₦airaland Forum

I'm an introvert and a writer, so I spend most of my time inside writing. I just moved into a new neighborhood.

When I moved in, my landlady introduced me to her brother when he came to visit. I greeted him politely.

Later, my landlady told me her brother had been talking about me. He said he didn't like that I was always alone and that I should try to come out and socialize more. Every time he visited her, he would ask about me.

I thought maybe I was being too distant, so I decided that next time he came, I would try to be more friendly and casual with him.

When he came again, I went out to greet him. I told him I heard he always asks about me. He said he was just concerned because I'm always indoors alone and he wanted me to have a friend. I smiled, thanked him, and i took his number promising to call him. I had planned to call him that week, but there was no power and my phone was dead.

He came again last Saturday to visit my landlady and after he finished talking to her. He came to my room. I let him inside. My house na small house o. No parlor inside. He asked why I didn't call him. I explained there was no light. Then he told me I should know that he likes me. He asked if I have a boyfriend, and I said yes. Then he asked me if we have sex. I told him I couldn't answer that. He said I was acting like a small girl.

Then he came closer and started touching my legs. I moved away. He said he loves tall girls. I kept begging him, "Please sir, I will call you, let's talk later." But he kept trying to touch me, and I kept dodging him, running to the other side of the room. Eventually, he left.

I went straight to my landlady and reported what happened. She said she was surprised to hear that and promised to warn him the next time he came.

He came again today. She confronted him about it, but he denied everything. Then he came to my room and knocked again. This time I refused to open the door. I pretended to be asleep until he left.

When I came out, my landlady told me he denied it all and asked me if I was sure I was telling the truth. Now he's making me look like a liar.

I know he will come to visit again on Sunday, and this time I'm ready to confront him. What should I do? This man is old enough to be my father.

Men sabi lie eh. Its just a pity the way he denied me.

Evaress:
I'm an introvert and a writer, so I spend most of my time inside writing. I just moved into a new neighborhood.

When I moved in, my landlady introduced me to her brother when he came to visit. I greeted him politely.

Later, my landlady told me her brother had been talking about me. He said he didn't like that I was always alone and that I should try to come out and socialize more. Every time he visited her, he would ask about me.

I thought maybe I was being too distant, so I decided that next time he came, I would try to be more friendly and casual with him.

When he came again, I went out to greet him. I told him I heard he always asks about me. He said he was just concerned because I'm always indoors alone and he wanted me to have a friend. I smiled, thanked him, and i took his number promising to call him. I had planned to call him that week, but there was no power and my phone was dead.

He came again last Saturday to visit my landlady and after he finished talking to her. He came to my room. I let him inside. My house na small house o. No parlor inside. He asked why I didn't call him. I explained there was no light. Then he told me I should know that he likes me. He asked if I have a boyfriend, and I said yes. Then he asked me if we have sex. I told him I couldn't answer that. He said I was acting like a small girl.

Then he came closer and started touching my legs. I moved away. He said he loves tall girls. I kept begging him, "Please sir, I will call you, let's talk later." But he kept trying to touch me, and I kept dodging him, running to the other side of the room. Eventually, he left.

I went straight to my landlady and reported what happened. She said she was surprised to hear that and promised to warn him the next time he came.

He came again today. She confronted him about it, but he denied everything. Then he came to my room and knocked again. This time I refused to open the door. I pretended to be asleep until he left.

When I came out, my landlady told me he denied it all and asked me if I was sure I was telling the truth. Now he's making me look like a liar.

I know he will come to visit again on Sunday, and this time I'm ready to confront him. What should I do? This man is old enough to be my father.

".....you smiled. took his nos and promise to call him"

I fault you here. you are a tenant. A new one in dt compound. it's the agreement as regards ur rent btw you and ur landlady dt connects you in dt huz.

wat is " you took his nos and promise to call him". Are you a social welfare officer? Or a care giver for elderly people?

why would you open ur door and admit sm1 you barely know because he is related to ur landlady?

wat do you want to discuss or be discussin wit dt man?

just pray dt man doesn't poison his sister mind to start seeing you as a bad tenant.

