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do guys say what they mean?

Yes i think they do. We as women just choose to hear what we want sometimes and ignore/discard the rest. If we listen closely our lovers tell us everything we need to know about them up front.

Just listen ladies and it can save a world of hurt and misunderstandings.

Morrie:
do guys say what they mean?

Ur question is too general? U might wanna be a little bit more specific.

Uche2nna:
your question is too general? You might want to be a little bit more specific.

second that!

Morrie:
do guys say what they mean?

It depends on the guy u are dealing with. And it depends on issues on ground.

jkpretty:
It depends on the guy u are dealing with. And it depends on issues on ground.

it depends on the girl involved and her ability to study the guy. Guys dont come out straight but even the indirect words and actions can be understood by a woman who looks and listens closely.

jkpretty:
It depends on the guy u are dealing with. And it depends on issues on ground.

I agree with you 101%,

whitelexi:
it depends on the girl involved and her ability to study the guy. Guys don't come out straight but even the indirect words and actions can be understood by a woman who looks and listens closely.

Yea! you are right too. Women are bolder, I think, when it comes to such issues, "Men" (most) have no balls

Guys are deceitful. I avnt seen a guy dat wud keep 2 his words solely. They tell u u are special and d nxt minute u becme a rag b4 their eyes. they are just untruthful n never real in their makns. i will be a fool 2 solely depend on a guy or believe in his fairy tales. neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. Not after I caught my first boyfriend pants down with my best friend.

girlsoswit:
Guys are deceitful. I avnt seen a guy that would keep 2 his words solely. They tell u u are special and d nxt minute u becme a rag before their eyes. they are just untruthful n never real in their makns. i will be a fool 2 solely depend on a guy or believe in his fairy tales. neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. Not after I caught my first boyfriend pants down with my best friend.

Good 4 U

Uche2nna:
Good 4 You

I'm sure u are like dat silly.

girlsoswit:
Guys are deceitful. I avnt seen a guy that would keep 2 his words solely. They tell u u are special and d nxt minute u becme a rag before their eyes. they are just untruthful n never real in their makns. i will be a fool 2 solely depend on a guy or believe in his fairy tales. neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. Not after I caught my first boyfriend pants down with my best friend.

:oPele and am not like dat

girlsoswit:
I'm sure u are like that silly.

Maybe.
Maybe not.

U are the one that epitomises the word silly. U caught ur randy boyfriend with ur back stabbing girlfriend  in bed together and U conveniently made a sweeping generalisation about men.

I did not hear anything about women? Do all women go around sleeping with thier best friend's boyfriend just like ur friend did?  

girlsoswit:
Guys are deceitful. I avnt seen a guy that would keep 2 his words solely. They tell u u are special and d nxt minute u becme a rag before their eyes. they are just untruthful n never real in their makns. i will be a fool 2 solely depend on a guy or believe in his fairy tales. neverrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr. Not after I caught my first boyfriend pants down with my best friend.

lmao!!!! sorry, but this was funny!!
what was his reaction? "oops, I accidentally dropped my pants?"

No i tink they mean wat they say

chisimdi:
No i think they mean what they say

Then u must be very gullible

whitelexi:
Then u must be very gullible

Yes i am

chisimdi:
Yes i am

Dont make it a habit, cos i know some bad ass guys looking for your type

whitelexi:
Dont make it a habit, because i know some bad ass guys looking for your type

Ru 1 of dem

chisimdi:
Ru 1 of them

Naa, but i mix with the good, bad, and even ugly

whitelexi:
Naa, but i mix with the good, bad, and even ugly

So bring it on cos i've got all of dem

chisimdi:
So bring it on because i've got all of them

I like your tag line. Is it fair to interprete it as what u see is what u get? or what u get is what u see?

whitelexi:
I like your tag line. Is it fair to interprete it as what u see is what u get? or what u get is what u see?

All/none of the above

Uche2nna:
You are the one that epitomises the word silly. You caught your randy boyfriend with your back stabbing girlfriend  in bed together and You conveniently made a sweeping generalisation about men.

I agree, I bet if you look back on it there were signs that this man was a cheater and a low life.  again ladies we just have to LISTEN to them not just hear them.  Men will tell us/show us everything we need to know.  Sometimes we are blinded by love, money, sex or all three but you have to be vigilant and LISTEN/WATCH them.  They are not as good at coving it up like us.

sistawoman:
I agree, I bet if you look back on it there were signs that this man was a cheater and a low life. again ladies we just have to LISTEN to them not just hear them. Men will tell us/show us everything we need to know. Sometimes we are blinded by love, money, sex or all three but you have to be vigilant and LISTEN/WATCH them. They are not as good at coving it up like us.

Good daughter of a Good Mother, iwu onye ebe biko

~Antidote~:
Yea! you are right too. Women are bolder, I think, when it comes to such issues, "Men" (most) have no balls

Don't tell me you attribute our slyness to [b]balless[/b]ness

[size=2pt]Saw ur invite. . .my facebook's blocked, don't you have yim?[/size]

eldee:
Don't tell me you attribute our slyness to [b]balless[/b]ness

[size=2pt]Saw your invite. . .my facebook's blocked, don't you have yim?[/size]

C'mon, I know the truth hurts .What am I supposed to do now?

Yea I have YIM,

My word is my bond, I don't talk out of both sides of mouth, when I say it, I act it.

4Her, whats up with you lately. How is exam coming?

sistawoman:
I agree, I bet if you look back on it there were signs that this man was a cheater and a low life.  again ladies we just have to LISTEN to them not just hear them.  Men will tell us/show us everything we need to know.  Sometimes we are blinded by love, money, sex or all three but you have to be vigilant and LISTEN/WATCH them.  They are not as good at covering it up like us.

Sistawoman, perhaps you can educate some of our sisters who seems to think women have no dark side to them. The last sentence in the quote sums it up for me.

proo212:
Sistawoman, perhaps you can educate some of our African sisters who seems to think women have no dark side to them. The last sentence in the quote sums it up.

Strike out the African in your post and I would say Amen to that.

That is not a unique feature of African women. Most women are generally guilty of that.

~Antidote~:
C'mon, I know the truth hurts .What am I supposed to do now?

Yea I have YIM,

What truth? Are we meant to come through with 'I like you, but I think your best friend's sexier'


[size=3pt]Aiite, add me then, my yim is on me profile. . .[/size]

eldee:
What truth? Are we meant to come through with 'I like you, but I think your best friend's sexier'


[size=3pt]Aiite, add me then, my yim is on me profile. . .[/size]

Well as long as it's the truth, just say it jor,

Yea, as soon as am done stuffing my face I will add ya