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Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by KyleRobbie(m): 6:49am On Sep 29, 2014
dandydaniels: I am proud of my dad...that real g (rip to his soul) didn't beat my mum...He's a real man

there's a big difference between fear and respect...u can't punch out respect from your wife only fear

the story making rounds in almost every blog site is how teebillz have turned his wife tiwa savage into a punching bag...brother if that's true...I repeat if* that's true.... then you are not a real man

women are lesser beings(fact)....why waste your strength and time beating them? bro c'mon! they are made to be loved...to be bought clothes...jewelries...cars...taken to cool places...pampered...and at night made to sing in tongues to their creator

for the real men out there...let's control our tempers and treat every woman...not just our wives with respect. when it comes to women affairs,my dad is my role model. " never beat a woman son"

STOP DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

I admire men with unassailable sense of Integrity' Kudos to your dad, He's one of a kind & a real man indeed. Unlike ma Dad he potrays prominent shreds of Infidelity...
Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by dandydaniels(m): 6:56am On Sep 29, 2014
KyleRobbie: I admire men with unassailable sense of Integrity' Kudos to your dad, He's one of a kind & a real man indeed. Unlike ma Dad he potrays prominent shreds of Infidelity...

waow...that's intense....sorry
Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by Nobody: 6:59am On Sep 29, 2014
there is difference between fear and respect true that
if she fail to respect you make her fear you
women love punchs

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Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by KyleRobbie(m): 7:07am On Sep 29, 2014
dandydaniels:

waow...that's intense....sorry
It's Ohkae Lil man, Fhink Nuffin of it... #GreatDae
Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by KyleRobbie(m): 7:10am On Sep 29, 2014
kehinde5: there is difference between fear and respect true that
if she fail to respect you make her fear you
women love punchs
As much as this is Funny, "It's so much of a wrong doing" please do not venture in vat path...
Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by Tallesty1(m): 7:18am On Sep 29, 2014
Kinkybraids:
I am in disbelief...no shame at all. I take it you have hit a woman before. Ill make sure to unfollow you after responding.
What shame? If anybody that speaks the truth is a woman beater then you have a problem and should deal with it. I have not raised hand on a woman but I know it is absurd to say that hitting a woman no matter what is wrong. A woman that attacks like a man has no right to claim victim
Kinkybraids: First of all Im not saying women are perfect but I swear in most of these domestic abuse cases where men get killed they struck first and abused the woman for so long while she kept quiet until she reached a breaking point and struck back.
That absurd self righteousness that I hate. Women reach a breaking point and struck but men are gods and do not have breaking point right? Wait! You said in most cases right? So what happened to the other cases?
Kinkybraids: Most of these men who support hitting a woman can not handle a strong willed woman and fear that she might undermine them if she is not put in her place. Why did u marry me if you knew my personality...why do u need to silence me.
Strong willed woman? What has that to do with violence? Listen, Men are not invulnerable. We die when we are shot, stabbed, or hit over the head with blunt objects. If a woman is flailing at me with a knife, a club, or iron bar or in any way trying to rob me of my functionality of life, I will automatically forget that she has tits, If my life is threatened, she is going down. That's all. I can't fold hands and watch her kill me.
Kinkybraids: You talk about evil women...then leave her, why stay and abuse her. You have highlighted the extreme cases of women 'deserving' to be beaten but I know for a fact that in most cases its a matter of control and power.
If it is about control then women should learn self control like I said earlier. Its never right for anyone to hit anybody. That is my point. But women want to hit, and not get hit back. Nonsense! Violence is wrong. Why are we so divided? Men are human as well, Everyone on this planet is not a gender but a soul, a Consciousness That Experiences Reality. An adult woman should be held responsible for her actions and words.
Kinkybraids: Once again a real man is responsible for his action and seeks council if he cant handle a disrespectful woman.
Why are you so quick to tell what a real man should and should not do? Yet, you never talk about what a real woman should and should not do. When a woman attacks a man physically first, she has no right to become a victim.

If a woman turn words to actions, she is escalating a scenario. She is responsible for that. And if the man hits back in equal measure, no more or less, she've earned that consequence.

Life's a beautiful thing and thunder should fire the woman that would step on my own.

