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Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by Rossikk(m): 1:14pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
Venchy:Where did this lying criminal sneak out of? There are parks in Lagos especially on the island, but frustrated criminals, rapi.sts, and drug dealers like you are barred fom such places. Can't be bothered with the rest of the exaggerated horse manure you posted. |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by Rimbaldi: 1:28pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
playmode: Like I said earlier, there is no need debating this issue. I am beginning to think that you opened this thread for some other reason. IF NOT, WHY DONT YOU CLOSE THE THREAD AND COME BACK HOME ON SHORT VISITS AND SEE THINGS FOR YOUR SELF? AFTER ALL YOU HAVE HEARD DIFFERENT SIDES TO THE STORY OR ARE YOU A LEARNER? Aannh! Aaaanh! You sef? |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by Venchy: 1:31pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
claremont:This is eactly what I always say to people you and your immediate family are the most important thing. If you really love them, you'll always want the best for them. Do you know how many Nigerian leaders that keeps their family's abroad. Some people on NL have never taste another life and that's why they know any difference. I'm also in your shoe but I will never stay permanently in abroad neither Nigeria. |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by ogele: 1:37pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
Listen let me tell u, Nigeria is my home, u ran away from this country when d chips are down, u can only come back on one condition. If u know u don't have money to create employment upon ur arrival, u better stay where u are. Don't just come back and add to the problems we have in this country. How dear u open ur mouth to say u hear negative stories about Nigeria. Where u not in South Africa when Nigeria won AFCON, is only negative news u will hear. Nigeria too sweet joor. Come airport come see the way Oyibo they troop into Nigeria. Even Indians are doing brick layer work to survive here. If you doubt it go to Mecure office, Oshodi and confirm for urself. Nonsense. No come, we don dash u south African govt. TGIF 1 Like |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by Rimbaldi: 1:47pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
Rossikk: Another diaspora goat. Anyone notice that the majority of people trying to scare the op are those who don't actually live in Nigeria themselves? Most haven't been back home in several YEARS yet they are offering 'advice' to the op. op please ignore them. They are trying to justify to themselves why they themselves are 'runaways'. They have no clue. The BOLDED IS the reason why so many diasporans spend donkey years running Naija down with their mouths only to come back and ...oh! A lot of their peers are actually doing well for themselves. They make it sound like Naija is the only place crime and scams exist. The only difference is other nationalities will not run down their nations in ur presence, no matter how bad the situation is. Bad as e bad, filipinnos are moving in, Lebanese are too so also are Americans and brits SAfricans too And with the whole Africom thing, the French and US numbers will increase. Indians and Chinese will own Nigeria by the time the op brings himself to a decision. And the influx of foreigners keeps increasing since ur govt is begging them for so called DFI(direct foreign investment). Meanwhile by the time the op discovers that he doesn't really have Nigerian kids, he would have grown old. SA WIVES WILL NEVER COME HOME PERMANENTLY WITH YOU. E NOR DEY HAPPEN BEFORE, NOR BE UR OWN CASE E GO USE START. |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by Venchy: 1:54pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
Rossikk: Where did this lying criminal sneak out of? There are parks in Lagos especially on the island, but frustrated criminals, rapi.sts, and drug dealers like you are barred fom such places. Can't be bothered with the rest of the exaggerated horse manure you posted. Lol....you don't have to be abusive and aggressive, slow down. I was born in ONIKE area of yaba if you know where I'm talking about, just by UNILAG as well also attended St Finbar's college where Henry Nwosu, Stephen Keshi and Nduka Ugbade passed through. Now, (1) can you tell me the state of that park at IKOYI , even in ABUJA, I heard that there's a park but you have to pay?(2) where in Mainland there's any park, Lagos Island , and other part of Lagos state? This really ubsurd when people like you comes on this forum to flogg what is not available, why why why!!!!!!. Again dishonesty is our major problem and that's exactly what you've displayed with your RUEBEN ABATI style. So tell me what is left for Ordinary people to enjoy or for recreation, what am I talking about. As far as I'm concerned, theres NONE but display of stolen wealth, lie to people and Oppress. Shame. For your info, one of my friend resigned from Stanbic Bank as an offshore Banker and relocate back to SA because there's no stress and no drugs business and there's more to life than Money money money. |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by Nobody: 1:58pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
