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Life drama and irony of life of most Nigeria female

Samantha125:
It's the duty of men to feed us, we can't starve while you guys are around... Even if you see us seated alone in a restaurant without having ordered anything, you must come to us and make enquiries with regard as to whether we've eaten something... If our response is "no", then your next move should be that you buy us something to keep body and soul together... You don't have to ask us for our names, just buy us something to eat and God will continue to bless you in abundance...😌😌😌

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Women are as confused as they appear, don't bother to understand them

Samantha125:
It's the duty of men to feed us, we can't starve while you guys are around... Even if you see us seated alone in a restaurant without having ordered anything, you must come to us and make enquiries with regard as to whether we've eaten something... If our response is "no", then your next move should be that you buy us something to keep body and soul together... You don't have to ask us for our names, just buy us something to eat and God will continue to bless you in abundance...😌😌😌

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goran3310:
I’m really sick and tired of all kinds of losers who want to be treated like men.

You can’t even support yourself, yet you want to have a woman who is supposed to respect you.

You want to reproduce and have children, yet you’re a failure.

If you’re a man and you’re incapable, then it’s perfectly natural that you won’t have a woman, you won’t reproduce, and you won’t pass your unsuccessful genes on through your miserable offspring. A successful offspring certainly won’t come from a loser of a man.

Those are the laws of nature. And nature is above everything.

This one dey look for gullible girls to knack a pick me Man...We Have Good times and Bad times..Life is full of ups and downs if you can't have a woman that understand that it's better to have none..there's so many bed to bed midfielders girls that you will catch with your comments though

This reminds me of university days when mobile phones were new to naija.

A friend was rejected because of the type of phone he was using and the girl that rejected him did not have a mobile phone.

Lojical1:
Yen yen yen. I sure say you to just dey type before you think.

You’re not describing the “laws of nature.” You’re describing your personal preference and giving it a scientific costume.

A man being broke today doesn’t make him biologically inferior, just as being rich doesn’t guarantee good genes, good character or successful children.

Wanting a successful man is fine. Pretending your dating preference is evolutionary law is just ignorance with confidence.

You deserve a chilled drink o 👍

Normally, sense no dey too dey inside wetin most women for +234 dey talk until man talk that kind thing.

Ano bother read wetin the OP read and I no go read am but him dey on point sha, who wan vex make e vex, ano send anybody....

oluegboigiherbs:
This one dey look for gullible girls to knack a pick me Man...We Have Good times and Bad times..Life is full of ups and downs if you can't have a woman that understand that it's better to have none..there's so many bed to bed midfielders girls that you will catch with your comments though

I’m just telling the truth.

Stephenmouka4:
okay
Successful men weds successful women
Broke men weds broke women
Thats fair 👍

Keep in mind that many rich and successful men will always prefer a poor girl if she is beautiful rather than a rich woman if she is ugly.

Only poor people think money is the most important thing in the world.

@OP, there is nothing wrong with a woman desiring a well to do Man, if anything that should encourage you to work harder for yourself, not for women.

Also don't let women guilt trip you, you also have a right when you've made it to demand the kind of woman that suits your taste. Don't let them trick you o! Women can say whatever they want, just insist on the standard you want, and I am sure you will find her.

You are the prize!

Samantha125:
It's the duty of men to feed us, we can't starve while you guys are around... Even if you see us seated alone in a restaurant without having ordered anything, you must come to us and make enquiries with regard as to whether we've eaten something... If our response is "no", then your next move should be that you buy us something to keep body and soul together... You don't have to ask us for our names, just buy us something to eat and God will continue to bless you in abundance...😌😌😌

Well done ooooo... Madam ekudede

goran3310:
I’m really sick and tired of all kinds of losers who want to be treated like men women

You can’t even support yourself, yet you want to have a woman man who is supposed to respect you.

You want to reproduce and have children, yet you’re a failure.

If you’re a man woman and you’re incapable, then it’s perfectly natural that you won’t have a woman man, you won’t reproduce, and you won’t pass your unsuccessful genes on through your miserable offspring. A successful offspring certainly won’t come from a loser of a man woman.

Those are the laws of nature. And nature is above everything.

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Lojical1:
IF BEING BROKE MATTERS WHEN YOU CHOOSE, WHY DOES IT STOP MATTERING WHEN YOU ARE BEING CHOSEN?

A woman can say, “I cannot marry a broke or jobless man. I want someone with a good job, business or something doing.” People call it standards.

Let a man say, “I don't want a wife who is completely dependent on me and has no direction,” and suddenly the advice changes.

“Don't judge her.”

“She may not be jobless by choice.”

“Marry her and build her.”

Fine. But should the same grace not apply to men?

Nobody should be mocked for being unemployed. Jobs disappear, businesses fail and people sometimes struggle through circumstances beyond their control. The real issue is not simply whether someone has a job. It is whether the person has direction, discipline, skills, ambition and a willingness to build.

A woman earning ₦100,000 is not automatically a liability. A woman earning ₦1 million is not automatically an asset. The same applies to men.

