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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by valdes00(m): 8:32am On Oct 01, 2014
Durchmann:
Well, your profile photo says it all. I need not comment further.
Better.... Awon smellos
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by segend(m): 8:36am On Oct 01, 2014
calabardick: @OP>>> OlamiB
I know your kind, you are a hooker claiming a girlfriend, practicing parasitism as a relationship.

Parasitism is a non-mutual symbiotic relationship between species, where one
species (the parasite, which is you) benefits at the expense of the other (the host; your boyfriend).

Parasite now includes microparasites , which are typically smaller, such as protozoans , viruses and bacteria. The best example that describes you is the hookworm. Damn!

Unlike predators, parasites do not kill their host, they are generally much smaller than their host, and will often live in or on their host for an extended period. Both are special cases of
consumer-resource-interactions.

below pix describes you!



guy, pity the op na. lol..........imagine her complaining about 500 naira, should she even be dating
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by WoodcrestMayor(m): 8:37am On Oct 01, 2014
Translation....You'll be successful.You're a man/woman of honour
jenoncam:
excuse me,what does it mean pls and ty embarassed
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by link2jude(m): 8:39am On Oct 01, 2014
OlamiB: I Just don't know why broke guys wants to have a girlfriend too, before you start complaning let me quickly tell you am actually dating one shocked

Guys jump into conclusion that girls don't want to date a broke guy simply because he has nothing to offer financially, but this is not true in all cases, a girl that loves you sees you in her future like her husband. She wants the best for you cos she sees you in her future, a girl can date a broke guy but no girl will intentionally marry a broke man.

I love my broke boyfriend because firstly am not dating him for financial reason and 2ndly because I see a bright future in him, but one thing remain, I can't marry him if he continues being broke.

I have stopped condemning girls that doesn't settle for less, there are so many disadvantages of dating a broke guy namely:

*talk about a boring relationship; when your female friends are going places with their rich bf, you are just there lying on his bed staring at each other's faces in his heated room.

*your friends will not respect him; by the time your female friends get to know about his brokeness the respect will just not be there anymore, girls love each other and they want the best for each other.

*he will always disgrace you; yes! This is most annoying, a little amount of money will cause fight between you two, imagine asking your broke boyfriend to at least present himself in a wealthy way to impress your female friends by buying provision or something for them will make him tear you apart.

*he commands too much respect; this is funny, even rich guys that can afford to buy expensive things for their woman doesn't command as much as him, I guess this is done so you won't disregard him.

*he will naturally look stingy to you ; imagine asking your broke boyfriend to help you with #500 when he himself already has a plan for the only #1000 left with him, this is ridiculous because by the time he decides to impress you with 2000# you won't just be feeling him anymore.

This is just a few of what I can remember now, guys should note that their being financially okay brings a kind of hapiness to their girlfriend/fiancé not only because of what they will enjoy from you but because they see their dream being fufilled through you, you live in the best house, drive the best car and all tell me if ur partner won't be proud to show you off.

I love my baby very much but as little as 100# can cause a misunderstanding btw us. God knows the kind of joy that will fill my heart the day he will be financially ok.

'it takes a real woman to date a broke guy and help him fufil his dream'

All this is written from the sadness of my heart.

I guess some guys don't understand me, I am only asking the guys to be rich for their own good not because of a leech girlfriend/fiance. Nigerian men are quick to insult any girl that comes here to talk about money in a relationship. I am not after my Boyfriend's money or anything, his happiness is mine also and I know he will be happy by the time he is financially ok to cater for all his own needs and beyond.

If you become financially successful it is your name that will be known not your wife's name talkless of a girlfriend, that is why I used Dangote and ADenuga as example...how often do you guys hear of Mrs dangote or Mrs adenuga? Is it as often as both men? NO! And in case the woman is as sucessful as the likes of omotola jalade, ngozi iweala their man is as successful as them.
Whether broke or not, an average lady would desire a Prince to be her bf but she herself is not a Princess.
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by dammytosh: 8:40am On Oct 01, 2014
Leave him alone don't defeat the last confidence he is clinging to.
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Arsenate(m): 8:40am On Oct 01, 2014
Lol, the sad thing for you ladies is there aren't enough rich guys to go round. y'all don't have any moral justification to cry foul when your bf cheats.
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 8:44am On Oct 01, 2014
MissTeaseMe:
Dont mind the man. lol
He's just teasing both of you.
grin
And now he made her go away. angry But now, you're here. *winks*
Happy independence day!!!grin
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by RaphaellaDD(f): 8:45am On Oct 01, 2014
MissTeaseMe:
Please leave the love birds. I love what is budding betwn them. That's how it starts
smiley

See all these people invading our privacy oh. grin
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 8:46am On Oct 01, 2014
But seriously guys...for u to hv a gf u must hv money to take good care of urself and her..u guys need to go out hv fun,go for trips etc...if u don't hv enough u can plan with her so she can add that's for an understanding lady...being broke dude not fresh for a man in a relationship!!!
prettythicksme: at least the bleeper should try to take care of the bleeped
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 8:46am On Oct 01, 2014
chibc: and u are the only what?

