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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by merieam16(f): 11:24am On Oct 10, 2014
Zohan:

Nne. Love has expiry date
hmm rili...wana kno more
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Bebetter: 12:07pm On Oct 10, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.


[size=14pt]What is this one saying? (shakes head and walks out)[/size]
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by IJIGGAH(m): 12:28pm On Oct 10, 2014
toecyne:
Hammer the kpekus for a sometime.
Look @the way pple em likin this sh*t,and i foregot and like it too.Shall it's the fact bro.Hit urs and frd-zoon her too
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by ifymusa(f): 1:07pm On Oct 10, 2014
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She no see the pipo wey dey wait before. Una never see anything una don dey cry. Cry for watin? Men don finish? Na because she love d Guy na him make she come bck
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 1:18pm On Oct 10, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.
Utter gibberish.

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by ihedinobi2: 1:56pm On Oct 10, 2014
JuicyGee:


I kw some women are boring.. but why should he speak of women in that manner embarassed cry
He did because women these days appear to think that all they're good for is sex and sexúal stimulation. If you're a serious-minded guy with life to deal with, you want someone to help you, someone to share the downtimes and great moments with, not just someone you enjoy screwing.

As for boring, my experience has not been that women are boring, just that you can be remarkably shallow and unreliable to hold up your end. What he might mean is that he hardly can engage a woman productively on anything except sex. A lot of us have that problem with you.

Now, if you don't want guys talking about you like that, you're better off learning this about us: sex is awesome, we like it but a woman must be more than a hot body to matter to us.

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by bisayor(m): 3:58pm On Oct 10, 2014
ifymusa:
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. she loves him that's why she came back? Why didn't she love him 5 years ago when she zoned him. Its obvious she came back coz she's lonely, desperate and probably saw some good changes in the guy's life.

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 4:07pm On Oct 10, 2014
ihedinobi2:

He did because women these days appear to think that all they're good for is sex and sexúal stimulation. If you're a serious-minded guy with life to deal with, you want someone to help you, someone to share the downtimes and great moments with, not just someone you enjoy screwing.

As for boring, my experience has not been that women are boring, just that you can be remarkably shallow and unreliable to hold up your end. What he might mean is that he hardly can engage a woman productively on anything except sex. A lot of us have that problem with you.

Now, if you don't want guys talking about you like that, you're better off learning this about us: sex is awesome, we like it but a woman must be more than a hot body to matter to us.



Na turu !!!!!!, sex seems to be the only carrot men dangle at the onset of any relationship,,,,,,,bro you no fit blame the babes dem walai
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by eckersley: 4:08pm On Oct 10, 2014
deboraha:
Another thread to bash ladies.#them bashers will arrive soon#

eckersley
Frankly and no offense meant, have u ever looked up the word bashing?
Women seethe and will almost die when their lil tricks, wiles and manipulations are being brought to light.
I can feel ur pains. Kpele. Research and come up with cutting edge ones you hear. I trust una
No be only bash. Na Bash Ali.

deboraha:

This is exactly what I was talking about. I am comfortably in my own home with my husband and this one is talking about PAINS. Which one of my PAINS are U feeling? or U think I am still a child with tricks and pranks on how to get a man?

U have one nasty experience wit one lady and U think evry other woman on the planet is the same way. I shud be the one pitying U!

U said, "Women will almost die when their wiles are being brot to light?" Which women? May be the ones around U.

Mister English teacher!

Thanks for the compliment, mon élève

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 4:35pm On Oct 10, 2014
dabossman:
@OP, so you want to tell me that in that 6yrs you did not date any lady or shine any congos? You were just being a good boy, waiting for the day she will love you back? I hear you.

I wonder if the roles where reversed, would you and the many guys who have commented have a problem with it. How many guys have ignored girls who were in love with them to go chase other girls, only to come back after many years to marry the good girl they once treated unfairly. Countless, I'm sure. Chai, it truly is a man's world. It's okay for a guy to go about sowing the useful seeds of his youth, only to come back at 30-something with watery sperm that can't even impregnate a woman in hyper-ovulation, to want to marry the cute innocent chic that has been crushing on him for ages. The guy won't be seen as "used and dumped" then o.