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Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by koxi: 7:20am On Sep 29, 2014
Gbam! !!Well said.
Real men devote their time in improving the living conditions of their families....providing the very best, and not looking for the next available space in their wives' faces to punch.
Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by cbrass(m): 7:23am On Sep 29, 2014
Babygal4eva:

Lol hun u havn't seen me drive on VI road before the road is sweet for speeding but I don't think I've done 130 before and as for changing my tires yes I have its not every time a guy is around me you know, as for pushing a car there comes in the whole strength thing, I can't because I'm not strong enough if I was why not?

And the Op isn't even changing his words but defending it in a new thread.

VI road..ahaha lai lai, let's go interstate driving then we will know, maybe the op should have used a better word like "weaker sex" than the "lesser being thing" a man is always a man any day anytime. You can't equal him in anyway so we too can't equal you guys when it comes to caring and emotional matters. Sometimes I wonder how women gets so excited about their babies, how dey cry at the slightest opportunity. The thing still baffles me
Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by Nobody: 7:27am On Sep 29, 2014
KyleRobbie: As much as this is Funny, "It's so much of a wrong doing" please do not venture in vat path...
you gat your opinion man

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Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by Tallesty1(m): 7:28am On Sep 29, 2014
carefreewannabe:

I don't have to read your post history to address one of your comments.

I don't know what you wrote before but the way you justified violence, in the post I was referring to, was shameful.

And you haven't answered my question.

My take on domestic violence is very simple. I hate it.

I don't care if it is from a woman, man or child. It is just wrong.

But saying that no man should hit a woman no matter what is very wrong.

What if she is threatening your life?

Both gender should learn self control. We keep talking about walking away as if we don't know that some women will not allow you to walk away.

For how long will a man walk away because of a woman he married?

If we want to get rid off domestic violence then women should stop using the fact that they are weaker to commit evil.

If a woman attacks like a man then she has no right to play victim.

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Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by Crocz(m): 7:42am On Sep 29, 2014
neoapocalypse:

Shut the fcck up asswipe , na your type dey turn to woman wrapper


Excuse me, who are u again?...and what hell hole did you crawl out from?...dude, where exactly in my post did you see any derogatory word or insult?...or did I direct it to you?...if you are d kind that hit ur girl, that's your biz


And what has hitting a woman got to do with woman wrapping
Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by rasputinn(m): 7:45am On Sep 29, 2014
[size=14pt]Real men don't beat their wives and real men don't get beaten by their wives;in any way[/size]
Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by Nobody: 8:03am On Sep 29, 2014
Tallesty1: What shame? If anybody that speaks the truth is a woman beater then you have a problem and should deal with it. I have not raised hand on a woman but I know it is absurd to say that hitting a woman no matter what is wrong. A woman that attacks like a man has no right to claim victimThat absurd self righteousness that I hate. Women reach a breaking point and struck but men are gods and do not have breaking point right? Wait! You said in most cases right? So what happened to the other cases?
Strong willed woman? What has that to do with violence? Listen, Men are not invulnerable. We die when we are shot, stabbed, or hit over the head with blunt objects. If a woman is flailing at me with a knife, a club, or iron bar or in any way trying to rob me of my functionality of life, I will automatically forget that she has tits, If my life is threatened, she is going down. That's all. I can't fold hands and watch her kill me. If it is about control then women should learn self control like I said earlier. Its never right for anyone to hit anybody. That is my point. But women want to hit, and not get hit back. Nonsense! Violence is wrong. Why are we so divided? Men are human as well, Everyone on this planet is not a gender but a soul, a Consciousness That Experiences Reality. An adult woman should be held responsible for her actions and words.Why are you so quick to tell what a real man should and should not do? Yet, you never talk about what a real woman should and should not do. When a woman attacks a man physically first, she has no right to become a victim.

If a woman turn words to actions, she is escalating a scenario. She is responsible for that. And if the man hits back in equal measure, no more or less, she've earned that consequence.

Life's a beautiful thing and thunder should fire the woman that would step on my own.

Superb response. I also concur with whoopi goldberg when she said that when a woman hits a man while not expecting a return of the favour, it is stupidity. If Rihanna hit chris brown first, then she should have been expecting a retaliation. Whether he took it too far is another issue. There is no excuse to hit anybody simple.

