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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by silversonuc(m): 5:55pm On Oct 09, 2014
Ladycloud:
people now sisterzone nd brotherzone nd itz nt even funny at all...y dafuq will u sisterzone me and wen u see me wf anoda guy u start giving attitudez!
chisom right?
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 5:56pm On Oct 09, 2014
delors:

Abeg pack well...we know Una type. una full everywhere like okrika. One yeye sister 'brother-zoned' me for almost 2hf years saying 'I don't see you as my bf. You are like a brother to me; we cannot date each other.' Her mouth be like something wey resemble alligator pepper. Few months ago, after some wicked bros don over use the 'area', she come be like ' ahn ahn na, you know I just wanted us to know each other first...' All of una na d same.
Story for d gods pls clear u r obstructing my view

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Sunshinelady(f): 5:57pm On Oct 09, 2014
JuicyGee:
Wait first o.. all these dudes saying friendzone friendzone, so you guys mean you cant keep female frnds without being either her bf or bed warmer. Smh undecided..
. No, ordinary frend & 'frend-zoned frend' are 2 different thins entirely

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 5:58pm On Oct 09, 2014
silversonuc:

story for d gods
Which f dem r u sango or obatala cos I clearly wasn't talking to u
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 5:58pm On Oct 09, 2014
Okay eeh oo. Carry go ...rozzay rozzay. I feel you.[/quote author=rozzay post=27002022]
nofin o[/quote]
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by lakamua: 5:58pm On Oct 09, 2014
JuicyGee:


I feel like strangling you now.. angry ok, ok, how else do u want us to be fun.. wat exactly are we suppose to do.. I'm very curious
just be ursef. No pretence. Dont try to impress anybody. Dont form good. Dont form bad. Most importantly, dont be selfish. Put ursef in peoples shoes and treat them as u want to be treated
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Jabioro: 5:58pm On Oct 09, 2014
Wwe.payback hours..Randy Orton vs John Cena..John cena must win,u must collect ur title,bt becaful of Authority intruder..infact let it be d last man standing..strike her pussy hard then let off d fool..

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Ladycloud(f): 5:59pm On Oct 09, 2014
silversonuc:

chisom right?
.....hmmmm....y r u stalking me naw....nd u r
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Oskilala: 5:59pm On Oct 09, 2014
This is exactly what ladies do...they really dont know what they want undecided
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Sunshinelady(f): 6:00pm On Oct 09, 2014
slap1:
If you still love her, give her a chance. If not, don't look back, not even out of pity!

Don't complain that she's been used; it makes no sense, unless you swore by Amadioha to date only virgins (and haven't touched any woman since then). Don't follow random advice, follow your heart.

However I think your post suggests you're still hurt by the past. Like I said, accept her if you truly love her. If not, BOUNCE!
word
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by roufy235(m): 6:00pm On Oct 09, 2014
hmm
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Ladycloud(f): 6:01pm On Oct 09, 2014
rozzay:

Story for d gods pls clear u r obstructing my view
.....lmao...babe easy naaah
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 6:02pm On Oct 09, 2014
chisco82:

Okay eeh oo. Carry go ...rozzay rozzay. I feel you.
Abeggo
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by JuicyGee(f): 6:02pm On Oct 09, 2014
lakamua:

just be ursef. No pretence. Dont try to impress anybody. Dont form good. Dont form bad. Most importantly, dont be selfish. Put ursef in peoples shoes and treat them as u want to be treated

Ohk! embarassed . But I still hate you 4 hee other comment you made. angry . Watch out in ur dreams coz I'm still gonna strangle you
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Pervert1(m): 6:02pm On Oct 09, 2014
Oskilala:
This is exactly what ladies do...they really dont know what they want undecided
actually...some do know what they want! Women are blessed in their own way,as are men!...they are manipulative.....and its effectiveness is like a first bank atm machine.

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 6:04pm On Oct 09, 2014
Ladycloud:
.....lmao...babe easy naaah
Lol don't mind him jare quoting me with an epistle like am one of those kids he sleeps with. Men sha
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Keemy88(m): 6:04pm On Oct 09, 2014
don't go back to her. she is a dead wait. forget her and find another babe Who will love you.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by tania28(f): 6:04pm On Oct 09, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.
yes very true,d guy doesn't love her anymore,so jst come out straight n tell her it can't work.let go ok
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Ladycloud(f): 6:06pm On Oct 09, 2014
rozzay:

Lol don't mind him jare quoting me with an epistle like am one of those kids he sleeps with. Men sha
....asin eeeh...dunno y they hv this alwayz right attitude! itz alwayz about d gurlz...
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by 1one: 6:09pm On Oct 09, 2014
It just feels like more than half of the replies I've been reading especially from guys are guys between 17-22years old..

"Knack am"

"Hammer am"

"Chop am"

"Give am akpakpo"


Really are your lives habitually hinged on sex?
Is it your necessary-you can't do without it-food

I find it even shady and questionable as to why the OP chose to bring his "plight" here... What exactly do you want us to do or tell you... You've "combed" her already (hopefully you didn't carry dandruff along with the combing exercise), you've made up your mind to use and get your "fair data usage" from her.... So what really is your point.


Truth is inspite of all your smack talk, I feel you still have a thing for her, there's a mixed blend of hurt, bitterness and anger in your post, in fact your post is very thick with it... But still I sense some subliminal attraction that you feel for her and that's why you're particularly hurt.. You're not just bitter because she sees you as a readily available spare tyre, but you're also hurt because you're still "feeling" the girl.


