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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by Sensiblerealist(m): 1:08am On Oct 07

Reminds of my yellow papaya of 5 years back then. So painful I had to let go but it was for the best. Tell this babe to shut up and she go tell you whether you dey craze ni, or you too shut up 10 times over.
And then, sex was wack. I wasn't and still not a sex freak but hers was on another level of boredom. I think she was dealing with a trauma that I couldn't pry open and sort. So I had to opt out when I travelled though e shake me wella as I wasn't going to be married and be running after big booties outside.I wonder how she's doing today if she's eventually married.

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by okeke6969: 1:27am On Oct 07

DMCA:
Person wey go put JovialJune for house, I pity am in advance

Majority of women born in June are extremely wahala. Hmmm , no be small thing o! If you marry them, you don enter🥱🥱🥱

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by professore(m): 1:58am On Oct 07

Met one beautiful lady recently

She started chatting without manners

I became immediately rude to her too.

If I like what I see, don't you also like what you see? grin

Self worth.

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by TEYA: 1:59am On Oct 07

motymop:
I dislike all these idealistic way of how you want a woman

All you guys want is a perfect woman and it does not exist.

If you want a woman with all the characters you mentioned

A robot should be the best option

Which characters dod he mention?
-Virginity isn't compulsory, she should not be someone that lived recklessly.
She should not be a habitual nagger and an argumentative and troublesome woman.
-She should have no issues with cleaning, cooking and keeping a home, because she will cater for my kids and I.
-She should have a decent level of education and having a very high paying job is completely unimportant.
-She should be respectful and willing to submit to my leadership.
-She should be beautiful, even though that is not very important, an average looking woman that has all the earlier traits will be beautiful to me anytime!
These are traits a man should seek and I don't think this is asking for too much.

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by DMCA: 2:02am On Oct 07

okeke6969:
Majority of women born in June are extremely wahala. Hmmm , no be small thing o! If you marry them, you don enter🥱🥱🥱

d JovialJune no Jovial at all grin

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by Rilwayne001: 2:11am On Oct 07

I escaped one last year.

I saw all the flags, but I still proposed.

Na she herself reject my proposal.

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by Ilekokonit: 2:30am On Oct 07

Babatunjo:
Everything looks correct on paper.

But every small disagreement becomes war. She can't take correction. L

Black women don't like being corrected especially by black men even if you are trying to save their lives by correcting them. Try to correct them and the legion of demons that resides in EVERY black woman will be unleashed on you especially if na supposedly "educated" black woman.

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by Ilekokonit: 2:38am On Oct 07

Nten:
any man who can tame a stubborn short woman is capable of training a lion!

The man that can tame a wild stubborn goat of a woman is not yet born.

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by Arostar2023: 2:45am On Oct 07

OBA2503:
The most important is to go and look at the ladies mother.

That is the exact prototype your are marrying.

Thank me later.

Not always. A girl/child can either take after the father or the mother.

Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by Ilekokonit: 2:54am On Oct 07

ManknowThyself:
A man with wisdom will always walk away from toxic girlfriend or wife no matter the cost.

And the collateral damage a man has to be ready to walk away from in escaping a toxic nagging cantankerous wife is ~~their~~ her kids IF he is serious about saving his life or sanity.

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by Ilekokonit: 2:59am On Oct 07

3kay945:
Most of the women nowadays are mostly influenced by social media and the stopid content creator

Don't mind the brainless new age touts

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by Ilekokonit: 3:00am On Oct 07

RollinTNDA:
The more educated she is
The more troublesome she will be

Word on marble.

Flesh and blood did not reveal this to you but the holy spirit

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by Newsmills: 3:02am On Oct 07

Godfullsam:
Who told you that keeping your male friends around you will make a stubborn wife submissive?

See dis one

A stubborn woman will disgrace you in the presence of your friends and make sure they don't come close to you again.

She will always compare you with your friends anytime there is misunderstanding.

Keeping defiant and financially upped friends is always a threat to arrogant wife,especially those ones that are always not looking at her whenever they are around.

Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by Ilekokonit: 3:03am On Oct 07

themanderon:
I don't know if we are raising women these days or we are raising tigers. A whole lot of women these days are fully packaged animals in human form.

This is deep but VERY true.

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by MEGAWATCH: 3:46am On Oct 07

IAM4BAT4plus4:
Whether beauty or something else

Sha make sure you vote for PBAT come January 15th

Like for PBAT if you love Jesus 🤶

Share if you want to be confused

Ignore if you no want make heaven

Because Dem carry suffering swear for you abi?

Abeg fulfill your calling on suffering like Buhari supporters did few years ago.

😎

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by mightiersa: 3:57am On Oct 07

Those that are married know very well that WAHALA is inseparable from marriage - all you have to do is manage your WAHALA appropriately.

Don't get me wrong oo. WAHALA gets grade. When you are faced with the kind that is beyond your control or the kind that is life and peace threatening, LEAVE without looking back.

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by seanery: 4:27am On Oct 07

NA PACKAGED-RUUBISSSH FULL EVERYWHERE NOW

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by MissOpe(f): 5:01am On Oct 07

BItt:
That is exactly why, as a man, you have to be the troublesome one. Although that role requires you to be financially stable and also have alot of male friends around you.

Men who have their male friends around them often, their wives always coordinate well

What's the exact role of the male friends on his wife.....