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Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by VivaLaFrans: 8:03am On Sep 29, 2014
ladycomfort: I think it is high time women start respecting their husbands and curbing their tongues. As for me if my husband gets angry I will quickly go down on my kneels and beg him.
Wow! I wish all women were like you.
Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by ifoundmyperfect: 8:04am On Sep 29, 2014
new2020: Another feminist thread. What about women stop provoking men? I have seen a tall built woman beat up her short average built husband only to watch fellow women laugh like it's funny...I had to come to his rescue. No man wakes up in the morning wanting to beat up his woman or any woman; 99% of cases are provoked. Stop getting in his face, blocking the door when he is humbly and peacefully trying to escape beating you. Tone down your mouth...yes women inherently have more way with their mouth than men; you say 100 words before he says 10, now the anger is ragging in him. Domestic abuse goes both ways; verbal abuse by women, some cases are physical except men are ashamed to report it. There was an incident where a man called police that his wife was assaulting him, the police laughed at him. I don't support men hitting women by any stretch, however, if any woman thinks she is man enough to dare put her hands on a man...which is becoming the order of the day in this modern feminist society... that man has every right in self defense using the masculinity and strength bestowed on him as a MAN by God to beat the living day light out of her. Don't hit, and we won't hit back.

On a side note, they are women who enjoy being beatened in the form of sex$ual gratification...they get orga$sm from it. Most women will never admit this openly but covertly, they crave it and get off from it.

You got all the words off my mouth. Didn't miss a single letter! Bravo!!
Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by lankieman: 8:11am On Sep 29, 2014
Wat about women who beats their spouse?
Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by Tunagee(m): 8:13am On Sep 29, 2014
dandydaniels: I am proud of my dad...that real g (rip to his soul) didn't beat my mum...He's a real man

there's a big difference between fear and respect...u can't punch out respect from your wife only fear

the story making rounds in almost every blog site is how teebillz have turned his wife tiwa savage into a punching bag...brother if that's true...I repeat if* that's true.... then you are not a real man

women are lesser beings(fact)....why waste your strength and time beating them? bro c'mon! they are made to be loved...to be bought clothes...jewelries...cars...taken to cool places...pampered...and at night made to sing in tongues to their creator

for the real men out there...let's control our tempers and treat every woman...not just our wives with respect. when it comes to women affairs,my dad is my role model. " never beat a woman son"

STOP DOMESTIC VIOLENCE


shut up your mouth!! all ladies deserves to beaten. they just some stupid bunch of idiots
Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by Tunagee(m): 8:15am On Sep 29, 2014
iceberylin: Any man who beats up his wife should be jailed angry

Marriage is not a bed of roses neither a wrestling groung undecided

its not good to beat a lady, but in my own opinion, just tell her to pack the hell out of your house. thats all

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Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by Nobody: 8:22am On Sep 29, 2014
Kinkybraids:

I am in disbelief...no shame at all. I take it you have hit a woman before. Ill make sure to unfollow you after responding.

First of all Im not saying women are perfect but I swear in most of these domestic abuse cases where men get killed they struck first and abused the woman for so long while she kept quiet until she reached a breaking point and struck back.

Most of these men who support hitting a woman can not handle a strong willed woman and fear that she might undermine them if she is not put in her place. Why did u marry me if you knew my personality...why do u need to silence me.

You talk about evil women...then leave her, why stay and abuse her. You have highlighted the extreme cases of women 'deserving' to be beaten but I know for a fact that in most cases its a matter of control and power.

Once again a real man is responsible for his action and seeks council if he cant handle a disrespectful woman.

Once you realize that nairaland is dominated by a certain quality of men, you will no longer be disappointed. Just unfollow the thread.
Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by Tymax(m): 8:25am On Sep 29, 2014
dablazor:

well my point is.. you can get angry, u can flare up and all, she can be a jerk too, buh that doesnt justify hitting her, for Pete's sake, women are fragile, hitting them takes not just a physical but also an emotional toll on them, wanna hit her? get her to hire a another man to fight for her since u bn her man would rather hit her than protect her, i know women can be really exasperating sometimes buh there are better ways u can handle women, and just in addition, if bn pushed to ur limit by a lady had u resorting to force, then ur not just a man, cos a real man should be sensible in his dealings.
You have given a response that is politically correct. I am not violent. I have my own way of dealing with such situations but that doesn't make me more of a real man than those who hit women.