Evaress:
➜ I'm an introvert and a writer, so I spend most of my time inside writing. I just moved into a new neighborhood.
When I moved in, my landlady introduced me to her brother when he came to visit. I greeted him politely.
Later, my landlady told me her brother had been talking about me. He said he didn't like that I was always alone and that I should try to come out and socialize more. Every time he visited her, he would ask about me.
I thought maybe I was being too distant, so I decided that next time he came, I would try to be more friendly and casual with him.
When he came again, I went out to greet him. I told him I heard he always asks about me. He said he was just concerned because I'm always indoors alone and he wanted me to have a friend. I smiled, thanked him, and i took his number promising to call him. I had planned to call him that week, but there was no power and my phone was dead.
He came again last Saturday to visit my landlady and after he finished talking to her. He came to my room. I let him inside. My house na small house o. No parlor inside. He asked why I didn't call him. I explained there was no light. Then he told me I should know that he likes me. He asked if I have a boyfriend, and I said yes. Then he asked me if we have sex. I told him I couldn't answer that. He said I was acting like a small girl.
Then he came closer and started touching my legs. I moved away. He said he loves tall girls. I kept begging him, "Please sir, I will call you, let's talk later." But he kept trying to touch me, and I kept dodging him, running to the other side of the room. Eventually, he left.
I went straight to my landlady and reported what happened. She said she was surprised to hear that and promised to warn him the next time he came. He came again today. She confronted him about it, but he denied everything. Then he came to my room and knocked again. This time I refused to open the door. I pretended to be asleep until he left.
➜ When I came out, my landlady told me he denied it all and asked me if I was sure I was telling the truth. Now he's making me look like a liar. I know he will come to visit again on Sunday, and this time I'm ready to confront him. What should I do? This man is old enough to be my father.

1. Text that man and warn him never to approach you ever again. If you are really uninterested in him, do not engage him in conversation but send him a message declaring that the next time he approaches you, you will file a report against him with the police and tell people in the community about the time he tried to rape you in your room. Also, in form him that you have posted details of what happened that day online so that others in the online community you belong are aware of what he did.

Immediately after sending that text to him, block his number and ignore all calls from him then. Just so you know, you should scream rape if he ever comes to your door again, and make sure to report him immediately afterwards. 🥱🥱

2. You look like a liar is not the same as you being a liar. You did not stand your ground before now. You can begin now doing just that. You don't have to care what people think or want... and stop being nice to folks who obviously have dubious motives. Be kind when you need to be but never be nice! 🥱🥱

And more importantly, be honest with yourself all of the times -- not some of the times. Be firm in your stance especially when you know what you think is better for you considering the facts. You said you are a writer and an introvert meaning socializing isn't really your thing, at least at this point in time. So, why let others lure you into doing what you know is likely not for you? If you do not want to socialize, then don't. Don't let others convince you of what you are not convinced is what you need at any specific time. 🥱

Evaress:
Men sabi lie eh. Its just a pity the way he denied me.

Cut for him kpomo na

Kobojunkie:
1. Text that man and warn him never to approach you ever again. If you are really uninterested in him, do not engage him in conversation but send him a message declaring that the next time he approaches you, you will file a report against him with the police and tell people in the community about the time he tried to rape you in your room. Also, in form him that you have posted details of what happened that day online so that others in the online community you belong are aware of what he did.

Immediately after sending that text to him, block his number and ignore all calls from him then. Just so you know, you should scream rape if he ever comes to your door again, and make sure to report him immediately afterwards. 🥱🥱

2. You look like a liar is not the same as you being a liar. You did not stand your ground before now. You can begin now doing just that. You don't have to care what people think or want... and stop being nice to folks who obviously have dubious motives. Be kind when you need to be but never be nice! 🥱🥱

And more importantly, be honest with yourself all of the times -- not some of the times. Be firm in your stance especially when you know what you think is better for you considering the facts. You said you are a writer and an introvert meaning socializing isn't really your thing, at least at this point in time. So, why let others lure you into doing what you know is likely not for you? If you do not want to socialize, then don't. Don't let others convince you of what you are not convinced is what you need at any specific time. 🥱

exactlY na by force to socialiZe? Its even because of my landlady i agreed to talk to him. I just don't want any problem between us. I don't even want him to know my number so i wont call him after knowing his evil intentions

The landlady will be complaining i love isolating myself. Now i have tried socializing. I hope she now likes the outcome. Someome just wants to be on their own to avoid wahala.