euromilion: Hahahaa! what a small world, i know those guys mehn. i know the joseph from Enugu state, Sabo was arrested and deported back to nigeria, pope was in prison when i left, i don't know the whereabout of konukos, Nwanyi Awka died of breast cancer, they took her to the US for treatment but the cancer reappeared and she died. i remember the day I had problem with Mr. Alex the owner of Safari on lady's nite. crazy man. my dear, life was sweet in joburg but nothing to compare with home here. you will be respected more here and opportunity for genuine business is more here. |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by playmode(m): 2:01pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
Rimbaldi: Rimbaldi: Please stop applying “Agbero” logic and comprehend the reason for the thread.Who are you to ask me to close the thread? If you don't have anything intelligent to offer then don't comment. I did request for mature adults to post, didn’t i? Secondly please don't assume you know my wife ,this "educated illiterate" attitude of talking about people’s wives that you have never met before is one of the reason why Nigerians are perceived to be uncouth in some quarters. If your brain is overheating and you cannot contribute anything of substance, you can keep quiet and be a spectator. There are at least 30 topics on the front page ,why is this one itching you? I am sure you have married every SA woman that you know that they will never come to Nigeria Your post is just the ramblings of a short sighted intellectually challenged goof.Stick to the topic ,the next thing you will talking about is what color my wife's underwear is. Jeez, it is extremely hard to keep ones cool around regressive ramblers like you. No form of intelligence whatsoever. If this was an exam you would have failed. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by Venchy: 2:04pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
collins2good: i believe you are talking about another nigeria, because the one am staying right now, i do wake up everyday with bad news everyehere Thank for the simple truth. |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by Venchy: 2:04pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
collins2good: i believe you are talking about another nigeria, because the one am staying right now, i do wake up everyday with bad news everyehere Thank you for the simple truth. |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by ogeelove(f): 2:06pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
wesley80: @OP, Person wey no read your post well go think say you dey stay for Kensington Palace Gardens in London! You just made me fall off my stool. Lesson learnt. Never mention how cosy and rosy your life is If you don't want to incur the wrath of nairalanders. Always go straight to the point. |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by Nobody: 2:25pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
7842I:They are all south africa owned Company, organisation, firm industry, whatelse? |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by Nobody: 2:29pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
playmode: I understand you perfectly well, i was almost speechless the moment i read your wife is Swazi. I must confess that you are very lucky to have met your wife, Swazi people are the best, again kudos to you for living responsibly in SA because it is rare to find people like you. Finally, i commend your RIGHT decision to come home and settle with your family, i also commend your daringness coming online to share and discuss it with fellow brothers and sisters, though not every comment is worth giving attention but that is online forum for you. I wish you the best in your undertakings, please plan yourself well and invest wisely when you come, though am not always in nigeria due the nature of my biz but my family is here. we have good schools here for kids, when you settle down you can always visit SA with your family on holidays. My regards to your wife and kids. 1 Like |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by plasgidy: 3:23pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
7842I:. may may be, brof tell the south guy to come and see things him self, he will know that if you dont tell people whom you are they wount know, nija never see peopl that are standing talkless of person seating. |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by Nobody: 3:35pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
991:what I mean by ''not to ruin the kids destiny'' is that there is no job in Nigeria and it is very likely that unemployment will increase. |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by Nobody: 3:36pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
playmode:you definitely deserve a good wife I am trying to establish here is that many of our brothers just pick desperate uneducated babes on the street and marry them for papers. That is where they get in to trouble. If they had married an educated, independent woman who is loving and has the fear of GOD they won’t have problem.she might not be educate but she will definitely know when she is mattered for the wrong reasons. Sadly these shallow minded people expect respect and loyalty from these women...which they obviously never get! I have no secret as i am a law abiding registered tax payer in South Africa so there is no way anyone can set me up.Every penny i make is accounted for and properly documented. Even if they plant cocaine in my house or office i won't go to jail because my lawyers will prove beyond a doubt after providing the court with forensic data that I earn a honest living and was a victim of an attempted set up. I don't think you should use this line of argument because it will make it look like you are sympathizing with Nigerian criminals in SA.if you don't trouble trouble, trouble won't trouble you. |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by Nobody: 3:48pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
