity is mentioned.

When a tenth hand with unlimited body counts gets married, these haters will not say 'fornication before marriage doesn't guarantee successful marriage'.

Nnamdipapa:
Celebrating only to find out you are not sexually compatible with your husband, and there is nothing you can do about it other than to continue with a horrible marriage.

Dtruthspeaker:
Why would she not be sexually compatible?

Nnamdipapa:
Are you married? Have you never heard of sexual incompatibility before, and marriages breaking up because of that alone?

Nnamdipapa:
Celebrating only to find out you are not sexually compatible with your husband, and there is nothing you can do about it other than to continue with a horrible marriage.

jmoore:
Dude, REST!!!

Study that didn't involve virgins is what you are posting.

Try another propaganda.

Nnamdipapa:
Virgins are the worst; I don't understand how people enjoy sex with virgins. How do you commit to something you don't know the experience or outcome? To each his own, though, and I am not a religious person.

jmoore:
Dude, if it gets to your turn, enter brothel and marry from there.


It is not everything that you must understand.

You being nonreligious is inconsequential to the discussion.
If you are serious, enrol your daughter in a brothel to get the experience to conquer sexual incompatibility.

Nnamdipapa:
So non-virgins equal a prostitute in your warped little mind? What kind of education do we have in this country that makes grown men reason from their asses? We need a serious overhaul of our education system ASAP.

jmoore:
You are the one that needs serious education.

You remind me of people that always say secondhand is better than brandnew.

How can a secondhand car with mileage of 1 million kilometers be better than brandnew car of same model?

Smh

Nnamdipapa:
Again, you are making the erroneous mistake of comparing human beings to merchandise. I am done with you.

Sonnobax15:

Her husband is one of the luckiest man on earth.

Imagine having a woman of her age whose hymen is still intact in this the same generation where bannies offer their virginity for eggs and noodles

Well,on behalf of my brother kalulu44,I tap into the husband's blessing . May kalulu44 find a new wife ,at least from the age of 45-50 years who's still a virgin or at least, almost a virgin

Nnamdipapa:
Are you married? Have you never heard of sexual incompatibility before, and marriages breaking up because of that alone?

illicit:
The ponmo go don thick baje baje...