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havilla:
trust me he is far from shy. For him to have gotten that far he must be a ruthless business man and he would have gone to places and met people that a shy person won't dare go to. Shy and introverts stay in their shell, in foreign countries they have a good chance, but in Nigeria it's survival of the fittest. Yeah a shy guy can have a good job and all but when it comes to being a big business tycoon I really doubt it.

lestat:
I haven't laughed this much in years..your post os so stupid on many levels.
Its girls like you who get used left right and center and turn around and blame men.

You are so naive and ignorant, me bets you are 16 or 17 years old who spends her days watching teen reality shows on MTV. You are so immature its unbelievable.

This post is a bag of faeces.

To any lady who believes this garbage you are either 1: A teenage air head or 2: Mentally under developed.

A man's character has nothing to with whether he is shy or an extrovert you cow.
A man who sees women as tools to gratify his sexualized ego will always do so whether he is an introvert or not.

Better stop misleading kids like you before they end up being teen mums

Arva:
I have so many reasons why I should date a shy and introvert guy which I believe many of you forumites will agree to. Usually we ignore the shy and introvert guys, and date the confident, thug looking, rich, tall and ugly guys. The latter kind of guys are not usually the best in my opinion. Have you ever thought about dating a shy guy? There are so many different benefits and you'll be glad you did.

1. They are less intimidating
Confident and extrovert guys can be so intimidating because they surrounds themselves with all kinds of girls and bad manners. Shy guys are less intimidating. They are very gentle and meek and are less likely to reject you. This is one big reason to start rolling along with a shy guy. You'll love them.

2. It’s easy to make them blush
Shy guys have the tendency to blush easily with the slightest of compliments. Just compliment them about their looks and appearance and you'll see the magic of their blush. That really melts my heart a lot unlike the confident and rough guys who will only say a "thank you". That's even if they say it at all. Try dating a shy guy today. You'll love 'em

3. Shy guys won’t cheat on you
Shy guys will never cheat on you. Relationship cheating is what many girls hate and shy and introvert guys will never stoop so low to have another girl behind you but reverse is the case for confident and extrovert guys. They like to explore anything they see with boobs and big behinds even if its not human . Confident and extrovert guyz are just so awkward. You'll never like them. I prefer the introvert guys. They'll always stick to you.

4. They are so true, real and genuine
Me loves these set of guys because they are so true to themselves. They will never deceive you. They are just so charming and will never lie to you.

5. They are good listeners.
Shy and introvert guys are just awesome for one thing. They are extremely good listerners. Never will they counter you in any discussion or disrupt the flow of the discussion. All these adorable guys do is listen, listen, listen and listen. Unlike the extrovert guys who will just keep shouting to the extent that other people around you will hear the content of your discussion . Shy guys will never stoop so low to that extent. They are always very quiet and meek.

6. They don't party, drink nor smoke.
I'm begining to convince you that shy guys are cool right ? Another reason you should date a shy guy is that they don't engage in party, alcohol or weed. They being an introvert will not even allow them such bad manners. Reverse is the case for the confident guys. They'll make sure they engage in all sort of party. They being an extrovert makes them to boast about the latest and most expensive wines and alcohols they've tasted, they amount of weed the smoke daily and the number of girls they've had sex with from funmi to funke to fumilade to fumilayo That's crazy isn't it ? Shy guys are just so cool to themselves. They don't need to brag about anything. Whatever happens never leaks out.

7. Shy and introvert guys are very educated and very intelligent.
This is very true. Shy guys are very educated and very intelligent. They being very intelligent leaves them with no time for social activities. They are so charming. Date an introvert today and you'll be glad you did. I had one as a boyfriend and I wish I had him back.
Feel free to add yours.

Where to find a shy guy.
1: Shy guys are very easy to find. If you are still in the university, you can find them at the back seat of your classroom. When others are gones after a lecture, shy guys always remain alone, sitting down, alone with their thought. This is always your best time to approach them. Just compliment him on anything and watch him blush. They are very friendly.