991: Yea Joe from Enugu.are u based in 9ja now?anyway am in Dublin including many boys from mimosa and sunny d rice seller is here too.wat was ur name? |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by Nobody: 4:03pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
My own advise is this: Even if you do intend coming back to Nigeria, please do not broadcast it all over the whole place and nation. Just come back quietly and without too much exaggeration and show-off. And live in Nigeria quietly. You won't have any issues if you can just stick to this! Good luck! |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by Nobody: 4:05pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
Toluwarni: Common sense you dont have... F##k you and go and mop the atlantic oceanu b really 'ekpa' |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by Nobody: 4:22pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
those of defending nigeria, u re al hypocrites, u wnt d op 2 come so u cn ur boys 2 kidnap him 4 ramson 1 Like |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by noirfavour: 4:32pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
The choice is your to make in the end but think about this: 1. Why did you leave Nigeria in the first place if it was home for you? People who sees Nigeria as home only visit abroad for one month maximum not stay there for 13 years. 2. You are in south africa and can always come back to visit if you misses it that much.... 3. In those years there I'm sure you must have built for yourself a good life and have good family/friends there although nowhere is perfect. 4. The problems of Nigeria still remain the same; only depreciation are more poverty you will see. *No light (I live in the center of Abuja and its still that bad), No security, *Expensive internet for very poor connection; the most common leisure you get living abroad. * Jobs are hard and for business connection is who knows who otherwise you will burn all your saving without being sure of returns (profit) personal experience. etc. 5.I will personal advice you not to come back because I made the mistake of returning to Nigeria 2 years believing it was home but I was so wrong; and right now I can't wait for the day I will pack my bags and leave, never return again. 6. But to make your decision easier; leave your family there for now, come visit and stay for 3-6 month and your decision process will be completed. You will either love it and enjoy it or you will see all the reasons why you left in the first place But don't be like me who made the decision based on the Idea of Nigeria I had in my head and all the advises I got from people. Note: Home is where you want it to be not a place where you are born. Remember how hard it was to start a new life abroad if you come back that is how it feels. just like a foreign country with worst conditions. |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by RealMccoy2(m): 5:10pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
noirfavour: The choice is your to make in the end but think about this:You have said it all. Some pathological liars that only got the taste of abroad by running inside foreign flights to seek cover during the robbery at Murtallah International only to get kicked out from the Plane after the tension is over, will come here to give you dumb advise. Nigeria is a country I visit every year, lived there for years and understand the mentality of people out there. Flash most of those unemployed graduate Cyprus visa or Egyptian visa they will speak a differ language. Nigerians are hypocrites, never you take their words seriously. Thanks for stating the obvious cos most of my friends that left US that were promised all sort of opportunity are back in US searching for employment with their degrees. |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by Rimbaldi: 5:23pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
playmode: @bolded AAAAARGGGGHHH! That was below the belt. Man u wicked O!(Having a heart attack!) I can see that from all my posts, the one that got you was the one about SA wives? Heeyah! sorry enh! I understand she is breathing down your neck as u type on the keyboard now and u feel the need to impress her. I perfectly understand. That said, GETCHYA BEHIND HOME AND SEE THINGS FOR YOUR SELF AND JUDGE...OR STFU. |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by RealMccoy2(m): 5:34pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
Nigerians in Diaspora sends 20 billion dollars plus yearly to Nigeria, meanwhile Nigerian politicians elected to serve, export 30 billion dollars plus more out of Nigeria yearly and a scumbag is telling us how great Nigeria is becoming. South African firms generate and repatrait their profit out of Nigeria, now tell us who have the interest of Nigeria at heart? Diasporans, Politicians or Foreign firms like MTN and Dstv? |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by KnowAll(m): 6:04pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