Oh, OP you are counting on marrying a virgin abi? A girl who has never even dated another guy before ba? I wish you good luck. Truth is you don't really love her as much as you claim. So, just go ahead and do what we all know you want to do. Chop and clean mouth.



You took the words outa my mouth.......I will bet my last penny that this dude' understanding of the concept LOVE is wacked,twisted and ......
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by deboraha(f): 5:24pm On Oct 10, 2014
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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by deboraha(f): 5:27pm On Oct 10, 2014
eckersley:






Thanks for the compliment, mon élève


Honestly, You must be one jobless fellow looking for students to tutor on nairaland. Isorite, Carry go!!
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by sage2(m): 6:01pm On Oct 10, 2014
ifymusa:
Cry for watin? Men don finish? Na because she love d Guy na him make she come bck[color=#006600][/color]

Make you dey there dey form Lara Croft.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 6:44pm On Oct 10, 2014
merieam16:
hmm rili...wana kno more
Oya ask Google.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by halix239(f): 7:09pm On Oct 10, 2014
YankeeJoe:


for ur plastic mind, u think sey, u too sabi english abi? Beta stil, why dnt u go for since u feel u re more sensible than evry oda rational being here.. Call a spade a spade

it sounds like ur mind is already madeup, so y bother asking for advice. jst go ahead n do wot u want with ha. datz ur fcking prob
da
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by desirewhet(m): 7:31pm On Oct 10, 2014
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Dube07: 7:55pm On Oct 10, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

...So after 5 SOLID years, you expect the guy to jump up and start dancing?****.......

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by ihedinobi2: 8:15pm On Oct 10, 2014
Arty2014:




Na turu !!!!!!, sex seems to be the only carrot men dangle at the onset of any relationship,,,,,,,bro you no fit blame the babes dem walai
I assure you I blame the women more than 65% of the time. What do you mean that men dangle the sex carrot at the onset? Have you heard how guys talk about women?

I have heard many cynical men who at one time or another gave themselves wholly to loving a woman with no ulterior motives, who chose to take the deadly risk of trusting with everything on the line say that they will never trust a woman, that they don't believe that any woman can be truly chaste and sexüally loyal. They insist that a virgin is just a disaster waiting to happen and that if they will ever marry it will be a woman that they know has a past. That way they feel that they know what they are getting into.

Men are very interested in sex no doubt, but how many men who loved a woman for the first time thought ill of her for not giving it up to him before marriage? Some definitely and mostly because of the pressure of cynical friends but most have this innate need to protect their women even from their own selves.

It is you women who from your first discovery of how difficult it is for a man who cares a bit about you to resist you and how much men love sex that start dangling the carrot at the first sign of power play. Sex becomes your trump card almost as soon as you realize how much it means to men. You reward your man with it, you punish him with it, you tempt him with it. You practically tell him that your body is all he should ever strive for. And then you turn around and say we're the ones that dangle sex?

I have always advised women to refuse sex no matter what until they're married. If you give it up to a damaged guy, that's how you will begin the difficult journey of trying to use sex to bend a man to your will. And you will find yourself fail a lot until someone values you beyond the bed.

But that's where you'll have the real bad news. Men who value you beyond the bed won't play games with you and you will probably find them either too tame or suspicious because they're different. And you will almost certainly miss out on healthy love. Again.

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Imoy(m): 8:35pm On Oct 10, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.
My frnd STFU.

U no see wen d OP say he was frndzoned? Na now she get him time and u expect him to open his hand and accept her after she has fvcked all her life.


Op fvck d living hell outta da b*tch and move on.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Nobody: 8:42pm On Oct 10, 2014
i got one too, we av known each other for three years and i told her i wanna date her....tho we kiss twice bt na frnd zone i dey...i pray she come back mehn...ill still luv her ooo.so she will knw wat she has been missing.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Sotenna(m): 9:00pm On Oct 10, 2014
Bros she get ebola oh she dey find person to kill.
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by eckersley: 9:30pm On Oct 10, 2014
deboraha:

Honestly, You must be one jobless fellow looking for students to tutor on nairaland. Isorite, Carry go!!