The only person who has identified the only sensible person thus making me a more sensible person
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by RaphaellaDD(f): 8:47am On Oct 01, 2014
Vessi:
And now he made her go away. angry But now, you're here. *winks*
Happy independence day!!!grin

Imagine that!!!! I knew I was right to hang on to my shotgun.
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Actionleap: 8:48am On Oct 01, 2014
My lawyer told me of a very funny story. This guy was a yahoo boy who hit a whopping N300m! As soon as he cleared the money, he traveled out of the country and returned 3 months latter. Change all his mobile phones, got 1 trouser and 2 shirts and headed home to his village. He stopped every associations with his former yahoo boys. and posed as a very poor dude. He never had more than school cert (he didn't even pass). He met this girl which he like very much and the girl fell in love. She was feeding him 3 square meals. Her parents kicked but she stuck to her gun that she wanted to marry the broke guy. This guy on most occasions stumbles on her family during discussion and heard how they say so many unprintable things about him. He carried on for 6 months and was praying that this girl would pass this test.
After 6 months, he told the girl, he needs to get to Lagos. He traveled out and brought in 50cars (all exotic), built the biggest house in town, started a modern bakery and other sme. He never stay out beyond 5pm and he's always in-doors on weekends. He married the girl of course. Then, rumours started that he did jass for money. He just laugh his heart out and never told anyone except the lawyer how he came about the millions....
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Pluslargent(m): 8:48am On Oct 01, 2014
MissTeaseMe:
I support quiverbox
You sound like one cheap girl angry
I am sure u feed on men, that is y money means so much to u.
What has her bb pin got to do with this matter. Some people just want to make new friends, but i am sure u cant understand that cos u will only display ur own contacts so u can fish men for their money. It's not hard to know girls who are hungry. Shio
So far a guy truely loves a girl and he is not into it for sex. I dont see y broke guys should not have dates. By the way, a lot of these so called broke guys eventually become the rich guys low-life girls like you get wet for.

I love guys with sense of purpose and strong drive for success. Broke or rich.

if you follow this monikers statements closely it wont be surprising to find out its a guy posing under a fake gender and pix...
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 8:48am On Oct 01, 2014
RaphaellaDD:

Imagine that!!!! I knew I was right to hang on to my shotgun.
i'm at your mercy. Forgive me. cry
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by pappyrose(f): 8:49am On Oct 01, 2014
I don't ve any problem with a broke guy, but I hate it when a broke guy is stingy with his little. I will work with a generous broke guy to become rich.
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by segend(m): 8:50am On Oct 01, 2014
LushGreenz:

Me a brokeass? Lol. Think again. Sloth, listen I'll feed and cloth u for 12 months without breaking a sweat. Do u not wonder Why every male on here descended on your comments with vituperation? Co's you sound so despicable... your imbecility is so unprecedented. I've read your comments where you were torching on the forum for sugar daddies and rich dudes for a sumptuous one night stand,you Hooker. I'm just one of those Nairalanders who just occasionally like to read,observe,unwind and learn in the background. You come on here to talk thrash and expect not to be reprimanded. Fvxking b!+ch!

Guy, she is not worth your time, just let her be. Have gone through her posts also, i could only smh.
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by RaphaellaDD(f): 8:51am On Oct 01, 2014
Vessi:
i'm at your mercy. Forgive me. cry

Hehehe at my mercy huh? Now why do I like the sound of that? cheesy
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by valmunich(m): 8:53am On Oct 01, 2014
destante: it was insomnia dearie. Lol. how are you? happy new month. smiley
Ohh! I'm fine, how are you?
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by destante(f): 8:56am On Oct 01, 2014
valmunich:
Ohh! I'm fine, how are you?
it is same here tainz.
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 8:57am On Oct 01, 2014
RaphaellaDD:

Hehehe at my mercy huh? Now why do I like the sound of that? cheesy
Because you can now blast me to space with that awful bazooka if you wish. cry
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by RaphaellaDD(f): 8:59am On Oct 01, 2014
Vessi:
Because you can now blast me to space with that awful bazooka if you wish. cry

No nau, I won't do that, not here. What will all the nairalanders think of me? tongue
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by profstar(m): 9:09am On Oct 01, 2014
Spidermon: Op, find another boyfriend if e tire u abeg. No come dey use ur boyfriend wash for here....

N.B: If my babe dey use me wash for my back because I no get money, make Amadioha goat-rape am. Wait first, I hope this Op isn't Biliki
lol, i don laugh taya, is Biliki your girl friend's name? I bet you she is the one, na because of that last night arguement o, she con carry you come air, lol!
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by hustla(m): 9:09am On Oct 01, 2014
Lily4star: Now everyone knows your bf is broke undecided, why you dey fall em hand for public nah.