2: During your NYSC.
During your service year, you'll find many of them at the orientation camp. I had sweet experiences with one during my NYSC days. He was so sweet and charming. You'll always find them at the back of the crowd doing almost nothing. They just stand there and clap for others engaging in one task or the other. They are very gentle set of people so don't mind them for not partaking in activites. They don't want to look rough like the extrovert guys. Those of you going for NYSC batch c come november 2014, watch out for the shy guys. You'll love them.

3: During church service
These awesome set of beings are easy to find during church service. They always sit at the back, rarely dance when its time for offering and they rarely come out to give testimonies because they are shy. Isn't that cool ? Unlike the extrovert guys that will even go the awkward length of dancing shoki and skelewu during church service . Shy guys will never do this . Oh how can I even forget the way they blush when you ask them questions during sunday school. They are so adorable.
Feel free to add yours.

How to know if a guy is shy and an introvert.

Its very easy to spot these sweet guys. They will always blush at every single thing you say. Another way to spot them is to monitor their movements. Never will you see a shy guy going out unnecessarily. They are always indoors and only come out with their charming self at night. These people are just so cool. Date one today and you'll be glad you did. I can testify to this. We dated for years and sweet memories still ring in me.
Feeel free to add yours.

Source: myself and written for nairaland forum members and guests.

glitest:
Hmmm!....You saying this, cos u know me?...Nope; I doubt it.....I like a very mellow lifestyle; Something you can call boring.

Bosville:
We Know You're an EXTRO.... U don't have to tell us, it's obvious U lack many of those traits d o.p listed up there and funny enuf u came out to prove it....make us[Guys] proud 4 oNce??

lestat:
Dafuq are you talking about? sucker for love... i bet you are a wanna be introvert, you are so desperate to prove the OP right so maybe a girl can find you attractive? hahahahhahahahahaha.

WELL NEWS FLASH, it doesnt take being a introvert to be faithful , and a good husband or BF. So stop sounding so desperate

LadyCaty:
Meanin dey also ve bad part nd d bad part z vewi annoyin nd hurts.

Hackin:
vickkytan n iceberging hmmmm! introverts....

kaya09:
Plz and plz,i beg u with d name of God,dnt fall in dia trap o,vikkytan and iceberylin are not shy atall atall o,they smoke marijuana with me regularly,when you tink they are shy,they are just high and on lowkey,they'l be smiling and u tink they r blushing,check dia eyes wella,e red pass blood lolz

MDelgado:
Is this write up based on study or personal experience?If it was based on PE,You must have kissed as many frogs as you can..Nice write up though..After reading, I didn't blush.

adrainuche:
Really speaking from experience ...

Jfrezzy:
When I was reading this, was just smiling ,is just so about me ,this shy guys get to many used girls,after playing there life they wanna get one cool shy guy to be nice with.
Most time they end up going out with girls they don't really want . When I was reading this, was just smiling ,is just so about me ,this shy guys get to many used girls,after playing there life they wanna get one cool shy guy to be nice with.
Most time they end up going out with girls they don't really want .

Elantracey:
No way , except he's not so introverted . and talking about cheating , I guy that wants to cheat will cheat whether introvert or not.


Just imagine two conk introvert living together .






Yea am first to comment and am still trying to fathom what's so specially about it .

cnnamoko:
I believe with some accomplishments and some cool money. The shy and introvert guy becomes that ideal man for any woman...#fact

ayokunlei:
work on ur weakness Bro.

Arva:
I have so many reasons why I should date a shy and introvert guy which I believe many of you forumites will agree to. Usually we ignore the shy and introvert guys, and date the confident, thug looking, rich, tall and ugly guys. The latter kind of guys are not usually the best in my opinion. Have you ever thought about dating a shy guy? There are so many different benefits and you'll be glad you did.

1. They are less intimidating
Confident and extrovert guys can be so intimidating because they surrounds themselves with all kinds of girls and bad manners. Shy guys are less intimidating. They are very gentle and meek and are less likely to reject you. This is one big reason to start rolling along with a shy guy. You'll love them.