Haba! How could you say that after benefiting from the free education of the G. E. J administration on Nairaland?
Here's more free education for you
https://www.nairaland.com/1926136/why-ladies-always-lie-number

Don't be enraged oo. You hear

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by deboraha(f): 9:51pm On Oct 10, 2014
eckersley:


Haba! How could you say that after benefiting from the free education of the G. E. J administration?
Here's more free education for you
https://www.nairaland.com/1926136/why-ladies-always-lie-number

Don't be enraged oo. You hear

STALKER!! Hehehe. Dey follow me up and down U hear!
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by limociano007(m): 10:57pm On Oct 10, 2014
I dey come I forget my keyboard
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by joshrare(m): 11:18pm On Oct 10, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.

The chance to love her more is here........
Hey bro,,...Bleep that Arse Hard
Clean mouth
Tell her bye bye
No heart feellings
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by valdprof: 11:41pm On Oct 10, 2014
Daresh:
Is that your problem? That she dated other guys who used and dumped her? You clearly dont like her enough because if you did, you would jump at the chance to show it.
hey!
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by obomobo: 11:45pm On Oct 10, 2014
na okirika b d@

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by valdprof: 12:13am On Oct 11, 2014
Sunshinelady:
@OP, d grl u r datin now or d grl u will even marry , u tink say oda guys never still knack d kpekus (as u pple wuld say) abi? & u nko 4dose past 5yrs havnt grls been knackin u too? D truth is dat mayb u never rilly loved her in d frst place
dis one different
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by YankeeJoe(m): 1:01am On Oct 11, 2014
Arty2014:




You took the words outa my mouth.......I will bet my last penny that this dude' understanding of the concept LOVE is wacked,twisted and ......


look at both of dem... Indeed, the same old & wrecked vehicle brought u two here... I aint the least surprise
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by Mftivi: 1:18am On Oct 11, 2014
How did you allow your self in that zone that long hmmmm. If u get friendzoned move on and up your game she will com begging later cos bfs are not nice only friends are nice. then u can choose to remain a friend (real lover) or become a bf (play boy)
Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by eckersley: 12:36pm On Oct 11, 2014
deboraha:

STALKER!! Hehehe. Dey follow me up and down U hear!

Nigerians self! First it was bash, now its stalker.
Nigerians can form.
First,
Not because a word is used by the Western media about celebrities
you quickly add it to ur vocab, nay use it.
Nigerians PLEASE STOP IT.

All in the hopes of impressing people
However, you only succeeded in embarrassing yourself and depressing your listeners.
Na so Patience just dey disgrace herself and President Jona everywhere.

Your choice of words shows you are a true daughter of your mother,
Mama Peace AKA first Lady nee Madam-take-oyibo-scatter Nigeria.

Second,
Statistics show that every minute 6,357 young girls turn 18 in Nigeria.
So even if guy man choose to...as you wan form dey talk, no be old mama nowwww.
Haba.

Third,
As Nigerian [pseudo-]celebrities plenty reach, you don hear any one use that word
or run go court go get a restraining order?
Fear no let them. You know why? Court go knack gavel for their head because them
no reach.
I sorry for the person[s] wey give u false evaluation yourself.
Kpele. Them just stroke ur ego to get their feet in your door.
No be my fault say them succeed.

Since you sabi blow oyibo well well, I be think say you go come
talk say you wan go get restraining order.
But you no talk am. Why not?
Because na the word 'stalker' your 'half-education'/miseducation carry you reach.

Abeg aunty mi. I take God beg you.
No scatter Nigeria pass where your Mama and Mentor, Her Excellency don scatter am reach.
If you dey in doubt about any word plus where and how to use am, just holla at me.
I go willingly help. For free.
Together, President Jona and I can use education to make Nigeria great!

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Re: She Friend-zoned Me For Over 5yrs But Now Wnts A Committed Relationship by LordRahl001: 12:55pm On Oct 11, 2014
mooremedia:

Wicked advice,my bros jus jump and pass.
She's not meant for you.....I don't trust people who leave people for someone else
when they find someone better they'll leave you for them.
spot on bro!!! if she leaves someone for u, she's definitely gonna leave you for sm1!! #myPhilosohy tho!!!

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