It's normal to feel cheated and used by someone you loved years back but friendzoned you only to come back later on to profess love for you... But thing is this is life... There are most times no black or white... But many grey areas... You may not have been mature enough for her then... She may not really truly have liked you or loved you enough back then, but as the years grew by, she got to learn more and more about you and hence the attraction...



Enough tori jare.. No be my matter... I've already written too long... Sorry for my boring piece.

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Pervert1(m): 6:09pm On Oct 09, 2014
tania28:
yes very true,d guy doesn't love her anymore,so jst come out straight n tell her it can't work.let go ok
am not surprised ladies are the only ones supporting this lady...why can't Nigerians ever be objective 4 once!

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by silversonuc(m): 6:09pm On Oct 09, 2014
Ladycloud:
.....hmmmm....y r u stalking me naw....nd u r
its a small community here, well neva mind, didnt mean to stalk
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by klodike(m): 6:10pm On Oct 09, 2014
Shitty gal tryna eat her cake and have it back.
YankeeJoe:
Helo fellow nairalanders, greetins 2 y'al..

Pls i got an experience i wud gladly luv 2 share wit u & seek ur positive advice..

I met ds gal i loved so dearly in 2006 on her bck frm skul. @1st sight, i developed a strong feelin 2 wards her ( i dnt mean infatuation, lets any man persecute me), we got along as frnds n along d line, i made my intentions knwn 2 her but she turned me down. She claimed bn ok wit me jus being a frnd 2her.

I felt d pains bt learnt hw 2 deal wit it while i continue my life wit sm1 else...
In 2013, she started showin emotional feelins 2wards wit d intention of bn in a serious n committed relationship wit me...

She came up wit d claim dat her ex did nt luv her like she wntd hence,
she quited d relationship ( na me be d maga wey go blve dat kind cock n bul story abi? Or na me go cum luv u pass nw afta dos nigas don finish wrk?)


Truth is, her ex(s) ve al used n dumped her bt nw she has rememba me (2 her she feels am a spare tire; God 4bid!!)..

She's up wit d claim dat we were both 2 young & inexperienced 2 date bck then.. Dat she alwz luvd n cherished me...

My qstn is: y wud a lady frnd-zone a guy dat sincerely luvd her bt afta wards go bck 2 him afta bn mesmerized by oda rouged guys?

Guys, pls, wat do u tink abt ds?
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by vislabraye(m): 6:10pm On Oct 09, 2014
YankeeJoe:
Helo fellow nairalanders, greetins 2 y'al..

Pls i got an experience i wud gladly luv 2 share wit u & seek ur positive advice..

I met ds gal i loved so dearly in 2006 on her bck frm skul. @1st sight, i developed a strong feelin 2 wards her ( i dnt mean infatuation, lets any man persecute me), we got along as frnds n along d line, i made my intentions knwn 2 her but she turned me down. She claimed bn ok wit me jus being a frnd 2her.

I felt d pains bt learnt hw 2 deal wit it while i continue my life wit sm1 else...
In 2013, she started showin emotional feelins 2wards wit d intention of bn in a serious n committed relationship wit me...

She came up wit d claim dat her ex did nt luv her like she wntd hence,
she quited d relationship ( na me be d maga wey go blve dat kind cock n bul story abi? Or na me go cum luv u pass nw afta dos nigas don finish wrk?)


Truth is, her ex(s) ve al used n dumped her bt nw she has rememba me (2 her she feels am a spare tire; God 4bid!!)..

She's up wit d claim dat we were both 2 young & inexperienced 2 date bck then.. Dat she alwz luvd n cherished me...

My qstn is: y wud a lady frnd-zone a guy dat sincerely luvd her bt afta wards go bck 2 him afta bn mesmerized by oda rouged guys?

Guys, pls, wat do u tink abt ds?



If you agree, then you are a mugu. She will never respect you. Leave her even if she's the last girl in rtown.

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by iheanyi40(m): 6:10pm On Oct 09, 2014
iammo6:
ohh..so u sabi talk before nahim u kon dey post full stop. I be think say u be lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed grin grin grin
lmao baba no b so oh I gats book space na wink
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by idu1(m): 6:10pm On Oct 09, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.
is this ur best advise? Mind you, her kitty ll b slack, beauty ll depreciate nt like the op knw her b4........the lady is nw seconded product..........which luv u wnt make he show her........my guy, if the girl still enter ur eyes small nak her wella..... Nd send the bicth away...............
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 6:11pm On Oct 09, 2014
Ladycloud:
....asin eeeh...dunno y they hv this alwayz right attitude! itz alwayz about d gurlz...
Abi o. 4get dem jare. Btw u r cute
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Ladycloud(f): 6:12pm On Oct 09, 2014
rozzay:

Abi o. 4get dem jare. Btw u r cute
....#coverzface! fankz dearie
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by bliss2al(m): 6:13pm On Oct 09, 2014
Truth is, her ex(s) ve al used n dumped her bt nw she has rememba
me (2 her she feels am a spare tire; God 4bid!!)..




u knw dis and still wants advice? unless u have u secret agenda towards her wic is not advisable
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 6:14pm On Oct 09, 2014
Guys and Friendzone things eh. grin grin i no know say una deh fear like this o. grin grin grin
now i've seen what dudes fears alot. #friendzoningonpoint.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by silversonuc(m): 6:15pm On Oct 09, 2014
JuicyGee:


I feel like strangling you now.. angry ok, ok, how else do u want us to be fun.. wat exactly are we suppose to do.. I'm very curious

hehe dat one pain u shey?

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