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Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by KnowAll(m): 6:05pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
[size=16pt]With people like Jonathan in power in Niaja, I have pointed out to my families and friends to bury me in the UK(even though this place is full shiiit of its own) so my brother from SA. Come to terms with your new home in S.A. But having said that, Naija is still the place to be if u want to be a millionaire over night, Nigeria is an un-tapped heaven which the discerning mind can make a fortune.[/size] 1 Like |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by playmode(m): 6:32pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
991: Thank you bros ,your advice is worth more than money. noirfavour: The choice is your to make in the end but think about this: Thank you very much for your advice all ,it is much apprecaited. _____________________________________________________________________________________________________ @The rest of the people who replied,i will like to offer my profound gratitude that you took time to share your wisdom with me.They say he who asks for direction never gets lost. I am first and foremost a proud Nigerian who has genuine love and concern for my country.The truth is that no matter how successful you are abroad,you will always miss home.It just does not feel the same and you start to ache and dream about home.No amount of money or comfort can fix that ache hence why i have made some effort to move home. Thanks to all your inputs i now have a clear understanding of what i need to do which will be as follow: (A) Visit Nigeria for a month and survey the environment where i want to be based (B) Go back to SA and hand over my businesses to capable managers. (C) Relocate to Nigeria solo and reside in Nigeria for 6 months preparing school and other necessities for my family (D) At the end of my solo research determine if my family can adapt to the Nigerians lifestyle (F) Bring my family to Nigeria ,settle down and move on with life Thank you all and GOD bless. |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by Elai147: 7:12pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
wesley80: @OP, Person wey no read your post well go think say you dey stay for Kensington Palace Gardens in London! Thank you bros jareee. What the poster should be asking NL is: which is more voilent, Nigeria or South Africa? List of countries by intentional homicide rate per year per 100,000 inhabitants conducted by UNODC (United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime) showed that South Africa has a rate of 31.8 and Nigeria has just 12.2 . All this kidnapping thing only started a few years ago and the Boko Haram issue is of political cause which we all know. Another survey for the period 1998–2000 compiled by the United Nations Office on Drugs and Crime ranked South Africa second for assault and murder (by all means) per capita and first for rapes per capita in a data set of 60 countries. Total crime per capita was 10th out of the 60 countries in the dataset. The United Nations Interregional Crime and Justice Research Institute also conducted research on the victims of crime which shows the picture of South African crime as more typical of a developing country. The government has been criticised for doing too little to stop crime. Provincial legislators have stated that a lack of sufficient equipment has resulted in an ineffective and demoralised South African Police Service. According to wikipedia, South Africa has a very high rate of murders, assaults, rapes (adult, child and infant), and other crimes compared to most countries. Most emigrants from South Africa state that crime was a big factor in their decision to leave. So guy, I am not saying Nigeria is heaven but the way you portrayed South Africa seemed as if you were talking about one beautiful European country or Yankee. My advice for you is to Remain in South Africa with your family. |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by Rimbaldi: 7:21pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
playmode: My very first post here on this thread pretty much summarized everything u said here now. check below; |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by Rimbaldi: 7:22pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
Rimbaldi: GOD BLESS U TOO. |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by jumobi1(m): 7:33pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
Same people saying Nigeria is misportrayed by the Media are the same people saying its safer than S.A. Have you guys been to SA or are you basing your analysis regarding security in SA on what you get from the Media? SA is better than Nigeria. If you have made $$ in SA then you can come home and live in the safer and better devolved areas. Nigeria is for us. Lets return when we have our $ and develop it. (If you can) |
Re: Should I Return To Nigeria? by Elai147: 7:36pm On Apr 05, 2013 |
I no know book: Lolxxxxxx hahahahahhahahahahaha This Rossikk na Fool sha. Una wan use laugh kill person |
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