A person with little money but a strong work ethic and good character may be a better spouse than someone earning plenty but bringing entitlement, reckless spending and zero responsibility into the marriage.

So stop telling men to ignore financial reality in the name of love.

Marriage is not a rehabilitation centre.

You can choose to build with someone who is still struggling, but make sure you are choosing their character and trajectory, not merely hoping their potential will eventually become reality.

Most importantly, apply the same standard you expect others to accept.

If a woman is free to reject a broke man, a man is free to reject a woman who has no direction.

If you believe unemployment does not determine someone's worth, apply it to both sexes.

Fairness cannot mean one standard for choosing and another standard for being chosen.

Cc nlfpmod seun Rocktation, Mariangeles, farano, Onegai, dominique

Marriage IS a rehabilitation center. Your wife has already been .mentally damaged by exes. You will always be compared to her exes.

stuffs2002:
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so stupid

BigBashiru:
Marriage IS a rehabilitation center. Your wife has already been .mentally damaged by exes. You will always be compared to her exes.

She’s not damaged; she’s just not stupid or naive.

Of course she’s going to compare you to her exes. That’s why you should try to be better than them, so you can justify her choice.

And you?

If you’re incapable, is that her fault?

goran3310:
She’s not damaged; she’s just not stupid or naive.

Of course she’s going to compare you to her exes. That’s why you should try to be better than them, so you can justify her choice.

And you?

If you’re incapable, is that her fault?

You don't understand. It's that comparison that leads to marital instability. When she was 18 guys used to do all sorts of things to get her attention, pay her flight etc. now she is 30 and married to you you aren't doing it for her. You expect her to pull her financial weight at 30 but she refuses claiming she's,ur wife. This is just one,example.

Second example is those that hv done abortions ns now unable to give birth then look for a way to blame the guy.

goran3310:
She’s not damaged; she’s just not stupid or naive.

Of course she’s going to compare you to her exes. That’s why you should try to be better than them, so you can justify her choice.

And you?

If you’re incapable, is that her fault?

And then she is also going to demand that you shouldn't hv a girlfriend since she can't compete. She will usually say she's the jealous type but that ain't true. It's cos she can't compete.

Samantha125:
It's the duty of men to feed us, we can't starve while you guys are around... Even if you see us seated alone in a restaurant without having ordered anything, you must come to us and make enquiries with regard as to whether we've eaten something... If our response is "no", then your next move should be that you buy us something to keep body and soul together... You don't have to ask us for our names, just buy us something to eat and God will continue to bless you in abundance...😌😌😌

This reeks of poverty. I'm glad none of my family members sees life from this perspective though.

90% of women are both physically and mentally lazy. A woman who isn't making at least 10% of what I make per month (without my own money involved) isn't even fit for a relationship, talkless of marriage.

BigBashiru:
And then she is also going to demand that you shouldn't hv a girlfriend since she can't compete. She will usually say she's the jealous type but that ain't true. It's cos she can't compete.

What do you mean, a side chick?
What do you need a side chick for??
What do you need a wife for if you need a side chick?

PheelzAlmighty:
234 girls in the mud.


Beautiful almajiris

Nothing beautiful about parasites

goran3310:
I am so stupid

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BigBashiru:
You don't understand. It's that comparison that leads to marital instability. When she was 18 guys used to do all sorts of things to get her attention, pay her flight etc. now she is 30 and married to you you aren't doing it for her. You expect her to pull her financial weight at 30 but she refuses claiming she's,ur wife. This is just one,example.

Second example is those that hv done abortions ns now unable to give birth then look for a way to blame the guy.

Well, that means she hasn’t grown up and matured. In other words, she’s stupid.

Then you simply dump her.

And as for the abortions, that’s easy to prove, as is infertility. You can’t be blamed for that.

stuffs2002:
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Okay. You're going on block.

Female logic is different from male logic. I’ve seen some men explain female logic and it makes sense from their own viewpoint. For men, it doesn’t follow their result-obtaining rules.

Samantha125:
It's the duty of men to feed us, we can't starve while you guys are around... Even if you see us seated alone in a restaurant without having ordered anything, you must come to us and make enquiries with regard as to whether we've eaten something... If our response is "no", then your next move should be that you buy us something to keep body and soul together... You don't have to ask us for our names, just buy us something to eat and God will continue to bless you in abundance...😌😌😌

Chai! This girl just made me laugh today...hahaha..Sammy!

goran3310:
I’m really sick and tired of all kinds of losers who want to be treated like men.

You can’t even support yourself, yet you want to have a woman who is supposed to respect you.

You want to reproduce and have children, yet you’re a failure.

If you’re a man and you’re incapable, then it’s perfectly natural that you won’t have a woman, you won’t reproduce, and you won’t pass your unsuccessful genes on through your miserable offspring. A successful offspring certainly won’t come from a loser of a man.

Those are the laws of nature. And nature is above everything.

you're talking like a failure already. He's only saying women without direction should not set high standards for men without achieving anything themselves.