To do what exactly?

Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by MissOpe(f): 5:04am On Oct 07

Godfullsam:
Who told you that keeping your male friends around you will make a stubborn wife submissive?

See dis one

A stubborn woman will disgrace you in the presence of your friends and make sure they don't come close to you again.

She will always compare you with your friends anytime there is misunderstanding.

No mind am...

I'm a practical example ...

But in his own case they came close to him and he chose them over me..

A win win for both of us grin

Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by MissOpe(f): 5:07am On Oct 07

3kay945:
Most of the women nowadays are mostly influenced by social media and the stopid content creator

What should we be influenced by?

The patriachal culture that subdued all women in the name of Submission....

Times have changed, challenging the status quo is the new culture...

Deal with it..

Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by bluefilm: 5:11am On Oct 07

If the Wahala get big boobs and big nyash, I don't think many men would actually mind ..

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by Candid1872: 5:25am On Oct 07

kiddaz:
No matter how fine she is or how sweet the kuntooz, if you the 🛑 always flee without looking back

What did you spew?

Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by greatestman(m): 5:34am On Oct 07

Omoawoke:
She's very fine.

Educated.

Good job.

Good family.

virgin.

Everything looks correct on paper

If you meet a girl with all this criteria and she’s single at 30+, run for your life… she’s a red flag

Once a girl seems too perfect on paper and she’s still single… she has internal problems that burns slowly and long… and those kind of girls would exhaust your mental health… you will doubt your sanity and assume you are the problem 😂

You forgot to add, they're manipulative and people easily believe their narratives

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by Gotocourt: 5:35am On Oct 07

Educative thread, Christian men suffer most. I didn't see team my wife is my other half tongue

.....

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by ollins(m): 5:43am On Oct 07

Abeg,let's say the truth o.
Character matters but shape and curves Matter too I swear

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by Reference(m): 5:44am On Oct 07

Babatunjo:
This one plenty men learn late.

She's very fine.

Educated.

Good job.

Good family.

Maybe even virgin.

Everything looks correct on paper.

But every small disagreement becomes war. She can't take correction. No respect for boundaries. Always creating drama. Everything must go her way.

And because she's desirable, you start telling yourself:

"Nobody is perfect."

"Maybe marriage will settle her."

My brother, shine your eye. 😂

Pretty doesn't cancel difficult character. Education doesn't cancel it. Money doesn't cancel it. Virginity doesn't cancel it.

People can change, yes. But don't marry somebody based on the change you're hoping will happen later.

And that ex you still remember because she was very fine?

If being with her was constantly draining your peace, stop romanticising what you lost.

Sometimes you didn't lose a baddie. You escaped a problem with fine packaging. 😂

Same applies to women choosing men too.

Choose character with your eyes open.

For those already married and dealing with serious issues, different matter entirely. Work on what can be worked on and get proper help where necessary.

But if you're still choosing?

Don't knowingly marry wahala and start praying for peace afterwards.

Hmmm '....But don't marry somebody based on the change you are hoping will happen later...'

I think the average Nigerian has been schooled in this over the recent years by the political class.

That 'hope' is not a strategy to getting anything done. It either inherently works or is made, fabricated to work.

That is the reality of any kind of relationship, be it personal between spouses, business between partners or political between leaders and the led.

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by Zonefree(m): 6:01am On Oct 07

So, I should marry wahala because she's ugly? undecided

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by Hemanwel(m): 6:15am On Oct 07

MissOpe:
What should we be influenced by?

The patriachal culture that subdued all women in the name of Submission....

Times have changed, challenging the status quo is the new culture...

Deal with it..

Behold! A case study of the discussion at hand!

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by techWriter001: 6:17am On Oct 07

Definitely a solid investment! She's certainly got the right mix of qualities.

Technical Writer

Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by dba18: 6:25am On Oct 07

BItt:
That is exactly why, as a man, you have to be the troublesome one. Although that role requires you to be financially stable and also have alot of male friends around you.

Men who have their male friends around them often, their wives always coordinate well

I love the response above.. While peace os the utmost and most important factor a woman should bring into a man’s life, I agree with this person, a man can not be soft to allow a woman think her hot headedness will undermine him. NO WOMAN IS BEYOND! A MAN’S CONTROL. NONE!!. A weak man will allow a woman ride him in the name of she is stubborn. My advise; if you are a deliberate alpha male who’s got his ish’ together & you are a head as it should be, if your woman shows you she is mad, SHOW HWE THAT YOU EVEN THE MENTAL INSTITUTIONS REJECTED YOU. 😈. Its either she sits up and respect your authority or you kick her out, no negotiation & MEN PLEASE NOTE THIS: YOU HABE NOT MET THE WOMAN OF YOUR DREAMS, THE NEXT ONE IS ALWAYS BETTER THAN THE FORMER.

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Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by MissOpe(f): 6:45am On Oct 07

Hemanwel:
Behold! A case study of the discussion at hand!

Cry me a Sea cheesy

Re: Men, Don't Marry Wahala Because She's Fine by Bahamas95(m): 7:08am On Oct 07

What you guys always forget is that an ugly woman can have those stuffs you mentioned on paper and also make your life miserable.

I wonder why majority of you believe all pretty girls have bad character, that's not true. A woman's character has nothing to do with her looks.

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