Evaress:
➜exactlY na by force to socialiZe? Its even because of my landlady i agreed to talk to him.
➜ I just don't want any problem between us.
➜ I don't even want him to know my number so i wont call him after knowing his evil intentions

You shouldn't have agreed with your landlady to talk to him. Your business is with her and not with her family members. You made a mistake not being honest with yourself from the beginning by making the line between you and her clear and unmarred. 🥱🥱

2. A man almost raped you in your own room. The problem already exists whether you had wanted one or not. 🥱🥱

3. He could learn your number from his sister if he wanted to, so you do yourself no favors thinking that not texting a clear warning to draw the line would keep your number from him. 🥱🥱

Evaress:
➜ The landlady will be complaining i love isolating myself.
➜ Now i have tried socializing. I hope she now likes the outcome. Someome just wants to be on their own to avoid wahala.

1. She has the freedom to complain and you also have the freedom to ignore her complaint. 🥱🥱

2. Forcing yourself to do what you don't want to do is easy way to accumulating regret in this life. 🥱🥱

Lamba from the pit of hell

cadet222:
Lamba from the pit of hell

please say what you know
This is 100% true story

Kobojunkie:
You shouldn't have agreed with your landlady to talk to him. Your business is with her and not with her family members. You made a mistake not being honest with yourself from the beginning by making the line between you and her clear and unmarred. 🥱🥱

2. A man almost raped you in your own room. The problem already exists whether you had wanted one or not. 🥱🥱

3. He could learn your number from his sister if he wanted to, so you do yourself no favors thinking that not texting a clear warning to draw the line would keep your number from him. 🥱🥱

that landlady too dey do busy body sha

Evaress:
that landlady too dey do busy body sha

Busybody? Aren't you assuming something here which is that she is some sort of innocent bystander and that you are her first victim -- the first lady she has set up for that same brother of hers to rape? 🥱🥱

Kobojunkie:
Busybody? Aren't you assuming something here which is that she is some sort of innocent bystander and that you are her first victim -- the first lady she has set up for that same brother of hers to rape? 🥱🥱

she isn't like that and i'm 100% sure

Someone tried to assault you in your own house, and you can't even tape it for evidence.
Don't you have pepper at home

Send me his number let me warn him. I'll tell him I'm your elder brother and a soldier.

Evaress:
I'm an introvert and a writer, so I spend most of my time inside writing. I just moved into a new neighborhood.

When I moved in, my landlady introduced me to her brother when he came to visit. I greeted him politely.

Later, my landlady told me her brother had been talking about me. He said he didn't like that I was always alone and that I should try to come out and socialize more. Every time he visited her, he would ask about me.

I thought maybe I was being too distant, so I decided that next time he came, I would try to be more friendly and casual with him.

When he came again, I went out to greet him. I told him I heard he always asks about me. He said he was just concerned because I'm always indoors alone and he wanted me to have a friend. I smiled, thanked him, and i took his number promising to call him. I had planned to call him that week, but there was no power and my phone was dead.

He came again last Saturday to visit my landlady and after he finished talking to her. He came to my room. I let him inside. My house na small house o. No parlor inside. He asked why I didn't call him. I explained there was no light. Then he told me I should know that he likes me. He asked if I have a boyfriend, and I said yes. Then he asked me if we have sex. I told him I couldn't answer that. He said I was acting like a small girl.

Then he came closer and started touching my legs. I moved away. He said he loves tall girls. I kept begging him, "Please sir, I will call you, let's talk later." But he kept trying to touch me, and I kept dodging him, running to the other side of the room. Eventually, he left.

I went straight to my landlady and reported what happened. She said she was surprised to hear that and promised to warn him the next time he came.

He came again today. She confronted him about it, but he denied everything. Then he came to my room and knocked again. This time I refused to open the door. I pretended to be asleep until he left.

When I came out, my landlady told me he denied it all and asked me if I was sure I was telling the truth. Now he's making me look like a liar.

