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Heebucun: Some guys are actually shy actually but on here(nairaland)they are veri bold!Y the change in character?

Dottune: Probably cause we don't have to actually open our mouth to talk to you or look a girl in the eyes

Heebucun: Is it that hard looking someone in the eyes?I hate having conversation with people that can't look into my eyes.Its a sign of lack of confidence.anytime this happens I had just device ways for them to do so.saying things like am going to miss u let me sEe ur face and bam I got my eye look or better still i had ask them jokingly is there dirt on my face?there are many things u can say if u have closer relationship with the person.things like I love it when u look into my eyes,it makes me feel loved or it makes u look more confident.I hate it when Ladies thinks shy Guys are stupid and vice versa

Heebucun: Is it that hard looking someone in the eyes?I hate having conversation with people that can't look into my eyes.Its a sign of lack of confidence.anytime this happens I had just device ways for them to do so.saying things like am going to miss u let me sEe ur face and bam I got my eye look or better still i had ask them jokingly is there dirt on my face?there are many things u can say if u have closer relationship with the person.things like I love it when u look into my eyes,it makes me feel loved or it makes u look more confident.I hate it when Ladies thinks shy Guys are stupid and vice versa

Dottune: Hmmm.... True, one thing I know for sure is Shy guys or girls are actually not Stupid, sometimes they are actually the Dangerous. BTW can I follow you, so I could receive more Lectures

Heebucun: Tanx.ur welcome to

temigracie: Bring me a shy GUY....I ll turn him into another thing within days!!!...

Heebucun: Some guys are actually shy actually but on here(nairaland)they are veri bold!Y the change in character?

temigracie: Bring me a shy GUY....I ll turn him into another thing within days!!!...

herald9: #Drags Francistony into the thread...#

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FrancisTony: I be babe nau

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herald9: triangular madness

Your moniker combinations can't even make a good female.... xo hommie just giveup...

mstik: Shy guys are so adorable

Dottune: Probably cause we don't have to actually open our mouth to talk to you or look a girl in the eyes

johnstar: #gbam, u said it all, some tyms I prefer chatn wit a gal dan facing her 1 on 1, I ll b 2 shy 2 tel her wts on my mind.. lol

Heebucun: 6)Ask about his interests
.Ask what he likes to eat or what sports, hobbies, or movies he enjoys. Once you find something in common, ask him if he’d like to get together some time to pursue it. Shy guys can be very interested in you, but petrified to make the first move. It is very easy to open the door to a common interest by asking about food, hobbies or other fun activities. When you hit on something you both love, you will instantly become more bonded as similarities are a key way of cementing connection between people. It is easy, then to make the first move and ask about doing the activity together.
This is a good litmus test that will show if he is interested or not. When you're opening the door that much, if he does not respond and make the date, chances are he is not into u

7)Try writing notes.
If either of you love to read and write, exchange notes or meet online and chat with text. It moves a little more slowly, so it gives you both time to compose your thoughts and it gives you both a chance to throw out anything that seems to come out wrong.
Touch him gently or even give him a mini massage
.Making physical contact actually releases oxytocin, the bonding hormone, so he may feel closer and start responding to you immediately through the power of touch. Gently grasp his arm or relax him by giving him a mini neck or shoulder massage. This relaxes him so that he is less up-tight and fearful. In addition, making physical contact often opens the door to him making an affectionate gesture towards you later on—where he holds your hand, puts his arm around you or kisses you.
Ask permission first, and make sure he's open to that sort of attention. A mini massage might be considered too forward or intimate in some circles.
9)Make the first move yourself.It's not illegal or even off limits, and it may come as a great relief to a guy who's a bit reserved if you ask him out. You don't have to call it a date if you don't want to. You can also be the one to broach the subject of romance, or to give (or at least offer) that first kiss or hug. Spell it out when you're ready. Some guys don't catch hints, no matter how many you drop, but don't give up.
10)Bepatient, and don't rush things
He's not going to change overnight, and there will likely be vestiges of his shyness for some time to come. Hurrying may only intimidate him, so as your relationship grows, suggest the next move, but try to take his pace. Work to build a trust that will make you both confident with yourselves and with each other when you're together.
Be aware that he may seem awkward around you at first. Be persistent and compassionate.

Source:wiki

Heebucun: 6)Ask about his interests
.Ask what he likes to eat or what sports, hobbies, or movies he enjoys. Once you find something in common, ask him if he’d like to get together some time to pursue it. Shy guys can be very interested in you, but petrified to make the first move. It is very easy to open the door to a common interest by asking about food, hobbies or other fun activities. When you hit on something you both love, you will instantly become more bonded as similarities are a key way of cementing connection between people. It is easy, then to make the first move and ask about doing the activity together.
This is a good litmus test that will show if he is interested or not. When you're opening the door that much, if he does not respond and make the date, chances are he is not into u

7)Try writing notes.
If either of you love to read and write, exchange notes or meet online and chat with text. It moves a little more slowly, so it gives you both time to compose your thoughts and it gives you both a chance to throw out anything that seems to come out wrong.
Touch him gently or even give him a mini massage
.Making physical contact actually releases oxytocin, the bonding hormone, so he may feel closer and start responding to you immediately through the power of touch. Gently grasp his arm or relax him by giving him a mini neck or shoulder massage. This relaxes him so that he is less up-tight and fearful. In addition, making physical contact often opens the door to him making an affectionate gesture towards you later on—where he holds your hand, puts his arm around you or kisses you.
Ask permission first, and make sure he's open to that sort of attention. A mini massage might be considered too forward or intimate in some circles.
9)Make the first move yourself.It's not illegal or even off limits, and it may come as a great relief to a guy who's a bit reserved if you ask him out. You don't have to call it a date if you don't want to. You can also be the one to broach the subject of romance, or to give (or at least offer) that first kiss or hug. Spell it out when you're ready. Some guys don't catch hints, no matter how many you drop, but don't give up.
10)Bepatient, and don't rush things
He's not going to change overnight, and there will likely be vestiges of his shyness for some time to come. Hurrying may only intimidate him, so as your relationship grows, suggest the next move, but try to take his pace. Work to build a trust that will make you both confident with yourselves and with each other when you're together.
Be aware that he may seem awkward around you at first. Be persistent and compassionate.

Source:wiki

wizhaywhy:
Hmmmm abeg kme use me do xperiment o. But if u fail chai u go see my blue eyes



but no b all of us feel thesame way as u hve stated above.

emmygr8:
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nice threa!
How about How to stop being shy?
that's for a shy Guy , especially when it's about dating babes, especially an introvert type ?

temigracie:
Bring me a shy GUY....I ll turn him into another thing within days!!!...

Heebucun:
Am going to create a thread on dat later.sowie for d late response.bin busy with exams

Dottune:
where have you been? I've not been able to start my lectures with you like you promised

Heebucun:
It is exam oh

Dottune:
Eyaah hope it has been good? When will you be thru or are you thru?

Dottune:
Eyaah hope it has been good? When will you be thru or are you thru?