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| How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by benega(op): 6:26pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
Ever since my younger years I've always been the favourite with ladies and thinking back 2 my second school days I can rember 5 or 6 incidents whereby girls I wasn't dating were fighting over me in class This trend continued even into my university years and it really caused much rift btw me nd ma male pals as their chicks were always forcing themselves on me. Am a really good natured guy and more than once I've succumbed 2 a girls request 2 date her out of pity and cuz I know most will become hostile and rude 2ward me if I rebuff them. My problem nw is dat @ d bank where I work my boss (who is older than me with 14 yrs) is asking me out!!! And I have a beautiful girl am currently dating, tho shes' not in d country now and I love her so much that I can't even Think of betraying her. So the question is: How do I turn my boss down without incurring her wrath? (She could sack me if she wish!!) |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by agarawu23(m): 6:34pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
I must upload ur pix bfore I comment. I wan see d guy wey gals dey die for if u like upload ur frnd pix, na urself u dey do. |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by djeezy(m): 6:35pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
Well tell her you have HIV. She might fire you though. |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by bakandow11: 6:53pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
tell her u ar a gay. dat u can only be fwends. job at risk thou. or bettr still gve her my number me self handsome. |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by Tallesty1(m): 7:01pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
Hmmmmmmmmm |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by akinsadeez(m): 7:05pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
story for d gods. I expect dat she should be married taking into account d age difference. Why not just tell her dat even though you consider her beautiful, you also consider it grossly improper and also an abomination against man and God for you to be having an affair with a married woman. It goes against d sanctity of marriage, bla bla bla and you would not want to do anything dat will make you lose d immense respect you have for her as a woman and as your boss. I am sure she will understand. But if she is not married, Broda, you are OYO. Good luck |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by MrCork: 7:07pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
benega:...u turn down women?..abi?...bro how looong u been g@y? ![]() |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by naijaboiy: 7:21pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
Tell her you have Ebola ![]() |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by philantoxx(m): 7:28pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
tell her your on anti retroviral drugs. |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by jcflex(m): 8:20pm On Oct 11, 2014*. Modified: 7:29am On Oct 12, 2014 |
since she is your boss, both of you should go out and iron tins out, let her see reason why you cant date her. not a big deal. but be close with her so that she will not feel the pain of rejection much. but my broda be very careful with your closeness, bcus such women are dangerous and she could tempt you, or set u up, temp is still ok, bt if she set you up, that will be dangerous for you. all still kie in your court. which ever you decide or choose to do. |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by Nobody: 9:24pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
Dis Guy fit liee...u and Shekau,I no knw who dey lie pass! |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by yungchop: 10:01pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
BULL$H1T |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by Nobody: 10:20pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
benega:Hello! She only asking you,not like she said "lets go and have sex". |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by ideee03(f): 10:26pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
Ur job's on the line,considering she's ur boss. |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by Nobody: 10:54pm On Oct 11, 2014*. Modified: 11:12pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
[color=Purple]Don't be an immature sissy. If you don't want her advances, simply say No. [/color] |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by decode55(m): 11:28pm On Oct 11, 2014 |
*tsk* *tsk* *tsk* Someone is feeling like a chick magnet. ![]() |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by Csami(m): 12:36am On Oct 12, 2014 |
Very easy. Next time, if she ask u out, tell her that she should follow u to church. |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by tonididdy(m): 12:46am On Oct 12, 2014 |
I told her I had ED...not ebola disease but erectal disfunction She gbase, burst wall fly fence BUT girls like preek sha |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by valdes00(m): 12:56am On Oct 12, 2014 |
Been handsome and impotent is a very bad tin..... The Op is handsome but impotent, dats y he turns down ladies advances..... Eya, I feel your pain.. |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by Nobody: 1:01am On Oct 12, 2014 |
Good boy! |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by Afrok(m): 3:26am On Oct 12, 2014 |
Op reminds me of this popular song "turn down for what"? Still singing TURN DOWN FOR WHAT? ![]() |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by benega(op): 6:54am On Oct 12, 2014 |
jcflex:I think that's the best line of action; thanks man. |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by DesChyko: 7:13am On Oct 12, 2014 |
I don't know if that is possible without hurting the lady. Guys can be rejected and feel okay. It's normal, you can't have them all. But in the ladies, I think it gives them a feeling of inadequacy or something, which may make them reserved or unwilling to commit. In other words, you've ruined the show for another guy. It's not as if pretending to love them is better though.. |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by Nobody: 7:14am On Oct 12, 2014 |
Upload picture or adonbilivit |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by jcflex(m): 7:24am On Oct 12, 2014 |
benega:all the best. |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by Nobody: 9:46am On Oct 12, 2014 |
tell her you are impotent #simple |
| Re: How Do You Politely Turn Down A Lady's Advances? by Spidermon: 1:32pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Well, I can't appropriately advice you because I have never turned down p**sy. I wouldn't only f**k her to save my job, I would straff her hard enough to earn a raise. ![]() |
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This trend continued even into my university years and it really caused much rift btw me nd ma male pals as their chicks were always forcing themselves on me. Am a really good natured guy and more than once I've succumbed 2 a girls request 2 date her out of pity and cuz I know most will become hostile and rude 2ward me if I rebuff them. My problem nw is dat @ d bank where I work my boss (who is older than me with 14 yrs) is asking me out!!! And I have a beautiful girl am currently dating, tho shes' not in d country now and I love her so much that I can't even Think of betraying her. So the question is: How do I turn my boss down without incurring her wrath? (She could sack me if she wish!!)
if u like upload ur frnd pix, na urself u dey do.