I have met women who can provoke even the dead to anger. Some women are just stubborn and spiteful. I have seen reasonable, successful men hit their wives repeatedly; men who until they got married have been peaceable- men, whose family members could attest for their slow temper and abundant patience. When it happened, everyone was surprised.

It appears you have never met a woman who can batter your shield of patience and composure. Be grateful for that. If you are not yet married, I sincerely pray you do not marry a woman who would stoke the flames of your rage incessantly.

It takes a sensible woman to recognize her sharp tongue or stubbornness and avoid provoking her short-tempered man. It is even wiser if she'd rather marry a man who is prodigiously patient.

Every human has a threshold for violent REACTION.

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Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by joe17: 8:26am On Sep 29, 2014
baron2000:

Therefore?
Therefore what? Must u engage in violence to calm ursef down There are more than thousand and one ways a man can purnish his wife other than layin his hands on her. BTW, how do you feel after beatin wife(Gf) Sir. Like a hero Ok.
Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by kissty(f): 8:28am On Sep 29, 2014
men who beat dia women ar notin but fools

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Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by Mintayo(m): 8:45am On Sep 29, 2014
Another feminist thread. Smh!
Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by 50calibre(m): 8:58am On Sep 29, 2014
shymexx:

That's the crazy world that we live in today. Well, if the bar is too high, then I might have to get a baby factory a la baby mum, and let her pop a few kids for me, without necessarily making it official lol.

Lmao @smashing a goddess. Hunting and sniping an Iranian chic is definitely going to be different on so many levels. A goddess, intellectual property, and a cultured woman in one. And they have got extremely gorgeous bodies as well. Coupled with the fact that they don't rn from water like our fake hair having sisters. Ol'girl is just going to start speaking arabic and shyte when the heavy pounding starts...and at least that will be better than a lot of naija chics who just stand there like a plank. Pound that ar.se and get kebab, halal, and curry afterwards! grin

Maybe that's the way to go these days, at least everyone gets their freedom.

You're going to have to work double hard to get Iranian chic, they're so conservative & desexualised, good luck breaking them. grin

She's probably going to be disowned by her family for dating a non-Muslim
Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by Orikinla(m): 8:59am On Sep 29, 2014
[size=18pt]Only immature and insecure men beat women.[/size]

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Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by edubest(m): 9:20am On Sep 29, 2014
Any woman that angers a man to the extend of being beaten is a bigger FOOL.

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Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by Sagamite(m): 9:33am On Sep 29, 2014
50calibre:

Really? After battering you, I will call an ambulance for you, they'd think you were set upon by a mob.

After dealing with you, I will probably be charged with aggravated battery grin


person, continue running from me.

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Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by sarutobie(m): 9:33am On Sep 29, 2014
edubest: Any woman that angers a man to the extend of being beaten is a bigger FOOL.
this reminds me of a woman burgler that came into the house of an 80 years old man. .and even wrestled him to the ground..the man walked away, yes he walked to his gun and even when the woman begged that she was pregnant (trying to use the I am a woman so please dont hurt me even though I hurt you first)..the man shot her dead.. and you know what? nothing happened. woman or man, you have no right to violate another human being..we have seen many people commit suicide because of words that others spoke against them, you all think spoken words hurt less than the fist?

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Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by Yemisi63: 9:49am On Sep 29, 2014
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Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by Cashio(m): 9:49am On Sep 29, 2014
Guy u should not pray to get such woman that will tempt u to become mike tyson. There is an extent to which a man can endure certain things. some women are jst too satanic, especially the uneducated ones..no shame, no fear, no respect, it's jst too annoying bro...those who live in public yards will bear me witness.

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Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by Nobody: 9:56am On Sep 29, 2014
Crocz:


Excuse me, who are u again?...and what hell hole did you crawl out from?...dude, where exactly in my post did you see any derogatory word or insult?...or did I direct it to you?...if you are d kind that hit ur girl, that's your biz


And what has hitting a woman got to do with woman wrapping

I was trying out an experiment , just testing your patience. You claimed to be level headed and not quick to anger, you also claimed you'd walk away and not respond in face of confrontation , from your response to my post do you think you're have those qualities you claim to have ?. Sorry for my language
Re: Real Men Do Not Beat Their Wives by Wahala90: 10:01am On Sep 29, 2014
[size=13pt]What if she beats up your innocent mother mercilessly for catching her (your wife) red-handed kissing a boy?[/size]

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