I know he will come to visit again on Sunday, and this time I'm ready to confront him. What should I do? This man is old enough to be my father.

Go to a near by police station and report this. Drop his phone number there.

Tell your boyfriend and family members about it.

If you don't act now, he might end up raping you and no one will believe you.


Also, stop smiling with him and when next he tries to harrass you, don't beg him. Get a weapon and defend yourself.

Men again!!! Men!! Men! Men!....Men should be evacuated from this Planet, I'm tired of their troubles

I would have believed your story, if not that I saw the part where you said he asked whether you have had sex before. I mean, unless the man is blind, he ought not to be told before knowing that you've been having sex for more than 15 out of your 38 year of existence by merely seeing the obvious signs on your forehead.

you're a good fantasy story writer...

Leemzyy:
Men again!!! Men!! Men! Men!....Men should be evacuated from this Planet, I'm tired of their troubles

you again?

Leemzyy:
Men again!!! Men!! Men! Men!....Men should be evacuated from this Planet, I'm tired of their troubles

Look at you. So Ur dad and brothers should also be evacuated from this planet abi

Evaress:
The landlady will be complaining i love isolating myself. Now i have tried socializing. I hope she now likes the outcome. Someome just wants to be on their own to avoid wahala.

Go back to your parents' house. Stay there till you get married. Stop exposing yourself to predators.

Evaress:
Men sabi lie eh. Its just a pity the way he denied me.

Zero sense, zero boundaries and zero OT... What business do you have with landlady apart from rent payment and any other charges in your agreement? What business is it to anybody if you keep to yourself in your compound? God forbid I meet a girl like you or I mistake date you in error. Na slaps I go use reset your brain before I dump you. Nonsense and you go dey post for Nairaland as if you get sense

kiddaz:
Zero sense, zero boundaries and zero OT... What business do you have with landlady apart from rent payment and any other charges in your agreement? What business is it to anybody if you keep to yourself in your compound? God forbid I meet a girl like you or I mistake date you in error. Na slaps I go use reset your brain before I dump you. Nonsense and you go dey post for Nairaland as if you get sense

read up when i said that woman na wahala landlady. Befause you are right. Wetin concern me and landlady brother?

Evaress:
When he came again, I went out to greet him..

As say na him pay your rent

Evaress:
i took his number .

He came to my room. I let him inside.

He asked if I have a boyfriend, and I said yes. Then he asked me if we have sex.

Then he came closer and started touching my legs.

two of una no finish primary school

which kain children story be this?

Indeed! A charming little observation. Definitely an great way to ensure she's happy with the narrative. AcadaWriter

AllBlack:
As say na him pay your rent





two of una no finish primary school

which kain children story be this?

u know hear when i say my house no get parlor. Anyways only reason i even interacted with this man na because of this landlady. she said all her tenants she introduces her to her brother and he always relates casual with them. Na her house

kiddaz:
Zero sense, zero boundaries and zero OT... What business do you have with landlady apart from rent payment and any other charges in your agreement? What business is it to anybody if you keep to yourself in your compound? God forbid I meet a girl like you or I mistake date you in error. Na slaps I go use reset your brain before I dump you. Nonsense and you go dey post for Nairaland as if you get sense

na her house o. She fit tell me to comot at any time.

AbosedeFalade:
I would have believed your story, if not that I saw the part where you said he asked whether you have had sex before. I mean, unless the man is blind, he ought not to be told before knowing that you've been having sex for more than 15 out of your 38 year of existence by merely seeing the obvious signs on your forehead.

its not a false story and it really happened. Its because of the way i keep myself. I have never let any visitor in or seen with any man thats why they assume maybe this one na just one naive virgin girl.

Evaress:
na her house o. She fit tell me to comot at any time.

Yiu no know your tenancy right be that. Or you no read your agreement? Na so them state am for there Except she's accommodating you for free as in a favor, she has no right to just wake up and tell you to leave. You own the space you're paying for, for the stated time and period.

Evaress:
its not a false story and it really happened. Its because of the way i keep myself. I have never let any visitor in or seen with any man thats why they assume maybe this one na just one naive virgin girl.

Make I come visit you? So they will understand that you should be left alone