You weren't forced into the relationship and you sef know he doesn't ve, as long as you both understand eachother, and you sound like a babe that cares about what friends say about your relationshipn infact you listen to advice from friends a lot, stop comparing jor. Since you say he has a bright future e go better, support him, encourage him and pray for him as well too. Stop bringing your relationship in public for people to ve something to talk about. Now get ready for the rest things others ll say, I trust Nl
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This is pure mockery ooo I swear, now Imagine your bf sees this, he ll be like

exactly my tots
all I v seen is 'My friends, My friends...Me! Me! Me'
why would I want to impress your friends or anybody else when I'm in. rshp with u?
sounds stupid
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by webizone(m): 9:09am On Oct 01, 2014
OlamiB:
I am not saying they should have money because of their gf, but because of themselves. Won't they be happy if they live in expensive area? Ride a good car?

Well OlamiB, we have heard all u said. Trust me, guys want to and they even would find pleasure in taking care of their loved ones. It's just that most ladies would make you feel SO BAD about it, afterall she was meant to be a part of you to let u experience life and still smile about it.

Well, to this quoted post I quote the series, "Thief" where it says, "If it was easy getting rich, nobody will be poor."
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by eightsin(m): 9:09am On Oct 01, 2014
360command: if I b u,I go phuock dat thing. Her yeye dey smell.


Bro... i no dull o. I let her friend (my colleague) know watin go happen. She come go snitch me give d gal yet she still carry am come.
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by hustla(m): 9:12am On Oct 01, 2014
Actionleap: My lawyer told me of a very funny story. This guy was a yahoo boy who hit a whopping N300m! As soon as he cleared the money, he traveled out of the country and returned 3 months latter. Change all his mobile phones, got 1 trouser and 2 shirts and headed home to his village. He stopped every associations with his former yahoo boys. and posed as a very poor dude. He never had more than school cert (he didn't even pass). He met this girl which he like very much and the girl fell in love. She was feeding him 3 square meals. Her parents kicked but she stuck to her gun that she wanted to marry the broke guy. This guy on most occasions stumbles on her family during discussion and heard how they say so many unprintable things about him. He carried on for 6 months and was praying that this girl would pass this test.
After 6 months, he told the girl, he needs to get to Lagos. He traveled out and brought in 50cars (all exotic), built the biggest house in town, started a modern bakery and other sme. He never stay out beyond 5pm and he's always in-doors on weekends. He married the girl of course. Then, rumours started that he did jass for money. He just laugh his heart out and never told anyone except the lawyer how he came about the millions....

Olamide -Story for the gods remix ft Reminisce
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by debrihachi(f): 9:12am On Oct 01, 2014
valdes00:
Yes lady, am broke buh I can swear on my life that am nt as broke as ur bF or ur husby dats if u r married....
Lol. ...If wishes were horses grin
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 9:12am On Oct 01, 2014
Ethicaliyke: MY Lady u are right For our good ......
But ladies who are made already wouldn't even Consident loving a promising guy rather some kind of radical uncultured spoonfed mummy's guy..... Who take them places, beat them up and embarras them.... 4worthless reasons... Sorry oo I fear girls wey don tier eye reach ear ..... Am not rich, not broke, not in a relationship .... Reasons: She must be fair, average height, descent in manner and dressing, must be 95% honest.... : u can chart me:pin 29743595, or call: 07035716747. Note: I will no when u're not honest with me......

You have a very bad command of English... And that's even enough reason for ladies with brains and class to runaway from you.

By the way, what is with the trouser that's of different colour and low quality?

Obviously you lack self esteem, that's why you went to digital photo that allows for editing.

There re so many beautiful ladies in your church, mosque or shrine. Why not ask any of em out instead of coming on here?

Smh... So much for civilization.
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 9:14am On Oct 01, 2014
Enahi: Sorry girlfriend,dating a broke guy is not worth it most times. Am dating one presently,I won't call him broke because he is working. But He is very stingy or I don't know if its because I don't ask him for anything. Am seriously having a rethink.
u r nt married to him hence ur nt his responsibility! Ur parents shud be blamed for ur pitiably poor predicament! get a job n take ur mind off his salary, is he workin for u? #nonsense

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Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 9:15am On Oct 01, 2014
gede7744:



yes now grin
ok u must be a nigerian livin outside nigeria. Cheers
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Spidermon: 9:18am On Oct 01, 2014
profstar:
lol, i don laugh taya, is Biliki your girl friend's name? I bet you she is the one, na because of that last night arguement o, she con carry you come air, lol!

That one be say Bilikisu don chop my eyes be dat....wetin dey always cause fight be say Biliki sabi say I no get money but she too like small chops like guguru ati epa, dankwa, ofio, kuli kuli, baba dudu so she dey always tax me....rotflmao!!
Re: Dating A Broke Guy(my Experience); Is It Worth It? by Nobody: 9:27am On Oct 01, 2014
RaphaellaDD:

No nau, I won't do that, not here. What will all the nairalanders think of me? tongue
Does it matter? grin Okay let's go outside so you'll do it.

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