2. It’s easy to make them blush
Shy guys have the tendency to blush easily with the slightest of compliments. Just compliment them about their looks and appearance and you'll see the magic of their blush. That really melts my heart a lot unlike the confident and rough guys who will only say a "thank you". That's even if they say it at all. Try dating a shy guy today. You'll love 'em

3. Shy guys won’t cheat on you
Shy guys will never cheat on you. Relationship cheating is what many girls hate and shy and introvert guys will never stoop so low to have another girl behind you but reverse is the case for confident and extrovert guys. They like to explore anything they see with boobs and big behinds even if its not human . Confident and extrovert guyz are just so awkward. You'll never like them. I prefer the introvert guys. They'll always stick to you.

4. They are so true, real and genuine
Me loves these set of guys because they are so true to themselves. They will never deceive you. They are just so charming and will never lie to you.

5. They are good listeners.
Shy and introvert guys are just awesome for one thing. They are extremely good listerners. Never will they counter you in any discussion or disrupt the flow of the discussion. All these adorable guys do is listen, listen, listen and listen. Unlike the extrovert guys who will just keep shouting to the extent that other people around you will hear the content of your discussion . Shy guys will never stoop so low to that extent. They are always very quiet and meek.

6. They don't party, drink nor smoke.
I'm begining to convince you that shy guys are cool right ? Another reason you should date a shy guy is that they don't engage in party, alcohol or weed. They being an introvert will not even allow them such bad manners. Reverse is the case for the confident guys. They'll make sure they engage in all sort of party. They being an extrovert makes them to boast about the latest and most expensive wines and alcohols they've tasted, they amount of weed the smoke daily and the number of girls they've had sex with from funmi to funke to fumilade to fumilayo That's crazy isn't it ? Shy guys are just so cool to themselves. They don't need to brag about anything. Whatever happens never leaks out.

7. Shy and introvert guys are very educated and very intelligent.
This is very true. Shy guys are very educated and very intelligent. They being very intelligent leaves them with no time for social activities. They are so charming. Date an introvert today and you'll be glad you did. I had one as a boyfriend and I wish I had him back.
Feel free to add yours.

Where to find a shy guy.
1: Shy guys are very easy to find. If you are still in the university, you can find them at the back seat of your classroom. When others are gones after a lecture, shy guys always remain alone, sitting down, alone with their thought. This is always your best time to approach them. Just compliment him on anything and watch him blush. They are very friendly.

2: During your NYSC.
During your service year, you'll find many of them at the orientation camp. I had sweet experiences with one during my NYSC days. He was so sweet and charming. You'll always find them at the back of the crowd doing almost nothing. They just stand there and clap for others engaging in one task or the other. They are very gentle set of people so don't mind them for not partaking in activites. They don't want to look rough like the extrovert guys. Those of you going for NYSC batch c come november 2014, watch out for the shy guys. You'll love them.

3: During church service
These awesome set of beings are easy to find during church service. They always sit at the back, rarely dance when its time for offering and they rarely come out to give testimonies because they are shy. Isn't that cool ? Unlike the extrovert guys that will even go the awkward length of dancing shoki and skelewu during church service . Shy guys will never do this . Oh how can I even forget the way they blush when you ask them questions during sunday school. They are so adorable.
Feel free to add yours.

How to know if a guy is shy and an introvert.

Its very easy to spot these sweet guys. They will always blush at every single thing you say. Another way to spot them is to monitor their movements. Never will you see a shy guy going out unnecessarily. They are always indoors and only come out with their charming self at night. These people are just so cool. Date one today and you'll be glad you did. I can testify to this. We dated for years and sweet memories still ring in me.
Feeel free to add yours.

Source: myself and written for nairaland forum members and guests.

onyichick:
yes dats my main issue aside frm my business n job

Wolison:
they re same

Elantracey:
No way , except he's not so introverted . and talking about cheating , I guy that wants to cheat will cheat whether introvert or not.


Just imagine two conk introvert living together .




Yea am first to comment and am still trying to fathom

Elantracey:
what's so specially about it .

kaya09:
Plz and plz,i beg u with d name of God,dnt fall in dia trap o,vikkytan and iceberylin are not shy atall atall o,they smoke marijuana with me regularly,when you tink they are shy,they are just high and on lowkey,they'l be smiling and u tink they r blushing,check dia eyes wella,e red pass blood lolz